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| 4 | Hi, does anyone know where I can find this course by Honest Signalz?I found it on Google, but I'll be damned if he ever gets a red cent. Literally the first sentence is "stop being such a pussy." Later down the page, "Only those whose risk going too far, can find out how far one can go." That's a great line for ice hockey, and a borderline rapist way to refer to women. Jesus christ. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Need advice: I got her number, setup a date for this weekend but she doesn’t know if she can make it. So what do I do with her number now. Just ask to hmu when she’s free or what?People have other shit going on and life happens. Give her one more chance, but then if she flakes again, cut her off. Your time is valuable. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop making excuses to myself not to approachSo your problem is that because of your anxiety, you justify not talking to these women by pseudo-subconciously negging them. You may not be afraid of being rejected (believe me, im envious), but you are afraid of having your time/money wasted. What's worse is, you know yourself that this is some mental bullshit. So I think the best thing to do would be to sit yourself down and map out a perfect woman. What's the hottest woman your mind can come up with, and then ask yourself, do you think this … | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Do men genuinely want to improve their dating lives?Anxiety runs rampant, and it's far, far easier to play armchair general than to conquer your fear of women. I'm living proof. It's easier to stay home, bark a couple of comments down, and be snarky than to go out, look a fool, and come do a field report. It's easy to read how to get fit, and difficult to actually get there. Has seduction changed? Oh yeah. Has it changed for the worse? No, not in my opinion. I remember back when this sub was just starting to explode, and we were inundated with bo… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:58 PM |
| 3 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out."My whole existence is flawed!" "You bring me closer to god!" | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you ask to hookup with someone?So the first thing you need to do, I'd say, is just look at this situation objectively. She's sending you dirty texts, and you're (presumably) texting back the same vibe. So obviously you want to get in each other's pants. Now you can be all bold, and simply ask her, "hey wanna hook up sometime?" And sure, there's a chance it could work! But it's more fun to beat around the bush and be playful. You probably feel this already through your texts. The attraction you feel when she flirts with you. S… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:42 PM |
| 3 | How do I flirt? Is there a guide?I believe that flirting is a form of play for adults, and flirting should be more focused on "fun" than rather just getting into someone's pants, or getting as many numbers as possible. (Though that does feel pretty good.) No one can tell you how you flirt, in the same way that no one can tell you how to have fun, or give you an optimal strategy to play pretend. Your sense of fun and flirting is unique to you. For example, I prefer to flirt very overtly. When I like you, you'll know it. I ham it… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 3 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?Drug addicts are pretty quick to call up hospitals and beg for drugs, and when you tell em it's just not in your power... | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 09:26 AM |
| 21 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?Damn straight. People like to act mean when they're sure they won't see others again. People have hung the phone up on me with death threats back when I worked in medicine. That's their prerogative. When I first started that job, I'd get panic attacks, now nothing phases me. Didn't make the job less shitty, but now I can handle much more, and consider myself a much, much stronger person. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 09:00 AM |
| 3 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepOP, this is the real answer. This chick is a cheater. You down with that? Can you boink her and then look at yourself in the mirror? Some dudes on here can. I cant. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 08:54 AM |
| 51 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?Mama said it to me best, "Women can be cruel, but not every one." This girl said "You're ugly as fuck, go kill yourself," simply cause she wanted you to go away. I doubt it's much more than that, and I personally wouldn't give her much more thought. However, when you're dealing with insecurity, there isn't a person on this forum that will disagree that it's easier said than done. Maybe she'd been hit on all night. Maybe you are a scary motherfucker. Maybe she just got left, or any other sort of … | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | why might I feel like I would literally get arrested if I make any physical move on a woman?There's obvious, overt consent, and there's implied consent. While implied consent is great for innocuous school yard things like holding hands, you want to ask before doing things like kissing. Body language and context matters If she's in your bed, then yeah, you've likely got a go ahead to at least be somewhat physical with her. And hand holding won't get you jailed unless you're aggressively trying to snatch her hand. I believe in the 80-20 rule. You know, go in 80 percent and if she wants, … | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:46 AM |
| 2 | I’m good at cold approaching and short dates but I’m not good at longer dates (3+hrs). Any tipsFirst off, there's no shame in being passionate, or having "manly" hobbies. There's also no shame in waiting till you find some commonality with these women, but also, get into their lives! The last woman I was seeing was into law, which I figured would be a boring ass topic. Somehow, she made it seem interesting, because she was wildly passionate about it. I could literally listen to her talk about the justice system for hours. She also felt the same way for my love of musical history. Once I s… | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl Asked Me “Is That Why You Don’t Date?” How to RespondPersonally, I throw terms like "abundance" and "high value male" out the window. Jargon is for chumps, game should be a natural journey for everyone, imo. Put it this way, say you're bringing a girl to bed. You gonna stop because she's got red fingernails and white tipped toenails? Fuck no. What kind of a lover would that make you? Same with saying "single" on your profile. It's such a little thing, that no one will likely notice. As for this older lady, who knows. Are you into her? How heavy yo… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Is it ok to take things slow with kino?Next time she's talking about something she's passionate about, smile and push your fingers around hers. If she recoils, it's safe to say let her go, but if she holds it, move on from there and start flirting a little harder. Leave all this jargon, and pua crap behind, and do what you want to do in small increments. Just tell her to keep going, and for the love of God don't stop listening to her, but give her the conversation reigns for a bit. Be playful about it all. After all, you're really in… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | she has wife qualities - but I'm not attracted to herDude, we don't know this chick. I'm gonna be honest and gross here, do you find sex with this woman enjoyable? Do you feel like if you get serious with her, are you settling? Is that okay with you to do? Is she enough to where, on the night of your nuptials, you don't gotta turn your head and think of Bonnie Rotten on a sybian? Is she enough to say "well I know she's not much to look at..."? Let's flip it upside down. "Is it enough for me to leave this woman when she's been nothing but kind to m… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | I can't think of anything to sayNo problem! Also, while it's cool to lean in on your bro, I'd say don't let him text with your phone, but let him tell you what you generally should feel, and then text what'd you'd say from that. Example: "Damn girl, U lookin fine." Vs "Hey, I think I'm really into you." Sure they're saying the same thing, but that's obviously two different people talking. Now you might be in a position where you have to try to sound like your friend all the time over text! | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Didn't know how to feel help me understand plsDefinitely don't let them pass you by. In fact, hit one (or both) if you're feeling really bold up and text them something along the lines of; "Hey, sorry I was so distant out on the beach the other day, I was a little in my emotions about the two of you." I'd say mention the other one, because obviously, they know you're both into them. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Saving a promising relationship.If she does, that's ultimately on her. She has autonomy. If she doesn't want to try, that's on her. If she doesn't want to seek help, that's on her. But, you don't deserve to live a life on the shelf, nor do you deserve to be her therapist. It'll be hard, but I'd say let it go. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Didn't know how to feel help me understand plsSo they wanted you to talk to them, and you didn't know what to say? I've definitely been there, but definitely not with two women at once! Honesty is the best policy, and I'm learning it's easier to just rip off the bandaid and be real, rather than flit around social bullshit. Don't beat yourself up for not know what to say. It sounds like you're saying you had feelings for both of these women, and in the moment, you froze. Happens to the best of us. "What are you thinking about, OP?" "I'm thin… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | I can't think of anything to sayGirls appreciate a guy who knows his faults but is obviously working on them. Tell her that while you're better over text, you don't have a lot of real world dating experience. Do your best not to have a full on panic attack in front of her, and just do your best to be more honest from here on. She might like it, she might drop you. But hey, this is just a drop in the bucket that is your life! Don't let this woman dictate how you feel about your next week. Tell her that you're nervous, and try t… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Saving a promising relationship.So first off, good on you for staying no contact. I recently got dumped in an incredibly similar fashion and find myself wanting to text her every time I get lonely. But also, we gotta let go. It is not our job to fix these two women. Repeatedly I offered my shoulder to cry on, and one day, she simply decided that wasn't enough, and "decided to focus on her career / studies." In my heart of hearts, I was pretty broken up. I'd really had my worldview shaken by this woman, and we were getting more… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Which parts of Mystery Method are still relevant in today's world and which ones have been made obsolete?I'm more into Xmen, personally. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 07:34 AM |
| 2 | Which parts of Mystery Method are still relevant in today's world and which ones have been made obsolete?Good question. No clue who that is. If it works for you, use it, but I wouldn't be surprised if using MM lands you in hot water some time. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Which parts of Mystery Method are still relevant in today's world and which ones have been made obsolete?Okay. Let's reframe this. Do I believe Mystery can pick up women? Sure. I believe that on some level, Mystery's got it. It could be that his little games and routines work. It could also be that these women are mad shallow, and see a guy with a camera crew of simps following him around like a god could somehow give the impression that he's a minor celebrity. It could also be that these are totally actresses, and Mystery pays some or all of these women to be up his ass the moment they see him ent… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Which parts of Mystery Method are still relevant in today's world and which ones have been made obsolete?He literally describes himself as a mentalist. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:44 AM |
| 13 | What are some skills u should learn to impress girls or make them interested in you?If you really wanna show how big brain you are, learn hoi4 | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Which parts of Mystery Method are still relevant in today's world and which ones have been made obsolete?He's semi attractive and rather manipulative. Further on, he's rich, and obviously gives very little of a shit who hates him and who doesn't. It also helps that he's obviously sort of secure in his person. Also, many of these women in these PUA vids are actresses. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:25 AM |
| 5 | Which parts of Mystery Method are still relevant in today's world and which ones have been made obsolete?Negging is moronic. Be playful, not negative. No one wants to be told their opinions, likes, or dislikes are garbage. Shocker, it doesn't work, and only shows you shallow, self defeating partners that are no fun to be around. Anyone with any depth can see that it's not being playful, it's being a fucking jerk. 7 hour rule. Why? If they're are into you and you're into them, why not just be up front? Why have a waiting period if it's readily apparent this person wants you sexually? What is this 12… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Anyone extremely good at daygame?Then go over there, stammer, and work your way through it. If you sit there and stare them down for 15 minutes they're gonna wonder who tf is this weirdo staring at them. If you go over there and botch, but still make your intentions clear, it may work out. It may not, that's the nature of it. Imagine it the other way around. A girl approaches you. You can tell she's nervous, and may even think you're out of her league. She stammers, messes up, and blushes a whole hell of a lot. Sure, it might b… | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach opener: “Hey, I just wanted to talk to you and tell you that you’re glowing.”Imagine if a chick said this to you. Some random, sort of averagely attractive woman you've never met in your life. How would you react? And be really, really honest with yourself. To me, even if a supermodel came up to me and said this outta the blue, I'd think she was selling me something, or setting me up for a scam. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 01:07 AM |
| 13 | Anyone extremely good at daygame?Fuck material, practice. When you're in the shit, you're not going to remember "Trip's or Mystery's 7 Rules to Get in Her Pants." All these dudes are saying the same shit in different ways and wanting you to buy their e-books, watch their vids, and join their "tribes." Wanna know what it boils down to? You wanna get good with women? Just talk to them. A lot. ThAt'Ll Be 2o0 dOlLaRs. | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 12:56 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Hard to say. I think i speak for a lot of us guys when I say we think so much about "what should I say to her," we never much think about, "well, what do I want to talk about?" And then you run into the question, "Well, what can I talk about?" I fucking love playing guitar, but unless you're Sherlock Holmes, how would you know that from looking at me? Its always hot to me to talk about passions and hobbies, but how to bring that up naturally? I think your best bet is to play off the environment … | /r/seduction | 19/09/21 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meethttps://youtu.be/s-INXGqtW9c | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meetAccording to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)Trusted Source, the average age-adjusted height for American men 20 years old and up is 69.1 inches (175.4 centimeters). That’s about 5 feet 9 inches tall. This number comes from data published in December 2018. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | PrimalSeductionDownloadGoogle. | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Shit Tests, Game, and Having a Fucking BackboneComplaining about "chads" and "alphas" is unironically the most "beta" shit you can think. | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How to keep it casual with single mom (25)Text her and be like, "Hey, I like hanging out with you, but I'm not looking for anything super serious." Feel free to copy paste that one. Why beat around the bush? | /r/seduction | 22/08/21 07:33 PM |
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