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BIitheFooI/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:53 PM
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This is honestly true. OP I was like you in a similar situation and I pushed her away and really hurt her. In reality I was scared of getting hurt but I think I may have missed out on something real. This was over a year ago that it ended and I’ve had plates I’d have fun with, focused on school which I graduate from in May, and I’ve had a ton of cool experiences traveling, hiking, photography, and biking and partying with great friends all throughout 2020 and now. And yet I STILL think about thi…
/r/askTRP12/02/21 08:42 AM
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You know, you can have intimacy by just being friends first. But you still keep your cocky confidence. If you need to have sex just have sex with someone else and play the game so you can have intimacy with the other. Anecdotally, every girl that provides intimacy will seek commitment. I’ve had a few blow up on me despite telling them up front I wasn’t looking for commitment. But the intimacy we would have in addition to the eventual sex would lead them to believe otherwise. I have no delusions …
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:20 PM
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A girl I was seeing took it and complained of joint pain, hair loss, and experienced general dryness, yes even there. We’re in our 20’s. She ended up getting off of it as though it did reduce her acne it made her generally feel like shit I’ve always had mild to moderate acne but my skin has responded quite well to the Ordinary Glycolic acid toner used every other evening with cotton pads, followed by Ordinary Niacinamide & Zinc serum applied over it. These products are inexpensive, easy to use a…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 07:02 AM
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I love that too man. Just did it earlier today, in fact.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 07:33 AM
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Not true. Dated a party girl as FWB for a year and she’s a super stoner. We also did other stuff besides weed but she mostly smoked. Clean v, nails kept, dressed cute and super submissive. Just don’t fall in love or get too attached. Enjoy your turn while it lasts. I agree that anything can become escapism and she did have a ton of ex issues and daddy issues. But great in bed and fun for drug addled exploration in cities.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 06:01 AM
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Great advice here. As a student registered nurse and crackhead, I agree.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 05:59 PM
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Can confirm. Just dated someone with all the latter features. Offered anal. FWB ended in a spectacularly shitty way too lol
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 07:27 AM
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Start voice recording on your phone when you see her coming by. It’s not worth it. Even if it’s good for awhile, when it goes to shit, she’ll have a ton of power over you. That’s my experience. I shat where I ate for about 2 years on and off and it was alright until I made moves to end it completely. Then she tried to ruin my life. If you go to her place, make sure you’re recording voice somehow and save it in case shit hits the fan later.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 05:31 AM
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Spend less time with her. If she’s already on the way out, begin to do fun things on your own or with buds, or other chicks. If you still have her, just enjoy it but make sure you make memories and spend time with other women or friends. She’ll fuck it up and make herself unattractive eventually. They always do. It’s just a matter of time, unfortunately. It’s okay to want to be more and commit. It’s in our nature. But they’ll eventually disappoint in a way that slams you back down to reality.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 12:56 AM
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GET PLAN B NOW. I have two kids. GET IT NOW. FUCK THE $50. There’s nothing embarrassing about it either - nobody gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 08:30 AM
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I know. That’s why even if I’m falling in love and getting super close, I keep others on the back burner to eventually switch to. Unfortunately, I never progress to committing really anymore. I usually find a reason not to. Perhaps I’m sabotaging myself? Who knows anymore lol. I can’t be mad when I keep others around too. But I haven’t some the actively sleeping with more than one or two people for about 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 04:17 AM
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Same thing here...artsy goth girl. We did everything. Fucked in the car, the gym, public - did acid and explored San Francisco, took ecstasy and went on hikes and fucked in nature. Supported me in my hobbies and everything I did and would send good morning and good night texts to me. Met her in a class and we would study together and stay up late just hanging out. She’d always initiate too. She did go cold maybe once or twice during dating where she didn’t respond for a few days or a week I knew…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 10:29 AM
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Lol....I’m in registered nursing school right now. They are nuts. Just my type. I just try to be detached and remember there’s typically nothing long term in this life except my children. Even them, eventually.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 05:42 AM
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Same thing happened to me with a 1 year FWB. Even dating and sleeping with other women, it still happened. We took about two months off and now she’s being receptive again lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 07:55 AM
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I finish RN school in about a year. 3 new notches and going on a date tomorrow with a 4th I all met in relation to school. And I work full time and I’m a single dad. If I had more time...
/r/askTRP01/03/20 06:50 AM
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You’ll have to let it go. In my experience, it usually takes about 5-10 months until l’m forced to have the talk if they didn’t do something to annoy me and have me ghost them. It goes one of two ways. Either the girl asks what we are with a covert or direct ultimatum, or she shows she’s frustrated but won’t bring it up because I’ve made it clear I have no interest in a relationship. Either way it’s the beginning of the end. If this girl was worth being in a relationship with, you would’ve thoug…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:43 PM
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I understand. I had a FWB that turned into a sort of open LTR that we never really discussed. We saw others openly but went on trips and shared fond memories besides sex. She crossed too many boundaries eventually as she grew resentful that I never brought up commitment. Called it off after about a year. In your case this issue was big enough to get you to break up. I know it’s difficult. Even with being in school full time and working full time, she’ll cross my mind. But as weeks slowly pass, a…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 06:22 AM
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I agree. Not as accomplished but I’m doing over full time units at school, working full time, and a single dad with the kids full time. I don’t smoke daily but sometimes I’ll go a few days in a row of smoking, or days/weeks not smoking. I have A’s in class, make solid money, engage and play with my kids, etc. It really helps to put me in a more patient father mindset, especially when I’m low on sleep or didn’t sleep at all. Still had motivation to spin a few plates with this as well. As everythi…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 05:09 PM
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What do you mean they work for the government? I think the guy hates being an RN too, lol. I think we’ll be fine man. It’s all about how you view things.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:09 AM
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Just finished my first nursing school semester out of 4. I already see a few things, but eh. I think it depends on where in the hospital you work. Med surg is 😫
/r/askTRP12/12/19 10:56 PM
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26 here! My ex wife went nuts when I left her so I have my kids all the time. I hire a babysitter or let them visit the grandparents when I go out. It’s a balance. Some weeks I date, but mostly it’s about the boys, 5 and 6. Also work part time, and I’m in nursing school. I just act like everyone else. Once they come into my car, they see the car seats. That’s usually when it comes up. Being in college, I usually work my class or friends/their friends in my social circle. I don’t hide it. My back…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:35 AM
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Thinking too much. I’ve gone out of town with my FWB multiple times and had a blast. This has been going on like 11 months now...
/r/askTRP19/11/19 05:39 AM
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Took LSD the first time on my 25th birthday. Just separated from ex wife and was lost completely. My whole blue pill outlook on life was shattered. I put her through nursing school, we had kids, she dropped out and cheated on me. After I took acid all my doubts were gone. I started working out at the gym for the first time soon after; I’ve been making steady progress ever since. Lost a ton of weight and built up some muscle and strength. I decided to go back to school and pursue my nursing degre…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:59 AM
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Who fucking cares? Lol
/r/askTRP04/08/19 05:13 PM
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Lol....I’ve been FWB with a girl with all the red flags one could imagine for a year or so, on and off. BPD, bad family, tattoos, used to have piercings, likes drugs and alcohol (so do I), mostly male friends, bisexual, goes on slut walks - everything. Haven’t had much drama. Sometimes we smash a couple times a week and sometimes we go a month or two. Don’t LTR and you should be fine...
/r/askTRP31/07/19 08:38 PM
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When you get the urge to, even if it’s a stupid moment, just say: “I want to kiss you.” Make confident, longing eye contact. She’ll likely say ok and move closer, or not say anything and wait. Either way you go in unless she pushes you away. or says no. Always works for me.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 01:27 AM
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I second that comment on psychedelics. I took LSD for the first time on my 25th birthday - take the time and money to make sure it’s real. You can buy tests online. LSD itself is relatively cheap. On that trip I hallucinated just a bit - just make sure you’re with people you trust as it can be intense and lonely at times. But it really helped me to work through issues - don’t distract yourself by watching things when you’re on it. Let it take over. After it was done, I ended up making a ton of h…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:59 PM
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I’ve had this problem with whom is now my favorite plate. Stop porn and definitely don’t masturbate a few days before seeing her. Also, it may be a comfort thing. I had trouble getting hard with her on and off for 2 months after we started having sex - she was my first plate after exiting a 7 year LTR. The key is you need to make her orgasm with your fingers on her clit or G spot, or use your mouth. This is essential to retaining the plate if you care. Just make eye contact with her while you ma…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:17 PM
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You sound so bitter lol. At the end of the day he’s the man. Men make their will reality. And if the woman doesn’t want to comply, easy - find another who will. Being bitter about a girl not being masculine is idiotic.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 06:25 PM
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Fuck the monogamy man...just enjoy them while it’s your turn. But I do tell my plates that they need to tell me if they fuck a person without a condom. Works out for me...
/r/askTRP02/05/19 06:10 AM
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Corey Wayne does work on women. I find that the red pill and his work overlap. However, what you decide to do once you get the women is where Corey Wayne and the red pill diverge. Do as you wish. I’m more purple pill myself. Currently, I’m spinning plates. But my plates are more of a FWB - I enjoy their company and we have a lot in common. I could probably be happy in an LTR with one of my plates right now, but I feel no need to pursue that. Best of luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 09:49 PM
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Not buying the provider gig...she is probably nuts for posting all that shit....but if she’s really an RN she may be making up to double what you make a year.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 10:03 PM
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Bro, same with me Friday night. I was at an AirBNB with my favorite FWB. We were having a great conversation and just got shitfaced drunk. We both just came from the gym and decided to finally shower together at like 2:30AM. We got horny in the shower but I was too tired and had hit legs too that day. I wasn’t planning on getting laid. Eventually we did MDMA to wake up and I couldn’t even get fully hard until like 4:30AM. So guess what I chose to do until I could get hard? 🤣 And the first 3 time…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:26 PM
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I’ve had this problem before when I had a dry spell after I got a divorce. I wasn’t jerking it excessively but got used to porn. I’d recommend staying away from porn and masturbation if you can help it. What ended up helping me get in the mood was watching my partner do everything to me. So when she’d be giving me a BJ, I’d look down at her doing it. When having intercourse, I’d focus on my member going in and out of her. Took awhile to rewire my brain even though I’m spinning plates now. This h…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:03 PM
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If she’s lost interest, simply stop initiating contact. RESIST ANY URGE. If she does text or call, keep the conversation short. Maybe two or three texts back from you max. Try to set up some plans only if she contacts you first. If she complies, great, continue spinning the plate. If she’s busy or generally “eh...” just tell her to hit you when her schedule’s less busy and say it was cool to chat a bit but you gotta go do “x.” If you demonstrated high value in your interactions or did it for her…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:01 PM
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Skip the first paragraph if you don’t care about my story. Man, similar story to yours but I did go out, we got our own place, leased 2 new cars (thank God I leased) and we have two kids together. I stopped going to school to work in sales and later finance at a car dealership. She was going to school to be an RN. I was almost done with my prerequisites for an BA RN degree as well when I dropped out. She cheated on me as I was working a ton and treated her like shit - I resented her for working …
/r/askTRP02/04/19 06:45 AM
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I think you can fuck her if you’ve got this far. But only go for it if she’s actually fun because like you said, you have a lot of history of being just friends. It’ll probably take a good chunk of waiting. Just see her a few times month. For my FWB, I planted a cheek kiss on her maybe 1.5 months into knowing her and she told me not to make it awkward. Lol. If she still initiates contact man you’re still good. There were a few times I thought there was no recovery from but I still fucked.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 12:12 AM
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People here told me I had oneitis lol. It was only a few months ago. Even if you aren’t dating anyone else, you pretty much have to always be looking for other girls to potentially date, at least try. Also, have other things to fill your time like friends, hobbies, work, or school. Her saying she likes people showing they care is honestly bullshit. Women have no idea what the fuck they want. They just go with men that make them FEEL a certain way. Just be a cool ass dude all around, but try to e…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:46 PM
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DO NOT text her again. It’s weak. Let her initiate it now. If she doesn’t, then she isn’t ready for you to escalate anyway. RESIST THE URGE. I know it’s strong. Turned my friend into a plate too. It started with kissing and it still took another 3 months of super slow escalation and never showing frustration when she would stop me during escalation. I was seeing another girl to keep my sanity, but I eventually got it in and it was great. We’ve had sex several times now but she’s still cool compa…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 09:20 PM
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And he’s funny as fuck too. Mostly for just how to work girls once you’ve attracted them.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 02:39 AM
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You did fine. I’m older but I went back to college last summer to a pretty similar situation. The shy girl I met is now my FWB. Just be cool and hold frame at the party. Lol, the first party I invited her to we did LSD and some guy was trying to neg me all night to speak to my date. Make sure you’re ready. Hold frame, amused mastery, don’t be emotional. Make sure it’s a good time. Try to escalate if you can, but only if you can see she’s ready. Ie: getting closer to you, sitting so close you tou…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 03:58 PM
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Just have fun...but I think if you don’t make her come orally or with your penis you should at least finger her so she finishes at least one time if you want to keep seeing her. With my FWB she wanted to fuck me for the first time on my birthday and of course my filling fell out. I couldn’t get all the way hard because my mouth was radiating pain. I was freaking out because I’d never had any issues before, but I didn’t let it show when we were trying to have sex. I just said my mouth hurts but t…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 03:36 AM
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Maybe respond with something along the lines of: “I like taking things slow. I just wanted to chill. If you’re down come through.” Regardless of what she responds with, I wouldn’t respond again after. Then when she gets there actually have a good time. When you get the urge to kiss her, just DO IT. Right after you guys were both just laughing or she was going in depth into something she’s passionate about is always a safe bet. Look at her eyes, then her lips, then eyes again. If she keeps eye co…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 05:19 PM
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This has happened to me. Put him back in line whenever he annoys you. Go straight for the throat in an embarrassing way when your social circle will see it. He’ll be blindsided and your frame will clearly be stronger than his. Reveal something really beta about him that’s pathetic/funny or a true story you have with him that makes him look like a bitch, especially with his girl around. But you can’t outright insult him. He will try to retaliate - act with amused mastery when it happens or agree …
/r/askTRP13/01/19 05:04 PM
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Probably because you vibe with this one more than the others you’ve seen. Had the same issue. 5 months ish in and only two half hearted make outs and some hand holding. She happened to be one of the first girls who’d give me the cheek when I went for it. Eventually switched to telling her: “I want to kiss you” when I felt like escalating. That way I didn’t think too much and she’d get closer. Ive tried on other chicks since then and it helps me not think too much. As soon as I feel I want to kis…
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:16 AM
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It’s nuts man. I finished my RN Program prerequisites. Finance is good money but I work at a smaller dealership in northern CA. I don’t want to commute to a big city for more money because the hours are already brutal in finance. Last couple days I’ve had to stay until almost midnight. Weeks like these plates go on the back burner and I prioritize my kids on my days off. Sometimes they go to the grandparents on their useless mother’s side, which is when I spend time with plates. I have a gym mem…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:04 PM
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I’m still talking to two of the girls from that class, with another one I could probably just randomly ask out and she’d say yes, but she didn’t quite do it for me. One I’m seeing that I’ve fooled around with but no sex yet. We ended up having common interests ie: gym, video games, smoking weed. Took it slower with her because I was working on this other 18 year old with a BF in that class. The 18 year old I speak to every couple weeks and I did bang. One study group we were walking out of class…
/r/askTRP29/12/18 11:27 PM
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If you’re going to college and have a class with a lab, that is the perfect place. Excel, lead, and help others out if you can spare the time. Not just women, guys too. I literally had girls competing for my attention for the first time in my whole fucking life this last summer - I’m 25 and freshly divorced. I didn’t even open most of those girls, they opened me.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:08 PM
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Thanks for sharing!
/r/askTRP24/12/18 11:31 PM
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I haven’t bought anything and we’ve made out. I was working on a different girl in class when we met and this one honestly I wasn’t attracted to when I met her but got to know her due to shared interests/world view. But will take what I can from your post, thanks. Perhaps she isn’t my friend lol.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:29 PM
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Noted, thanks for the tip. I need to work on getting past ASD, will read into it. Any tips regarding that are welcome. Will escalate more, gotcha. I don't usually have an issue doing that but I honestly don't have much experience escalating with someone that I didn't want to fuck from the beginning. I think that's fucking me up. Definitely needs some work... Oneitis might be creeping in.. this last semester I didn't meet a single girl I'd be remotely interested in any of my classes. I try to gam…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:24 PM
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Nice! I'm going to start Nursing rotations in Fall...cleaned up Microbiology in Summer and took the humanities I was missing this Fall after 4 years off in the car business. Couldn't meet the deadline for some requirements but I'll be studying for the TEAS till fall. Congratulations my man. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:40 PM
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Got divorced this year and went back to school at age 25, after selling cars/running finance at a car dealership. Been working out since I got divorced and lost a ton of weight; bought a bunch of new clothes that fit perfectly. I found the Red Pill and realized the errors of my ways, started in Summer term. Immediately made friends with guys and girls, most of which were younger. Met a non-needy HB7 FWB that I have lots of fun hanging with in that class; she actually just slept over last night..…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:30 PM
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