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| 6 | What are you supposed to do when random women give you a look and smile in passing at public places?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_9gFT1mEfZ8 | /r/seduction | 01/10/16 07:15 AM |
| 2 | How To Start A Conversation With A Stranger When You Don't Know What To Say (And Why You SHOULD Talk To Strangers) [x-post from /r/HowToNotGiveAFuck]The cards have some value for the type of person that goes blank in this situation. Mostly because they act as a trigger so that you remember what you are supposed to be doing when talking to strangers. | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 05:22 PM |
| 15 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)Thank fuck for some proper PUA again rather than this whiny shit we have been seeing lately. | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 03:32 PM |
| 2 | More often than not women pick men up[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 07:35 PM |
| 2 | More often than not women pick men up[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 07:35 PM |
| 9 | More often than not women pick men up[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 09:41 AM |
| 1 | 1st date in 3 week's time[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Trouble with cockblocker friends.[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 12:58 PM |
| 1 | 1st date in 3 week's time[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you ever get rejected for physical escalation by a girl even though she's into you? Why does it happen?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls attracted to guys who can be quite rude and disrespectful (jerks basically)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Still can't maintain eye contact[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls attracted to guys who can be quite rude and disrespectful (jerks basically)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls attracted to guys who can be quite rude and disrespectful (jerks basically)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Why are girls attracted to guys who can be quite rude and disrespectful (jerks basically)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 11:20 AM |
| 3 | Why are girls attracted to guys who can be quite rude and disrespectful (jerks basically)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 09:45 AM |
| 5 | Why are girls attracted to guys who can be quite rude and disrespectful (jerks basically)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Is the whole "looks don't matter" mantra bullshit?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 25/08/16 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Being rich can be a problem! How do I explain a complicated career and significant wealth?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 09:06 AM |
| 2 | How would ask a girl to dance with me without being abrasive in a sense[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Being rich can be a problem! How do I explain a complicated career and significant wealth?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice On how to make this chick my fuckbuddy[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 20/08/16 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Advice on fun?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 20/08/16 03:53 PM |
| 28 | Being rich can be a problem! How do I explain a complicated career and significant wealth?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 20/08/16 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Help on gaming without a car while living in a city that hates non drivers?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 08:57 AM |
| 1 | I'm afraid of alienating or weirding people out when the topic of music comes up[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls on tinder do this?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 12:12 PM |
| 1 | "Can you hold my bag?"[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are great pickup tips for a girl, (looking for guys and girls to answer)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 03/07/16 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are great pickup tips for a girl, (looking for guys and girls to answer)?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Should I sleep with someone I'm not particularly attracted to?[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 28/06/16 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Neill Strauss expertly negs Jessica Alba after being challenged to run game on her. Nobody notices. (3.58)[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 12:59 PM |
| 7 | Neill Strauss expertly negs Jessica Alba after being challenged to run game on her. Nobody notices. (3.58)[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 12:58 PM |
| 14 | Neill Strauss expertly negs Jessica Alba after being challenged to run game on her. Nobody notices. (3.58)[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 12:43 AM |
| 9 | Does a intellectual, zen-like and collected personality work?"smartest person I know" | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 10:49 PM |
| 14 | When to Kiss a Girl (Don't Make This Common Mistake)Really good article. Shit this explains so much lol. | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 05:13 PM |
| 1 | What Is Your Attractive Personality Type? Awesome online test with detailed results PDF.I really felt like very few of those questions had answers that I identify with. | /r/seduction | 25/05/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I change this deep rooted mindset that I am weird?Think of all the successful people you can, how many of them are weird? Probably the vast majority. | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with the "fat girl" dilemma?I think this is really a personal call. It is probably better for your image to not hook up with the fat girls, but it might improve your game in other areas. Personally when I first was learning about pick up I slept with a fat girl to end a dry spell of over a year, and it was fun and she was cool and it gave me the confidence that really helped me up my game either. So for me it worked, but like I say it is a personal choice. | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 07:20 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First night out! SUCCESSI tell her she is making me super horny and what-not. I continue grinding on her. She tells me at-least 100x she has a boyfriend and tries to pull away. I grab her like a ragdoll and force her on my dick. She continues to grind with her soft skirt and I can feel my dick grinding between her ass-cheeks. This is going great, I look to my left and my brother has his hands on his side and the girl is grinding. I tell him to be rough and force her. My girl loves it rough. I grab her by the neck and s… | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 10:35 AM |
| 2 | How to handle girls that flake on their own plans to hang out???10 minutes was a number I chose because it wouldn't be a big deal if I lost 10 minutes, say a friend of mine was 10 minutes late I wouldn't care whereas 15 minutes would irritate me. Whether its 10 minutes or 20 isn't particularly a big deal as long as its a trivial amount of time. Personally I would balk at 30 minutes but then the longest one way trip I take regularly is 40 minutes and I have never lived in a city like LA. What I would say is assuming you don't live in the going out area of LA … | /r/seduction | 21/05/16 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Virginity wielded as a baton to beat my psyche[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 21/05/16 12:25 PM |
| 19 | How to handle girls that flake on their own plans to hang out???This is harsh but you are their back up plan. Once they get a better offer they cancel on you. Back off, they will probably try to arrange something new but don't agree unless it would be very little effort for you, like the coffee shop at the corner of your road. Seriously if you can't get to wherever they want to meet in 10 minutes or less don't agree to go. If they are actually interested, which I don't think they are, then they will show up. If they don't show up then stop talking to them be… | /r/seduction | 21/05/16 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Tinder: She says she's looking for people to chat and hang out with in her description...do you think that mean just friends or what?I think it means pretty much nothing, and indicates that shes not particularly imaginative, adventurous, or social. As for your trip. Explain to her you will be busy and won't be able to message her much. Do you have snapchat? Try to get her to add you on snapchat and then send her plenty of pictures that DHV from your trip. | /r/seduction | 21/05/16 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I develop social charm, quick witted, and funny around girls?Its like training for anything, practising aimlessly won't get you anywhere first. But if you have a clear goal for a practise 'session' and you evaluate your performance afterwards and then adjust what you're doing you will make progress quickly. I don't know how many face to face conversations you have in an average day, but perhaps you say you will have 5 face to face conversations tomorrow and you will do an 'agree and amplify' in each conversation. That could be your goal and at the end of … | /r/seduction | 21/05/16 08:44 AM |
| 1 | How does game differ for girls talking to other girls? (Tinder)I'm sure there are differences but I think if she just read some of the stuff on here it would help her a lot. | /r/seduction | 21/05/16 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Text Game and When She Texts A Lot?I think its because often texts get awkward and people run out of things to say, and then the date will be awkward. | /r/seduction | 21/05/16 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Currently considering quitting nightgameI don't know what you expect, very rarely are girls out on their own looking solely to pull. Generally people go out in groups of friends and since girls don't typically have to approach it isn't at all obvious whether they are looking to pull or not. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 02:13 PM |
| 2 | What do you answer when a date aske you why you and your ex broke up?I don't see what's wrong with coming off as a guy who dumps people. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 02:09 PM |
| 2 | I am so unhappy with myself. I pretend to be confident but it's not real. I get attached to every girl and ruin it. Please help me seddit.Whats experiencing life mean to you? That could mean a lot of things? | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 08:44 AM |
| 2 | I am so unhappy with myself. I pretend to be confident but it's not real. I get attached to every girl and ruin it. Please help me seddit.If you had no responsibillities or ties in the world, you never had to worry about money again, you could do anything you liked, what would you spend your time doing? | /r/seduction | 18/05/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How To Stand Out On Tinder And Get Actual DatesThanks you have been a good sounding board. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How To Stand Out On Tinder And Get Actual DatesBut you have time to fuck about on reddit? Dating takes time. Either start doing it or stop daydreaming about it. Fair comment, I don't really have time to fuck about on reddit either but I procrastinate every now and then. Going into town to get a haircut and take pictures is a bit different. privacy so that only you can see them. Ok cool social skills are weak, you need to build them. mostly a joke, but there is definitely room for improvement. edit: while mostly a joke and my social skills ar… | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Lifestyle choices of a seducerOne that results in power and status, whether that is derived from fame or money. Hint, to get to this point you are probably going to get rich as well and you also need to be good looking(ish). Pick something that you can do better than anyone else and do it. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How To Stand Out On Tinder And Get Actual DatesJust got out of an LTR, at the moment I'm revising for exams and sat at home all day but I really want to start talking to girls again (basically to help me get over my relationship). However I also don't have any decent pictures of myself and don't really have time to fuck about building a tinder profile. Seeing as I can't really go out should I use tinder? Or wait until exams are over and I can put together a decent profile? The thing about girls matching with everyone for validation is someth… | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Social proofing, social proofing, social proofing + a tip for introverts[deleted] What is this? | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Social proofing, social proofing, social proofing + a tip for introvertsIts odd because I was actually thinking of going to the doctors to see if I had ADHD. If I don't have it I definitely have a lot of the traits associated with it such as need of stimulus, bad concentration on social signals, procrastination, addictive tendencies, and unreliabillity due to a lack of abillity to judge the passage of time. However I have a strong social network, not the largest or coolest group but a decent sized group of good friends, and within that group I have considerable stat… | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Social proofing, social proofing, social proofing + a tip for introvertsThere are plenty of guys that aren't academic or intellectual that get girls, to the point I would say that whether you are academic or intellectual doesn't matter. As for the other stuff elaborate, I don't see how being autistic and ADD prevents you from having independence or status or a social network. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 08:41 AM |
| 2 | [ArousalScience] Observations on Tinder through the eyes of an attractive female. 4 types of profile pictures that will end with you getting rejected.Your username is hilarious in that context :P | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Are they nervous around me or am I just and asshole?this might be one of the few times it would be worth asking some female friends, ask what their first impressions were when seeing him or something | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 09:21 PM |
| 27 | Do you guys ask the girl if she has any STD's before sex?Wear a condom. No don't ask that. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 10:04 AM |
| 8 | Building Up A Sexual Vibe- the key to getting places (and by places I mean in her pants)Dat username doe | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Building Up A Sexual Vibe- the key to getting places (and by places I mean in her pants)It helps a bit but isn't the 'magic pill' that a lot of people sell it as (in my opinion), in terms of state music is much more useful. | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 04:53 PM |
| 7 | Building Up A Sexual Vibe- the key to getting places (and by places I mean in her pants)women love it when you compliment their shoes Everyone loves it when you compliment their shoes. | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 04:51 PM |
| 10 | Building Up A Sexual Vibe- the key to getting places (and by places I mean in her pants). | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 04:50 PM |
| 0 | [Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this.She was bad looking enough that I wouldn't be proud to be seen with her, but not so bad as I regret doing it or couldn't enjoy myself. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 09:43 AM |
| 2 | [Rant] Someone once told me that starting off F closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. All I feel is regret after trying this.Ugh. If you wouldn't want your friends to see you with her, then find ANY excuse next time to call it off. Better yet, just be direct and say it's not going to work for you. You can bet that some girls are willing to do this. We have to be okay with it too. I agreed with everything apart from this, I have slept with a girl that I wouldn't particularly want to be seen with in public but I don't regret it, she wasn't that bad looking and the sex was good. | /r/seduction | 28/09/14 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Recorded my moans and plan to have him hear it in public out of the blue?This isn't really seduction. Also you probably shouldn't be asking guys for advice on seducing guys (the whole getting a fish to teach you how to fish thing). But to answer your question I would enjoy this, although I can see how it would throw some guys. Presumably he's listening through headphones? Out loud in public it would just be hella awkward. Hope this helped somewhat though. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Before I go out, I want to explain something super basic that I see almost everyone here screw up.Can we have the video please? | /r/seduction | 02/02/14 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Proper way to SnapchatMy advice was use snapchat how its intended to be used; photograph and caption what you are doing. This obviously means you have to be doing something interesting but then you should be anyway. And snapchat serves as a fun easy way to show off your interesting-ness/individuality without it seeming showy. Too many people snap their own face and write a whole text message in the caption box. Don't do this. Take a photo of what you are doing in that moment in time, ideally the picture should need n… | /r/seduction | 28/12/13 10:01 PM |
| 2 | "No More Mr. Nice Guy" vs "How to Win Friends and Influence People", two books often recommended on here. Has anyone else read these, and sees contradictions in following both of their advice at the same time?I would suggest that you focus on your inner game for now, and see if you're still disinterested in these conversations when you have made more progress with your inner game. Despite being a massive introvert who liked to spend a lot of time on my own once I realised the chess match that is social interactions I became genuinely interested in having these seemingly empty conversations. Ninja edit: replace 'seemingly empty' with 'seemingly superficial' | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 12:11 PM |
| 6 | A Beginners Guide for What to SayMy and a friend play the girl game. Basically we take it in turns to pick a girl and an opening line and then the other person has to go up to that girl and open her with that line or be labeled a pussy forever until next time we play. | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Using money to boost attractionBuy a gym membership, pay for lessons in something you want to learn (for me boxing, art and violin), buy clothes made from nice fabric that fit you well and have unobtrusive branding. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 12:22 AM |
| 7 | What The Fuck Is Happening To Me?I think the point was that OP is defining himself by what he isn't doing, rather than what he is. Its cool if he doesn't smoke pot anymore but thats not interesting. The entire post should have started with what he has been doing. | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 01:50 PM |
| 0 | I am ashamed of seduction (or rather, myself as a seducer)"I wake everyday and am overwhelmed, Just to be alive and be like no one else, And the sheer weight of the thought of space, Is enough to keep my little ego in place," | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 01:40 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with someone trying to lower your value?I think the key phrase in here is keep your calm, the quickest way to make an agressive person look ridiculous is to remain calm. | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 01:26 PM |
| 3 | First night trying this out...total depression.As others have said it is all about perception, did you achieve something or nothing? The answer is something. Are you going to go out again? Yes, are you going to improve every time you go out? No sometimes you won't be in the right frame of mind or events will go against you. Will you still learn valuable lessons from those occasions? Yes. Will you improve linearly with respect to time? At least, maybe exponentially, it depends on the effort you put in (like everything in life from sport to ac… | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 01:23 PM |
| 8 | Why women give bad dating adviceMost woman I know don't take well to that response. | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 12:19 AM |
| 11 | To shy or scared, or don't know how to escelate to a kiss? Try this.Her comment floored me, I expected all girls to appreciate that kissing a girl is more difficult than wanting to. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 12:16 PM |
| 5 | For the intermediates: get good at sex.. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 09:35 PM |
| 4 | What are some attractive traits that would not typically be considered "alpha male"?So then all of the others are no longer alpha? I find girls are quite often attracted to guys who let others make unimportant decisions and sit there not giving a fuck. | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 12:06 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readI know lots of girls that do, they just hide it to spare themselves judgement, this is where offering deniability (e.g. Do you want to come and watch a movie?) is vital. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 06:46 PM |
| 11 | A clear-cut summary of one anon's transformation, what women are like, and tips for outer and inner game.I disagree with u/worstluckever but to be fair he is presenting an argument and offering as much evidence as most do in the sub-reddit, personal experience, shouldn't be downvoting him for that. I also disagree with anon but he raised quality points which teach something. Disagreeing with someone is not the same as them being wrong. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 10:11 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Boy meets girl, 30 minutes later boy and girl leave the club for his apartmentIsn't that what an FR is basically? | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 12:00 AM |
| 4 | What is the best European city for an American to hookup with both locals and tourists?The UK is not at all class based anymore, also London is far more racially diverse than most European cities. Less than 50% of the population are whit British and it has large Indian, Pakistani and Sri Lankan populations. EDIT: Although I should say that London is ridiculously expensive in terms of nightlife. Any of the other big British cities would be a better choice. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 11:32 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Boxing Day clubbing, bow ties, boobs behind the bar (3 x K-Closes, 2 x#-close including the barmaid)Fucking hell you are my hero. | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I'm 28 and just broke up with my live-in girlfriend of 4 years. Where do I start?IE don't just sit at home. This is the best advice, I came out of a 3 year relationship a while ago and turned to a lot of negative things, stayed in a lot, stopped working, stopped playing sport, stopped socializing, and it did me more harm than the actual break up. Go out more, during the day as well as the night, take up new hobbies and keep your old ones, re-connect with old friends. Really try to rediscover yourself. And I would stay off alcohol (as much as possible.) | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Peacocking- does anyone actually do it?I'm relatively new to this but here are some of my observations (PUA's correct me if I'm wrong) I've noticed than whenever I wear hats I tend to get attention for it, girls will often playfully take it off my head and try to wear it which opens up all sorts of opportunities. Once I noticed this I started wearing brighter hats and they work even better, basically it makes me a) stand out and b) gives them a way to interact with me. These are just standard new era hats ('cos thats the kinda cultur… | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 07:27 PM |
| 2 | The girls I like are just not interested in meYou have got to project confidence and that you have value, --even-- especially if you don't believe it yourself. You have to convince your friends to build up social capital and this will build your confidence to the point where you no longer need to try to project it. Once your social group respects you and you seem alpha to people outside your social group it should become a lot easier. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 04:41 PM |
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