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BIGPAR/r/MGTOW01/08/18 11:11 PM
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BIGPAR/r/MGTOW02/07/18 03:58 AM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:34 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:00 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:29 AM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:05 AM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP28/04/17 11:43 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:06 AM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:03 AM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP15/08/17 06:48 AM
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BIGPAR/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 11:30 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:08 AM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:18 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:17 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP29/09/17 05:57 AM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP03/10/17 04:45 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:21 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:24 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP25/11/17 05:57 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP25/11/17 08:04 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:55 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:13 PM
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BIGPAR/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:00 AM
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So she’s using sex as a tool to do this?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:41 AM
2

Not the first time to happen
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:40 AM
1

Thank you this was helpful
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:39 AM
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So basically just write it up as her being unstable and pump and dump ?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:40 AM
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Yeah I always wondered if she was an alpha widow but she also seems really into me. Like she initiates sex with me more than I do with her
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:39 AM
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What makes you say that ?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:09 AM
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Just wondering how to interpret this the next time I hear it. Trying to make sure I can watch out for red flags the best
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:08 AM
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No you
/r/askTRP18/08/19 07:35 PM
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Nah I saw them hanging out on Snapchat.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:39 AM
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Well that’s what I’m asking. It’s the principle of my friend not having respect for me
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:10 AM
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I mean I’ve blocked her number and every social media thing I can think of. Should I just be like “hell yeah man go get some pussy”?
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:08 AM
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True
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:54 AM
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Thank you for the level-headed advice. I feel like that she isn’t a hoe but at the same time I don’t want her to treat me as Beta Bux. I feel like I am good at keeping frame. But I really do like her and I don’t want to drive her away
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:40 AM
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I’ve read the sidebar but I didn’t see anything that pertained to my situation
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:05 AM
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Haha, I literally laughed out loud at your last line, that’s pretty fucking good. And yeah bro, I’ve been in a relationship before where I felt like I was more of the BB (which is why I dumped her) but you explained it perfectly. I’m actually saving this comment, thank you
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:30 AM
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Nice one man, thanks
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:42 PM
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I feel like she comfort tests me a lot. Like saying things like “you’re an asshole” or “you’re not very sweet “. Is that a good sign?
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:50 AM
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The thing is though, is that some girls won’t really have sex outside of relationships. Plus, I wouldn’t want to commit to a girl that would let me smash on the first time hanging out.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:49 AM
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Yeah we have sex like everyday. To be honest it’s probably just severe trust issues resurfacing and I am probably just overthinking. I’m not used to trusting women, so I just take everything with a grain of salt now and I don’t believe anything that people tell me, especially girls.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:40 AM
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A chad in the making
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/18 02:19 AM
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When you think about how society works, how could anyone not be sucked into it at one point or another? Think about the Disney movies we all grew up on, the movies, the TV shows, all of it. Some of us just had to learn the hard way that none of it is real, and that love doesn't actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:23 AM
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Sometimes we need reminders. I've been heavily into TRP for about a year now. Every so often, I'll find myself catching some type of feelings for a girl. Only then, I am reminded of my direction so to speak. Some reminders are good ones, even if they hurt.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 03:10 AM
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Exactly dude
/r/MGTOW01/08/18 11:39 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 12:18 AM
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Yes but what happens when the bad boy with the idgaf attitude comes along?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 10:03 PM
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Great comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 03:56 PM
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I've always tried to read this from TRP veiw point. Great post man
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 06:06 PM
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Things like this most likely have a Gaussian (bell shaped) distribution, meaning the median is also the average, or at least very close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:00 AM
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They would, but remember AF/BB. In a woman's mind, it is apparent what category they would assign to a high IQ man.
/r/MGTOW02/07/18 04:41 AM
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Anything that is about 6 standard deviations above average. You know, something that only 0.00001% of men have or something like that
/r/MGTOW02/07/18 04:08 AM
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But yet most of society claims that men are the picky ones
/r/MGTOW02/07/18 04:02 AM
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No, because feminism
/r/MGTOW02/07/18 04:01 AM
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I have actually started going back to the gym starting about 2 weeks ago, and that has helped me feel a little better I suppose. I don't mean to be a "beta bitch" but I'm just trying to solve the problem.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 10:51 PM
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That's the thing. I have lost my drive. I don't even have the desire to go out and get laid anymore, even when girls come to me in a lot of cases. I don't understand how to fix it.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 10:12 PM
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Yeah I read everyone I saw that had "shit test" written on it. Some didn't even load, but that might be because I'm on mobile.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 11:35 PM
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Can you link me to this particular example or just copy and paste? I just went through it and couldn't find it
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:48 PM
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The red pill sidebar?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:29 PM
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Do you have any links to these stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:57 AM
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I am not new to TRP and nothing in this article was new to me, per se, but the way it was presented and organized made me look at all these concepts through a different lense so to speak. Telling a guy that he's "marriage material" is far from a compliment (even though in women's minds, for some reason this is the one they always give to betas). I'll never forget all the female friends that I reconnected with after a year or two and their reactions to the "new me". I remember them saying "You us…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 11:32 PM
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Isn't this kind of what a prenup does?
/r/MGTOW23/12/17 07:34 AM
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I'm almost certain I have some sort of NPD. I have never known myself to have a true sense of "identity". I exhibit high amounts of "dark triad" traits. Sometimes it helps me with women. But other times I feel like it will hurt me in the long run
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 01:55 AM
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I feel like the fact that girls ask this is a good indicator that they don't see me as an "innocent harmless beta" like they used to. A good indication that I'm moving in the right direction.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 06:09 PM
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Haha nice
/r/askTRP25/11/17 06:08 PM
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Because they have feminism to place the blame on the man, regardless of the situation
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/17 11:13 PM
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I'm assuming they also didn't have condoms back then either. But seriously, why do women always say "Maybe you just pick the wrong women"?
/r/MGTOW23/10/17 01:59 AM
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What would you consider a "beta event" and an "alpha event"?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 10:41 PM
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I mean I'm still getting laid either way, so I must at least be doing something right haha
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:37 PM
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I'll try to look for the PDF. I didn't know you could even download it.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:36 PM
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Thanks for the constructive feedback
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:15 PM
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The side bar doesn't show up on my phone. And even the times I have read the sidebar, some things were still unclear to me.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:11 PM
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So basically the harder I chase her, the more sex starved I look, and the more my SMV lowers in her eyes?
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:13 PM
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So should I act like I don't care either way?
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:12 PM
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Well she's already invited me over today so it looks like my luck is just fine.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:11 PM
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You mean "Of course not" in a sarcastic way? Like "bitch what do you think" kind of way?
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:11 PM
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I had to save this comment
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:38 AM
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*if
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:53 PM
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So basically they're uncomfortable with the fact that I'm now more sexually active and could probably fuck their best friend of I wanted to?
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:53 PM
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But if not who cares because Abundance.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:23 PM
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Actually I wouldn't block or delete. Guarantee she'll hit you up on a week if you ghost her
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:22 PM
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This is something worthy of posting to the main TRP subreddit
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:21 PM
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So they're basically saying the opposite of what they actually do for consolation?
/r/askTRP09/10/17 07:04 PM
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That's the point I'm making here. "You're around the wrong girls" She herself fits her own criteria of what a "wrong girl is"
/r/askTRP09/10/17 07:03 PM
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Sorry, but can someone tell me what AMOG means?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 07:02 PM
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I saw this on another post, but if a girl is shy around you then there's a good chance that you're a Chad
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 06:30 PM
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This is the most pure and prime example my friend.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:58 PM
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What do you mean "how they act around them"?
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:17 AM
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What happened next?
/r/askTRP03/10/17 07:15 AM
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I mean I actually did fuck her but I'm talking about afterwards
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:20 PM
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That has very recently happened to me, I realized what was going on so I ghosted her. Not sure if she will ever hit me up again but I don't give a shit. I'll find another.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 09:19 PM
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What do you mean it does "nothing for you"?
/r/askTRP02/10/17 08:23 PM
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I already knew what club she was at because I recognised the background, so I didn't ask. A helpful tip of advice I learned from TRP is that over thinking is a beta male trait. I'm not a beta male, so I will no longer be giving this issue anymore attention. If she decides to hit me up sometime then fine, but other than that I'm pretty much ghosting her. I have other girls to choose from and I have other girls interested in me other than her. Besides, at least I got to smash, haha
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:12 PM
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I know it seems that way bro but trust me, I feel like I'm handling this situation way better than I would have handled it like 2 months ago. TRP is a growing process. Not an instantaneous thing.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:58 PM
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Yeah I was probably gonna end up hanging out with a few girls this weekend anyways
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:55 PM
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Yeah we've kind of taken turns being the "first one to test" through out the week. From this point forward I'm not texting again unless she says something. That will work right?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 03:54 PM
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"Over thinking is the biggest trait of a Beta male" is the best advice I've ever gotten. So that being said, I'm going to finish my beer and not think about it again.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:30 AM
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Ok, thanks for your advice man. Besides, if it doesn't work out then I can get with other women. It's abundance out here.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:29 AM
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For how long? Btw, I said that "he looks like I dude I went to high school with" is that acceptable?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:17 AM
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I just did it. Shit I hope this works. I'm too high for this shit right now
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:08 AM
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Does this mean I just let her go for good?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:07 AM
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Lol what would this accomplish?
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:06 AM
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What do I do from this point forward
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:02 AM
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Yeah dude I know. I'm really drunk right now.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 06:01 AM
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I'm skeptical.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:53 AM
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The funny thing being is that a large portion of the girls that tell me this have tried flirting with me/made advances to me/etc. I'm the one that put them in the friendzone, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:25 PM
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The funny thing being is that a large portion of the girls that tell me this have tried flirting with me/made advances to me/etc. I'm the one that put them in the friendzone, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:25 PM
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The funny thing being is that a large portion of the girls that tell me this have tried flirting with me/made advances to me/etc. I'm the one that put them in the friendzone, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:25 PM
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The funny thing being is that a large portion of the girls that tell me this have tried flirting with me/made advances to me/etc. I'm the one that put them in the friendzone, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:25 PM
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The funny thing being is that a large portion of the girls that tell me this have tried flirting with me/made advances to me/etc. I'm the one that put them in the friendzone, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:24 PM
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That's kind of what I'm doing now to a certain degree. I'm sure they're also talking to other people, so it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:23 PM
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That's kind of what I already do, but after a few days or weeks or whatever I catch feelings. Don't know how to stop it
/r/askTRP15/08/17 07:17 AM
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I understand this, but that doesn't mean that it still doesn't happen sometimes. How can I avoid it?
/r/askTRP15/08/17 07:12 AM
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Thanks man. I'll try to read this when I'm more sober haha
/r/askTRP01/07/17 07:46 AM
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No, but once in a blue moon I'll meet one and I've had a hookup that way. That has to be better than nothing, right?
/r/askTRP01/07/17 04:53 AM
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Do they really care if you say "lol"?
/r/askTRP01/07/17 04:04 AM
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And I actually get hella matches on Tinder, but every time I message them they never respond, lol
/r/askTRP01/07/17 12:11 AM
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I know but even when I do proceed with confidence it doesn't work. I can't seem to find the root of the problem.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 11:57 PM
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I do a fast food delivery thing much like Uber. And I can be, or sometimes I can be distant. There's no middle ground for me it seems like
/r/askTRP30/06/17 11:56 PM
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Yeah I guess that's the problem lol
/r/askTRP30/06/17 11:55 PM
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Why do they care though?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 11:55 PM
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Update: I'm actually pretty good at flirting and talking to girls when I'm drunk, but I obviously can't go everywhere drunk lol
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:10 PM
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Here you go http://i.imgur.com/r4cKEMc.jpg
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:07 PM
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Not usually man. I don't know what to say
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:06 PM
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No?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:01 PM
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Honestly I just use Tinder. Saves me a lot of work
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:00 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP29/06/17 01:00 PM
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Well you're not wrong. Every time I've tried it hasn't worked out
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:48 AM
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I'm getting better at kino
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:54 AM
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I'm sorry, I'm not sure what "kino" is
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:27 AM
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Do you think the Red Pill philosophy could be applied here?
/r/askTRP29/06/17 02:31 AM
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Sorry man I'm on my phone. There is no sidebar
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 06:05 AM
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I didn't come here for sympathy, I came here for a solution. And yeah, whenever a girl looks at me or smiles at me I instinctively look away and appear uninterested. However, by that logic, wouldn't that make me more desirable? Seeing as that I give off the "you can't have me" vibe?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:29 AM
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Yeah I try to ask for the Snapchat as soon as possible. Then there's the weird situation where they love talking to me, but every time I bring up hanging out they'll ignore it. And then we'll still talk all day. It's confusing.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:24 AM
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I actually do have this on Tinder. I get a shit ton of matches but they only talk to me for like, maybe a day before they stop replying. I don't understand it.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 04:07 AM
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Ok. I'm on my phone. There is no sidebar. Sorry for the mix up
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 12:17 AM
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Trust me, don't lol
/r/askTRP28/04/17 11:38 PM
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