BAMFoftheNorth Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	LADIES: Has the way a guy hugged you ever been good enough to make you look at him as a prospect? I’m convinced there are good ways to hug a girl and their are normal ways.	Escalation & Calibration	BAMFoftheNorth	/r/seduction	23/07/20 07:03 PM

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1	How to stop chase women and start making her chase me? Absolutely. Women will even pass judgements on extra attractive men and say they look like they would be too obsessed with themselves and give a more honest chance to a more average looking man who looks like he has his life together. Doesn’t happen always but it happens more than you’d think. It’s an easy misunderstanding to blame a rejection on your looks. But in reality there are less attractive men than you that check the 4 points I named above that are being chased by the women you’re being…	/r/seduction	15/02/21 08:47 PM
1	How to stop chase women and start making her chase me? You’re far from old. And how people view themselves is a huge indicator to how they act without even thinking. If they view themselves as unremarkable, then they will act unremarkable. And when they truly view themselves as resilient and committed to achieving greater thing, then they act like they are resilient and committed to achieving greater things. I would STRONGLY recommend you listen to a few Peter Crone podcasts. He’s a guest on a number of podcasts and has an Instagram page as well wit…	/r/seduction	15/02/21 08:14 PM
6	How to stop chase women and start making her chase me? Not possible. Everyone has something to offer. They either have the potential or the experience to offer. I just looked at your posts and see that you definitely have a lot to offer. You have so much experience in your life. So many people are having a hard time just like you have. Struggle creates strength and just for starters you have that. That doesn’t even begin to cover how passionate you are about not giving in when life hits you. You’ve kept trying to improve your life even though you’re…	/r/seduction	15/02/21 10:55 AM
52	How to stop chase women and start making her chase me? Several things to say about this question that literally anyone could majorly benefit from. Spoken from experience with myself and helping others with relationships. 1. People say “be handsome” as a joke, but there is a lot a naturally mediocre or underwhelmingly attractive man can do to make himself more attractive. Having a healthy diet and exercising regularly can have a huge impact on health, energy, and most importantly self-confidence. Personal hygiene is a big one that is majorly overlook…	/r/seduction	15/02/21 02:30 AM
2	Please don’t approach girls who are alone, especially without people around. I know. You’re clearly not getting what I said. Being killed is by far worse.	/r/seduction	25/07/20 05:27 PM
0	Please don’t approach girls who are alone, especially without people around. Oof. Ya if you knew me you wouldn’t be saying that but I don’t blame you after the first impression I just gave. That wasn’t a very effective/helpful comment on my part. My point(that I should have made clearer) is that men are terrified of being exposed as inadequate. And when that fear become reality it pushes them to a whole manner of coping mechanisms that are both self destructive and destructive to those around them. As a man, I’m not saying I’d rather be a woman. I’m saying being afraid o…	/r/seduction	25/07/20 03:14 AM
1	Please don’t approach girls who are alone, especially without people around. One happens WAY more than the other	/r/seduction	24/07/20 11:43 PM
2	NSFW Problem (pls help) Just blame it on whiskey dick. It’s harder to get hard and get off when you have a lot of alcohol in you. Laugh it off and just continue to focus on forplay. Women don’t seem to mind when I have issues as long as I accept that I’m not hard yet and keep at the forplay for a bit then they don’t care. As long as I don’t get embarrassed and act wounded I’ve never had a girl complain about getting head instead of sex. And after, like clockwork, she will be ready to do whatever to make sure you get of…	/r/seduction	23/07/20 11:04 PM
1	LADIES: Has the way a guy hugged you ever been good enough to make you look at him as a prospect? I’m convinced there are good ways to hug a girl and their are normal ways. Lol for real?	/r/seduction	23/07/20 08:28 PM
1	(M21) Meeting a girl for the first time Wednesday Thanks!	/r/seduction	07/07/20 03:25 AM
1	29M social awkward but want to chat up girls/women Not in this case. Maybe the shoes. Maybe whatever she’s looking at purchasing. A store joke might look like “there must be 36 different peanut butters to choose from here. You look like you know what your doing though maybe I should just get what you get. You’re dressed like your ready to fight someone if they get in your way. I respect that. Damn, you are pulling it off though so don’t listen to me.” Then if you haven’t drummed up a positive response from her in that whole time then take the hi…	/r/seduction	07/07/20 03:24 AM
2	(M21) Meeting a girl for the first time Wednesday Clean your house. Girls care about that. Clean yourself. Don’t think too much. Just be excited to meet her. Smile at her when she shows up. Listen to what she says and watch how she says it. Then respond. If you do all these things you’ll be in great shape.	/r/seduction	07/07/20 03:17 AM
6	What are some good I want to fuck you jokes? Are you from Tennessee? Because I wanna fuck you	/r/seduction	07/07/20 03:11 AM
1	29M social awkward but want to chat up girls/women That’s not bad at all. I don’t think you’re awkward. But I stand by what I said about coming in too strong. Commenting on something they are doing/wearing/saying is almost always better than the straightforward compliment on your attraction to them.	/r/seduction	07/07/20 03:09 AM
1	29M social awkward but want to chat up girls/women What did you say to her?	/r/seduction	07/07/20 02:47 AM
1	29M social awkward but want to chat up girls/women Sounds like you did what you had too. No harm no foul. And I know on occasion women like to show up like that just so they can get the confidence boost of having every guy in the gym they can get to come take a shot at her	/r/seduction	07/07/20 02:43 AM
1	29M social awkward but want to chat up girls/women Honestly it sounds like you just struck out. No shame in it. Just better luck next time. Approaching women at the gym is hard so don’t take it too personally. Also, don’t lead with your best compliment. It shows all your cards and leaves her with all of them in her hand. Better to just comment on something she’s wearing that you can relate to. “I like your nashville shirt. Have you been to Nashville? I love it there, but I’ve only been once.” That shows you can have a conversation and even bette…	/r/seduction	07/07/20 02:31 AM
2	How would you like to be propositioned by a woman? Exactly. I learned years ago, as I’m sure you’d agree, that affection won is far better than affection given freely when it comes to sex. That plays a huge role in seduction. So give them affection, but find a way to allow them to earn it from you and you might be able to have more success where it really counts. If you want sex, then you can find sex. But creating the excitement and spontaneous connection is a bit harder and worth it if you are able to learn.	/r/seduction	07/07/20 01:02 AM
3	How would you like to be propositioned by a woman? It depends on who the guy is. Some guys will respond well to “hey you’re cute, give me your number” which is a strong opener for someone who appreciates that(I’m in that group). Others might find that intimidating or make you look easy. However, as far as I can tell, you’re looking for guys who aren’t intimidated by that and run with it all the way back to your apartment. So id say go with the direct approach. But. If you really want to get with a guy who you get the feeling doesn’t want to be t…	/r/seduction	07/07/20 12:15 AM