B0ulder82 Archive

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3	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive Without getting into the other issues, just regarding a specific portion of this, the way I see it, I don't think the reference point is other men. I think the reference point is a hypothetical ideal where a person (regardless of extra details like sex/gender) treats another person with some expected level of decency. I think you might have got yourself stuck down a strange line of logic involving gender/sex. But I also hear you on the other issues. At least some of it seem to me like some women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 10:05 AM
3	The phenomena of single women dating married men If we assume that this "more attracted" part is significant enough, then I am surprised that there isn't an industry of women offering to be a temporary wife as a paid professional service that helps single men attract more women based on this phenomenon. Or is this not as significant of an effect as it seems? Or maybe such services already exists and I'm unaware of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 04:36 PM
1	Is it true that most people cannot lower their standards biologically? You can decide to keep your standards at what you are actually attracted to, or consciously lower them to where you feel much less attraction, in favor of the promise of potential for companionship and whatever else, but you cant change how your current preferences make you feel attraction wise. However, your preferences are a little bit steerable if you know how, because they do respond to experiences and your environment. Things like watching porn, or even indulging in a lot of exceptionally p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 08:18 AM
3	Do women consider guys with a missing penis to not be of marriage and relationship material? Here, maybe I can help. A vagina is a vagina hole, but next to vagina hole is a pee hole. Now imagine a man with a penis. Imagine surgically cutting off the penis without constructing a new vagina or anything. Just plain simple cutting off a penis right at the base, so that there is just the pee hole of the penis left. Apparently this person was born with just a pee hole like that due to a birth defect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 04:33 AM
3	Men need to be less emotional and touch their masculine side. I think the message is to touch that masculine side. Just touch it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/24 04:00 AM
–	Most guys are godawful at flirting and their success isn’t reflective of their skill level Yeah it's got very little to do with actual flirting skill, but you do need to be able to detect and judge whether a woman is already interested in you. If she is, then you just need to do something that even barely counts as flirting, and her already-existing attraction for you will do the work for you, assuming she is not obtuse about recognising your attempt either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 01:01 PM
1	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. I don't find it unbelievable at all. I agree with you, so I don't understand what you're disagreeing with in my comment. I wasn't being sarcastic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 10:43 PM
7	Women are extremely selective and that's okay. The population ratio of men:women stays very close to 50:50. There may be fluctuations within any subgroup, how ever you want to categorise them, but the overall ratio always stays very close to 50:50. If there is a subgroup with too many men in it, there would have to be at least one other subgroup with too many women in it, in order to result in the overall 50:50 ratio. Keep that in mind when thinking about the type of claims you are making. If most of the current men are below acceptable stan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 03:50 PM
1	Why do (some) men believe women cheating is “worse”? It's the hardwired instincts that we have developed from before technology, that governs how we react to these things. Humans evolution haven't had time to catch up to the the new reality created by technology. Existence of paternity tests logically should solve the paternity concern, but unfortunately our instincts are stuck at still object very strongly. A man will need a lot of will power and control over his own instincts to be able to logic his way down the paternity test path. Some few rar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 03:26 AM
1	Do red pill podcasts need to bring on average guys? I think you're missing a point. They are not advocating for average men to get women. They are making the assumption that most (all?) women want the top 1% type of guy, then goes on to advice average men on how to become that 1% with their foundation belief being against the state of being an average man. They sell the idea that all average men have the potential to get into the top 1%, and that they should because there is no hope for those who remain average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 02:58 PM
3	Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old men To add to what you're saying, the usefulness of a social circle in regards to finding dates, relies on those circles containing both men and women. If a lot of men are not in social circles, then in general, wouldn't a lot of social circles be lacking male members? So even if a woman has a social circle, it's only as good as how many desirable men are reachable via that circle. Unless it comes back to the issue of a small percentage of most desirable men being shared across all social circles?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 01:32 PM
1	How are men expected to meet women in today’s world? I'm not sure that "unable to meet women" is the problem. I'm thinking that if there were women who would be happy to give you a chance, looking for the likes of you to meet and pick from, then it's a matter of figuring out the practical logistics of making the meet happen. Something has caused this situation we have now, where there's a huge gap between what most men offer vs what most women has set as their dealbreaker-minimum-requirement. Men are not having a hard time figuring out how to meet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 11:40 PM