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Okay, I'm not attacking your life choices at all. You're the one that's lived your life so you know how or why it is how it is. If you ever need to speak to someone later on down the line feel free to message me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 04:06 PM
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This is sad, does your husband really fuck other women and contribute nothing but his company to the house? Is he at least a good stay at home dad? Does the majority of the housework and cook and whatnot? Are you feeling under pressure to be really beautiful for a guy who does nothing but leech off you? :( I hope you're okay, it comes across like he's giving you self esteem issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:46 PM
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When someone is employed to seduce you, where do you draw the line between seduction and manipulation? Lonely, dumb men going into strip clubs and deluding themselves into thinking the strippers like them is a sad and common tale. But they know it's a strip club. They have absolute agency even when they're lonely and "dumb" (within reason, obviously I'm talking just slightly below average intelligence, if they have a mental disability then there are exceptions to be made which would make taking …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:14 PM
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Strippers are employed to seduce and manipulate men, and the men know what they are getting. Men who 'play' women are doing so with no announcement, implicit or explicit. Strippers may as well have a neon flashing light saying 'don't think I love you' over their head. Players can be extremely sneaky, and are in no way screaming 'I am a player' or else it won't work. One is lying about what they are doing and the other one is expressly being paid to 'manipulate' you. It's the whole point of strip…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 05:04 PM
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But they are nonetheless strippers who don't pretend to be anything else? They're not pretending they're the person's girlfriend or actually meeting them outside of work hours with the intention of swindling them out of money in this scenario, right? I know that can happen but in my example I'm just talking run of the mill stripper in a club being 'kind' to you for your money. I just think that if you meet a stripper it's similar to meeting a prostitute in that you should know they're going to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:28 PM
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I think it's just made clear by the fact she's a stripper. It's like, how many waiters show up to your table and say "I'm in a terrible mood and you're being a difficult customer, please just leave a tip and get out asap"? Yet we're not thinking that waiters/customer service professionals prey on the lonely by pretending to be their friend. What you're paying for is good customer service as part of the deal, where they pretend to like you as part of the role. It's not very hot to have a stripper…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:18 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 11:04 AM
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Are you implying that the power dynamic between an OF seller and a customer is comparable to that of a teacher and student?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:11 AM
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In a situation where the guy has explicitly said he's not interested in a LTR, or otherwise makes that very clear, I think they aren't morally culpable for the woman thinking that there could be a relationship there. The woman knows what she's getting and chooses to delude herself - even if she's personally mentally ill, although there's a scale there where it's like she's depressed for example (still capable of rational thought) vs where she has down syndrome where it just becomes a case of tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:23 AM
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I looked up Jezebel just because what you said sounded interesting but all I found out was that Jezebel was a princess (then became queen of Israel through marriage) who believed in the gods of fertility from her homeland and not the Jewish/Christian God Yahweh, and the prophet Elijah had her executed brutally for preaching false religion. Can you link any sources that are more about her cheating and being forgiven? I looked at these: https://www.worldhistory.org/jezebel/ https://www.britannica.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:33 AM
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Most of those aren't just make up, they're make up and filters/photoshop. The blur effect is so obvious, especially on the older ones since makeup can't just erase your wrinkles. Anyway most women do care about men's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:23 AM
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Damn you nailed it. "men, even in a friendly setup, don't see me as much of a human as they see men - whom they also see as less human than their grand selves - while women see me more of a human than I am". Absolute poetry, but I wonder if this seeing everyone as less "human" than yourself contributes to the long-lasting nature of male friendships. They don't burden each other very often and everything is kept very fun and light, while with women we kind of lean on each other more which wears d…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:35 AM
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I just don't do casual relationships. End of. Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 02:54 AM
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Couldn't it literally be any competitive game? What makes you think it's nba 2k20? edit: my bad dude I just saw the game is in the screenshot, lmao
/r/PussyPassDenied01/02/21 10:48 AM
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You implied it by saying she can't be a woman if she has those thoughts. Answer me this: why can't she be a woman and think that women need to evaluate what they do for male attention and what they actually want to do? What about being a woman stops her from thinking that?
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 05:13 PM
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I hate it when people say this, a woman says something even kind-of out of the box (this is not even that absurd) and then you're like "you're not a woman, can't be, we all think the same way!".
/r/ExRedPill21/01/21 03:40 PM
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So you made me get off my lazy ass and google it and it turns out it's up to 50 years old. lmao https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10?r=US&IR=T
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:12 PM
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Is that what the study says or are you just observing? Pretty sure ot says 40 but you're also right :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:51 PM
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Younger women are consistently seen as more attractive than older women. There's that OKCupid study which shows men from 18-40 mostly say 20 year old (or thereabouts) women are the ones they find to be the most attractive to them. It's not fair, but that's the way the world works. If women can value tallness, men can value youth. As for older women having higher standards, yes they do. As you get older you have higher standards because you're set in your ways and have been dating for a few years…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 11:58 AM
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You: But regardless, I don’t get your point. Why should I be an attractive virgin to get an attractive virgin. OP: Where did I say you needed to be a virgin? You: You asked if they were conservative or religious. And you said that women are taught to be virgins because of religion. So I thought there was some sort of understood connection there. So from this I'm assuming you're thinking if a man is religious he would therefore also be a virgin? Virginity isn't AS strongly advocated for in Christ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 02:52 PM
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How do you figure? You think gold-digger is a compliment? More like it's seen as a good thing by a select group of women who support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:23 PM
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Idk it bothers me too, there are people who do shun her but all the sex-positive people saying 'yas you're just getting yours girl' are morally bankrupt or at least blind to moral plights that aren't their own. Idk why a lot of men support other men who pump and dump girls by lying either, sometimes people are just die-hard for their own gender and it's not right. I don't think all of society supports her, I think it's a Chris Brown situation where her supporters will support no matter what she …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:44 AM
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So you think gold-diggers only exist because men are easy to scam right? Your argument is basically 'People only get taken advantage of when it's easy for them to be taken advantage of'. Does that make the victim the person who did something wrong? Or were the gold-diggers and the players the ones who were wrong for taking advantage of people? My view is those that actively commit a wrongdoing are the ones who are in the wrong, but you might think differently so I'd like to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:37 AM
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But Cardi B isn't in jail simply because no one accused her, she only confessed. So there's still no evidence in her case except her word, which would be like if a rapist said 'I've raped people' and then we jailed them even though no one came forward and they named no one specifically. She does get slammed for this constantly though, it's just like how Chris Brown continued his career despite beating the shit out of Rihanna except Chris actually was charged because there was evidence. Some (dum…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:27 AM
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Isn't it more the case that both of their social circles support them? The men who pump and dump are fine in the eyes of the men who surround them, and the women who use men for money are supported by the women who surround them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 07:21 AM
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Goddamn, this is the truest thing I've ever read. You just changed my view. Also, most women having BPD because of overstimulation (insta, twitter, facebook, etc) and being pumped and dumped is just fucking spot on. Men being raised as narcissists is also true, people have to be individualistic and selfish to succeed in most careers so it all piles up to make a narcissist happen. I applaud your self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 11:38 AM
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Wow, that is much worse. Sorry, someone linked me the wiki but it's a huge article to go through and I will admit I skimmed. I did pick up on the girls being told their pay would be one thing and then being docked as soon as they were naked, which is also terribly deceptive. I also missed the active targeting part, on the wiki it does say it: Women involved in filming reported that their family, friends, and colleagues were sent text messages with links to videos or GIFs of them having sex when …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 08:57 AM
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Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:17 PM
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Ah I see, so young girls being gullible, not reading the fine print, and ruining their lives. Thank you. Even if it was just given to collectors in Australia they'd be running a huge risk of it being reproduced. Naive to the ways of the world I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:11 PM
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Question: what is the GirlsDoPorn thing that's going down? I know I could google it but I'm going to get a lot of porn results which I don't want. I kind of thought videos where the guy comes up to her and gives her money to have sex were all pretty staged? Like pre-discussed and then filmed as though it hadn't been? Is that not what GirlsDoPorn is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:00 PM
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Well, yes, everyone that posts on Purple Pill Debate should ideally have that personality type...
/r/askFDS30/07/20 05:08 PM
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Live for it... I like having my mind changed and changing others' minds. Can't say I haven't had lots of brick walls who just want to espouse their own views and ignore any opposition though. It's fun for me, but I know it's not everyone's cup of tea.
/r/askFDS30/07/20 04:18 PM
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Yeah, cheating is the ultimate deal-breaker since the promise of monogamy wasn't kept. Even though I personally would prefer to marry, it's good you'd rather keep your word than make a commitment you can't keep. Just communicate that with your partner, even at a personal loss, and you'd be golden. Still though, why ask about divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:47 AM
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So you're making quite a few claims here, I'm going to try and first say what I believe your points are and then address each point. I've tried to space it out in a way that makes sense, but I warn you now, it's a novel & a half. There's a TLDR at the bottom. If I misunderstood anything please let me know: 1) Men don't judge women based on how quickly they have sex "Woman that has sex on the first date" attribute isnt a positive one (nor is it a negative) it is neutral. ​ Probably depends on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 12:13 AM
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That's an interesting question, I think you're misunderstanding what I mean by long term relationship. I don't think when they have sex they're now bound together as though married, it's more about beginning a relationship at that point and giving it a genuine try. That would be exclusivity, dates, hanging out, deleting your tinder lol. But since you asked me, I'm very against divorce except in the most extreme circumstances. I think when you make a promise to marry you're now married for life a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 08:08 PM
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You're making untrue assumptions about me on the constant over there. That's two. I was going to ignore it but clearly you're just going to keep hurling out personal attacks. I'm talking bigger picture, not just about what I personally have experienced but what the main complaints of women have been and where women are going wrong. Yes, it is time for introspection if that keeps happening. I don't go for 6' bad boys, I have never been used for sex in my damn life. But it's not about me. It's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:17 PM
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Ironic that you want women to take responsibility for men's lying and cheating, and then claim women never take responsibility for their own actions. Women should go for someone who isn't a liar and a cheater, and when they're young and naive they're least likely to be able to distinguish between a charming liar and a nice guy who just wants a LTR. It is on them to get a grip on reality and not fall for it. Just like it's on victims of scams to know what a scam looks like. But it is the scammer …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 12:18 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:27 AM
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Yes she's in the wrong. You cannot expect a man to commit to you for a lifetime under any circumstances. Relationships breaking up, especially early into it, are completely normal. I'd agree you can't expect them to commit for a lifetime, but whether they're just using you for sex depends how early into the "relationship" they break up and if they were trying to have a relationship rather than just sex. If it's a day later then they absolutely had no intentions of having a relationship at all. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 11:10 AM
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Oft. So if a girl has sex with a guy on the basis that they will have a long-term relationship because he has confirmed this, she is in the wrong because she shouldn't expect anything further? She's not a prostitute for only wanting sex with someone who's going to stick around. Lying to her to get her to sleep with you despite this preference is morally wrong, you're tricking her no matter how you twist it. I'd understand if they both understood it's just sex, but you seem to think a guy saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 10:34 AM
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If she actually has the gall to order a £1000 bottle of wine she can pay for that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 08:07 AM
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Sorry if I misunderstood, you said it sky rocketed you to his number one priority and that he was just going through the motions before so that's where I got that from. Your story is so cute! I'm happy you're so happy. It's just not the case that most men feel that way, in the tinder and only fans era very sexually active women are condemned as cheating thots so to be wifey material you do need to be quite chaste and selective. If you clicked immediately and you knew he was the one that's wonder…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:29 PM
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Having sex with a guy after two weeks who wasn't interested before more often than not results in the guy completely ditching. If he's not into you beforehand, so disinterested that you can tell, it's so rare for him to about face because you had sex. It's amazing that that worked for you, but my god, it's not the norm at all. Congrats on your marriage! Wishing you many more years of happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:01 PM
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I'll have a look at MGTOW for those examples you mention. It sounds like they're going for the sympathy vote which is a frustratingly common thing for women to do. And very disgusting, it should be met with hatred and disdain. That subreddit is a bit like extremist-feminist tumblr though isn't it? With the cherry-picking instances where the other gender are particularly terrible to fuel a narrative? I'll definitely take a look but, like anything with a singular viewpoint, with a pinch of salt. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:46 AM
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That's surprising, I often hear 'respect women' thrown around to mean 'don't ogle at women or catcall them on the street', but I've never seen, for example, a thread where a woman murdered or molested her baby and people were asked to respect them regardless. It seems like the question is whether men should have to be respectful to promiscuous women, and it therefore totally depends on what 'respecting' them looks like. Does it look like not calling them slurs, hearing them out, and not groping …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 10:02 AM
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Fair enough, it's pretty personal stuff so I can see why you'd not want to continue. Might open a question on this though, it's interesting. Take care!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:02 AM
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I might see what you mean. So if you're using your imagination it kind of has to be in a situation where there is no porn of that person available? You said it's because they're relatable to you, how does that come into play(pardon the pun lol)? I think I'm not connecting the dots with why they need to be relatable in your imagination but not so in porn. Just a different mental state? Is that not a sustainable way to regularly masturbate? For example, if you were only able to use your imaginatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:07 PM
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If someone is outright rude to you for no reason, feel free to be as rude as you like back. If they're neutral towards you, be neutral towards them. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:52 PM
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That's really interesting, thank you for answering. So you can't get off without porn full stop? Have you tried going without it for a while to see if you get used to using your own imagination or does that seem completely implausible?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:10 PM
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She's saying you can't possibly be 100% ethical, but not watching porn is an easy ethical choice. Seems like it's a lot harder for men though. Out of interest, do you think it's harder to go vegan or quit porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:36 PM
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No that's stupid and short sighted, the kid won't be as attached to either of us and will be raised by a nanny. We have such a huge problem with kids not being raised properly in two parent households right now, if I planned on ditching my own child with a stranger I'd feel so guilty. I'd still bang my husband and I'm certain. Your worldview is so narrow. It can't adapt to new information and has to adapt the information to fit it. It's brittle and you know that or you wouldn't insist I feel one…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 07:20 AM
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Oh, thanks for letting me know! I had never considered what I find attractive before. Except, of course I have. Men who stick determinedly to what men used to be in the 60s tend to do that in all areas, and I'm not interested in being stuck in the 60s. I also don't think it makes you less masculine to be a SAHD. At least in my eyes it makes you more 'manly' to go against the grain and do what works for you and your family regardless of the social pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:26 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself. There's just no interest for me in staying home and taking care of kids. Doesn't mean I hate men, doesn't mean I hate kids, certainly doesn't mean that when 6'2 man comes along I immediately cease to have any desire for a fulfilling life (as it would be for me). It's fine if you want to stay at home and care for kids, or if you want a wife to do that, I just don't fancy it. Question for you though: in the event you do have kids, are you good with having your …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 03:46 PM
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No, thank you so much, I've never heard that before. Helps to put into perspective how her upbringing has influenced her and driven her to keep going. Breaking the curse can also be breaking apart from relationships entirely and learning to stand alone. I wish she'd see it from this perspective, in fact I wish she'd realized that before she actually did have children with him. It only got more complicated to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:11 PM
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Off topic but why is Beyonce still with Jay Z? Why did she go on to have his kids after he cheated on her with around 7 women (if anyone knows the exact number feel free to correct, but it's around that)? I think it's because she's been with him since she was 18 and has no desire to go back into the dating arena where she thinks no-one could compare to Jay-Z. It's so sad, she's supposed to be a role model and she's a huge Pickme. I used to like her, I still like her, but I just can't take her se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:53 PM
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Sorry just to clarify, do you mean eating ass or oral with a vagina? Butthole or clitoris? No judgement, just want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:11 PM
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You might as well be a prostitute at this point seeing he must pay money when you say your time is worth money. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7bjqbaybF3A
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:32 AM
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I'm not having a debate with someone who didn't even realise until two comments ago that I advocate being friends first. The FDS viewpoint on the 3 month thing might very well mean that, but if you'd read anything I said to you you'd know I mean friends first with hangouts, build up to dating, then go into a relationship. It's just been me saying you're not responding to my point and you saying 'you FDS women ACTUALLY believe this point I picked up from FDS' with no regard to what I'm saying. Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 09:12 AM
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New plan! I'm responding only with my previous statements! You: Do you or don't you support and advocate FDS strategy? Afterall you are the one promoting the whole 3 month thing, but funny enough you now switch to promoting being friends first. Can only imagine why. Me: I've always been friends with the men that I date before I date them. Mostly that takes longer than 3 months, but it's never let me down because I know who they are and what they're looking for. I don't align perfectly with every…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:56 PM
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FDS is against women paying anything for dates. I'm not FDS. You're debating me and the views I've given you. If you don't want to do that, then you don't understand how a debate should go. You need to have a point you want to convince ME of or else why are you here? Go speak to someone who believes what you're arguing against. And despite you claiming you split or whatever you outright promote gender roles Sure don't. I want total equality in my household because I don't think it benefits women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:30 PM
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If you're going half the man isn't contributing all the money. He's also not putting all the work in if she's planning half the dates. Explain how he's paying her for her time if they're equally paying for their dates? Explain how (if you believe what you believe) her paying her half doesn't therefore mean she's paying for his time? Your view is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:44 AM
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If men are not planning all the dates, going half, and contributing nothing but their time and companionship, why do you think men are the ones doing everything and receiving nothing? I'll respond later, got work now, but I do feel I've addressed your main point here. The men aren't giving anything the women aren't also contributing for those three months. They receive companionship and probably after a while they'll be kissing and cuddling but not having full on sex. You draw up your ideal situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:06 AM
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Like I said below, I'm very disappointed with your response because you're not responding to my points and the nuances thereof. Nevertheless, this is a debate sub, I have a point I believe in, and I'll do my best to respond in good faith back to you. I'll enbolden the key points to try and get a thoughtful response back. Primarily, I take issue with your position on women not sleeping with men for the first three months of dating them. I'm explicitly trying to convince you that this is the mutua…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:40 PM
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They are against relying on men for anything least relationship wise. But FDS also wants men to be the breadwinner as well because screw men as men should worship women instead. I said I pay for half of my dates and am aiming for an entirely equal household where we pay equally due to the fact that if the guy pays it leads to a power imbalance. I've expressed this on FDS, and I've seen the sidebar change quite a bit in the time I've been a member. I don't think you're reading what I'm saying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 04:28 PM
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Ah, I realize now that you took what I said about women being unlucky if they can't find someone who will wait for 3 months as a slight because I didn't say they should look at what they're doing wrong. That's true. It's probably time to take a look at how you're behaving and make sure you're a high value woman, because there are a lot of men out there that would wait. I was more saying that if you are a HVW, and you look for someone that will wait 3 months before sex, you would be very unlucky …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 02:54 PM
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I've always been friends with the men that I date before I date them. Mostly that takes longer than 3 months, but it's never let me down because I know who they are and what they're looking for. I'm with a wonderful, caring man who was my friend for about 5 months before things started to go towards dating. I was definitely interested, I flirted with him quite a bit before we officially got together and made my feelings clear as day. I've also never been pump and dumped in my whole life. It's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 01:20 PM
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Patience is a form of strategy. Wasting your time on someone who sees you as a pump and dump is a poor strategy. Waiting three months at least before you sleep with someone, getting to know them very well, is a fantastic way to weed out PUA and fuckboys. If the end result is all the men become disinterested because all they wanted from you was to sleep with you quickly, you avoid the emotional damage of having been used for sex. If that means you're single and undamaged it's the price you pay to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 12:24 PM
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Spot on, this guy thinks he's smooth... !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:54 AM
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My argument is not that men never change their viewpoints based on social pressure, it's that women only change their viewpoints based on social factors. It's impossible to reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into, and that goes for men and women. I don't know how to convince you that women can change their opinion based on logic and reasoning. Maybe the fact that there are more vegan women than men? Since when I think of a way my opinion has changed based on logic and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 01:26 PM
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I was ready for this question. Wait for the drop!
/r/askFDS22/06/20 07:28 PM
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Fix this by disengaging and moving on with your dignity intact. He's twice your age, you can't die old and build a life with this person, you are embarrassing yourself the longer you let this crush continue. I'm sorry for being rude, I say this out of love and desire to see you be the Queen you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:40 AM
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I agree with your second sentence there and I would also add taking care of yourself is a HVM trait. I think there are some technically ugly men who become HVM to others through their actions and habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:05 AM
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Of course! Short men can find partners too, especially if they're HVM and put the effort forward But I'm pretty sure that Henri would be rejected by more women off the bat because of his height than other HVM who are on the taller side. Shorter men have less options, we agree on that. Also, not all women are like us and going for HVM and all that entails. Some are going for looks. So Henri gets to dodge those bullets but this would probably feel like he has less options for casual sex as well. O…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:36 PM
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Don't know if I agree. I think guys who are short have a smaller pool of women that will be interested in them just because on average girls want the guy to be taller than them. I also think that's tough titties since women are also expected to meet some standards that aren't controllable - age, skin tone, hair, boob size, butt size. Tbh though tall guys know they're the most desirable and it can reflect poorly on their characters, like any spoiled person. Just depends, but super tall guys on ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:29 AM
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I don’t feel comfortable having sex without you there That's a new one! Hope he gets syphilis :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 10:37 PM
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I agree, I think we should make it crystal clear that being a HVW is one of the prerequisites to looking for a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:02 PM
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I do agree with FDS on this, but you say these men are treating you better so it seems like you've got a good radar for which men to avoid. Largely, a guy who tries to date young is doing so because she's younger and hotter than women his own age. Either that or no woman his age will date him due to his stalled life status and so younger women are more his "level". It's hard to form a relationship where there's no mutual respect. Also if they're with you because of your age, they'll eventually l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:57 AM
2

None of the above, you really can't comprehend people don't want to hear about your personal sex life on a debate forum? You're not giving advice you're trying to show off, and you are transparent my guy. Anyway I'm lost on you, you've missed the mark completely twice, so I doubt you'd understand a third time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 07:31 AM
2

Even in your reply you try to show off that you "consistently" have sex. No one cares about how much sex you personally are having and it adds nothing to the conversation. I have spelled it out for you. Please don't reply with your sex life again no matter how illustrious! No one cares :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 07:12 AM
3

We get it, you've had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:32 PM
34

What's it going to take?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:51 AM
2

I think the most important thing to tell your daughters is to hold out. I'm not religious, but I frequent all these dating subs and it really seems like men subscribe automatically from birth to the madonna/whore dichotomy. Makes me think less of men (monkey brains can't even tell they're doing it) but once you understand it, it's helpful to understanding men. The truth is sex is always going to leave you lesser in their eyes (sex with others or with them). In my opinion, they (your daughters) c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 03:06 PM
1

Anecdotal evidence though. I don't mean to be rude here but your own experience doesn't equate to reality. I could easily say from my experience it's been the other way around and it's just as meaningful (or meaningless).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:26 PM
2

🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:25 AM
4

I just wanted to say that as a woman who seeks out open and honest comments like yours to ensure I "remain in reality", thanks for that. I read this and I'm reminded that often it's not my arguments that are poor, but that my opponent refuses to take me seriously. They don't respond to my statement and make their own, speak over you , or simply 'yes yes' your logic away. Women lurking, read that shit sandwich and digest it (oh the recoil in our womanly brains!). A large portion of men have no re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:44 AM
4

Sorry, what? Seen a lot of stuff on women pair bonding from sex but how do men pair bond?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:29 AM
3

Most guys would use all the women they could get their hands on.... and do! Literally how can you think so highly of men to the point their biological fault (not being as prone to monogamy) is dismissable?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:21 AM
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Yeah, if everything else seems pretty much perfect it's hard to just walk away over one wrong issue. Especially when you know it's his health that stops him, not a physical repulsion to you. Thank you so much for sharing, this is something I think we as women have or will encounter at some point. You completely nailed the shame aspect for both genders and how that plays into the perpetuation of the problem - no one wants to be in the wrong here. Sending lots of love your way and I wish you the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:46 AM
5

He did make me laugh. "I wouldn't be surprised if 0.0001% of lying, whore women actually dont have sex, whereas 99.99% of innocent, bullied, and pure men are sexless. Just wouldn't be. Even though the stats are right there, my stats? They're not surprising."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 07:20 AM
3

So you hide it from her. Thanks, just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:16 AM
5

It's insane to me that you have a partner. Does she know what you're like online or do you hide that? Unless she agrees with you and all the crap you were spewing on other subreddits. Maybe (hopefully) you deserve each other? Does she hate other women? Does she not know what you're really like? Does she think it's an act of charity? Is she thinking she's special because you're nice to her and not other women? Or maybe she has a kink for being put down? Maybe she thinks she can change you? Tell m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:49 AM
9

Too funny 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 10:25 AM
2

Because you know they're being insincere to sleep with you. Are you alright with it being an attractive guy because you wouldn't mind only sleeping with them? Attractive guys will just use the same cheap tricks but you'll actually sleep with them before they move on if you fall for it. They can be as insincere as unattractive men. More so, more experience and more brazen with every win!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:59 PM
85

I know, when I saw this in was like she's pretty hypersexualised in that image anyway 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:42 AM
13

This happened to me even though I work with two gay guys haha. It really sucked. Happy birthday, you deserved more <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:12 PM
1

Inspiring honestly, good on you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:51 PM
0

You didn't like what I had to say, and you branded me a woman only interested in the attention of men. I can safely bet you've done that quite a few times. My opinion has gotten worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:36 AM
-1

Thank you for providing that context, it was actually needed. There's not a lot of context surrounding this post (lots more from you in the comments since my first post/read) and it looked like a woman who got her wires crossed and was "flogged" for it. I apologise for saying that. If editing that out would help matters I'm happy to do so. My above comment is addressing being called a pickmeisha for going against the grain. I'm still reeling from it, I was immediately dismissed because of a slig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:21 PM
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I'm not speaking freely out of concern for what other women (you!) are going to think when I disagree, given that this woman was dragged out on the streets and flogged. She is wrong about this sub, sure, and I'm telling you that this is a pointless display akin to public humiliation. Someone responded to me saying we'd be wasting our time by responding to her because she's too far gone, but we are wasting our time with this post and accomplishing nothing. I want you to take this to heart, please…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 03:07 PM
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Sure, some women could be saying things against FDS for male attention but we really don't want to tar all dissenters with the same brush and end up an echo chamber where we don't get any critique of our views. If we see posts/comments like this and we don't agree it's kind of on us to respond with an argument back rather than just trying to socially pressure them into agreeing (which is what this looks like).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:16 AM
3

It's not that you shouldn't confess, it's that you need to be more aware of who exactly you're confessing to. There's a saying that's something like when someone shows you who they are you should believe them the first time. You've built a version of him where he likes you back and doesn't know how to express that except by showing off about other girls to make you jealous. You need to accept this is not true. He is using you for a confidence boost and the sooner you accept that the sooner you c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:04 PM
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