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845 comments For what it's worth, I think you are; I'm in a similar boat. I was alone, but never lonely, while single, and now see it as a benefit to be with someone who I actually really like, have fun with, and respect as a person, with the added bonus of finding her super hot and having great sex with her. The transactional view always leaves one calculating the gives and takes and viewing the relationship with suspicion. Personally speaking, there are times when I give more and times when sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:32 PM
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Sounds like you may have some deeper issues than just love, my guy. Did you recently have a heartbreak? Don't be too worried about the results - focus more on the process. You'll find you will be happier and leading a more fulfilling life when youi realise that the outcomes are generally completely out of your control, whereas the inputs (your attitude, your perceptions, your values, your interactions) are what truly rest with you. You can accept that love is like that by realising that fairy ta…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:20 PM
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We had a terrorist attack in my city and I messaged virtually everyone I know to see if they were safe. EDIT: For context: All I asked was if she was ok and I was fine leaving it at that. She messaged me later starting a conversation
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:09 AM
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smash. She suggested a park close to hers, however, when we dated she was always suggestign places so I feel like going for a place close to mine instead and chanign the dynamic. thouhgs?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 12:15 AM
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Thanks for the thoughtful response. I didn’t pay for the meal, since we’re not dating anymore and I don’t generally pay for friends meals. But your comments are spot on. I’ll ignore her from here on out
/r/askTRP02/03/20 01:02 PM
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If that were the case, I’d know where the issue would be, since I’m not a complete moron. She replied every time, except the last one was a week after and the one she didn’t reply to was the birthday message, which I sent out of courtesy
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:20 PM
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Dude, asking her to hurt herself for you is majorly effed up. Redpill is great, but what’s often glossed over is that being confident in yourself, true to your intentions/mission and thus becoming “alpha” is an honorable path. Do the honorable thing here
/r/askTRP01/03/20 03:52 PM
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Good advice. Why "Truly a mystery"?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:11 AM
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Thanks for the advice. ​ I haven't contacted her or messaged her from my side either. How do I go about potentially seeing her tomorrow though?
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:26 AM
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Think about it: what good will it do, at this point, to meet her if your heart isn't into it? She wants closure because she's confused and tried to keep you with sex- and its kind of working. She now feels as if you owe it to her. Ask yourself: what closure can you give her? As far as I see it you have 2 options: 1) You meet with her, try your best to be Kind to her but be aware you may either hurt her or make the breakup more complicated/blurry in the process 2) Be honest and say something alon…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 12:49 PM
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Hey brother, seems like last night was a Rough one for both of us - i broke up with my gf as well after 1.5 years and it was also on good Terms (although we didnt have sex). ​ While I'm technically single, I'm using the next few weeks to deal with the breakup in a healthy way without getting distracted by pussy in the meantime. Sure, it may be a quick and easy form of Validation, but if you cared About this Girl then you're gonna want to process the rollercoaster of a breakup in a healthy way th…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 12:09 PM
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Possibly. How to deal with it is my concern...
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:34 PM
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Yes, but her mom is very conservative and would not accept her hoing out while mum sleeps alone. If there is one thing I’m certain of, it’s that she didn’t cheat while on vacay
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:33 PM
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She went with her mom and they stayed in the same rooms the entire time. I know this to be true
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:30 PM
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Her mom is super conservative and I have photos of them together on their vacation. Maybe she did get validation, who knows. What I’m looking for is a way to handle this
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 11:29 AM
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She went on holidays with her mom, so I agree with most other points except for infidelity.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 11:20 AM
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Thing is I don’t have the feeling she cheated or that kind of stuff. I think she is going through a crisis and a “what decisions have I made” phase. Now I’m trying to weather the storm, my concern is how much I engage with it and how to handle it
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 09:55 AM
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Thanks for the real talk man. Appreciate it. By support it’s more like following: She keeps telling me she’s scared of losing me etc, I just tell her to stop overthinking because it only ruins the present. But I think you’re correct, I need to start focusing on myself more. I’m not a fan of dread game, but perhaps it’s time..
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 09:52 AM
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No need for the /s. Constructive advice would be more appreciated
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 09:12 AM
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Damn, really appreciate the advice. I get what you’re saying: to more or less power out and say that I’m in the relationship, but not if she’s gonna yo-yo back and forth on it. I personally think this is still part of a greater crisis, since she’s also torn on career etc. Still, there is merit in what you said. I’m gonna give it some time and focus on myself, and if it keeps on going then I’ll on-board your advice. Thanks bro!
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 09:12 AM
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