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| 9 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world? | Question for RedPill | AzureColouredSky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:46 PM |
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| 1 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?Because we need to fuck, Amanda. Its that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 10:06 PM |
| 2 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?They dont particularily want *your* money but they do enjoy the convenience/benefit of having someone pay for things they enjoy. Even if we go from a simple dating situation, the expectation that the man pays means that women enjoy a lot of free stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 08:54 PM |
| 5 | What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of?So? Even if your income is higher than the man´s, letting him pay for your expenses increases your wealth nevertheless. Fuck kinda logic is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 08:17 PM |
| 9 | If there is no obligations and nobody owes anyone anything. We should go fully, not picking and choosing. Men particularly, Need to simply be selfish and self serving, alot more.Bullshit, those that do things for others will find themselves constantly doing things for others. How valued and respected you are as a person has nothing to do with how altruistic you are. In fact there is a negative correlation between respect from others and altruism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 11:02 PM |
| 2 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceNo because thats not how bullying works. Bullying is a social mechanism. It only happens because the group allows it to happen. As soon as 1-2 people step in for the victim, it wont work. But they dont because theyre also participating in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 10:52 PM |
| 6 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceLmao what It takes a majority to bully someone, it doesnt just happen from a single person. Most people werent bullied, they were bullies or passive spectators. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:18 PM |
| – | The Same Romantic Approach Is Judged Differently Depending on AttractionThis sounds extremely depressing and not worth the effort in the slightest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 04:10 PM |
| – | The women saying “Youre alone because your personality is terrible” are NOT the women actively dating terrible men.How does she manage to consistently come up with bad takes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men have a victim mentality when it comes to romance and dating?Thats just such a crazy idea if you put 2 minutes of thought into it. Okay first you dont even get to know any potential partners directly, you need to get to know random people. Alright then you have this small caveat that not everyone is actually looking to expand their circle, in fact most people arent. And then these people who do, need to also like you which is also not a sure thing. Alright so lets say we passed this unlikely hurdle and we are now friends and get invited to stuff. Cool, so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Real relationships cannot replace escorting.Trying to be covert? Literally just dont bring it up??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Real relationships cannot replace escorting.Well thats just silly and self-destructive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Real relationships cannot replace escorting.Why would you ever be in a situation where you would have to have that conversation though? Why would you bring that up voluntarily??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesIm glad youve come to a conclusion that satisfies your world view | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesOlder yes, but not to the point where Id say theres a significant difference in mentality. Our circumstances are mostly the same. Im not even the oldest student around if Im honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesIm 29, in my third year of undergrad. And before you address that, yes its been a deal breaker in quite a few contacts (mostly pre first date) but most rejections happen where thats not factored in. Im also not trying to date established high-class women, I date college people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesIm doing my undergrad right now and Im going to as many events as I can. And besides the events organized by the university I also try to visit stuff that is offered by the city. My main dating avenue is via online dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesMy age range is very generous, its 10 downwards and 5 upwards, I would go further up but I had the experience that women close to 40 are very concerned with starting a family and Im not capable of providing that while having 0 prior relationship experience. In the same vein, if I dont feel ready to have the "children" topic on the table, Im absolutely not ready for a woman with children of her own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 08:09 AM |
| 3 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesIf I aim any lower, Ill hit the ground. Like my only requirement is that shes not severely overweight. And thats only because I keep myself fit so I feel like thats at least something I can expect of my partner as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/26 08:01 AM |
| 14 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesId consider myself fairly interesting, at least someone you can have a fun time with. My dating life is a cycle of neverending rejections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 06:59 AM |
| 1 | I disagree with "there is someone out there for everybody"Dude idiots are perfect stock for soldiers, especially the US army | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 10:23 PM |
| 6 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?Come on man, stop arguing if you were the one who posted the question in the first place. In the very first place its the fact that everyone treats the virgin status as not normal. We dont have a movie called "The 40 year old sex haver" do we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid becoming bitter/toxic?So they are losers then? Then that means their concern that a partner settled for them is very real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:43 PM |
| 7 | Men, would you say that you do tend to struggle in the dating scene or with getting attention?Same for me, I just genuinely cannot comprehend the concept of being a sexual human being. A friend, sure, but an actual sex haver? Never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?You cant fuck any of those 3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 06:24 PM |
| – | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?In what way is it different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped."Everyone starts off as strangers, so....." Are you just arguing for the sake of arguing? "Most women aren't manipulating weak men either. So why are you bringing up a minority of women?" Yeah thats exactly my point, so if a man does get sexually with a woman it is a good indicator that shes genuinely attracted to him. I wasnt talking about incels as a group of people, I was talking about "incel" being used as an insult, which frankly occurs by far more often than the former. Its an insult that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 08:59 PM |
| 3 | When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped.I like being around people that I like, i.e. not strangers. I agree on the sex part, but Id wager the majority of women have sex because they want to not because they want to get something out of it. Its not a surefire way to tell attraction but its better than most alternatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 05:32 PM |
| 2 | When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped.This is all anecdotal any way, least of these arguments can be backed up with anything tangible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 05:30 PM |
| 7 | When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped.So your post is kind of a mess of a bunch of statements that have nothing to do with each other, so rather than trying to decipher what point youre making Ill just answer each paragraph. When guys say "I want to be TRULY desired", they want to be loved and appreciated for the type of person they are and the feelings they give you instead of the benefits they provide you. They want to be treated as a subject rather than an object, which is what you women complain about. Im fairly certain guys who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 03:22 PM |
| 5 | How would you react to finding that your man experiences an emasculating sexual kink?For the love of god what are you talking about, have you ever interacted with kink at all??? "So all women are humiliated in sex then? When did vanilla sex become humiliating for women?" Since when is vanilla sex kinky??? Its an oxymoron. Are you sure you know the words youre using actually mean what you think they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?"1st Rule of Relationships: In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least" thats from the TRP 101 post. If your relationship is a power struggle, showing weakness is absolutely no-go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 11:24 PM |
| 2 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?Is sex really a good reason? Theres sex work for that. Having a relationship with a woman for the pure purpose of having sex does not nearly justify the effort. Im also not interested in having children. What epiphany am I supposed to reach? Just to clarify Im not arguing from the standpoint of someone from the BP, Im asking from the standpoint of someone who used to be BP but has unfortunately gotten to know women better than he would like. And the more I learn about them, the less I want to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 11:21 PM |
| 2 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?Because thats only something I can get from a genuine partner. For example I cant show vulnerability because if she senses a weakness she will lose attraction and find someone better. But Id like to have a partner I can be vulnerable with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 03:27 PM |
| 0 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?Timless classic. Im not calling someone "female" face to face. Nor is there any negative connotation in that word. Iam a male or a man, you are a female or a woman. Its not a bad word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 11:47 PM |
| 6 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?Well I think that discounting a person down to what they provide rather than who they are, looking for any sign of weakness and jumping ship to "upgrade" upon discovery of such a sign, does indeed make someone objectively awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 11:44 PM |
| 0 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?Perhaps not being loved and the chance to be arguing in PurplePill forums are somehow correlated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?My question is about your second sentence. How am I supposed to like a female if what drives the decision making in female dating behaviour, makes them in my eyes inherently unlikable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:27 PM |
| 2 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?As far as I understand RP moves away from the idea of "romantic" love and rather explains that our dating/mating behaviour is completely controlled by our most base, animalistic insticts, in that women seek out the best provider for their potential children and engage in hypergamy; While men instinctively attempt to seek out as many partners as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:22 PM |
| 3 | What motivation is there for dating in a Red Pill world?Im way past having the image of a perfect woman, Id just want someone who likes me for the person Iam. Which is something that I do for the opposite gender, Im genuinely interested in a person and it takes time for me to like someone to consider pursuing them romantically and from what Ive noticed that happens only when I like many facets of their personality. By now Im largely more RP in my views, some of it from online discourse, some of it from real life examples (most of my friends and acqui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:16 PM |
| 6 | The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women.Okay no, you need to talk specifics now. What in your words is "chasing" and what is "engaging"? Is doing OLD chasing or engaging? Is going to night life to try to get laid chasing or engaging? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:59 PM |
| -1 | The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women.For men claiming to be going their own way you seem to fixate a damn lot on women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?"are we dating" implies that the fuccboi indeed was successful and liked by at least two women. The prosecution has no further questions for the witness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Those men who have asked out huge numbers of women and eventually managed to land a partner, how do you feel about it?How does him being jaded contradict the blue pill? Blue pill doesnt say everyone gets someone, it just doesnt demonise one side. Personally Im in a similar situation as him, and while I do have a fear that some of the red pill/black pill ideology might be true, you'll catch me dead before I join that side. I understand that Iam not any womans choice but I respect that they have that choice to make and it doesnt make them bad people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendAfter witnessing your "discussion", you are absolutely obnoxious, coupled with the fact that you refuse to see your own very privileged position. Also you are literally contradicting yourself and don't see it. "Those women post all the time that they're looking for people to play with. What exactly are you waiting for? DM them." "I don't get on forums with the hope of interacting with women" But thats exactly what the fuck youre suggesting he does, then insult him when he points out how that is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 09:52 PM |
| 2 | A view of opposite sex friendships through the lens of Instagram etiquette and duo trips.Now is there any way for you to know that a seemingly straight female friend your girlfriend is cuddling, is not also currently a closetted lesbian and wants more than friendship from your girlfriend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 07:08 PM |
| 2 | A view of opposite sex friendships through the lens of Instagram etiquette and duo trips.Well would you be fine if your girlfriend was cuddling with a lesbian friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | A view of opposite sex friendships through the lens of Instagram etiquette and duo trips.Why are you not okay with a male friend doing that? Is it because youre afraid of the potential sex between them? If yes, then would you similarly not be okay if the female friend was an open lesbian? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:34 PM |
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