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Azurefatejay/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:16 AM
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Azurefatejay/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:20 AM
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Well you told her your not my type of person. Stick to that and find someone else.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 06:29 AM
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From the brief amount of time i spent reading this before i got bored. 1) you have unrealistic expectations of this girl (shes shy, introverted, has never taken a dick or cussed, shes a good girl!) due to oneitis. FYI she's taking it up the ass every night from a dude that actually knows what hes doing. 2) the amount of uncertainty on where you stand with her and how youre concerned with locking her down is you being in your feminine. Your acting like a girl and need to cut that shit out. 3) She…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 06:02 AM
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Im not suggesting any moral stance on whether its right or wrong to seek support from a girl or feel a certain way. Live your life. Just strictly in the context of the topic at hand which is attraction, im merely stating from my experience with my own two eyes... and perhaps the most extreme circumstance i can consider. yes, any sign of being emotionally uncentered/ depressed/ dependent on your girl for support will lower her attraction regardless of circumstance and she will see this weakness a…
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:01 AM
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You basically triggered her ASD right out of the gate with a socially uncalibrated opener. "I know who you are, your a slut lololol". Online you want to have a couple of messages back and forth to establish enough rapport and then you can start coming on, and regardless you only want to overtly escalate sexually in person. My mentality when trying to set something up with her is "is she cool enough/interesting enough to meet up with?" Just search for online dating openers, or online dating game …
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:25 AM
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She's breaking you down and your moving into her frame (which is to make you jealous/ annoyed/ get a rise). Think to yourself "My girl is so into me that she tells me about every guy that hits her up, and shes telling me these things to let me know how loyal she is to me. How sweet." Honestly id take it as a compliment and be glad that she is telling you about it whereas most will just fuck around behind your back.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:02 AM
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If you had abundance you wouldnt reach out to her and wouldve forgot about it already, the moment you do reach out she will recognize scarcity so you are pretty fucked. The only thing id say is next time your out doing something fun ask of shes in town & invite her to join you. But 99% chance itll just be ignored.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:52 AM
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You strengthen your frame by pushing your comfort zone. Youll feel nervous with them until you start getting shot down by them.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:22 AM
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Never cry in front of a woman. My dog died. I had a breakdown with my gf at the time about it. She sat there hugging me, not really knowing what to do or say, she did her best to be supportive. Her behavior changed afterwards and ultimately became more and more distant, started shit testing etc. It doesnt matter of its bawling or a trembling lip, any emotion from you other than a positive, cool, collected presence will lower attraction to varying degrees based on how much control you exert over …
/r/askTRP12/03/19 02:16 AM
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Wtf is this shit? Spewing your personal religious beliefs is serving nobody here and has nothing to do with TRP, get lost.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:17 AM
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You get other people to invest more by removing your attention. At the moment you are trying to drive the interaction and get her to talk about how her day was and what she likes to do etc., she keeps showing low investment... so its on her to keep things going.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:56 AM
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Make a move and you'll know where things are.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:42 AM
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You should be lifting. That is #1
/r/askTRP04/03/19 02:41 AM
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I cant really tell what the status quo is for the parties you are going to, but based on your friends suggestion it sounds like you are underdressed. Maybe ask them for advice.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 07:14 AM
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The mindset you want to have wherever you go is that every girl wants to fuck you and is interested. And since you know they want you, well then you are the chooser and its up to you to find out if shes cool or not. If she is receptive, escalate. Maintain a charming/ flirty banter with all women you come across, dont flick it on or off depending on if she is giving you ioi's or whatever. The only time ill stop being charming and playful is if the girl tells me to stop or gets upset, or shes bori…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 06:11 AM
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The way your post is worded is it sounds like to you that she "won" and you "lost". Are you a better man than you were yesterday? If yes, great. Keep working on yourself, take pride in your improvement and be even better tomorrow. If not, then you should feel bad but not because you are comparing yourself to other people but only to yourself. So work on making yourself better until you can say "yes, im better than i was yesterday" you'll start to feel that enjoyment and love in yourself again, t…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:42 AM
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The other comments here seem a little off to me... shes not gonna ask you out, women will do shit like this hoping you'll make something happen. When a women reaches out to me i always take it as a sign of interest and that she wants to see me. Dont be daft, the texts to her "cousin" were merely her checking in on your buying temperature. I wouldve replied and said "hey care to join me at x on y?" You might've left some pussy on the table. You asked her to hit you up when she has some days off..…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:27 AM
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Be a man and confront her about her problem, lead the relationship. Tell her that she is getting really trashed, and its bad for her and bad for you, and you want her to stop getting blackout shitfaced. Then it's on her to fix her problem and if you dont see an improvement start pulling back and getting phone numbers.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:05 AM
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You have an attachment to this girl which is why you are suffering and got butthurt about the situation. Also, your friend doesnt really sound like your friend and the girl is definitely not worth your time or effort. Keep that in your pocket with any future interactions concerning them.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:00 AM
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Realize that your life depends on it. Days, weeks, months, years will go by before you know it & youre in your grave. It is a life or death situation, stop reading about it and just DO IT. Fuck preparation. Go out and look like a dumbass, fail, make mistakes. You're in a spot where you think that reading pages and pages of material is going to make you more competent, and some day you will finally get to the point where youre ready cause youve read and learned so much. Im telling you it is never…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 04:06 AM
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If i read your post correctly i think the jist of it is you dont know what you want to do? I personally would try out the sports, because learning who you are as a person is all about taking risks and trying new things, figuring out what you like or dont like. If it turns out you dont like sports after all and cant get back into clubs until junior year? Fuck it. At least you know something new about yourself. If your still indecisive, try what i do sometimes. Grab a coin. Heads, you stay in your…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:42 AM
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Fear is at its core a defense mechanism, an automatic biological response that our bodies and minds evolved over eons to protect yourself from harmful threats to your life. It seems counterintuitive then, why do we feel fear when approaching? There's nothing dangerous about it and it is in fact furthering your likelihood of producing offspring? My theory is that, the fear is coming from the possibility of rejection. People are social animals. In days past, being rejected or ostracized from the t…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 03:14 AM
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Thanks man, youre right its all about the mindset
/r/askTRP02/03/19 07:50 PM
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Thanks man, makes sense. Its funny how something so simple as just have fun can easily be forgotten
/r/askTRP02/03/19 07:48 PM
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It takes a lot of balls to go up and give a speech like that and not be nervous. His jokes were funny even if there was some self deprecation, either way the crowd was loving it which gives him a lot of social proof. There was nothing Beta or Alpha about it per se it was just a good best man speech which requires some level of competency and confidence to come off right and women love both of those things
/r/askTRP02/03/19 10:30 AM
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This is very true. Cant see it now, but it is the truth
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:57 AM
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Yea. Two weeks is a drop in the ocean. Think more like 4-5 months. Just focus on yourself, mourn the relationship, feel the emotions. Dont try to act like its not a big deal, cause it is. It will get better with time, i promise. Learn from what you couldve done better and remember the faults she had and what to look out for next time. Just dont fall off the horse and do your best and get a little better day by day. If you can and your up to it, getting some strange WILL speed up the healing proc…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:51 AM
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"None of them are as special as you honey"
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:34 AM
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It really just comes down to you just have to take responsibility for it. I had a jock itch problem for a long time. It felt so good to just scratch and itch it away. But it started to cause scarring (even with medication). I realized that i have a responsibility, either i can keep scratching and compounding the problem, or suffer the temporary discomfort of not scratching until my skin heals. It is really just a mental game. Every time you notice the urge to fuck with your face, practice absolu…
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:27 AM
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You just said what your purpose is. Your purpose is your goals that you listed. Dont worry about some quote, asking why. You dont really need to know the 'why' you just need to do. Now the question is, how will you accomplish those goals? Write it down. Work every day towards them.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 04:08 AM
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I just wanna say bravo man. Such a good post makes me want to go push a fucking truck up a mountain
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:44 AM
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I would tell your current gf to tell her boss (or whoever is responsible for hiring) that the ex is applyicant and it poses a potential conflict of interest, cause it will definitely lead to friction if they work together. If your gf is cool with it tho, and the ex starts acting out of line, ex will probably get let go anyways so problem solved
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:27 AM
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As your leaving class just try to exit/walk with her out. Talk with her a bit until its just you two and ask for it
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:06 AM
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The truth is you can't control a woman. Eventually she'll run into other soldiers or seek them out herself and they'll take her from you whether she's a bartender or not, unless you are her best option. And what you have indirectly told her, is "I dont think i'm your best option and i'm scared another soldier is gonna take you from me, so im gonna lock you up and give you an ultimatum." If thats what you really want then you gotta stick to it, but just check yourself that u arent coming from a p…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:59 AM
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Men like to conquer as much pussy as they can. Its like collecting trophies to them, its a source of validation, the more the better. The ultimate trophy is a hot woman. Women like to know they can put a mans balls in a box. Its like trophies to them, its a source of validation, the more the better. The ultimate trophy is a man that doesnt give his balls away.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:31 AM
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Im gonna assume shes decently attractive since youre making out with her. If shes decently attractive, shes definitely not a virgin, especially at 32. Apart from all of this, you are way too in your head about what she thinks of you or herself. All women are "good sports" about sex if youre cool with it. Do what you want to do, not what you think she wants you to do.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:18 AM
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Id say you did... average Not kissing her at the end of the date. I think you could've talked more about sexual/exciting things / teased her about shit and she may have been open to it or you wouldve felt more confident to go for it. It sounds like you werent building sexual tension other than creepily rubbing your hands against her thighs etc. Womens sexuality is in her brain. Texting her first after the date and saying "you better not have lied to me about what youre actually doing instead of …
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:56 AM
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After reading OP's post this is more or less exactly what i was thinking. When it comes to women, attention and validation from men is like WATER to them. They NEED that shit. She will say "well if you really cared about me you would still be my friend... since you dont want to clean my garage/ text me all day/ listen to me bitch about Chad then I guess you're just an asshole who was only trying to get into my pants" When you are upsetting the status quo and actively recruiting others to do the …
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:34 AM
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Im confused is she cheating on you? Or are you snooping through her phone to read texts from 2 years ago like a bitch? Girls lie about shit all the time dont get butthurt and i hate to break it to you but her and the ex were fucking eachother consensually (duh?), i think you are way too invested and in your feminine at the moment and need to focus on yourself and your purpose If you are saying these texts between her and the ex were recent then yea you need to next
/r/askTRP28/02/19 07:13 AM
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First, you arent average youre great and you should always put yourself first. Second, if she's chasing your validation she aint getting rid of you. What shes saying is a good thing. Id tell her, you know ive just been really busy focusing on (whatever your purpose is, which you should be) & i dont mean to make you feel neglected & u are important but sometimes i gotta do what i gotta do. I am telling you man, if you cave & try to change yourself to please her when you dont really want to she wi…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:51 AM
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You were too invested in her. She said she didnt want you to come over (in girl talk), and you proceeded to follow her car. Afterwards, you blew up her phone. Needy insecure behavior turns women off and makes them think you're a stalker.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:55 PM
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These were all shit tests. Ive found sometimes if you are stoic enough then they will stop testing and submit, sometimes they wont though. If it truly is something you "can't tolerate" then covertly start pulling (delay responses, display low interest, don't be always available etc.) and maybe she'll get the hint that its time to submit and stop being a bitch or you're gone. Do not overtly get butthurt and if she throws shit at you give her a sly grin and say something witty to bring her down a …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:34 AM
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Bitches care about facebook status, if x celebrity is dating y celebrity, relationships, labels, etc. She isn't your property. Stop acting like a bitch.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:20 AM
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Here's some tough love. She didn't get with you, because you weren't man enough. Don't get mad at her; get mad at nature, get mad at your upbringing, get mad at whatever but it isnt her fault that she isnt attracted to you. The universe is gonna keep teaching you this lesson until you actually start ACTING and working on the best version of yourself and taking responsibility. So put away the lotion. Put away the junk food and tv. Feel the pain and use it as fuel and motivation to be a better man…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:13 AM
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Call yourself fortunate enough to have gathered more info than most. Most guys just get blindsided with no reason, asking wtf happened, while their princess has been getting slammed by another dude for the past month behind their back. This girl makes a great fuckbuddy, dump her and never tell her what you found.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:44 AM
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[Me] Hey this is aidscancerebola, what you been up to? [Oldplate] "insert any generic response" [Me] that's good to hear, we should catch up. When are you free to get together? I literally keep it that short. Conveys intent, low investment.Typical responses are "yea its been a while, im down, im free on xxxday" or "its good to hear from you, ill let you know if im free" and never hear back. Usually the latter 80% of the time but its almost impossible to build rapport when you havent had face to …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:12 AM
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If you want to fuck her go after her. This high school social stigma youre afraid of is made up in your mind. If anything youll be respected more for having the balls to make amove rejection or not. Don't do this half ass "blame it on the alcohol" shit thats what women do. Your reputation wont be tarnished by being rejected. Your reputation wont be diminished by fucking her. Be ok with either outcome and the universe will reciprocate.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:56 AM
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No
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:52 AM
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By the length of this post i can tell without even reading that you have oneitis. Phones are for setting dates, if you want your phone blowing up with texts reach out to your mommy.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:51 AM
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You are attaching yourself to things outside of your control. Take pride that you fucked this girl. Meet other women. Lift.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:32 AM
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