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BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:43 PM
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Everyone pays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:40 AM
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You're hilarious if you actually think dudes are running the system. Women have all the leverage and optionality in today's dating market. They deliberately decide to go after the same small subset of men, and then they complain that they can't get exclusive monogamy out of the same subset. To be fair, I don't blame them, since they're simply wired that way, but that still doesn't negate the fact that it's ultimately their market.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:43 PM
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You're just an ignoramus. Yeah, there's twice as many single men in the 18-29 y/o cohort as there are single women—I'm sure that's just a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:41 PM
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The subtext of what was conveyed heavily implied it was a relationship. I am pretty sure the woman in question actively is cycling through men, but the caveat there is so are arguably the majority of women aged 18-30. https://www.bustle.com/p/women-are-more-likely-to-ghost-someone-theyre-dating-than-men-theres-a-very-good-reason-for-that-8963133 https://www.creditloan.com/blog/breaking-down-the-breakup/ Don't forget how women will make some rationalization as to why they ghost just as how they r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:23 PM
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No, you're completely wrong. The vast majority of time it's women who are in the late 20s and up who are bitching about this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 05:21 PM
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Has the recent (and by recent, I mean over the last 2-3 years or so) of older men rooted in a large subset of the female population having daddy issues? I find it funny that women have tried very hard to convince men that there's no possibility that younger women could have a DILF kink. https://pbs.twimg.com/media/GKHVQZrbwAEK7jh?format=jpg&name=large
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:41 PM
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"We've been seeing each other for 4 months now; it's been going well" — sounds like a relationship to me. Women have orders of magnitude higher optionality on average than men—this will directly lead to women as a population ghosting more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:37 PM
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"We've been seeing each other for 4 months now; it's been going well" — sounds like a relationship to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:36 PM
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"We've been seeing each other for 4 months now; it's been going well" — sounds like a relationship to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:36 PM
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Lmao i'm debating with a woman in that a woman openly going out on a date with other men while having been dating a guy steadily for 3+ months is cheating. She's also flabbergasted at the claim that women ghost 2-3x more than men. Typical 'delulu' women who get all of their information from female social media meme circles and dating gurus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:56 PM
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A roster is seeing the same set of people consistently - like a harem but scheduled, where you see each person on a specific day. You said you were talking to her on and off for a year before you met up, which means you weren't on a roster. I'm also not rationalizing her behavior - a lot of people these days would turn around and say "it's not cheating if we're not exclusive", which I presume she wasn't. You're just making up your own pre-conceived narrow definition of a roster. Even if what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:54 PM
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Eh, not sure there's much we can do. I stopped asking why and how, as in 'why is society this way' or 'how can we make society better', because the reality is the powers that be are not even remotely concerned with those questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:53 PM
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Hard to say. I've been rated pretty highly based on photos I've shared on another account (had two girls even sent me nudes eventually), but I don't fit the the conventional Eurocentric standards. I'd say maybe a 7/10 facially. All in all, I would just follow my advice. Try but have temper your expectations, so that you're not emotionally/mentally ruined. Really stay detached if you are getting dates, because chances are these girls are going to keep swiping until they see the next shiny toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:47 PM
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The explanation to almost all of these double-standard scenarios of why men and women are treated starkly different in the same situation is Gynocentrism. Despite what certain arms of feminism will situationally claim (when it favors their agenda), women and men are not the same. Why would we expect them to be treated in same scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:36 PM
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The reality is tons of women do it. You guys simply aren't aware, because a guy you can keep in your orbit is just an afterthought at the end of the day. Why are you acting like it's difficult? It is so easy with IG and SC, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:32 PM
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If they're actively leveraging multiple options, then it is a roster. Why casually flirt with me in the first place? That's just straight up fucking cheating. Love how you try to rationalize the behavior lmao. I was ghosted likely because I didn't push for a relationship as fast as they wanted and/or they had another guy they were waiting on to execute who was the one they really wanted. Women monkey branch, that's really all it is. I have no idea why women will date men they don't really like i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:31 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3oXCG4rxqv/?igsh=em03dGxweW43bzZx LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:31 AM
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Yep, prositution and passportbros have been exploding as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:25 AM
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Misogyny only happened as a reaction to the mass normalization of misandry that has occurred in the last 5 years. Women wanted equality and they want to constantly bitch and moan and talk shit, what do you think was going to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:23 AM
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Ok, so don't put something that lets off that you're a massive douchebag? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:12 AM
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I'm making the best of it. We are quickly moving into a post-relationship/marriage world, so it's not like no one else is in the same boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:11 AM
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No, but I reduced how much I was getting taken advantage of when I stopped worrying about what the person I was dating wanted and focused on getting what I wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:06 AM
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I didn't mean this in the sense that you are responsible for the wellbeing of only yourself. I meant it as you are responsible for your behavior. We are responsible for how our actions impact others. You catering to your own needs is definitely a choice. But by this line of logic you cannot be surprised when you're rejected by any member of your society, including women. You're behavior signals that you cannot be trusted to contribute to the group. Funny you mention this, because my success with…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:57 PM
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How old are you? Most women are talking to multiple men. I went on a date a month ago with a girl I was talking to on and off for about a year (met on social media). I ended up meeting up with her for 4-5 hours, got drinks, dinner etc. I ended up making out with her for a solid minute only for her to push me away and tell me she's dating another guy for 3+ months now. Almost every girl I've dated has ghosted me and I come to find out they're dating at least 2 or 3 other guys when I was going out…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:53 PM
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We don't actually. People still hold each other accountable. I mean look at how bothered you get at women who act in a way you disapprove of. Where/how did you come to this conclusion? You live in a society that guarantees your safety in a broad sense. You benefit from the morality of others and I think you take it for granted. People acting in line with the law is more so them acting in their own self-interest rather than within a moral framework. Good and evil are ridiculous concepts but not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:46 PM
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Well, we live in an amoral society. You can be dating someone for multiple months, but could still get ghosted out of the blue. I've personally adopted the philosophy that there is no such thing as good or evil—only perceived self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:36 PM
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Obviously, I don't. But if I go too close to a snake and get bitten, whose fault was that really? This is why TRP exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:24 PM
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However, your post seems to heavily imply getting with any woman (even if you don’t really like her), getting close to her and just using her as a practice board until someone better comes along…. which is a shitty thing to do another person. Wait, you mean what the vast majority of women aged 20-34 who are still technically on the market are doing? Why is it okay for them to do it but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:18 PM
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Women literally do this all the time. This is how women will have a dedicated guy they're dating but still talk to 4-5 other guys at the same time. Women love the attention and validation they get from guys, even if they're not interested in them sexually—so they'll give them bits and pieces of crumbs to keep getting the attention coming in. The irony is the guy they want to fuck the most is usually the guy who gives limited amounts of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:16 PM
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Women literally do this all the time. This is how women will have a dedicated guy they're dating but still talk to 4-5 other guys at the same time. Women love the attention and validation they get from guys, even if they're not interested in them sexually—so they'll give them bits and pieces of crumbs to keep getting the attention coming in. The irony is the guy they want to fuck the most is usually the guy who gives limited amounts of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:16 PM
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Nobody is reading the fucking bio, lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:09 PM
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I'm shorter than you and have gotten a lot of matches. I would say simply temper your expectations though. You can likely get a few hookups, but women on the apps are also dating 4-5 other people simultaneously—so don't get too attached. Expect that they'll ghost you eventually. I've dated like 2 or 3 girls off an app for over a month only for them to just randomly ghost me out of the blue. I was pretty attached to the first one, so it really fucked me up mentally. If you can go into it with zer…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:08 PM
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I always found it hilarious how women actually get triggered by a guy using the word 'female(s)'.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 11:06 PM
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Experts Agree: "coffee dates are misogynistic"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 05:50 AM
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I don't think I've ever met a girl who didn't care about height — it's just that some are willing to look past it if all the other boxes are checked (but still view short stature as a negative). The fact that short men still have to overly compensate in so many other avenues is pretty good evidence that height is pretty universally important to pretty much all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:11 PM
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The 6ft thing is just a caricature made by incels Omg this gave me a good chuckle, tots no women are constantly talking about the height of a guy! It's just an incl conspiracy theory! Like they'll deflect what they themselves say and believe into somehow being your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:03 PM
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The 6ft thing is just a caricature made by incels Yet women cannot stop foaming at the mouth about the height of men. I remember I went to a house party one time, and I walk in the door and this girl is going off about her 6'3" boyfriend. Why do you have to lie about this when it's literally coming from WOMEN THEMSELVES?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:00 PM
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If I understand correctly too, a lot of these studies tend to be measuring single parent households, which is obviously misleading.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:56 PM
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An actual plain Jane would be considered an 8/10 nowadays. Simply not being fat basically makes a woman in the 70-80th percentile. Never been easier for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:54 PM
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Women claim it's misogyny to not be attracted to obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:53 PM
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That is what the scientific articles I have read outlined, I’m not a historian or an evolutionary scientist. Then link them More men are single in a certain age group (18-29), for all age groups it’s basically balanced. Keep in mind that there are more sexless young men than women - I’m assuming a lot of these guys are willingly single so they can sleep around. Occam's razor would have us state that it's likely a combination of older men dating younger women There are no concubines, if people wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:08 PM
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Lol. You don't think the push for the feminization of men didn't act as a huge catalyst for him leading the swing of the pendulum?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:04 PM
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How do you know it wasn't due to female mate selection? Why is it that we see disproportionate higher levels of men than women being single in our current environment where monogamy is slowly being eroded away? Women would rather be the bottom concubine of an alpha than the first wife of a beta — it's just reality, that's why you see women never willing to settle even though there are more than adequate amount of matched partners for said women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:03 PM
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Nobody working in tech is going into the office on Fridays nowadays. It's a common issue with this subreddit — anecdotal reality does not equal aggregate reality. Most young adults are not meeting friends through work, especially nowadays were job shifts happen quite frequently and people are working remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:43 PM
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That's what traditionalism brainwashed us into thinking. Behavioral and evolutionary psychology definitely give us better insight into what actual mating tendencies will go towards in a more open, unrestricted environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:56 AM
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Chad dick can make a woman go wild. I mean it's probably why they fall in love the first time he fucks them, then gets mad that he only wanted her for her body. Even if your point in number 2 is true, I highly doubt all of those reasons alone are what contributed to a 17 to 1 ratio — an unmentioned mechanism would be female mating choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:40 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm9nfl1LfWg/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= And people are actually stupid enough to Pikachu face at Tateman blowing up. Society literally gave him the perfect environment for him to explode in exposure, not least of which social media algorithms and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:13 AM
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It's not a lot of effort for Chad — just see the notorious 'Are We dating the same guy' Facebook groups You just effectively demonstrated how women are never really single, lol We have evidence from genetics, that across multiple different continents, there were multiple times throughout our evolutionary history in which there was a 17:1 female:male breeding ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:12 AM
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The amount of times I've seen a girl say, "I don't fuck/date [insert X demographic]", and then end up doing so is quite high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:43 AM
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I have ADHD. My eyes will randomly fall into a general area of space when I zone out, and oftentimes, subconsciously will set on a person's face without me intending to do so. The fact I could be thrown in jail in the UK for this is absolutely fucking insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:16 AM
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I have a feeling the other women on this subreddit must hate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:42 AM
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Again, to my original comment, so what? He looks better than most dudes in their 20s and 30s, so the whole attractiveness competitive edge isn't really there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:40 AM
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https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/staring-on-tube-unhealthy-sexual-behaviour/#:~:text=Last%20month%20Transport%20for%20London,harassment%20and%20is%20not%20tolerated.%22
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:37 AM
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Ahhh yes, catastrophizing based on outlier events that happen in a very small minority of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:36 AM
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I didn't know you were a Buddhist specializing in solipsistic absurdism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:33 AM
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Are you a black woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:31 AM
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He doesn't seem to struggle to check those boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:25 AM
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Advertising, marketing, and sales are well... the types of department which would lend itself to having the most socializing and shooting the shit. The hilarious thing though is A LOT of BDRs HATE each other, because they're all competing to close sales with similar clients oftentimes to meet their sales quotas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:24 AM
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I think I know as I'm a consultant. It's nothing like a guy drinking with his boys or a frat boy drinking at a Friday night house party. It is very fake and artificial oftentimes — you learn to play the game and get good visibility/facetime with executives to hopefully make a good impression of you and/or just general networking with everyone there. I'm not saying you can't make friends with people at work, but I definitely don't agree with it being a first option. If you don't agree with me, lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:21 AM
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Also what's wrong with his hair lmfao? Fact he's not even noticeably balding from the looks of it means he's got quite good hair for a guy in his 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:17 AM
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When I first started lifting weights a few years ago, I met a dude who looked very similar to this (maybe a bit older). To my then surprise, he was a super nice dude and actually helped me out with my lifts a bit. As I got to know him better, despite being a huge, tatted, jacked dude — he was a low-mid level executive at a local IT firm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:15 AM
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Have you worked in what seems to be a fairly selective corporate job? The environment is a lot different in these types of jobs, and while there's time for occasional work banter and shooting the shit — the working volume can be very high that there's very limited time for it. So much if not all of your conversations will surround work and corresponding domain knowledge around it. As a result, a lot of these relationships tend to become very superficial in addition to lacking proper vulnerabilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:13 AM
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You're a teacher, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:06 AM
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How do you know anything exists? It could also just be a figment of imagination — a rush of neurotransmitters that formulates your perception of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:05 AM
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Mind linking the study?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:04 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm2qVq4qGTi/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= It's kind of funny how ironically misogynistic people are for not approving of a grown woman making her own decision on whom she wants to date. I also love how they solely deflect blame on to the man as if the girl couldn't possibly have true interest in him. That dude is a 40+ year old Chad, I'm willing to bet money he's been with much hotter women throughout his life too — you're really trying to tell me he's not getting this chic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:04 AM
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Being friends with coworkers is very hit or miss, I don't think it's great advice. If he's in a big city anyways, he should have enough opportunities outside of work to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:57 AM
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https://youtu.be/CXldZJLT12E?t=95s Lmfao @ 1:35-2:05
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:44 AM
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Seems rather shocking that a lot of women here say it then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:55 AM
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Would they have known of her well if it weren't for her beauty line?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:55 AM
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I'm not sure. I graduated college a few years ago and women would be pretty open and honest about hooking up with dudes over the weekend. Whether they're telling me or just overhearing conversations going through the library. I just really think our modern society has done a great job of neutralizing any sense of shame — it's probably why it feels so weird to women who first browse this subreddit seeing men judge them based on actions they've done — it's something they've seldomly experienced in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:54 AM
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Other women are applauding and praising them. Many of these types of girls are on no contact terms with their parents and grandparents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:47 AM
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https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMYrRP5jp/ Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:43 AM
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I don’t think 3. is even remotely relevant anymore. We live in a world of onlyfans and people sending nudes over sc/ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:19 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cnfc6HuvLUp/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= Honestly, I think almost everyone would agree this is more preferable than getting ghosted, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:13 AM
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How old are you though? I'm on the older end, and I feel like that's why I know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:13 AM
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I was just thinking — a lot of zoomers prob don't even watch football, nor have they ever really listened to Rhianna.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:42 AM
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Lol just thinking it's literally a song — what's my name?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:22 AM
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Have you ever taken an SSRI?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:19 AM
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Lmao idgaf who wins but did the refs just actually give the chief's recall for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:12 AM
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I'd love to see a clinical trial of: TRT vs SSRI vs TRT-SSRI vs control in treating men experiencing symptoms of anxiety and depression. Unfortunately, it'll probably never be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:49 AM
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Dude I got really high off a pen one time and I felt kind of bicurious for a minute, but I haven't been able to recreate those kind of thoughts since. But yeah I think it's because cosmetics have gotten to a point we can literally make men look more feminine than the average woman nowadays, LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:41 AM
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Honestly? I can't wait. I always wanted to be Danny DeVito in It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia when I get old. It just looks like so much fun! Damn I guess /u/LillithOfBabylon was right! Being a midget doesn't matter at all after all!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:40 AM
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You're absolutely correct. It's just a delusional revenge fantasy that many women on this subreddit will argue is the majority reality, because they're upset when a man makes a point referencing female aging and the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:35 AM
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"What an amazing skill it is to just consistently progressively out crazying yourself everyday. It's like progressive overload with lifting weights except for a schizophrenic behavioral tendency."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:33 AM
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What an amazing skill it is to just consistently progressively out crazying yourself everyday. It's like progressive overload with lifting weights except for a schizophrenic behavioral tendency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:32 AM
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Pretty much. What's really crazy though is the guy playing such a role in this show is in his fucking 30s lol: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Never_Have_I_Ever_(TV_series)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 12:30 AM
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I'm curious, do you think it's critical that an art includes proper representation of diversity as a decision criteria as to whether you consume it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:59 PM
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I don't watch Alexander Grace that much, but he made a video recently covering this exact same topic. https://youtu.be/pfsj3rjFGYE Essentially, beautiful and manicured faces are enjoyable to spectate and look at, but the reality is many femboys who don't possess any masculine traits will likely lack the sexual polarity to attract a woman who's over 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:56 PM
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Wait, people actually still cry over the star spangled banner?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:39 PM
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/u/DisasterPeace7 https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/110kfmk/daily_community_chat_megathread/j8at2hk/?context=5 This is a funny point. Related to this — I can't be the only one who finds it at least slightly hypocritical that women on here get mad/claim it's pedophilic that men find women most attractive at age 21, but then they go on to say how neoteneous, extremely manicured femboys who don't look a day over 18 at oldest are their preferred type of man. Just lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:34 PM
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So what do you think the end outcome will be likely?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:24 PM
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Should've just stood on Dubai smh. Tbh though, you can't tell me the timing with Greta and what not wasn't very coincidental at the very least. Also this clip (linked below) was blowing up/trending towards end of last year too, wouldn't be surprised if the US government got involved as a result — having a dude with massive influence over the young male population, and he's basically telling all of them fuck the military. https://youtube.com/shorts/yb3t29LAmE0?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:22 PM
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You live in California. There was literally government surveillance of people having house parties with the state government threatening to shut off power if they don't stop having get togethers....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:14 PM
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So they can just go ahead and arrest someone for no reason and hold them for up to 6 months?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 11:13 PM
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The problem with this article is it doesn't make an intergenerational comparison as to who is actually reading more. Additionally Moreover, their reading tastes are broader than their elders in the Millennial, GenX and Boomer cohorts. According to the survey, Gen Z readers are embracing more of every genre, including more Fantasy and Sci-fi (42% vs. 30%), Horror (38% vs. 20%), and Superhero/Action (34% vs. 18%). Gen Z also reads more romance compared to other generations, at 43% vs 30%. Unsurpri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 10:02 PM
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We've seen with COVID how even Western democracies can suspend individual freedoms whenever they deem necessary. My honest belief is this clip specifically is probably what got the US government involved behind the scenes to put him away — https://youtube.com/shorts/yb3t29LAmE0?feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:57 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10zqoav/social_circles_are_really_not_a_good_way_to_meet/j8a6r6i/?context=5
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:47 PM
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You could dox yourself by saying your age? If that's actually true, the information you've posted in conjunction with that is far more of a role in determining who you are than your age yourself. Nevertheless, my broader point was most zillenials/zoomers don't even read, like at all. Many have such deteriorated attention spans, they can't even watch movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/110kfmk/daily_community_chat_megathread/j89z6pz/?context=5
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:43 PM
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What if I've read their texts and convos? A lot of these types don't put in any particularly concentrated effort in a specific girl and they're getting action.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:43 PM
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Has much less to do with Tate than the overall fact that Gen Xers by and large have no idea what younger generations are exposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:37 PM
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Because women literally don't hold any kind of standard against their advances. I know dudes who are Chads and none of them give off any sort of insinuation or implication of commitment whatsoever. A lot of women know subconsciously the only coin they have to keep Chad interested is to give up sex very early. For some reason, perhaps due to the nature of how sex is for many women, they get very attached in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:35 PM
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I mean I wouldn't cry — I'd be more concerned over rising totalitarianism/authoritarian states in which you're locked up simply for generating 'wrong think' on the internet. So far it appears they're holding him with zero evidence, even insufficient enough for probable cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:33 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:21 PM
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They think they care, but then the guy they get tingles for makes them lose all rational thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:21 PM
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I brought it up, because it's directly related. It's actually very much an open point of hypocrisy on women on this subreddit when they'll point out how men aren't entitled to sex (a sentiment I generally agree with), but then they lose their shit that Chad only wanted to fuck them for a few weeks and then moved on after. It's very much entitled thinking feeling he owes you to stay committed to you. What's hilarious is from a third party eye, it's pretty obvious the dude is just trying to have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:21 PM
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Seeing more and more dudes calling out women on ig over bs they post, and women are actually crying about it. I don't know what pushed the change specifically, but manosphere/RP/Blackpill has been spreading like wildfire. Wouldn't be surprised if that was the primary reason they decided to go after Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:13 PM
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np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/110kfmk/daily_community_chat_megathread/j8abo88/?context=5
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:05 PM
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Why do women feel entitled to [keeping] Chad? The reason women have the 'baggage' and 'trauma' they do is because of their entitlement and ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:02 PM
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The reality is women don't really care if a man is an asshole or not — if he's hot, then everything else loses its significance. Because hot dudes have their pick of women, they can afford to be assholes, as there's no selection pressure against it. If they're an asshole in the right way, it even helps them come off as being more dominant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 09:00 PM
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I'm just saying — it's kind of dumb women here get so reactive when men say they don't see too much of a point in being friends with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:49 PM
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Or a book club! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:44 PM
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Quite a few years ago, Stardusk did a video on how the blue pill can be better for many men just because it doesn't completely mentally and psychologically demoralize the man. That's effectively how I see their subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:44 PM
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It's not that I hate women, I even do have a handful of female friends. The realty is that adults have a very limited amount of money and even more limited amount of time. As a result, you have to prioritize accordingly to what's most important out of the options available. Perhaps if we lived in a world where we didn't have to spend the majority of our waking time working or doing chores, I'd be more open to engaging in female friendships, but it's not the world we live in. Women don't see male…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:27 PM
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Definitely the minority in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:17 PM
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Have you read the posts about the "Are we dating the same men?" Facebook groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:17 PM
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I don't know if there's been a significant rise since then or if it's been following the same trajectory it was projected to be over the past 10~ years. The reality is if you removed two of the primary components women have historically looked for from men — i.e. attention and resource provision — women by and large have no reason to actually look for these men they would've considered acceptable mates in a former timeline. So what ends up happening? You see exactly what the major sledgehammer t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:16 PM
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That's kind of my point though as far as the willingness to fuck with each other as friends is much different between men and women, I think /u/saraimarsena articulated exactly what zi meant with her comment regarding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:06 PM
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Pretty much no man ever has the promise of sex, just like a BDR never has a promise of a sale simply with meeting with a potential client. If you've been friend zoned though, it's quite obvious you will NEVER have that chance though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:04 PM
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Exactly this! I don't get why this is such a controversial take.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:01 PM
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Remember a few months ago when people on here, mostly Gen Xers, were saying, "nObOdYs hEaRd oF TaTe". I swear it's crazy how out of touch Gen Xers and boomers are with the youth nowadays. Just because he didn't show up on Jon Stewart or whatever cable news late night talk show you watch that's been declining in viewership over the past several years isn't really indicative of anything other than you becoming older and out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:00 PM
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What do you mean by levels? Are you talking about different types of friendships/relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:50 PM
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Though there are times where you see those marriages with absolute beta men where the wife goes off and laughs about how she rejected her now husband 20 times over 5+ year period, but just felt so nice enough to give him a chance one time, and they're more married. Something something persistence... though I believe this is now an outdated, dying meme of the 2010s. Anyone else here remember this meme?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:49 PM
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the main reason to be friends with women for me is the social proof you get being out seen with women even if you aren't banging them. Okay I don't disagree with this, but I don't see how this goes against being friends by extension (i.e. overlapping friend groups). They still want to hook up Probably has more to do with your individual attractiveness as a guy than anything else. Haven't really seen many cases at all where a guy hooks up with a girl who actively friend zoned him. Though there ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:48 PM
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It's pretty obvious what I was saying is that it's not a good place to be, because women very much will manipulate and exploit the man to get him to do shit for her...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:43 PM
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The manosphere is far more reactionary than proactively initiating engagements. Pretty much all the manosphere content I watch is literally some dude responding/reacting to what a woman or group of women said. Are you really going to conveniently ignore how feminists push mottos like KillAllMen and 'All men are trash'? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:41 PM
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I don't really see how men have privilege. I wouldn't consider you a 'misandrist bitch' for having that type of view since it really sound like parroting a mainstream talking point more so than any intended malice/attention-whorism. What I'd refer to is more so as such is the constant anti-male rhetoric push on social media everyday, of which women and feminists consistently have pushed for a decade time and time again — and then they go full Pikachu face when someone like Tate blows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:39 PM
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The friend zone really isn't a great place to be the majority of the time. You're really trying to be friends with someone who actively rejected you and will always have that associated with you in the back of their mind. Oftentimes, a woman will never be a good friend to a man she friend zoned OR, even worse, she'll leverage the man's desire for her to get him to do all kinds of BS you'd typically expect of a BF without ever giving him the time of day. To be fair though, if simps get themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:35 PM
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I think you can quite honestly see how this isn't true in the very associated circles to this subreddit. Women will talk shit about men and how all men are trash etc. Men will point out flaws in women. Women claim said men are misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:26 PM
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/u/Reasonable_Volume_96 Why do you think men hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:21 PM
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Women by and large don't really offer men much in the way of friendship. Dudes love cracking jokes and shooting the shit with each other, fucking with each other, and just being open and organic with each other without worrying about hurting each other's feelings. With women, you have to constantly watch what you're saying and be far more filtered, because women are significantly more likely to get offended, even if you weren't being serious. Even guys like datepsych strongly push the idea that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:18 PM
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Or the reality is that effectively all human relationships (platonic or otherwise) are very much temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:16 PM
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Women by and large don't really offer men much in the way of friendship though. Dudes love cracking jokes and shooting the shit with each other and just being open and organic with each other. With women, you have to constantly watch what you're saying and be far more filtered, because women are significantly more likely to get offended, even if you weren't being serious. Even guys like datepsych strongly push the idea that opposite sex friendships are simply a means to have backup mates should …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:13 PM
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Choose your poison — it's either women 18-29 are dating older men, or they're dating a select few men in the same age cohort. In reality, it's probably a combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:04 PM
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Choose your poison — it's either women 18-29 are dating older men, or they're dating a select few men in the same age cohort. In reality, it's probably a combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:04 PM
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Actually no, you're wrong, because the primary insight is, when left to their own devices, who are women most likely to reproduce with? And we can still see this in first world countries, just go to any hood near you — tons of children from thugs in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:02 PM
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I mean, most women know their guy friends are just dudes they've friend zoned but can still get favors done for them by staying "friends". I wouldn't say either dynamic is particularly healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:01 PM
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Hilarious she doesn't realize that the men she's referring to have lines of women lined up https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnmWhcOOgmU/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:58 AM
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Oh Italy got it. Thought you were in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:49 AM
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Most women are never truly single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 06:48 AM
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We're trying to get a baseline for general human behavior. Venezuela provides the unrestricted environment that you can't quite easily replicate in a first world country.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:15 AM
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Why would him being Latino be a major disqualifier? Unless he's super short, I think he'd likely do fine if he dates within his own community. Don't think Latina women have nearly as much prejudice against men of their own race as some Asian or Black women do. I'm guessing you don't have many minorities in your small town? You should try out phenibut.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:14 AM
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When you say incel, what exactly do you mean by this? Like is he up to date with incel culture and their various lingo and forums? The reason I ask is people on this subreddit believe that any man with a good social circle is bound to be having a decent sex life, but I've seen many cases in adjacent circles where this isn't true. That being said, I still wouldn't classify these men as incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:06 AM
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https://twitter.com/pewresearch/status/1623352132375302144?t=IzUvJzMZ-LXC3Vv4i7ad-A&s=19 This was an absolute sledge hammer truth pill. Unfortunately, one side of people on this subreddit are going to try to poke imaginary holes over the next 5 years or so (just like they have been with key sledge hammers released in the 2010s, esp mid-2010s) in it and act like they can deconstruct it with their already poor grasp of rudimentary statistics. The boomers and establishment academia types like datep…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:00 AM
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In the perception of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:51 AM
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The only utility I see in it is that you can potentially meet some of her single friends. Otherwise, I really don't see the point in being friends with a woman unless you happen to meet a rare one that's a great conversationalist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 11:05 PM
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Why are you on a debate subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:04 PM
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Oh wait, so not everyone attends or graduates college? It just just be a bunch of outliers!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:56 PM
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Oh wait, so not everyone attends or graduates college? It just just be a bunch of outliers!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:56 PM
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Psychology is derived from neurochemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:55 PM
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Very few people here are even capable of understanding how to read basic statistics. This is far from a science-based discussion subreddits. Ironically enough, the most scientific takes will get flagged as 'incel' content.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:54 PM
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How is this incel content?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:52 PM
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And you can thank the boomer fucks for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:14 PM
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And you can thank the boomer fucks for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:13 PM
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Oh yeah, not getting everything paid for and provided for you is such a privilege!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:12 PM
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Probably all the fatties
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:11 PM
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It's funny how these type of sledge hammer truths can be dropped time and time again, yet the proverbial idiots on this subreddit who think their anecdotal reality is reflective of aggregate reality will tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:09 PM
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It's funny how these type of sledge hammer truths can be dropped time and time again, yet the proverbial idiots on this subreddit who think their anecdotal reality is reflective of aggregate reality will tell you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:08 PM
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Maybe look at what the data tells us, not anecdotal stories — https://twitter.com/robkhenderson/status/1556749425275437056?s=46&t=8bw-JBW_K_tpWMqRC4BGPw
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:06 PM
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This is why the whole boss babe meme is fucking hilarious. These very much middle class women think they're hot shit with a basic white collar job when in reality they're still middle class and have tons of debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:03 PM
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This is why the whole boss babe meme is fucking hilarious. These very much middle class women think they're hot shit with a basic white collar job when in reality they're still middle class and have tons of debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:03 PM
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Oh I don't know, maybe Her money is her money; his money is our money type of sentiments when it comes to relationships is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:01 PM
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Maybe you should study what the general body of neuroscience says about free will overall. I have perfectly fine levels of self-control, telling men to simply not care about sex or that the lack of sex they're having isn't a contributing factor to their mental health issues is just intellectually dishonest and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:29 AM
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Oh, I don't know. I haven't seen any women at all rushing to work in construction, power plants, or electrical grids, have you? Oh no, it was the patriarchy stopping them from working there — even now. ​ Oh. and the time we had a female-only civil engineering project? ​ https://i.redd.it/u89sb6kbm6m01.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:26 AM
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Lol. This is something I've found quite hilarious about women on here. They'll tell men to stop it with the vicitmization mindset, but they have a incessant urge to always be the biggest victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:26 AM
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Overweight single mothers have their inboxes getting blown up nowadays, so no, the evidence is not on your side. "Make it make sense"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:22 AM
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Yeah, survery/response bias among other caveats totally haven't debunked this notion. ​ And yeah, women totally have 'evolved' past needing men, it's just about everything they use was made by men and all of the infrastructure they take for granted everyday was built and is maintained almost exclusively by men — but yeah, that doesn't matter at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:15 AM
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Not the majority, but just those who put in the work and still are struggling pretty bad here in the West. I will say though, with the current trajectory we're on, I wouldn't be surprised if it happens to be the majority in the not so distant future.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 11:42 PM
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I need to check out 1STMAN
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:41 PM
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This is a classic feels-good doesn't really scale well in reality cliche saying. Most people objectively will not be happier staying single their entire lives instead of 'settling' for a person who pretty much is a perfect fit for them. Half of the reason women think they're settling is because social media has given them delusional expectations of reality, so there you have obese single moms with a list of demands.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:40 PM
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Yeah good point, forgot about Hamza. I also like some of Cole Hastings stuff even though he can be kind of blue pill sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:37 PM
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Oh, so you guys had smartphones back in the day where you could swipe left and right and meet total strangers through? Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:14 PM
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Q4M: Any of you watch manosphere content for entertainment purposes or something to have on in the background? Who are your favorites? My favorites are: Stardusk (Thinking Ape) Aaron Clarey Tribe of Men Casual Bachelor (love his New Zealand accent) TFM (occasionally listen in on 1-3 of his podcasts a year) Scripted content he made back in the day was much better Colttaine (when he used to produce, some of the highest quality content ever) He actually produced a video on a major topic this subred…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:13 PM
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Was it corrected or stratified by sex/gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:03 PM
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I remember looking at an old photo of USSR and Nazi regime soldiers, all were jacked as fuck and in-shape — probably on very subpar nutrition and training protocols relative to today's body building regimens backed by exercise science. ​ We could get society there if we really wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:02 PM
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I've seen girls reject a guy because he doesn't have the 'right' horoscope.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:00 PM
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Two most surprising things I've seen today on this sub: Explaining how a 25% increase in obesity over the past decade isn't a 'small' increase Demonstrating that being a college graduate, particularly before the 80s, was actually quite a rare exception and not representative of the average population share https://www.statista.com/statistics/184260/educational-attainment-in-the-us/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:00 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/184260/educational-attainment-in-the-us/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:57 PM
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Just because it worked out for you doesn't mean it will scale for another person. If someone really wants a relationship/marriage/children, then settling will likely need to be something all parties involved will have to do to some extent or another. There's only so many 6'+, 500k, 6 inch dick dudes [insert million other requirements] to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:57 PM
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Maybe because none of those things actually work for most men. The best solution for men in the West who are struggling is to go abroad.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 10:40 PM
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Or in other words, you don't care about offering anything in return, but demand that every one of the countless dozen requirements you have be met, then snicker at men for wanting to find less entitled women (while also complaining about men who are "entitled").
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:38 PM
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But the boomers on this subreddit said everything was just fine and nothing has changed at all since they were growing up!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:37 PM
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I don't think the boomers or older Gen Xers do. The women will also try to gaslight you for trying to think otherwise, because it disagrees with their anecdotal reality — which you know — must be representative of reality as a whole at a macro level across a nation with hundreds of millions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:36 PM
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Inb4 middle-aged people or boomers come on here, "Oh really? But everyone I know is doing just fine just like we did back in our age. This must just be bad data" ​ Or the classic, let's pull a study mostly compiled on data from the boomer generation and claim it is representative of today's youth population at a macro level.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:34 PM
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I seriously hope you're trolling at this point. Like I do not see how you can't understand I'm talking about the GENERAL population, and NOT your general social circles. Silent Generation going to college was indeed RARE at the population level relative to other generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:30 PM
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You don't seem to understand what is a mutually inclusive or exclusive population, and you conveniently keep ignoring how the singlehood rates are different which pretty much confirm everything I've (and many other men) have been discussing in this subreddit for some years now. ​ The gap in singlehood between men and women in the 18-29 demographic is easily explained by older men dating younger women. ​ I don't believe we see the data reflecting this. Considering how many women complain about ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:29 PM
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Let's assume this is even true, the fact that women will always have easy access to sex while the vast majority of men won't, that's more than enough to create a greater difference in the perception of value via scarcity. I still think it's very heavily agreed upon that men have stronger sex drives nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:17 PM
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Planning to in the future, just need to sit down and compile all my thoughts together!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:16 PM
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There is no such thing as a high value woman. Quality is a much better word to describe women, because value implies appreciation and depreciation of value. Women start off as very highly sought after but almost always lessen in quality after time, and very rarely can actually increase in value overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:14 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:00 PM
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The original post by Lillith was that women like feminine men and men over focus on masculinity. Lillith was trying to argue that in pop culture, masculine men (of which she lumped in rappers) aren't publicized as much, but then another person pointed out how many women do, in fact, love rappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:00 PM
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Nah, statistics clearly show that the percentage of childless women rises every year, so plenty of childless women are out there to date. So what? This doesn't really mean anything. Again, per capita and population share is what matters. The amount of single mothers have also increased. The population is growing despite lower than replacement rate fertility rates. ​ What's most important though is what the population share of available women for men to date is. ​ The amount of thin women who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:58 PM
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What do you think of my flair, sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:56 PM
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Double standards existing for men and women are natural, because we are not equivalent or equal entities. ​ Also, generalizing women as one nasty caricatures does count as prejudice, because he is pushing a preconceived idea onto women without actually trying to know them. Hence, misogyny. So you're telling me I shouldn't listen to women who garner hundreds of millions of views on various social media platforms, despite it seeming that most women agree with them? That actually sound misogynistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:55 PM
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Uh, the problem is they don't want the average guy, they, like all women, want the top tier men, and they're frustrated that they don't have access to them compared to more beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:53 PM
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If someone is roping over what obese, approaching middle aged women on the internet are saying, I can't say I have too much sympathy for them unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:51 PM
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I think the reality is, if we're being frank, is that women simply want all of the advantages of feminism AND traditionalism, without any of the responsibilities or costs. ​ It's exactly why you see women making lists of 100+ deal breakers whereas men are just trying to find a woman who's not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:50 PM
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Average number of kids single mothers have going down != the population per capita representation of single mothers has gone down Because you don't seem to understand very simple logic and math, I'll break it down for you: IF we have a population of 10 women, let's say in year 0, there were 3 that were single mothers. In year 0, the 3 single mothers had an average of 3 kids each. In year 20, there were five single mothers — the five single mothers had an average of 2 kids. In this case, we see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:47 PM
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You must have done very poorly in math 😂 Everyone is a single mom =/= fertility rates are declining. Average number of kids single mothers have going down != the population per capita representation of single mothers has gone down 😂 Because you don't seem to understand very simple logic and math, I'll break it down for you: IF we have a population of 10 women, let's say in year 0, there were 3 that were single mothers. In year 0, the 3 single mothers had an average of 3 kids each. In year 20, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:44 PM
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Oh, I just found it funny because Lillith is supposedly black, yet she speaks about black people this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:29 PM
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I actually lean center-right, but her takes are absolutely ridiculous. Like when you point out the the general standard of living has been declining over the last 3-5 years in the US, she just says — "Oh, they're poor! That's why they can't afford a house!" I can only imagine that level of wealth gives a sense of totally overlooked privilege and solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:29 PM
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I've provided evidence for this already, but most of what's left for single men are either obese or single mothers. More and more women are either staying single or willing to share a high-value man. What ends up being left is the aforementioned subpopulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:27 PM
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Women have a tendency to leave a man if he once made very good money but is no longer able to do so. We never heard anything about that though. ​ Stop trying to moralize human behavior, tendencies, and preferences. Humans are fundamentally 'shallow' and transactional, it's how we are hard-wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:17 PM
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Maybe because this was really only a very recent phenomenon, and most people didn't get insanely obese until fairly recent times? Doesn't seem to be an issue in Japan or other countries where portions are regulated, and they have a culture in which they don't eat til absolute fullness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:16 PM
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Oh interesting, so it's 1950s if a man thinks it's a positive that a potential partner can cook, but it's not 1950s if a woman wants a man who makes substantially more than him? ​ Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:13 PM
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It'll be a full circle moment if she happens to not actually be black, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:10 PM
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The courses my dad took his first two years at an Ivy League college in the early 1950's were pretty much the same courses I took at a flagship public university in the early 1980's and were also pretty much the same courses my son took at another flagship public university in the late 2000's. We all did the same 1st year chemistry and physics labs. Dude, I'm sorry, but can you read? Like literally this has to be the biggest non-sequitur I've read in a while. ​ The fact that your father attended…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:09 PM
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Holy shit, I literally outlined it for you how the data you provided is wrong, and how obesity has increased substantially, but then you circle back by trying to double down without even making a new point. Hahahaha ​ Why write all this when you could just admit that 2005 wasn’t all that different from today? Certainly not the changes required for today to be an “absolute bizarre clown world,” as you claimed. ​ It clearly was substantially different, obesity was far less prevalent, look at the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:05 PM
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Lmao, stumbled upon this old thread 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:46 PM
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Lmao, stumbled upon this old thread 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:44 PM
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What good is money if you don't have time or health to enjoy it? Peak is roughly around 40s btw. ​ US perspective. Given their initial lack of experience, workers' earnings start out low. Earnings peak when workers hit middle age, then begin to fall as retirement approaches. ​ Still doesn't make sense to me considering you're basically half-dead by the time you're in your 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:43 PM
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The standard of debate for this subreddit ​ In case someone is interested, Stardusk did an incredible video touching on EvoPsych a few weeks ago: ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PmVvUbELPO0
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:33 PM
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/u/liefelijk The original link did. Single motherhood has actually decreased since the early 2000s https://www.statista.com/statistics/252847/number-of-children-living-with-a-single-mother-or-single-father/ Okay, this graph/source doesn't even measure what you're trying to argue, and if anything the trend is showing slight increase/plateauing. This link is absolutely irrelevant, because fertility rates have been going down substantially for decades, but especially since 2008. So essentially, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:21 PM
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the fact that the meaning of the first sentence is somewhat true (I'd say it less cringe) doesn't mean the whole evo psych bs is true. It's just one sentence that somehow makes sense. ​ You have no idea what evolutionary psychology is based on, and then you're here claiming it's bs. Evolutionary Psychology requires a robust understanding of genetics (which is the evidence made for most claims and gives us the most insight as to how different sub-populations formed and how our species evolved fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:56 PM
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Dude, you don't know any of these people's personal lives in any sort of remotely significant granularity, that's the point. "Oh girls in the 80s had sex, and my daughter is having sex too! See it's all the same" I don't think you realize how much of a minority it is for your generation's parents to have gone and graduated from college, not to mention the vast majority of people don't even graduate from college nowadays. And exactly what I told another older person in this same comment thread: ​…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:50 PM
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Not really, it's just the fact that you really don't have anything to look forward to at that point in your life for the vast majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:46 PM
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So you fundamentally don't understand what evolutionary psychology encompasses, even a basic principle like mate selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:44 PM
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Well, is unpopular a proxy for being unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:35 AM
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One of the girls I managed to pull in the past was a flight attendant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:35 AM
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It's going to be interesting to see the first longitudinal study on those who lived their lives 'permanently online'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:34 AM
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You've actually highlighted another common issue with this subreddit — thinking their own anecdotal reality is the actual representative, aggregate reality of the general population. ​ Just for reference, I'm not a woman on here who with strong delusion thinks age gap relationships are extremely exploitative and repulsive. Older man who can pull younger women usually have a lot of money and stand out completely from most other men, which again, circle back to my first point about anecdotal reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:29 AM
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An evolutionary psychologist would literally use the same exact reasoning as cited in the first quoted segment though, perhaps with slightly different diction at most. Your reply alone actually kind of demonstrates just how strawmanned and misrepresented the field of Evolutionary Psychology is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:26 AM
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It's always those who are middle-aged or those who are entering the last chapters of their lives (50s+) who are the most insistent on the notion that, "oh everything is completely the same, nothing has changed at all since when we were kids!" Yeah, the smartphone (of which, average screen time per consumer likely exceeds how much time they spend sleeping) and being told to be on effective isolationist house arrest for the better part of two years truly had no impact on society whatsoever! Anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:11 AM
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What is so bizarre to me is women will literally say things like, "Yeah well, women need to be more selective and hypergamous, because we carry the risk of being vulnerable by being pregnant. So we need to throughly vet who we're mating with." Then in the next breath... "Evolutionary psychology is just a bunch of pseudo-scientific, patriarchal garbage!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:05 AM
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Or maybe it's akin to how the vast majority of women would prefer a man who greatly out-earns them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:03 AM
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Are you Filipina?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:59 AM
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I also think it's funny that the men who complain about women not doing these things are equally as incompetent. This was never really a complaint of mine. I think it's kind of funny so many women here complain they find so many men who can't do basic life skills, but then again it seems to be lacking on both genders. I'm just saying, some men like it when a woman can cook food, that's why it was brought up as a potential positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:53 AM
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I never mentioned cooking. As far as obesity and single motherhood go? It's quite a bit different than what it was 15-20 years ago, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:50 AM
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Generally agree, it's about willingness to do as such though. Also, you'd be surprised just how much people struggle to read and follow instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:45 AM
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I really don't think men's standards are that high, I mean we're getting to a point where a man simply asking a woman to not be fat and not have another man's kids is considered high expectations? Like this would be seen as an absolute bizzare clown world only 15-20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:43 AM
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No, more so men stating preferences or asks they'd like in a partner of theirs, then women responding as they did as such. The dating outside of the country aspect is less so relevant here to the point I'm making, but I will say it will be interesting as more and more men become open to the option of such.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:34 AM
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Nominal wages barely keeping up with inflation are not evidence of greater socioeconomic activity. If we're measuring by %ofM1 too, most of it went away from anyone considered even remotely working or middle class, which is ultimately how wealth is assessed (in a given country, it's only worth measuring on a relative basis or in terms of purchasing power). ​ A huge percentage of Millenials and Gen Z and so on will literally never own a home due to zoning laws and other deconstructive implementat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:32 AM
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What stands out to me about this engagement is just thinking about how this would be received if the genders were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:09 AM
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What do you guys think of my new flair?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:07 AM
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Oh I agree, and I'm not either, but the fact that most women react in some sort of defensive or antagonistic manner if a man even suggest a woman knowing how to cook is a positive is pretty telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:03 AM
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Did you ever try writing " 6'2" " in your profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:36 AM
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Whether or not that is true doesn't really matter tbh. The overall socioeconomic mobility is what was starkly different back then. And yes, rent was absolutely much cheaper. Even if you could find expensive listings, it was also fairly easy to find private leases that were below an already very affordable market rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:23 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:22 AM
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Also I disagree that income is related to someone’s “value to society”. Teachers are very valuable to society, yet don’t get paid much In my day, it was khanacademy, today's kids have ChatGPT. Both can be used to be effective replacements for the vast majority of teachers today. ​ Same with nurses… Okay, and the market reflected that, no? ​ risk their life as “essential workers” and indeed, we do need people to grow food, pick/process food, and sell food, and I’d say we probably need that more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:51 AM
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So, only discuss and push for equality when it is beneficial for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:47 AM
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Guessing defense contractor or civil engineer,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:47 AM
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Yep, we're not cherry pickign stories here to push a narrative now are we? As /u/wtknight said, they're marrying them for a reason. Part of it is money and status, but who cares? Relationships are fundamentally transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:46 AM
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You shouldn't be trying to bring them back in the first place, that's where the corruption leaks through.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:43 AM
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<inserts anecdote that can no way be representative of the population it is trying to be extrapolated against>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:42 AM
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"I'm glad these ladies are taking one for the team." Then along right below with, /u/my_alt_has_alts with But they say "Western women are fat and feminists so I'm going to find a submissive wife somewhere else" This is the fundamental problem men are having in the West to begin with. Women here have such an overinflated ego and perception of themselves. ​ What exactly are American women offering to men? They frequently ask the inverse to men, but never are introspective enough to consider the si…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:42 AM
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If a hot handsome 40 something is dating a hot 20 something, then it's less icky for me personally, because there is no clear transactional aspect of that relationship All relationships are transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:27 AM
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I disagree. Shouldn't we prioritize the leisure of those that add the most value to society/the economy? ​ Generally speaking, at varying thresholds, stress level correlates positively with income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:25 AM
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So, no equality then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:07 AM
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Because their only experience is with Chads who play them, so they extrapolate that to represent all male behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 05:01 AM
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I actually prefer women who aren't so overly done up and fake looking — much easier to distinguish and assess true beauty than the unfortunately mainstream popularized trap look.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:58 AM
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Being attracted to women has caused all the stress in my life. Asexual dudes are probably the most calm dudes in existence ​ - /u/Royal-Tip4585 ​ Nice finding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:57 AM
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What kind of engineering are you doing that you're struggling this much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:55 AM
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A 50/50 division of labor would be each person spending the same amount of their available free time on chores - resulting in an equal amount of free time to each person. ​ /u/novadina ​ Please review how the dynamics of labor economics functions in the macro real world for a moment. If one person's time is valued at a statistically significant higher level of value, then their free time is technically even more valuable than the other person's. ​ Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:54 AM
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I think it would require someone in one of those types of professions on order to properly diagnose and interpret the situation though, that's the difference. Not someone who consistently seems to be deliberately trying to interpret something to confirm their own personal worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:51 AM
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Further you get along with your career the less dumb opinion nonsense shit you have to put up with and can eventually just tune out. How's that figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:47 AM
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Communism in a one-to-one relationship is really sort of host-parasitic relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:43 AM
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LOL, yes, let's extrapolate the very most expensive cities and try to massage and scale that as representative of how it worked for the rest of the country
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 04:41 AM
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I don't think you get it. To make a good income, especially nowadays, is far more competitive and scarce. People could rent their own studios for a few hundred bucks in the 90s and get by on minimum wage jobs, that's simply not even remotely feasible nowadays. You could literally major in the stupidest bullshit, and it would be a ticket to upper management and the upper middle class, whereas now we have a tremendous issue with progressive credentialism and HR requiring master's degrees for entry…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:52 AM
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Yes, that's the only equitable division of labor, 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:45 AM
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Yes, that's the only equitable division, especially as the man's income will more than likely be seen as the general reservoir of earnings for the couple — while the woman's is more so spent at her own discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:44 AM
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Partnership splits usually depend on time required. If you’re both working the same hours, it would be bizarre to ask your spouse to take on more chores after work because they work in a less profitable field. I'm so used to analyzing Gynocentric frameworks and models of thinking that I was surprised this wasn't an argument made earlier as to why women shouldn't take on more household/domestic chores if the man is making the majority of the money. They want you to earn the majority of the money,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:03 AM
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If you’re both working the same hours, it would be bizarre to ask your spouse to take on more chores after work because they work in a less profitable field. No, it really isn't, especially considering how most couples operate under the standard of the man's earnings as 'their' money and the woman's earnings as 'her' money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:01 AM
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So in other words... !GYNOCENTRISM!<
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:46 AM
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the insecurity comes from not matching cultural expectations and basing one's self-worth on N-count and ability to pull women. You can be completely asexual and still feel these pressures. This is the fundamental problem with things like Stoicism and therapy — the notion that external forces have no bearing one's well-being whatsoever. In this particular case, I'd reckon not. The only reason an ugly man really cares that he's ugly is that it makes him less receptive to woman and hurts his dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:45 AM
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Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:42 AM
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Yes, good point, let's get rid of that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:41 AM
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If a man makes the majority of the household income, why shouldn't the woman take on the majority of the household chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:40 AM
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/u/n0ts0happycamper Women were less likely to cheat the men. Due to female rationalization and male ego... Women were less likely to leave their partners after a serious injury then men. paging /u/HazyMemory7 — what post/comment did you address this in? Women were happier being single then men. Survey, sociocultural, and response bias, also /u/HazyMemory7 has a study showing this isn't consistently replicated, and therefore, not a valid interpretation of the current evidence. Women were more soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:36 AM
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You think Tinder bots actually read a tinder bios — let alone actual girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:29 AM
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Rent has gotten quite bad even in tier-2 cities due to the hyperinflationary environment we're in currently. There's also a sense of 'I shouldn't have to be spending over half of my take home pay on bare living essentials at this income threshold'. ​ I also work A LOT. Though I can probably pivot into a job with better work life balance for similar pay, that's becoming a big uncertainty with the current economic downturn we're going into right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:26 AM
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Women who act like this are probably with a guy who has a lot of options, and the woman is rightfully insecure about him potentially leaving her for a hotter girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:14 AM
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It's absolutely hilarious how if you say you find young women most attractive, women jump out of their seat and start calling you a pedophile (even though it's quite clear from context that the person is referring to a woman who is in their early 20s). People here get so mad at men shaming women for preferences but completely overlook when women shame men for their own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:13 AM
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Okay so one girl that is verifiably attractive (and is an OF girl), and then another who doesn't even actually post and hasn't posted in months?? ​ I don't know how you can tell how hot someone is based on their writing style.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:09 AM
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Net worth is fluctuating between 125-150k, make low six figures. Probably closer to 90th percentile for income, which is quite a big jump from 95th percentile incidentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:05 AM
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Oh okay, I just assume whenever someone uses 'LVM' that it's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:02 AM
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The older I get the more I think PSSD is a feature and function of SSRIs rather than a symptom. Most men would be far better off if they were asexual. Think about it, practically all male insecurities would vanish if they were no longer attracted to women, because almost all of those insecurities are driven by how well they can attract a woman from (i.e. in spite of) said deficiencies. ​ Hopefully sometime in the future we'll be able to free ourselves of the vestigal shackles that is human sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:01 AM
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Where are you seeing these pictures, and these are what? Less than a half dozen out of hundreds here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:53 AM
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Where are you seeing these pictures, and these are what? Less than a half dozen out of hundreds here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:53 AM
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Not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:52 AM
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Women complain in all situations. You can give them everything they asked for, and they'll still complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:52 AM
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Am I afraid to try for what? I'm probably in the 95th percentile in terms of net worth for my age, that's how I know how fucked my generation is, because it's still a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:51 AM
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Not really, you just are operating under the presumption of an outdated moral standard, while what I've outlined is contemporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:50 AM
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Yeah, record high rates of people living at home with their parents in their 20s, 30s, and even 40s, nothing wrong with that! There's no housing crisis whatsoever! Telling everyone 'jUsT gO tO coLlEgE' totally had no consequences whatsoever!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:49 AM
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Why do women care about what men post online then? They care so much that they actively voice for calls for censorship, and oftentimes, doxxing of said groups. ​ LVM energy here caring about what women think. Just focus. And you? Or it's okay for you to do anything deemed negative, because you're a woman, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:47 AM
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How do you know they're not someone who can be classified as WGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:46 AM
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Not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:45 AM
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It isn't though. Social connections in general are. Those social connections do not have to be romantic or sexual in nature. They comprise a much larger group including family and friends. Who are you to actually declare this though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:43 AM
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Where was I coping? I perfectly understand that most women want nothing to do with men unless it actually comes time for them to save them or need them out of necessity. The person literally claimed they avoided contact with men, because they only expected to get hurt from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:42 AM
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What comment made you feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:46 AM
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"I can just tell by the dialogue that goes on in this subreddit that many of the women here struggle with weight. Anyone trying to explain that weight changes are ultimately driven and explained by CICO as the primary mechanism gets downvoted here, lol." ​ Really is telling. It's been pointed out before, but it would be nice to see if there were younger (and attractive) women posting here to balance out what seems to be primarily middle-aged women giving their spin of things. Not that their inpu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:33 AM
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It's funny how in almost every comment you make on this subreddit you try to rationalize away what is generally considered abnormal or likely unhealthy behavior as completely fine and normal. ​ I've stayed away from men for most of my twenties. ​ /u/chekhovs-gun0 is correct to assess that this is a sign of an unhealthy excessive avoidant attachment type, because it's the prime example of someone who avoids people/relationships, because they only expect them to cause pain. ​ Based on what I've se…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:29 AM
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Women are the ones consistently choosing the small percent of bad boys who treat them like shit, because they're the ones who get the pussy wet for them. ​ so they can ask for healthier dynamics or simply leave them be. ​ 'If a man doesn't give me exactly everything I want and deal with all of my emotional temper tantrums just how I want him to, he's trash!'
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:23 AM
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Doesn’t mean those men are good options. Doesn’t mean those men are kind or good hearted. Doesn’t mean those men have good intentions or would even make a good sexual partner at all. ​ A woman could have a perfect man available for her, but she can still deem him not good enough, because she and her girlfriends have propped her ego up so much for her to think she's a 10/10 queen — even if she's an obese single mother. ​ Women don’t pedestalize sex as the most important thing in the world. Maybe …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:21 AM
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Yes, conveniently leave out women complaining about men 24/7 on TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:18 AM
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Yes, conveniently leave out women complaining about men 24/7 on TikTok, Instagram, and Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:18 AM
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How did you get into heroin in the first place? Did you ever take opioids?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:16 AM
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Well, women are naturally misandrist, so you can't really fight it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:10 AM
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Damn dude heroin is some serious shit, how long have you been clean for now? What was the hardest part of staying clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:07 AM
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Can you explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:03 AM
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Wow, do you still use?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:01 AM
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I think there is some generational dependency perhaps, but I really don't think things will get any better for millennials or Gen Z (and future generations beyond them). Most people under 40 today will likely never get to benefit off of any of the SS dollars we're paying boatloads for to keep the boomers afloat currently due to budget cuts and increased restrictions. As time goes on, getting bare essentials has only gotten more difficult. AI is likely going to automate a lot of people out of wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:00 AM
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You lack imagination Perhaps I do, but perhaps I'm just telling the somber reality for Gen Z and onwards. ​ Could induce a hellish last few seconds in you brain and these seconds are stretched out since the brain fires every neuron in the moment of death Hmm interesting, I remember watching a neuroscientist cover how OD'ing on opiates must feel like and the potential OD, but I have heard this discussed in NDEs. Really crazy how the perception of time changes completely. ​ Have you tried DMT?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:57 PM
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It's very clear that one of the main goals of feminism today is to use legal action against undesired behavior (which is defined at any individual woman's discretion) from men. Exhibit A: https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/county-in-uk-makes-it-a-hate-crime-to-upset-women Exhibit B: https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/staring-on-tube-unhealthy-sexual-behaviour/#:\~:text=Last%20month%20Transport%20for%20London,harassment%20and%20is%20not%20tolerated.%22
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:44 PM
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I know a lot of Gen Z and younger Millenials mourned the death of XXXTentacion and Juice WRLD for passing away so young, but I don't think they realize the truly somber note in it all — passing away at 25-30 is probably the ideal time to die in all fairness. There's nothing really to look forward to after then outside of bodily decay, taxes, work (for many people in the West — obesity and chronic health problems), and more stress. I'd imagine OD'ing on opiates has to be one of the most pleasurab…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:39 PM
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No prosecutor holds you without evidence for God’s sake. They even realesed a few transcripts to the press. Okay, what evidence do they have on him? Bruh touch grass already. I'm trying to quit weed, sorry. Just like the other dude that said he is average and doesn’t struggle getting women "tall and white" "average" — ironically enough the guy is probably just insecure about his looks and is probably above average looking too. But they are likeable and tolerable, two traits which some men severe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:35 PM
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“A dating app. A social mixer. Some social settings typically for singles or where people meet up, like a bar, a club, or a party.” Dating apps are basically not going to lead to any sort of success whatsoever for 50-80% of men. I'm sure she'll find some context to complain about a man approaching a woman at a bar, club, or a party as well. She's just saying that for now to not seem completely off the rails. Feel free to approach unknown women platonically in many other situations. Romantically?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:31 PM
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It's very clear that one of the main goals of feminism today is to use legal action against undesired behavior (which is defined at any individual woman's discretion) from men. ​ Exhibit A: https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/county-in-uk-makes-it-a-hate-crime-to-upset-women ​ Exhibit B: https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/staring-on-tube-unhealthy-sexual-behaviour/#:~:text=Last%20month%20Transport%20for%20London,harassment%20and%20is%20not%20tolerated.%22
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:27 PM
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Bruh I am mainly surrounded by average men that don’t sweat about obese single mothers because guess what? they get average women. So you’re just telling on yourself here. A lot of women consider men who are 6' tall and make 100k to be 'average'. I don't trust a woman's intution on what is considered average, because time and time again, they've been shown to be completely miscalibrated (a large part of this being due to their social media consumption). You go and beta bux for a wife and then ai…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:23 PM
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I'm more so curious about what people in this subreddit think. So many people here say 'get off the apps and approach women in public', but then you have a barrage of feminists screeching sentiments like in this tweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:18 PM
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You can have incels without a feminist society, but you can't have a feminist society without incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:15 PM
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Then she'll go out to date the most attractive man who happened to be horny enough to swipe right on her, get pumped and dumped, then go on Twitter/TikTok/IG to complain about how all men are trash and formulate all of her opinions of men based on this one engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:13 PM
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No dude that actually has the potential in our dating market to do a decent job has to move to another continent just to pay some local to throw some ass in his direction. This is what you're telling yourself as a female — you have absolutely zero perspective of what it is like as an average guy in America. We literally have women who are obese single mothers in our country who think they should never settle and are 10/10 queens. Almost everyone else is either taken or trying to 'manifest' and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:11 PM
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Top feminist posits and agrees: men should not be approaching women in public and that legal consequences should be introduced for those that do as such
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:04 PM
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There are plenty of videos of passport bros that are showing similar phenomenon. My point is that a lot of them are dudes who have their shit together and are at least decent looking. I don't get why it's such a big deal if a man goes to another country to find a woman. If university grads need to move to a different state or city to start their career, nobody says anything. If those who were recently accepted into med school need to move to another state or country to go to med school, no one s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:59 PM
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I figured it was satirical/rhetorical, but it seemed to be frame rather seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:53 PM
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You’re not convincing anyone that passport bros are not leftovers in the west for various reasons (not just looks). It's irrelevant if they are. My point is men need to assess whatever options they have domestically, and if they have better luck abroad — who is anyone else to say they shouldn't otherwise? And no, modern dating really is primarily down to looks — Western societies have abstracted away everything else that women look to get from men (primarily, resources and attention), so now wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:51 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/qcTSlvLtIjw Very next in the queue on YT. Normal looking, taller, in-shape dude (I'd argue at least somewhat above average) — he seems to be enjoying himself. i could say she’s an american women that got away from obese and lazy american men and got herself a fine dude from another continent. see how we can all make up bullshit stories? Sure, you could. But the reality is nobody really wants to be with American woman. American women don't realize how overleveraged …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:44 PM
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Nice strawman. Most of the women that are taken are the ones who are in shape or at least not obese (many are overweight still). I can just tell my the dialogue that goes on in this subreddit that many of the women here struggle with weight. Anyone trying to explain that weight changes are ultimately driven and explained by CICO gets downvoted here, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:37 PM
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'my dad didn't buy me the brand new benz i wanted, so traumatized ;('
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:34 PM
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Literally the only thing the US is good for at this point is to make money. Has virtually zero culture or anything of substance whatsoever (if you want that in a first-world context, EU is much better), just mindless, vapid consumerism and non-stop work culture. And lol @ all these people claiming people who go abroad to find women as beta. Most colonizers and war mongers were stereotypically seen as alpha, and they conquered and pillage lands and the women within them. Even if they are beta (wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:33 PM
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YEAH, all passport bros are just low value simps. But the men who stay back in the US to date all the obese single mothers? They're totally not beta! When are people like you going to understand some men just don't want to settle for the left over obese single moms, and that's increasingly being what's left for any dude who's single?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:29 PM
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Well, then you should understand that there is no such thing as good or evil, only perceived self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:26 PM
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Why form cogent, astute, robust counter-arguments when you can simply report the other person?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:26 PM
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What kind of comparison is this? Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:25 PM
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The whole premise of this post is frankly ridiculous, but I'd just like to emphasise how cartoonishly evil this paragraph sounds. In today's post-modern world, there is not such thing as 'good' or 'evil'. People need to do whatever they can to find leverage in whatever situations they can to confer to their survival. Morals? There is no such thing as morals, only perceived self-interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:23 PM
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They did did, they keep insisting that hypergamy is stronger now that it’s ever been. Women had far less options than they do today, hence, hypergamy is stronger now than in the past. However if they bother actually looking at facts, more women are marrying men with less money than they do than ever before. Dubious statistic since most women still strongly prefer to marry someone who makes more than them, and in cases where they aren't, they had to settle in that regard. The majority of married …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:21 PM
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I agree with what you're saying. I make decent money, but am deciding to live home right now just due to the massive hyperinflation and volatile state of the economy as it currently stands. With that being said, I definitely empathize with their struggles and disdain with society and why they are dropping out. In all likelihood, they probably can rely on just inheriting their parents' house when they die plus whatever remainder retirement funds their parents have — sell that property and get a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:27 AM
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What are your thoughts on Todd V?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:20 AM
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I'd say that and early/older Gen X men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:20 AM
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I don't understand why he is saying that this topic should be talked more, this is the 555533457777 time I see that posted I think it's exploded over the past year (and has been rapidly increasing in chatter since COVID started), and this post was posted towards the beginning of 2022. the message from the mod is hilarious lol. the comments are surprisingly civilized Probably follows from the previous quoted block Edit to add: 4) why do they say "check out from society"? I don't think they are go…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:09 AM
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Wasn't posting this with any real intention tbh. I think what stands out to me though is a lot of people think the things discussed here are tied in obscurity to this rather small, insignificant corner of the internet that is the PPD subreddit, but the things that are discussed here actually do manifest on a much more macro scale than people realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:39 AM
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This has been something I've been thinking about over the past few weeks, and I think East Asia's response to declining birth rates is actually the right approach. Western models are based on aggregate/linear productivity per capita modeling, but this seems outdated, because we lived in a world where a 150 IQ engineer has the ability to be more productive than 100 110 IQ individuals leveraging automation and technology. I'm not completely again immigration, but I think one of the most overrated …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:35 AM
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np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/sxcvvm/why_are_young_men_giving_up_on_dating/ ​ How many of you have read this thread before?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:30 AM
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Eh, I agree in theory, but not really in practice. For example, some people are training non-responders or get very little training adaptation (i.e. hypertrophy) from training and have to do a lot more to get the same gains as someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:30 AM
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I think more so, because everytime I've seen your comments — it's always been more of a "men just need to get out and socialize more" type of sentiment. I do get though with you being older though — there definitely was a bigger focus on car/vehicle culture and living in a suburb versus living in a city, which is probably more modern and contemporary compared to back in the day (hell, even Seinfeld characters living in NYC owned cars). Personally, most of these metros in the South seemed to not …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:29 AM
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What evidence is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:20 AM
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I'm sorry but the data we have from genetics really does not support this. Even relatively recent instances (for example, European colonization of present day Latin and South America) pretty much gives us a representation of how these shifts took place. Based on certain periods in human history, there was a reproductive bottle neck where for a man would pair with 17 different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:40 PM
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Why did you downvote me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:37 PM
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The women were likely taken as the 'spoils of war'. Women likely needed to depend on any surviving men around (even if they were the enemy combatants who displaced the original men of the tribe) to survive, as they not only depended on them for food and resource provisioning — but also protection from nature and the elements (e.g. saber tooth tigers and other predators in the safari).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:33 PM
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Finding girls most attractive in their early 20s is predatory now? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:25 PM
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Very interesting coming from you tbh. I think the only way people in their 20s right now will be able to beat the persistent malaise of social isolation from COVID and being in the suburban sticks is to live as close as possible or within a major city. If you work a pretty high volume job that can be demanding, it's a lot harder to convince yourself to go out when you're 30 a minute drive (+15 to find parking etc) outside of a major city. Probably the easiest way to increase your access to more …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:24 PM
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That's a good question. Statistically men should actually be more afraid since they're much more likely to be a victim of a violent crime than a woman is. I'd imagine it largely just has to do with psychological adaptations throughout human evolution. Men, especially in primitive times, lived extremely dangerous lives. We were constantly hunting or warring with combatant tribes, if you were too fixated on being too nervous or scared by the presence of danger, you likely wouldn't survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:14 PM
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Not rejected, but was dating a girl for 2-3 months, ended up going out of town for a relative's wedding (we literally face timed that weekend I was out). The day I get back, I text her, doesn't reply. Texts me like 3 days later, "Hey I suck for responding so late, but I don't think I'll be able to see you much for the next few months" — I try asking why, doesn't reply (leaves my on read). I tried giving her a call the next day but just rang and never returned the call. Truth be told, I've learne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:09 PM
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LOL, you think SF is more walkable than NYC? I'm pretty sure DC and Chicago are also far more walkable than SF. Did you mean to say it's the most walkable in the state or "one of the most walkable in the nation", because those are the only accurate variations I can think of that you may have been alluding to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:01 PM
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California having failed to have any major walkable cities is a huge negative for it being a state of its popularity. LA, at the end of the day, is just one extremely expensive city of urban sprawl in which one needs to own a car (think about how people call Dallas the LA of Texas). ​ SF/Bay Area will lose its pedigree as more and more tech transitions to remote status and/or downsizing due to economic downturn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:55 PM
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Theory: Women are demonstrably (per clinical psychological trials) more neurotic than men and have a far strong in-group preference from men. This ultimately causes a very intense, sensitive signal for them which gives them a completely different perception of reality than men do in regards to any and all kinds of engagements with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:51 PM
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TRP didn't really change anything. If you want to argue something negative about TRP in this context, you could argue that TRP plagiarized the evopsych implication/nuance of what hypergamy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:45 PM
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It is rather amusing seeing how women will make fun of men for having approach anxiety with women despite many women struggling to pick up a phone and make a call to order a pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:45 PM
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Making eye contact with someone is not the same as approaching them. Actually approaching is making eye contact, walking towards them, and opening a dialogue/conversation with that person. As such, most men will pretty much never experience this in their life (and mind you, I do believe they shouldn't expect to either), but it's rather amusing seeing how women will make fun of men for having approach anxiety with women, when many women struggle to pick up the phone and order a pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:41 PM
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What do you think has lead (and continues so today) in the growth of the manosphere as more and more time goes on? The more and more misandrist the institutions and their respective establishments and major outlets are — the more jaded and disconnected men are going to feel from society at large. Manosphere provides a place for men to share these grievances. I'd estimate the greater manosphere probably composes of at least 50 million men, if not greater. ​ I love how you conveniently cherry pick…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:37 PM
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Actually, it really as elementary and simple as CICO. What you're citing is pseudoscientific bullshit of 'starvation mode', which isn't actually real. Yes, your metabolism expends less calories as you lose less body weight, because your body is carrying around less weight as you move and breathe. The actual correction is you need to reduce calories more. A good hedge against this is to resistance train and eat adequate protein, because LBM helps retain your BMR. A lot of people don't do this and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:36 PM
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Yeah it's totally that, it has nothing to do with men being biologically wired through evolution to be most attractive to young, fertile women, nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:29 PM
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Girl, you're absolutely not well-centered at all. You literally explicitly stated in your original comment that men should get a surgery that costs hundreds of thousands of dollars and has a high probability of making them a paraplegic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:25 PM
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When the opposition is ACTUALLY killing you and committing crimes against you, hashtags really seem like nothing. I’d take a hashtag if all it was was a hashtag. But when men write these things, it’s statistically correlated with increased violence towards women. ​ Isolated incidents that happen so infrequently, but due to female neuroticism, they think is happening to every single woman everywhere every single day, lol. Incel communities post about rape around every 49 minutes. They impact boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:24 PM
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Yep, very strong predictions that 2023 will see an explosion in passport bros. It's kind of funny when you think about it. Even guys like Roosh and the Tate brothers are passport bros to a degree, I think Roosh and the Tates both said American and British women are either fat or 'busted' as primary reasons for traveling elsewhere, lmaoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 08:03 PM
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It's called knowledge and empathy. I can't imagine how hard it could be for fat people trying to lose weight, but I work with people whose entire career is about it. The facts are the facts. 90% of people's attempts to lose weight fail. That doesn't mean it's not worth people trying in a healthful way; it's between them and their medical professionals. The thing is losing weight is really not that hard — it's simple, not easy. I think what's even more telling is if you managed to get to the weig…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:25 PM
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It's just Gynocentrism, that's really what it is at the end of the day — it's why debating these types of topics on any sorts of lines of reason and logic are flawed, because we're talking about something that has influenced human psychology through the development of millions of years of human and hominid evolution. People like /u/januaryphilosopher will commit to pathologically lying about the very reality we all see today. Women have such a strong sense of in-group preference that they simply…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:18 PM
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Actually, when the opposition is making trending social media post about #KillAllMen and #AllMenAreTrash and "short men are disgusting and should die" and any guy they don't like has a small penis, then saying "you know, I'm not really into fat chicks" is fairly reasonable to say the least. ​ /u/statsfodder
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:09 PM
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And why are women on this subreddit then? They're totally not complaining at all, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:06 PM
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I've read through some of your older posts and comments, and many imply that you have women basically approaching you — which is completely deviant from the general male experience. I think you're likely just down playing how physically attractive you are and acting like your experiences are representative of a lot of other men. ​ Additionally, whenever a man tries to pull leverage in his favor (i.e. say go to another country), you seem to be the type to go and shame a man for doing as such, whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:06 PM
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Can women take it? Doesn't really seem like they can considering most of the things men criticize are very easily influenceable and under one's control — you know — without a six-figure surgery that could completely remove one's ability to walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:01 PM
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Lol, seeing so many women on this subreddit complain about how hard it is to not be overweight/obese explains so much about why so many women here have the struggles they do. ​ No, CICO really is the primary mechanism by which weight loss, maintenance, and gain functions. This is pretty much undisputed science. ​ Comparing food 'addiction' to drug addiction is also incredibly deceptive. Part of why people struggle with obesity and weight problems in the US is due to the obesogenic environment an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:00 PM
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Calories In; Calories Out is in fact the actual biophysical mechanism by which weight loss (or maintenance or gain) behaves. The fact that many people struggle to even understand this basic concept is why people also struggle with weight loss in the first place. There's not anymore magic to it than that. The real reason people can't stave off weight loss is they just simply don't care, that's in part because we are so incredibly obese and unhealthy in America — that we are actively trying to con…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:52 PM
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What are you talking about? Women go on and on about how disgusting short men are and allude to how a man they don't like has a small penis. I personally don't care, because I'm an advocate of free speech. But if you're going to make such comments, are you really that sensitive that someone calls you fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:46 PM
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OP, you need to understand that humans are fundamentally Gynocentric — this informs human behavior through its emotional manifestation that supersedes are logic or reason. ​ On a side note, I have to say, seeing all the women here complaining about a man simply saying he doesn't want to date an obese woman really does explain why the women here have the dating struggles they do. Chad may smash the fatty, but he's not going to commit to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:44 PM
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I'm literally not fat though. I haven't even been working out much over the past month but still in much better shape than the average American. Women have very high standards, and simply 'not being fat' anymore isn't enough for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:40 PM
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Perhaps. But it does definitely have explanatory power as to why women are able to fairly easily move on after a break up or if they become a widow. Those French women did seem to invite the Germans in with open arms, but who knows — maybe it was all just a facade. I'd also say as porn became more diversified and accessible, it's interesting to see the uptick in women watching aggressive, rape-esque fetishized (if not literally portrayed as rape) porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:17 AM
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There may or may not be collapse, but there's been a consistent decline for at least two decades now. What /u/Rexagon_2017 is saying is completely on point too, you should really look at the demographic statistics of European countries (primarily the ones measuring country of origin of parent for babies born), because ironically enough they will look a lot closer to Afghanistan's neighbors than Norway. Also, by education, I sincerely hope you mean having a strong primary education system, and no…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:11 AM
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Well, let's look into history. I'd look into German occupation of France in WW2 and Genghis Khan as very easy examples (I'm not particularly well read on history, so I'm sure someone who is could come up with a barrage more of examples than I can). South American colonization probably will have some insightful information as well. ​ Then there's just the general premise of our evolutionary history and "War Bride" mating hypothesis. Throughout our species' existence, existence was nothing like it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:52 AM
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Because landlord oligarchs have done a very good job in signaling and advertising for shaming people for living at home, even though the vast majority of 20-something year olds are really just committing financial suicide by paying modern rent with the wages those age demographics are bringing in currently. This goes hand in hand with the boomers' rite of passage. The major caveat? Rent and mortgages were dirt fucking cheap back then (like literally 1-2x the median household income for a mortgag…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:46 AM
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I wonder why the same military entity has completely lowered standards for their female recruits then...?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:40 AM
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The only thing more delusional than the inc31s claiming that society will collapse strictly because they're unable to get laid (which is really more so a tertiary symptom of a much larger issue) is the folks on the other side of the aisle who are pretending everything in society is progressing perfectly despite a progressive decline in standard of living for the bulk majority of the population since about the 70s (some will argue since the 90s, but drastically so since 08).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:39 AM
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I think it's safe to say the extent of this trend has been significantly overstated, and gender doesn't seem like a big factor either. Additionally, many virgin men are in fact voluntarily holding out, a factor which may actually explain some portion of the slight recent uptick we see. It's funny how two different people can look at the exact same statistics and come to completely different conclusions. In my opinion, if there's such a wide intergenerational gap in sociological trends, that's pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:34 AM
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sub Reddits should be ok to meme post “men are trash” and “incels are fckin losers” posts without it being called bullying here or men here complaining about it. Like they do already? Not to mention the entirety of Twitter having free reign to do as such? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:56 AM
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Reminds me of this ​ https://www.kcur.org/2022-12-12/who-needs-college-algebra-kansas-universities-may-rethink-math-requirements ​ But we definitely need to spend more time teaching toddlers about gender identities and pronouns!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:54 AM
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What are you talking about? There is far more censorship of male voices on this subreddit than there is of women's voices. The purge very effectively (and has so in the past) demonstrated that. ​ I'll take a stab at it anyways. You're not used to reading an environment that isn't purely Gynocentric. This is probably the one space where you face aGynocentric or anti-Gynocentric views, and you don't know how to deal with that on an emotional level. ​ Almost 95% of the rest of the internet is const…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:51 AM
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The "just so happens" memes happens way too often for it to be a coincidence in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:37 AM
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Censorship is never the answer. An argument that is strong enough will stand on its own merit and reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:37 AM
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So men AND women don't like men, is this supposed to be a discovery?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:30 AM
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Very interesting coming from someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:44 PM
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What's shown in the photo is based on the evolutionary timeline of human reproduction, not recent human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:36 PM
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Most women don't want to be approached and in some places (parts of England) -- upsetting women is considered illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:44 PM
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