BKF89 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only? Just put yourself out there and actually try. Dont overcomplicate it Dating is just looking the best you possibly can while having a good vibe	/r/seduction	20/04/22 11:29 AM
1	How to improve general confidence? you have two options pay for a girlfriend (not recommended). you can pay for a sugar baby and gain confidence through gaining experience and comfort with women sexually and conversationally. there's something about getting consistent sex that just kinda rewires your entire brain; its like magic Style & fitness (outergame). So you don't have to be jacked, you just need to not be fat. Let your BMI sit around 22% and your body fat be around 10-15% (asses your fatness through your jawline; if you ca…	/r/seduction	12/03/22 03:03 PM
1	So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you? Yes kind of. then be very very nice to her and look good while also flexing on IG	/r/seduction	22/01/22 11:13 AM
–	Unable to chat to girls no matter what, feels like a brick wall in the middle change your apperance warddrobe change - if you're fat lose the weight. 3 elements to outer game: style not being fat - yes you don't need muscles, just do not be fat. assess your fatness through your double chin not stomach your car/place/setup fix up those things. you can do all of it fairly well on a budget too. its 100% the main thing every man who struggles with women should zero in on	/r/seduction	21/01/22 10:27 PM
1	How to not be boring in my conversations? Man you didnt do anything wrong. it was perfect! don't over think it. Honestly man the single best opener on dating apps is "Hey whats up?". people try way way way too hard, just let it flow naturally while making adjustments to your general appearance and dating profile. its seriously that simple just don't sweat it. don't press on her too much, talk to another girl. but you literally did nothing wrong! just try to reschedule I guess also if it comes down to you guys doing the deed, try suggest…	/r/seduction	10/01/22 05:33 AM
–	Tall dude with self-image issues you have no problems with your looks at all dude; you're handsome, just gotta get out of your head bro First off, do not get insecure about your height. You have to rock what you got! If you have money, then dress yourself up nice with clothes and accessories (including a car, etc), if you're tall write it in your bio on tinder or literally just stand next to people lol. You have to rock it! Just tell yourself "yeah I'm a tall guy, awesome" and accept that. Another issue that is common is that…	/r/seduction	29/11/21 04:35 PM
2	[deleted by user] if they dont know each other, work on both of them starting with the one you like more if they know each other, choose the one you like and rock her socks off	/r/seduction	17/11/21 10:45 PM
1	Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold? Maybe your IG sucked or shes seeing someone?	/r/seduction	17/11/21 03:49 PM
1	Why do women only describe my looks as `cute’ instead of `hot’ or `sexy’?. Also how do I increase my sex appeal? maybe they are? you're just not pursuing them?	/r/seduction	15/11/21 12:12 PM
–	Why do women only describe my looks as `cute’ instead of `hot’ or `sexy’?. Also how do I increase my sex appeal? style and attitude make you hot or sexy also being wanted by other women	/r/seduction	14/11/21 12:16 PM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? No, it probably isnt but you shouldnt neglect problems in your life you know? if you are insecure about your looks go out and change your perspective + your look. if you have money problems, go out and fix it. if you have women problems, go out and fix them you should never neglect your problems and always look for solutions to any and all problems. Dont live your life with problems, it'll slowly eat away your mind	/r/seduction	12/11/21 11:49 AM
–	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? to be honest, find a girl you like talking to and just make her your gf do whatever it is you have to do to get one nowadays your appearance & overall presentation is the most important factor between being single vs dating. work on your style, grooming, and fitness (basically don't be fat; the bareminimum is like post malone shirtless 2021), and then from that point just try asking out girls left and right until it sticks so Looking good + being nice + trying = girlfriend you will never find …	/r/seduction	11/11/21 01:25 PM
1	A guy at work always steers our conservation towards sex Yup just dont wait for him to make the first move	/r/seduction	10/11/21 11:42 AM
5	Is it hot for a man to be shy, insecure and vulnerable? No, and dont listen to anyone who says yes; even a half yes	/r/seduction	20/10/21 12:17 PM
1	[deleted by user] Everything matters, but the thing that puts it all together is your general demeanor and attitude. Its safe to assume that if you have any dating problems whatsoever, the first place to look is the mirror. Always start with outer game because I genuinely believe you will never build the necessary confidence to attract women through your personality without actually having experience. easiest way to gain experience is to look good, be a nice person, and date down	/r/seduction	09/10/21 06:46 PM