BIGJOLLYJOHN Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Has anyone been accused of mansplaining? Judging by the comments I get, I would be great at this :)	/r/MensRights	25/05/21 07:34 AM
6	What most women want in a man Where is the study?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 01:09 PM
33	What most women want in a man the common belief is that if I’m kind, she’ll take advantage of me. I am in my mid-40s, and just now digging myself out of the hole that 3 late-20s/early-30s women stuck me in by taking advantage of me. we don’t have to accept abuse or lack of commitment.. But we do? Men that are educated and empowered, want women who are educated and empowered. I don't even know how to address this; on the educated part, sure, but modern "empowerment" of women seems to insist upon disempowering men. We can make…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/21 01:05 PM
-1	The Orgasm Gap Wait, you think women have fewer orgasms?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/21 01:23 AM
1	Women want equal pay but also prefer to date men who make more than them? Ah, here's the rub: The "gender pay gap" is an average thing, whereas hypergamy is an individual thing. What these women want is lots of poor men with some really rich men for them to marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/21 02:31 AM
6	What’s with the recent trend in calling all men pedophiles for a certain preference in women? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neoteny_in_humans Point out that unless they are attracted to large heads and short legs, they aren't pedophiles.	/r/MensRights	04/05/21 09:09 PM
1	why is circumcision as bad fgm? It's not about assumptions, it is psychological. How would you feel if half the times you had sex, your partner did not orgasm?	/r/MensRights	28/04/21 08:32 PM
9	why is circumcision as bad fgm? Do you enjoy receiving oral sex? I don't, because they took so much of my foreskin that I have essentially no feeling at all and erections become painful because the skin is pulled too tight. This makes it difficult to orgasm, at all, which leads to severe relationship issues, i.e. I can't keep a girlfriend/wife for more than about 6 months, because they go insane insisting that I must be cheating on them or think they are ugly. This is not to diminish the effects of FGM in any shape, form or fa…	/r/MensRights	26/04/21 09:40 PM
6	I want to dispel a myth I have been hearing from lesbian women lately about impressing women. Lesbians being nice to straight girls has a similar effect to men "negging" them; it elicits an emotional response by taking them out of their comfort zone, and gets them invested in the exchange. This is why they specify, "Straight girls;" this should work for lesbians on lesbians, too, right? Wrong, because they are comfortable with it and so it doesn't get them emotionally invested. Note that there are better ways of doing this than, "negging," it was just an example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 11:15 AM
51	"Body positivity" excludes overweight guys in favor of normalizing BBW fetishism it's hard to have deep penetrative sex with a overweight guy who lacks stamina. Yea, only one of you can be fat for that to work, so thin chicks have to start dating fat dudes. "And monkeys might fly out of my butt!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/21 03:52 PM
2	When it comes to pregnancy prevention, how much caution do you take with sexual partners? The first time, with my suddenly ex-fiance: "How did you get pregnant? I asked you about birth control, and you said you had it taken care of?" "Yea; I wanted to get pregnant, so it was taken care of. See you in court." The second time, wy wife confessed that she had quit taking her birth control to get pregnant... while in labor, after I had driven 12 hours overnight because I was working a traveling job trying to pay for child support and a new child. The marriage survived that, but not the va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/21 04:40 PM
9	When it comes to pregnancy prevention, how much caution do you take with sexual partners? Well, I had vasectomy after the second woman in a row sabotaged her birth control...	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/21 07:15 PM
1	I am a mother needing advice on my son's childhood sexual experiences with his sister. I came here to get a male perspective. No, that's what I am accusing you of. You just think that you can fix things that aren't broken in the first place.	/r/MensRights	13/02/21 09:11 PM
1	I am a mother needing advice on my son's childhood sexual experiences with his sister. I came here to get a male perspective. you think therapists "tell" people they're traumatized. Yes. You don't know what constitutes clinical trauma, do you? Yes. Do you know that it feels totally fine to walk the world knowing you sexually abused your sister before you had any idea what you were doing? No, because that is not true. Also, I was responding to the claim that he couldn't possibly be troubled by it 20 years later and putting it down to 'hormones'. Ah; you didn't actually read what I wrote. That clears things up, and also …	/r/MensRights	12/02/21 10:24 PM
1	I am a mother needing advice on my son's childhood sexual experiences with his sister. I came here to get a male perspective. Sexual activity between children, siblings no less, is terribly damaging. Studies show... ...that telling people that they have been traumatized traumatizes them? Yea, that should be obvious. find a qualified professional to deal with this THIS IS TERRIBLY MISINFORMED. DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS! Are you trying to get this woman's son locked up?!	/r/MensRights	12/02/21 09:25 PM
32	I am a mother needing advice on my son's childhood sexual experiences with his sister. I came here to get a male perspective. It was wrong, sure, but wrong enough to be troubled by it 20 years later? No. Teenage boys often find their hormones overwhelming their sense. These things happen, much more commonly than you would think, and to a much greater extent than this, in many cases. That doesn't make it right, but it puts it into perspective. Unfortunately, this situation runs into a couple of major taboos in our society: Sexuality in general, and of children in particular. That is going to make most therapists useless…	/r/MensRights	12/02/21 11:58 AM
1	We should change the framework from bad boys vs nice guys to the uninhibited vs the inhibited I disagree, sexual desire stems from a biological urge due to hormones. Sure; our choice of with whom to have sex, when, and under what circumstance involves ethics and/or morality. I as a man do not want to have sex with men because I have no urge to biologically. But other men obviously do.... My reason for choosing not to have sex with men has nothing to do with what I think of it morally. No, but there are loads of women out there; why aren't you out having sex with every attractive female y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/21 10:58 PM
2	We should change the framework from bad boys vs nice guys to the uninhibited vs the inhibited I can introduce you, if you like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/21 09:59 PM
3	Not all "good men" are good men First marriage at 21, second at 26.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/21 09:59 PM
0	We should change the framework from bad boys vs nice guys to the uninhibited vs the inhibited That's your opinion you are claiming as objective fact Can you argue against it? No act of sex has societal contribution If it leads to happiness or procreation, it does. Many people are unhappy when they are sexless. Right, but I am convinced that that is more of a correlation than a causation. This is dum because sex has nothing to do with morality. Wow! And you have the gall to accuse me of presenting opinions as objective facts?! Sex has very much to do with morality. Talking about getting t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/21 09:59 PM
1	Not all "good men" are good men ...in that I did not move to Antartica 25 years ago? Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/21 09:55 PM
5	We should change the framework from bad boys vs nice guys to the uninhibited vs the inhibited Well, right off the bat, "sexual success" is perhaps one of the least useful metrics imaginable, having absolutely zero correlation to either individual happiness or societal contribution. Since those constitute the two foundations of morality, we can then consider the groups with the most successful sexual strategy without regard to ethical considerations: Sluts. Women who will sleep with anyone will have lots of sex, very nearly regardless of their appearance. Gay male sluts are probably simil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 03:33 PM
16	Not all "good men" are good men "No good deed goes unpunished," is my motto for my relationship history. I am a "good guy;" I have never hit a woman, I rarely raise my voice to others, and I defy you to find even one of my former partners who will claim that I was abusive or negligent, other than perhaps working too much. I have a job, a car and my own place. I am a good cook. Do I have flaws? Sure! I am not the tidiest person on Earth; hygenic and sanitary, but not neat. I am crazy-smart (or arguably smart-crazy) and like to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/21 03:10 PM
2	How to change the stereotypical view on men on a large scale in society? I honestly believe that the only way to show people the problem is for things to fall apart.	/r/MensRights	13/01/21 10:27 PM
1	What are your proudest and worst moments of interaction with your preferred gender? 7 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/21 10:37 PM
2	What are your proudest and worst moments of interaction with your preferred gender? Cis-het male, here (do we get a special symbol?) Fondest - Lying together with my soon-to-be wife (although neither of us knew it...), forehead to forehead, after sex, staring into each others' eyes, wanting to memorize every detail, because she was just as sexy-crazy-hot as I thought I was. Most shameful - Collapsed against the side of my car outside our house in the pouring rain at 2 am, sobbing because I didn't want to leave but I didn't want to go back inside to another unwinnable fight with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/21 10:41 PM
3	What do you think are the most positive forms of masculinity? I don't think that any aspect of masculinity is inherently positive or negative, but the context in which they are used. Self-confidence is great, if you are psyching yourself up for a sales presentation or trying to put up a brave face for your family to keep them from worrying, but if you are using it to run a grift or it makes you do foolish things, then it has become negative. Violence... do I even need to explain? Yes, most of us live generally peaceful lives, anymore, and even most of the …	/r/MensRights	04/01/21 10:31 PM
1	Suggestions for male students who may face discrimination or deceptive practices on campus There are good lawyers who specialize in men's rights and injustice against men. I haven't found one around here. I don't think men should give up on college because that's exactly what feminists want. No, that's what feminists THINK that they want, and the worst thing we could do to them is to let them have it! Since only college-educated people get in "boss" positions, Say what?! Where did you ever get that idea? if men cease college education to feminists, they will have all the power. Men ca…	/r/MensRights	29/12/20 12:03 PM
2	Suggestions for male students who may face discrimination or deceptive practices on campus No lawyer would touch it, for fear of being ostracized; no judge would allow it, as it would end their career; no jury would find in favor of it, out of female social privilege. Get out of college and go into skilled trades; the money is better, it is less stressful, and you hardly ever have a woman complain that you are oppressing her.	/r/MensRights	27/12/20 04:23 PM
1	Can I please get clarification or help with this It's called a pit of vipers; it has nothing to do with them being women, that is just how their misanthropy expressed itself in that particular circumstance. In short, you ran into a group of women who have found gross manipulation and self-righteous entitlement (mixed with a healthy dose of victim complex) has gotten them what they want all their lives, and no one with any authority over them has ever pushed back. If it is any consolation, this type of person is one bad mistake away from felony…	/r/MensRights	27/12/20 04:17 PM
1	I'm a socialist (monarcho-socialist) MRA, do you know any good subs that are about these two things/combine socialism with MRA? r/libertarianleft?	/r/MensRights	21/12/20 10:31 PM
1	RPers: When looking for a LTR, what do you look for except sex and a woman who does the housework? Try coming at it without preconceived notions; there is no point even having a discussion with you under this rubric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/20 03:20 PM
58	Anyone here agree with increasing funding for taking care of vets? Considering that my son is in the Navy....	/r/MensRights	20/12/20 03:06 PM
2	What studies exist that legitimize claims that female under-representation is in part due to bias? And that was in academia, not out in the "real" world.	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 04:01 PM
2	Political poll Moderate left, way down at the bottom of the political compass. "Libertarian-left."	/r/MensRights	19/12/20 12:04 AM
20	I’m a Male Teacher Surrounded by Women. But Please Don’t Call Me a Victim of Sexism: Excellent article on women in STEM, the victim mentality of feminism & more. Quilette gets over 2million unique visitors a month despite only having 6 part time employees. Good example of what can be done with focus these are high-paying fields in which women typically lag men in both representation and advancement This is where I quit reading. I have 3 STEM degrees, and do blue collar work. I didn't get a senior project, because they gave all of the money to the two female Physics majors, who dropped out of the program the next semester. As for representation and advancement, women constitute 75% of biology professors, 49% in mathematics and 40% in Chemistry. In my Physics program, the department head and …	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 11:55 PM
1	The red pill That's fine, just don't confuse one group for the other; it would be like me conflating you with the KKK. I wasn't wild about Trump, either, but he was better than Biden. I voted for Bernie in the primary and Jorgensen in the general.	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 11:49 PM
1	The red pill In the 1960s, Berkeley students engaged in the Free Speech Movement; 4 months of protests over limitations on political activity on campus and dismissals of faculty for refusing to take a "loyalty oath" indicating their opposition to communism and socialism. This was in opposition to the people in charge of the university. Leftists have never been in control, we have been the ones screaming for free speech. Or, how do you explain the treatment of Bernie Sanders? None of the people you mention wo…	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 10:16 PM
2	The red pill First this isn’t about anything trump I didn't mention Trump... the left always wants to censor your speech Look how they block speakers from voicing their opinion at universities. Yea, you have Identity Politics mixed up with the "left." There are very few leftists at universities, anymore; they chased them all out back in the 90s.	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 10:03 PM
1	An excellent 6 minute video especially for disenfranchised men (and women) e.g. dropouts, NEETS, Incels, - empowering everyone, but particularly young men - there is a reason feminists want this man banned I've done in-depth reviews of his work before, only to be presented with essentially the same comment you just made. Why should I bother?	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 11:54 AM
-1	The red pill Literally every day.	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 11:51 AM
1	Men hitting women The next woman who spits on me will be spitting her teeth out half a second later.	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 03:28 AM
1	I want to do both. It's really very simple: In any argument, switch the parties around, and see if it still sounds fair.	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 03:27 AM
3	An excellent 6 minute video especially for disenfranchised men (and women) e.g. dropouts, NEETS, Incels, - empowering everyone, but particularly young men - there is a reason feminists want this man banned Utter nonsense, like most of Peterson's rants.	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 03:25 AM
3	Idk if this is a legit take or not. Discuss Exploitation goes both ways.	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 03:17 AM
1	The red pill "Leftist?" The people attacking us are not on the left.	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 03:15 AM
3	I’m just wondering, why are you so passionate about mens rights? by your wife She wasn't my wife, but you've missed the entire point; she did what she did because it was a logical path to her goal, that just happened to run me over. The problem is the system being set up to allow, nay, encourage that kind of behavior. This isn't about grievances towards women. They didn't write these laws; they didn't preside over my case; they didn't make my father decide that I must have done something wrong, because "women just don't behave like that." This is about the at…	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 03:13 AM
5	I’m just wondering, why are you so passionate about mens rights? Have you ever found yourself alone in the woods at night with half a bottle of vodka in one hand, a handgun in the other, and all the rage in the world coursing through your veins screaming at you to end it? Story time: My life was destroyed by a combination of an unethical woman, a corrupt system, and a misandrist society. I had a good life; a decent job, a nice house, a car, a boat, money in the bank, a retirement account... not bad for a 25-year-old. It had taken a lot of work to get there, e…	/r/MensRights	18/12/20 12:55 AM
10	I don't like it when male circumcision is compared to female genital mutilation at least men can still feel a lot of sexual pleasure after circumcision I can't.	/r/MensRights	17/12/20 11:38 PM
1	Male losers just want to be valued by the opposite sex the same way female losers are Maybe the only win-win solution left to try is for men to, as a group somehow, say 'fuck it. We gonna just be strong, fit, successful, caring, helpful at home, well groomed, etc.' for it's own sake and in order to better generate female attraction. I did that after I became a father, and my SMV went from quite high to basically zero. There is a strong counter-intuitive aspect to this situation that you are not taking into account.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/20 10:42 PM