BHJK998 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Dealing with unwanted attention	BHJK998	/r/seduction	19/12/18 11:51 PM
3	Cold approaches today	BHJK998	/r/seduction	02/06/20 08:51 PM
3	Have you been banned from a bar for constantly approaching women?	BHJK998	/r/seduction	21/12/18 01:47 PM
1	How to get a girl on a date after coming across a bit needy	BHJK998	/r/seduction	05/02/19 02:03 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to get a girl on a date after coming across a bit needy Waited 5 weeks	/r/seduction	05/02/19 03:18 AM
1	Have you been banned from a bar for constantly approaching women? It is a small bar with a familier vibe. I was alone and overwhelmed by what happened and just shared with him. I admit it wasn't the best move.	/r/seduction	21/12/18 08:31 PM
1	Have you been banned from a bar for constantly approaching women? Thanks for your insights on this, much appreciated! I just added a note to my first message, because it seems it gave a bit of wrong impression about my interactions.	/r/seduction	21/12/18 07:07 PM
1	Have you been banned from a bar for constantly approaching women? Great point!	/r/seduction	21/12/18 06:22 PM
3	Have you been banned from a bar for constantly approaching women? Great to hear that perspective from the owner/bar tender angle. A good reminder that nothing is personal. PS There was no annoyance what so ever. All fun and normal discussions. Half of the time the girls would start the conversation.	/r/seduction	21/12/18 06:18 PM
1	Dealing with unwanted attention Thanks :) Wish you were my wing-men ha! Happy holidays!	/r/seduction	21/12/18 01:54 PM
1	Dealing with unwanted attention This is really good words of advice. Thank you, Funkimonkey. BTW I tried to give award but reddit doesn't want to have my Paypal somehow. How about someone that enjoys coming up to the conversation and teasing me in front of her by saying out loud, again, hitting on girls? This discredits me right away in her eyes as a player an not authentic. It has happen only once but it's a local bar idiot who i feel may do it again and it holds me back.	/r/seduction	20/12/18 10:28 PM
1	Dealing with unwanted attention Thanks for the tips! I am new in the city without friends. So it could be tricky the wingmen part. When you are physically blocking or getting tight up with rude people i'm afraid it will make the girls run away from the hassle and just leave us alone. Which is so embarrassing. Here you were talking nicely to a girl and now you are left with a douchebag. Focusing on the target when she is with a friend or accointance is also hard. I try to include them a bit so they do not get hostile with me,…	/r/seduction	20/12/18 01:34 PM
2	So I'm a hardcore people pleaser, which seems like a bad thing for attracting people. My issues mainly come with attempting to make people laugh and not make them mad. How do I break this bad habit? I find that this success in pleasing people has downside: How do you deal with people who are attracted to your vibe but you are not really interested in them? It can be tricky to get out of a conversation with someone who wants your attention, but you feel that you are getting sucked out of your energy by staying around them, answer their questions etc. One way is to get out of it, of the conversation or whatever, and move to someone that it's nice talking to, but that hurts them, and puts me o…	/r/seduction	19/12/18 10:57 PM