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i think this is a huge point, if you see it from a "commercial perspective" ( modeling, publicity, tv shows etc.) there really are tons of very attractive young women, its not that they are rare, some few might have very special features to stand out, but a lot are just attractive and you would finde hundreds or thousands of them. So i think many use it as a "short cut" to make a name for themselves, there are many like them, being invited to stupid tv shows, or doing some " brand" or whatever, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:01 AM
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someone might like it more than others, but objectively she is below average, there is no way around this, whatever you make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 05:39 PM
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To be fair a lot of women get blamed if the are honest, also by a lot of people posting in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:38 AM
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It's exactly the same with women, everything they complain about men, it's their peers and they themselves that enable it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:00 AM
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There are tons of men on the apps, and the apps are "hiding them", if they go on the apps, they might not even get to see the "less desirable men's profiles", cause if they swipe till they get there, their inboxes are probably already full. Hiding as in putting them on the bottom of the stack.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:08 AM
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It's not about treating them badly, it's about not enough that look good enough and have a good enough job mainly.....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:48 PM
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Seriously, 90 % of people I know in germany met their spouses in school, university, workplace or from hanging in the same wider social group (these groups ofc often also formed by people going to the same school, university or workplace) I think I have only one friend, and his wife is someone he met in a nightclub
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 01:30 PM
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I don't think so, as birthrate are falling and falling in the west, and as it debatable if the service economy can be preserved, it's more likely that the future will belong to conservative folks like Muslims and conservative Christians and such, they will just out breed all the progressive parts of society
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:21 AM
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Fair enough, then I would say out of this men, it's the ones that are making an effort to be with you, no perfect soloution The ones that want to be seen with you in public, go on proper dates with you, are open to discussing living together etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 11:22 AM
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Because you want the ressources of men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:56 AM
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I don't know I think it's pretty accurate? I mean you notice people from the opposite gender, noticing you, looking at you, smiling sometimes flirting, giving you the eyes, and ofc then you ex partners Ofc it's a spectrum, but you get a good idea back in your head, which kind of women might react positive to you. Not sure but shouldn't this be the same for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 06:45 AM
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i have another explanation in general we know, that the things wated are " good looks, money, status, being fun to be around etc." ofc there are variances everyone might value these things a little different Now if men feel they are too "low" on these metrics, they think they can somehow work around it by convincing with their " good personality" ( which might work sometimes if you naturally have to spend time with someone from the other gender) So at the end it comes from "low self esteem" The …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:41 AM
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its jsut overcomplicated , because there are too many people that want to sell something... like books, coaching etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:29 AM
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That's what I thought, it's not that any of them are "so high", but the extensive combination seems strange and difficult, and from my pov I think there are a lot of things you could compromise on.... So what if she checks whole list but isn't college educated, or maybe is religious or.... Also I think the last point, I just don't buy it (might be I just lack imagination ), but i really just don't buy it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:07 PM
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anecdotal, they might have had wild parties, but how often There are other people that party the whole semester and hardly show up in class
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:02 AM
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because having fun is about low inhibition, building a life often needs high inhibition
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:56 AM
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Someone with a company that has 35 employees is not an average Joe, it's not only having money, he likely has a lot of other strong points, too I bet he is also pretty good at communication and other social things...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 11:01 AM
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You are making the mistake to think that there is a team men and a team women There is not people will not ally into groups only because of their gender Men and women might be in team socialist VS team capitalism as example Then theirs religion or tons of other things about which groups are formed, also different nationalities Women can be as corrupt and power hungry as men What would happen in this dreamworld, is that at some points, there would be conflicts, or even wars (as there have been al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:13 PM
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I think what a lot of people of both genders need to sort out, is if their standards are really A. their actual minimum threshold (be it physicalaattributes, or money or education or whatever) B. about how they are perceived by others (other people's standards) Clichés would be a guy dating an overweight woman he feels good with, but doesn't want to be seen with Or a girl dating some guy, she feels good with, but her friends make fun of her because he doesn't have a nice car and a lot of money I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:49 PM
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Most women aren't really friends with their partners either, you cannot be true friends with someone if you have "demands", doing this and this, spending this and this etc. Its a contradiction, true friends don't in general want anything from each other but company!!!, that's why people don't have a lot "true friends", I would say, I have maybe 5 to 10 people in my life I deem really friends The moment you bring in something transactional, you cannot be really friends anymore And relationships b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:18 AM
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This is a very hypothetical question, as the vast majority of people hang around other people which are similar to them in at least one way, oftentimes multiple ways......
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:43 AM
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I grew up with 3 sisters, so I mostly have and always had a good idea, how a woman would look without makeup Only the combination of filters, angles and makeup together, it's where it's really getting difficult. I don't see it as deceptive, and I like it both ways, natural is ok for me, but I will also appreciate I a woman really makes all the effort for styling up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:55 AM
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I don't agree, they do, I have seen it, not with myself unfortunately :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:37 AM
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its called being too proud to let it show in front of others
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:43 PM
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It's a way of speaking.... I guess other people will get "what it means"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:42 AM
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À friend of mine did this, around 10 years ago before meeting his wife, like using tinder with great succes He told me, these girls are all so boring, stereotypical more or less the same copy-paste personality So while people tend to talk a lot BS to look good, I would take it with a grain of salt, when they all state they are "charming, friendly, interesting to talk too etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:19 PM
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dont get hooked on the wording, its just a principle I described, for everyone its different , are you not able to extrapolate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:56 AM
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yes you can to some degree, I can decide that I will be with a woman that might not look like a model, but i find her attractive enough, and everything else is fine which makes her more attractive to me, vs chasing the model looking woman, that is soso about me, I can make that decision because I know which is more promising in the long run, and will make me more happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:33 AM
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what they mean is dont turn down an otherwise good match, because he is making average money, or because he is not the hottest dude you can get, or because he works as a plumber and its not prestigious enough ( sorry i dont want to say anything bad about plumbers, and think they make good money, its just some bs example that came to my mind) They are not saying date homeless guy , that you think is ugly.... They just mean this are things , you could compromise on, vs you shouldt compromise on "h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 11:28 AM
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It's like with all things, the extremes matter much more than the average, and you cannot pinpoint anything to a single feature
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:00 AM
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Sigh... it doesn't matter as long as you don't have a shitton of money, because young girls will not think about the whole building a life implications soi much at this moment in time, if at least you are going for something (like doing a formation), will be mostly enough On the other side, in my hometown there was some young guy, heir to some industrial family, with tons of money, could afford expensive cars and trips already in his 20s, was overweight and didn't look really good, but had somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:45 AM
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Women would be (are) more honest about all of this stuff, if they wouldn't mostly be shamed and judged if they speak out about it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:23 PM
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you know that only 100 years ago ( and still today for billions of people outside the west) , it was not uncommon, to just settle with someone , to build a family and it wasnt always the most terrible outcome in the long run ? As long as noone is forced, people may decide to just be more pragmatic... obviously i dont advocate to bring back these times, but its not always as terrible as you make it out to be....even some married couples become more like "good friends living together" and just suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:47 PM
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i see thin men with fat women very often
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 01:31 PM
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i would argue that women dislike "fat men" even more than men dislike" fat women", its only that men can compensate better for their looks with a strong personality, skills and also just money and ressources
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 10:11 AM
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the Problem of OPs post is that the message to men basically is "lie,lie,lie and dont give a fuck about maybe hurting a few women in the process, as long as you can get some of the " experience" or otherwise you will stay alone forever. but I guess she isnt even aware..... the whole premise is kind of stupid, because these men are mostly "latebloomers" because they somehow werent attractive to women before ( i know theres a shitton of other reasons, but for a lot of cases its true) What OP now i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:46 PM
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It means that as example your right eye and your left eye would be exactly on the same position if you mirror them, me as example one eye hangs lower than the other one. Noone has 100 %, but our brain recognizes this without even thinking about it Whats difficult to understand about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:45 AM
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I am not arguing that there is a cultural (even fashion of the day) component But still there are features that are widely attractive over all cultures, like symmetrical features as example, which we will just recognize without even thinking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:14 AM
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We do, but its completely subconscious. The impulse is "would bang", not "we might have beautiful children" Its also not only genetics, it's also the conditions under which someone grew up that we find attractive (like enough food, not enough food etc., signs of illness, or age)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:10 AM
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I love tall women, and imho tall women only have a problem if they are built more broadly, then this same body type might look better on their smaller peers, if they are build more slim, and with long legs and arms, I doubt they have problems
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:06 AM
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yes but OP has a point, if you look at women from late twenties to mid 30s, most of the attractive ones, are married, have their first 1 to 2 children, or are otherwise in commited relationships, it changes at late 30s and early 40s then, but exactly that Age bracket most women are "taken", while 20 to 26 or so , there are much more attractive women that are still on the market.... its also , if you make a OLD account, you will find a lot of younger women sending you likes ( i will totally agree…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 09:20 AM
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It's also, that what helps person 1, doesn't necessarily help person 2, but its stupid for person 2 to postulate that "it's useless for everyone, cause it didn't work for me" (which they do all the time on the internet)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:01 PM
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Maybe she is too picky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:41 PM
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Looks from pictures or videos are very different from seeing people in the real world, and I suspect many people here have very distorted views
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:33 PM
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Everyday I go out on the street, where ever I go I see at least 50% of women looking worse, abut maybe you live at a better place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:14 PM
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Opinion from elsewhere -(Germany) There are already endless sites, where all shades of prostitutes (including hobby-prostitutes) and clients can meet and fix the details of their transactions Including simple company for activeties, dates, or parties and such So why exactly would you need this app? To gets the "worst" from both worlds?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:31 PM
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I am man, and she is not ugly, she won't turn heads, but she looks OK. Has pretty enough face and isn't fat... She might even be above average, if you speak about statistical average If I would meet someone looking like this, and would like the personality, I would date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:41 AM
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its even simpler Lets say its all true, they are total Loosers, the bottom of the barrel etc. its 100% true What should this men do then , instead ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:59 PM
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It's not like men don't get drunk and regret hooking up a girl, pretty sure this happend to most at least once There are also feelings of shame and disgust, though men being men it's rarely discussed and mostly laughed away
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 07:31 AM
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I think there is more to this! The men here complaining, it's so common for them to also say I don't drink, I don't like clubs, I don't do drugs, I don't like parties or loud music etc. And while I won't promote drinking and drugs and such, I suspect there is some correlation between this and their behavior and personality traits!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:23 AM
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Being stingy with money is a huge turn off for a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:02 PM
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When you say, he works in finance, you don't by chance mean the kind of finance, where they have to work crazy hours the first few years?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:43 PM
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OP, could answer if he has a OLD Profile, and how many likes(not matches) he gets, that would be a good pointer, how attractive he really is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:32 PM
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When I was young, there where 2 kinds of clubs I went two Type 1, was pretty mainstream music, you went there in hope to get some action, but also because you didn't want to go home after the time for pubs was over, or some friend had a birthday or such Type 2, was much more about music, techno, dubstep, drum%bass and stuff, I really like, would dance for hours, the dancing was really fun, and I would feel great.... So both things exist imho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:42 PM
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really good looking women on the apps are either kind of golddiggers or have some very demanding jobs and not a lot of time, thats what I found at least
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:16 PM
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It's also partially "unconscious", plus as I recall they have even seen chimps bring food or such to female chimps for sexual favours
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 07:31 AM
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to be fair , as a man I would also be irritated to meet a grown up man that cannot change a tire by himself, at least can drill a whole, or change stuff like light bulbs etc, I totally get it that in todays society its not normal anymore to be able to basically build a house yourself..... but some "life skills" should be there...... Same for an adult to be at least able to cook some basic dishes from scratch. think about it , you are driving with your family and small kids on the highway in summ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:16 PM
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At age 40, there's really a huge variance, there are some gorgeous ladies, that don't look much different than from when they where 30 maybe, and there are some, you think they must be 50, and you are shocked, when you learn they are your age.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 06:14 AM
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dude I am 40, 20 years ago was 2004, this was already a time where most women could work, have good paying jobs and in general didnt need a man to pay for everything, maybe there where more 40 to 50 year olds back then, that still came from other times, but for the young people between lets say 16 and 30, that was nothing new........
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:56 PM
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yes, never happend to me, you might get complains about ex partners here and there, more so in form of anecdotes, but this was often more out of context of us speaking about whatever....., I suspect that its either OP is dating a certain crowd, or he is triggering this with something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:50 PM
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Because gold diggers exist, and they will throw themselves at older men, if they have money, some are good, so it's isn't so obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:45 AM
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I think it's for men that are not completely isolated, could actually get at least some women interested in them, but are hold back by feelings of shame and nervousness around sex, so doing this a few times might "help them", it won't be a help to everyone.... But I think for a lot of men the main problem is not feeling validated, lack of intimacy, lack of confidence, and escorts will barely help with this..., maybe a little bit with the confidence part... Main point people should stop throwing …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:57 AM
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its only overrated if you slim and fit, if you are overweight more than 10 kg or so, it will definetly be a game changer, also its not only about "building huge muscles" , even if yoou dont build up a lot of muscle you body will just look better, your ass legs, arms , bascially everything. But ofc once you are slim and fit its diminishing returns, on the flipside if you are the totally underweight type it might also help a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:24 AM
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This is because it's more complicated, it's also about validation, social status, self perception... In germany, it's legal, partly pretty cheap and easy to get. Still you read similiar complaints over dating, and there's also a big number of men, who wouldn't do it, plus a number who would, but would be fearful of anyone knowing (social stigma)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 12:22 AM
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yes it is, normal woman if they are seriously interested in you, want a lot of your time ( spending together but also phone calls etc.), if you already work like 50 hours /week plus commuting plus some sports , if you still want to keep up some frinedships, theres really not so much time left...., so I really wonder how you manage ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:50 AM
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20 years ago some friends spoke about it to me, this was still a time where noone would have mentioned the word "rape" in that context. What happened was that girls broke up with their boyfriend (oftentimes back from high-school), or anyway their first long RL, than they would go through a phase of partying around, and this would lead to them having some ons or flings. Sometimes they couldn't take the alcohol, you know you get "blackouts", so they would find themselves with a guy at their or his…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:17 AM
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i blame it on people being unaware of history...... majority of people lived as farmers, where not "highly mobile". so most people would have to find their spouse from an already very limited pool, probabaly the different traditional festivities most places have and everyday life..... ( this whole constellation would have been the same for men and women) It was also that people only needed to marry " to get money and stuff " from their husband, both parents really needed "the kids", because noon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:01 PM
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Forget social media, they are crazy, look at statistics, there are only like 10 % of men (10% is generous, I estimate it's closer to 5%), that come close to making the money theses instagramm (borderline prostitutes btw) women are deeming as "bare minimum" Of these 10 %, how many are old, already married, gay etc. Then you will find comments like "why can't there be more men like this" (because it's a feature not a bug, you need poor people to have rich people, ) This stuff is poison for the min…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:54 PM
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I don't get how to Flair, so I answer here... What you all forget These women don't have a lot of "free time", if men on the same level also "don't have a lot of free time", it gets kind of hard Some people might in fact be "intimidated ", but its more like "what does this person even want with poor me" feeling These women often have high demands, they want to do trips that cost 10000 dollars(everything else, too) , etc., even if they are "modern" and split, you need to be on a similiar level to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:29 AM
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That's not the point, the point is if x doesn't give results, try y People who have no problem with x, generally won't even come to places like the internet to vent and ask for direction.... The truth is you hurt this people, with that kind of advice, then suddenly they are 30 or even older and cannot turn it around anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:12 PM
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Yes, but maybe it's just that more profitable enterprises have the money to support more female leadership positions, while poorer companies need to hire for competency alone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:15 AM
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I have seen some men, that where extremly good with communication (not hot, but not ugly either) Completely outcome independent, just naturally chatting with everyone from men to women of all ages,educationallevels, rich and poor making them laugh etc. Seeing people be genuinely happy to meet this person This kind of men generally don't have any problems finding women all the time... But, I don't think "you can really learn " this, seems more like a natural disposition oftentimes honed by years …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:52 AM
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The problem is that this comes down to an extreme factor of "luck", you cannot really force anything, it happens or doesn't happen... starting with, that you might meet a lot of people, but the girls are all taken already...., or there's just no mutual attraction...., by this methods years could pass by, without ever meeting someone The people complaining, are often the types, who already didn't meet anyone naturally "for years" so " how can they expect, that anything changes? At the end" years …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:09 AM
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Yes, but then humans hardly "meet bears" , they are not locked in together... However, if the bear attacks you, you are fucked, cannot outrun, cannot fight back You might however outrun a human(60% are overweight) , or fight back even if you are weaker, or might reason But this whole thing is an emotional discussion anyway, the vast majority of men are normal people and won't do shit.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:48 PM
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There are like 15 cases of rape/SA for 100000 inhabitants, you are greatly blowing the risk out of the windows... That something like a 0,03 % chance that a given random man is a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:38 PM
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He looses it about a private situation with one specific girl he had interactions with, this is a personal affair, people get their feelings hurt and throw all kind of Bullshit at each other? I would see misogyny more as a general worldview, towards all women in general. Now the dude might or might not hold such beliefs, but my point is that this personal exchange is not a good example..... As said people throw the weirdest shit at each other, if their feelings are hurt or they break-up etc....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:15 AM
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But having no money is also no solution....... and brings a lot of "extra problems"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:48 AM
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This is very common, as it's a "grey zone", there's basically a spectrum from maximum "golddigger", to just being pragmatic and valuing financial safety overall...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:15 AM
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That's a complete misunderstanding of how this works in most traditional societies... Yes it does happen, yes there is a very strong transactional element... However most parents still live and care for their sons and daughters.... and want them to be happy So they will in general try to find someone she will agree on.... Again not saying pressure doesn't happen.... I agree it's not something I would want, but people kind of have to take into consideration the whole package of another culture...…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:20 PM
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Wow, that's a pretty good explanation, I can relate to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 04:06 PM
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Women "fail more" at killing themselves than men, after people try to kill themselves they will often get a lot of help, but if you are already dead you cannot be helped anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:47 PM
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Yes ofc, my point is just that "knowing about something" doesn't always translate to action I mean another good example would be "addicts" of any kind....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:29 PM
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It's not as easy as OP makes it out to be..... Knowing about something rationally, doesn't always translate into following it.... Men also hear about "being used for their money only" from young age and various media, but in the RL situation your dick and feelings will feed dilusions and hope about the situation.. .. Love and sex in the early stages are like a "drug"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:52 AM
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That's Bullshit, because a lot of young people have to spend up to 5 years on their education, and if you don't come from some seriously rich background, there is no way around living poor in these years.....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:20 AM
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or sodas or juices or beer or wine or water or teas, or ice or cake or sandwhiches...... similiar like you can get a lot of "non alcoholic beverages" in all bars or nightclubs...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:16 PM
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There is a line between "right out paying for women" and being extremely stingy, you know.... Also you say "dating" I mean if you find a level headed women, with some values that finds money and lifestyle very important, and is up for having a family together, it's not necessarily the "worst thing" , this shit happens on the whole world, in other cultures it's still pretty normal...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:41 AM
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I agree, don't know what OP is talking about, I mostly have a good idea what a women would look like without makeup The described scenario never happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:32 AM
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Where does the " teating her like shit" come from ? The wohle point is that hardly any women over a certain age will accept anyone that hasn't been in a relationship already( at a certain age this evolves to "been married already"). Why " hurt" , etc. you dont hurt another person by not "telling everything about your past" Its like you cannot answer or understand the point I made, like you are incapable of understanding the logic... like a part of your brain is missing, or you cannot wrap your h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 03:46 PM
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So let's say a guy that never really had anything with a woman, starts dating one, and lies about his experience, and for that reason (that's what you are saying), the relationship fails. In the meantime the guy at least came to Hanging out multiple times Kissing, making out Maybe sex Maybe multiple times Having some fights /disagreements And whatever else So if it really doesn't work out after some time At least next time he doesn't have to lie, because he could speak about some experience (Asi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:59 PM
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I am saying, maybe it works out, maybe not, maybe some day he should "come clean", though this sounds as if he committed murder???? Maybe they will live together happily, and won't even talk all the time about it. However you see it, most guys in this situation will be better of with a lie and getting some experience than being immediately dumped again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:03 AM
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But the afterwards, even if it's only for some weeks or months, he hasn't to lie anymore (or less), because then he got the(some) experience ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:50 AM
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Me personally I cannot really do this (and I tried a couple times in my early 20s), it's not for me... But seriously if you drop your standards a lot lower it's possible and pretty easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:07 PM
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Not my point? Are you dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:26 PM
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Some médicaments, you can throw in , let's say Friday evening, and it will last till Saturday evening, so it's not that huge of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:25 PM
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Because a lot of people are just scared "if the possibility is not there". Maybe the relationship will not even last longer than 6 months to 2 years. Maybe it works out, but you won't even decide to have kids.. But in the first few weeks, or from the get go, the lack of "possibilities" might scare you off. Its all well, what you write about mens fertility, but the thing is that with a 45 year old man there's us a very high chance, you still might ghave children within 5 years or so... While a 45…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:21 PM
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No its different "subgroups" In reality the great majority of people I grew up with, are nice stable people, the couples found themselves in their 20s mostly, got married plus kids in their 30s. I know all the guys from 15/16 onwards, we did drugs, and alcohol and a lot of crazy bullshit, occasionally we go still out together, it's still a lot of fun They are all in good jobs (engeneering, lawyers, dentists,...) They care for their children, their women are mostly nice (know them since 15, too o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 06:59 AM
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Be aware (and kind of true for both men and women), that looking at pictures or videos of someone doesn't really represent an interaction in Real Life Its easy to say,looks fine not my cup of tea, but I bet a lot of people saying this, would react completely different if someone of this caliber would suddenly sit in front of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:17 PM
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Flipside, is that you create an image in your head, and finally meeting her you might not find her attractive at all, even for non - optical reasons..... I take a 1 to 2 hour date, some drinks, over wasting endless hours texting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:38 PM
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When I was younger, I met a lot of girls through smoking, you would be in a disco/club, and then go out to smoke, because you needed a pause from dancing, being sweaty etc. Was a very good opportunity always to have some smalltalk with some girls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:19 AM
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there are women that do this, if the man is much younger/attrative than anyone of her socioeconmoic class she could get
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 11:36 AM
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Yes bright eyes, and also hair not only the color also the texture, depends where exactly ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:06 AM
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she is just pissed that you didnt react the way she expected technically its not an "insult" if its true. But ofc its disrespectful behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 08:04 AM
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Yes, I am currently dating a very beautiful young woman for 3 months, and I am thinking a lot of ending it. Its not even that she is a shitty person, while there are some things I don't like, basically she is an ok person. But I just don't feel it, it's more like we see the world and life to different, and I am seeing that neither her nor me will be hapoy together in the long run. And I think that's what people are speaking about, when they say "personality" is important. I mean I won't lie, ofc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:01 PM
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Was still mostly attractive guys, she found at those places.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:23 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:21 PM
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I don't think so, I think its the same for women, that sometimes they just want the validation (after a breakup as example), and I think then good enough will do. I also once had a work colleague, that literally slept with guys from nightclubs to stay at their place, so she hadn't to bother getting back to the small village she lived in (also expensive ride) I guess you can add tons of items to the list
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 01:47 PM
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That makes a lot sense to me actually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:38 PM
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There is one other point OP is missing, if you have "fuck you money", most people will be more confident in their actions etc. This stuff doesn't exist in a vacuum, if you didn't get you money by chance overnight(lottery, speculation or the like) Your behavior will not be the same, because you know you can afford anything and don't have to care that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:41 AM
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I think just that men take alcohol, drugs and cigarettes better than women, also sun exposure. Add that men skin is thicker. So people that have a hard party lifestyle in their 20s, men can keep up their looks longer than women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:10 AM
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its not 50/50 , theres more men than women, especially ages 15 to 49 or so, if you substract all people already patnered up, the rest of % creates a huge imbalance . Also a 20 year old women could potentially date men between lets say "18 and 40" or so , while a 20 year old man could date between "17 and 25" if we are realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:37 PM
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But with OPs topic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:45 PM
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Don't take everything women say is "ass hole behavior" or "abusive" or "bad person" at face value A lot of times the guys are not really "assholes", they just don't work like the woman imagined and wanted. Its often just "he didn't give me what I wanted or needed", which might be totally legitimate reason, but doesn't make him a bad person. Also oftentimes if you hear someone has done a lot of "shitty things", the woman played her part in this, too, with her own flaws and shitty behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:41 PM
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This has always been the case, some women are like this...., just 20 years ago people would know each other, so this kind of women had to pay attention for gossip and rumors. Because the same people she knew, likely also knew the guy, so if she would exploit multiple guys people would talk bad about her. Nowadays with internet you have an endless stream
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:40 AM
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I know a guy, and his mother had a big and well known and established practice for gynecology, and he studied it and overtokk the practice together with his sister
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:25 AM
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Most men also could have Sex with women all the time, if only they could make themselves sleep with women they don't find attractive...., which surprisingly most don't want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:05 PM
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Everyone can do whatever one wants, I just told you how this would make me feel about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:56 AM
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This is pretty normal for a lot of young women, but that's not what I am talking about I am talking about women that have slept with multiple men right away in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:39 AM
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No, but its kind of strange, as if you are not attractive or sexy enough for her to want to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:05 AM
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Most of these things you mentioned only come into play after someone is initially "attracted", be it by physical attributes, money and stuff, or because something else along those lines, including the superfial parts of personality(mostly it's a combination of these things). Things like "he is a good, caring dude" etc., only come into play afterwards...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:36 AM
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Could say the same about a lot of modern women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:53 AM
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i think our economies and the whole balance of it, we will see a huge shift, and some kind of decline, i am not buying into the " collapse" everyone is expecting, but i think there will be a lot of changes..... and I am not sure that the trends you extrapolate to the future will all continue like we see atm. A lot of enterprises are already cutting down " not necessary stuff", buying cheap in asia, and selling expensive in the west works less and less, a lot of bullshitjobs wont survive. Workfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:57 AM
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Are the women you date on your socioeconomic level or lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 10:16 AM
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No its a big thing, you have no idea, tons of old and overweight or otherwise unattractive women do this, get a much younger/better looking "boyfriend" from some third world countries. Some of them are buissenes, some are tricked into "believing", intellectually they are often on the dumber side (as you would expect) Ofc sometimes it's genuine, or the guy is just pragmatic but honorable, in these case the women are often younger and ok looking themselves. There is no real difference in this betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:43 AM
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I think it's more about a certain type of women Lots of sun exposure, drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, unhealthy food And around 30 most people, it will start to strongly show, while in your 20s its not as visible. In general same for men, but on average they take all these things better than women, and the skin is thicker so it shows less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:27 PM
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Do you think it's a difference if someone plays a innocent inexperienced young girl for just having Sex with her, vs some let's say 30 year old women that already had some experiences (not saying it ok then, you know, but its kind of different)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:50 AM
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Yes ofc A rich guy in his 40s/50s, dating a much younger extremely attractive woman, spending thousands on her in gifts and trips, or buying her a car is not the same, as let's say a 30 year old guy, who just got his good career rolling (doctor, engeneer, finance or something a long those lines), has not a lot of a dating history and runs into some woman, that plays him into giving her as much stuff as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:08 AM
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I think it's more complicated, because it's not a 100% thing. Its like a spectrum from 0 (woman that gets angry if you pay for her) to cliche golddigger, and everything else between exists. But yes I think some men, knowingly run into this stuff, but I also think some are played and ignorant, especially if they don't have a lot of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:54 AM
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You wrote this a lot of times in this thread.... they cannot use sex-workers, because sex is only a small part of it They also want the illusion of having a GF that loves and cares for them, which is ofc easier if you aren't even fully aware. They also want companionship. They also likely like the status of running around with a pretty woman. Especially if it's not too obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:10 PM
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why do you have this mindset, that sex is something terrible , that you feel you are tricked into ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:18 PM
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but imagine writing weeks with someone, finding you are compatible "texting", maybe phoneing with each other, just to find its completly not your person, the "second you meet them for real" this sounds so stupid and a waste of time for me....... ​ the thing about touch barrier seems kind of strange, people just do this on first dates if they like each other, its just few people that have other needs, that dont do this... its not some strange PUA tactic its the default behaviour of people feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:55 AM
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this maybe because of more " younger men" coming into canada than younger women, and not so much older men coming in. also might be men might leave after education to other countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:48 AM
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actually most western countries have like 2 to 5% more men than women. if you filter out those who are off the market, and for age, there are a lot of brackets where this seemingly small percentage, creates a huge disproportion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:36 PM
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Like.., are you a little dumb? Men, no orgasm =no offspring Women, no orgasm =still offspring That's really simple
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:06 PM
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i think some men might get scared away, if they dont see a girl as relationship material, and only want to have sex with her, if they hear shes still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:51 PM
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men dont want to do caregiving professions mainly because "the salary is bad", if these professions would pay a lot of money they would do it. Also a question of perceived Status in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:48 PM
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Sure but men are told that "they have to make the first move anyway"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:13 PM
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i can only speak from my own experience All women that have approached me first are much more unattractive , than the women I would match on Dating apps, which again are more unattractive than women I would get to know from reallife occasions. So in my head, the problem is that women tend to shoot for guys that "are out of their leauge" if they approach first, and this leads to them believing its " the approach" but its not ..... Well cannot proove it , but my 2 cents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:12 PM
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I think you should do everything at the same time. I mean you can say " ok lets try to get in shape and loose some weight for 3 months or so" Or I will really concentrate on finding a Job right now. But overall I would not say, you should aspiere to get to some " point X", before you even try, live is not an RPG.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:35 PM
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i think you are right, and i think its the same for women ( if they are not very young ) The better they look, the more good looking dudes hit on them, the more secure they feel about themselves, so they feel their "selfesteem" and "social status" less threatend. So mostly they react nicer, if they are not vicious bitches by their personality already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:47 PM
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i agree on the flowers , but the fuck "door opening" i do this for all kinds of people... its just basic politness....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:49 AM
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There are just people making money from desperate people on the internet, thats the whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:34 PM
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ironically your post is the exact example why advice from women is so useless. you mention Asian,Punk, Country guys...... you dont mention, how much money they make, how fit they are, how their face looks etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:09 AM
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"Partner "kind of suggests, that you are in a pretty serious relationship, that's gone on for some time, and is destinied to develop further. While boyfriend/girlfriend could mean everything between" we met 2 weeks ago" and "we are living together like a married couple for years" Unfortunately not from the US, but here in Germany the term has been used frequently, as long as I remember, with a preference for like using the term "partner" more the older you get (or the people you talk about are) …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:51 AM
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Yeah sure... "we sense it" like energy running through your smartphone while browsing on dating apps???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:27 PM
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Yes I didn't dispute this, read my comment I disputed the post of the op, that thats the reason women don't pick men on dating sites
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:25 PM
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The article is speaking about women not wanting to have sex with men that are already their husband, boyfriends or maybe casual, it doesn't speak about who they pick? I wonder how you made that connection? They will reject the potential partners they don't like because they don't find them attractive, form the men they find attractive they might not want to have sex with the"right now"because they feel insecure, but they "would want to in general" That what I read in this article
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:51 PM
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i believe in the correlation but I dont think "intelligence" in itself is unattractrive. I think just the more intelligent someone is, the more he might overthink, and the more he might rule over his instincts, and this can be a disadvantage in mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:53 PM
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What does " do want" mean I guess the majority doesnt "want" it, but it happens ? Like some people dont want to date "xyz" but then live happens ? because they just get to know someone ( like at workplace, party or wahtever social situation) And then there is a minority who actively seeks this kind of relationships, because they think it will solve their (mostly financial) problems or just for fun, becaue most younger guys cant blow a few thousand on some vacation as example.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:46 PM
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It's not only you, same thing happens to me. I get an OK amount of matches and likes on tinder, but bumble nothing, the few likes are always far away, or I just don't like the profiles. Profiles are basically the same, I can only assume it's either the algorithm or the crowd is different?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:09 AM
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If you are a guy, you just know it's bullshit, because the most misogynistic stuff is always told by the guys that get laid a lot, and are married, while the guys that hardly ever get laid and where with few women are mostly not doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:03 PM
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Yes that's the problem..... People here write always as if "the bad old men" are searching for the "innocent" young women.... In reality, I put my filters on dating apps to 25 min, and I would be happy to find someone like 28 to 38 or so, there aren't that many( attractive ones) where I live. I once purchased tinder gold, I had like 30 likes from pretty attractive 22 to 24 year old girls, I decided they probably only want money, so I didn't go into that, but I can totally see someone just taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:42 AM
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Men would also have long hair, if they won't cut it If all men had long hair, women would like the ones with more healthy looking hair better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:43 PM
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You are wrong Long (good looking) hair, like to the waist as example, means that you have been healthy for a very long time. It's an indicator for fitness. Otherwise I think there is some kind of conditioning happening, but it might also be that less body hair is an indicator for youth, because at age 16 to 20 you are basically grown up, but hair is less than when you are older, and it gets more and more the older you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:38 PM
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It's my experience, the women directly making a first move on me, have mostly been a lot less attractive then what I am used, too. I am not counting shooting glances, or saying hi enthusiastically if you already know eech other and all the other deniable stuff women tend to do. It makes sense also, the more attractive they are, the more guys will come on to the anyway, so less need for exposing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:23 PM
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6.its not that, it's that women almost always shoot out of their league if they decide to approach men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:04 AM
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Getting money and getting fit will improve your live regardless of women and you can work on both of these things even if you are alone. You cannot work on some "boohoo" stuff, that often just "halo effect" Goof communication and having a feeling/understanding or your partners needs and wants surely it's important, I also give it to you that there are some guys that don't look like much, but can get women because they just make them feel that way and have a lot of charisma. (but even these guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:10 AM
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I know almost noone in RL (and I really know a lot of people), that met their partner through a hobby, almost everyone just met from school, university, hanging out with social circle, going to parties (private/clubs). I know only very few that have a lot of hobbies to do together, some have decided together to start an activity, but mostly it's only going out for diner and vacations or social gatherings (marriages, birthday parties and stuff). Some are into their pets together. Also the majorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:57 PM
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I also feel uncomfortable by a woman that I am clearly not attracted to at all hitting on me, touching me or throwing hints at me, more so if it's in a situation I can't easily escape from? And now imagine you were physically weaker? Ofc I will then try to play dumb, or be diplomatic to get out of this situation, but some people are just not getting the cues or don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:28 PM
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I think that's a phrase for people with average relationship history, when they might be single for 6 months up to 2 years maybe. It's not for people that never had a relationship till they are 25 at worst, or are years without partner or at least some action
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 09:36 PM
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I doubt many men will still marry and throw ressources at women that are older than 40, maybe some extremely attractive ones can make it run in their 40s still, but at 50 it's pretty much end of the line. They might get sex still, and older men (like 60s)might still be interested but that's it. Only because their may be outliers, doesn't mean that it's a general tendency.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:13 PM
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I think what's really happening is that if women are insecure about their "value" and they get approached by a man or just feel he is interested in them, and they feel he is of very "low value", they feel very bad about themselves and it feeds their inseccurities about themselves and how others perceive them, so they try to shut it down aggressively. I think that's also so reason why very beautiful women are less harsh in these situation than more average looking ones
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 10:26 PM
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I think it's 5hat the last 50 years or so it has been pushed "how men have to change", but outside of "get an education and a good job,l" there has not been a push for women to change, too in many ways.... Because hypocrisy in the sense as the lead figures don't want to sell unpopular ideas to their audience
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:56 PM
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It's comically true:I think I really read something like"soldiers dying in Ukraine war, women most affected"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:32 AM
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