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Most of the time I don't need someone to validate my feelings. I'm confident in my own opinions and don't seek the approval of others. I'm an individual, if I'm constantly seeking others approval then my actions are a reflection of their expectations and not my own.
/r/seduction04/05/16 05:12 PM
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"Chipotle it is."
/r/seduction04/05/16 05:06 PM
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I think I am the male version of you. I'm assuming I'm a bit younger, but I'm starting to see glimpses of the exact scenario in which your describing. I just do what I want, why do I need some fuck toy to disrupt that. My happiness lies in the long term flexibility of my lifestyle. I accept that nothing stays the same forever. All this seems to do is lock me down and possibly lead down a lot of shitty roads. Maybe I'm just a self obsessed control freak with a plan for everything and no intention…
/r/seduction30/04/16 08:41 PM
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Whatever this is I like it, thanks!
/r/seduction30/04/16 08:23 PM
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Dont forget to fix your cleavage and pull your skirt down after saying that as well.
/r/seduction19/03/16 12:56 AM
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I think a lot of it has to do with self acceptance and confidence in one's own self. Many people don't believe in the caliber of results they can achieve when it comes to relationships. Thus reaching a certain level becomes the main goal instead of the person they are supposed to be interested in. It becomes a self centered objective instead of one that should be a mutual experience between two people. Once that level of attraction is achieved this realization becomes more self evident and peopl…
/r/seduction01/03/16 05:12 PM
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Better yet find that person in the corner and ask if they need a belay.
/r/seduction24/01/16 10:29 PM
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Yeah because constantly deflecting requests and requiring something in return is really going to work well for you.... Your taking this whole chase idea way too far. Surprises are great, but not at the cost of constant avoidance just to set yourself up for one. This sub loves to make everything so unnecessarily complicated. Kiss if you want to kiss her, fuck her if she wants to fuck, surprise her once in a while and just be yourself. COMMUNICATE. Doing any of those things too much is not going t…
/r/seduction13/11/15 08:01 PM
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I definitely agree with your point as I myself did go through a lot of this kind of material at a younger age. The difference I think is that the person needs to be able to distinguish if the knowledge they're learning is applicable to their current environment and what knowledge they should shelf for future use. Much of the information in this sub isn't actionable to a highschool. For example, cold approaches in high school? Unnecessary. But there is plenty a highschooler can learn about talkin…
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:57 PM
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Agreed, most of the popular kids I know from high school really aren't doing all that well comparatively. There was an interesting study recently comparing the results of students in life and their popularity, not sure if I can find it. I think thats one of the hardest things to grasp as a highschooler. Once you leave the entire world you knew changes, and it might seem scary, but ultimately it can be an amazing thing and really define who you are in the future. Some people fall hard after being…
/r/seduction29/07/15 08:46 PM
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The issue or point that I think OP is trying to get at isnt the age of when they are having sex, because here in the US they definitely are having it just as early. The issue lies in the mindset that they have going into it. Focusing everything on these little "tricks", what to text or say and putting all of the attention towards getting the girl when they should really be focusing on developing themselves and building their own character. I'm not saying to avoid going after girls in highschool,…
/r/seduction29/07/15 08:37 PM
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You're still missing the point. Rattling off a number of things going on in your life to qualify yourself as "worthy" of going out and picking up girls is exactly the point and mindset that OP is referring to. If I want to have fun and pickup girls I will Awesome, do exactly this because at your age that is what you SHOULD be doing. Go out have fun, talk to people, make friends, and just enjoy life at that age while you can. Amongst all this socializing if you happen to land a girlfriend that's …
/r/seduction29/07/15 07:47 PM
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I got him for you.
/r/seduction11/07/15 04:36 AM
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Exactly or maybe she likes you and is just more reserved. Lots of possibilities, just a matter of adjusting accordingly.
/r/seduction10/05/15 03:08 AM
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It really relies on you setting the tone of the date and your intent quickly. Give her the impression of what you want without just saying it or being a creep. Eye contact, touching, flirty but comfortable vibe/demeanor. Escalate and be confident. There are going to be cases where some girls just aren't that open and are looking for something slower and in those cases you cant try to force it.
/r/seduction08/05/15 05:39 PM
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as it should Here's your problem. Being able to navigate through girl talk is a great way to relate to women. Women who find that you can relate to them are much more likely to genuinely like you. Learn to embrace it, you can learn a lot from it/them.
/r/seduction29/04/15 10:43 PM
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The difference between being a CS major and an education major.
/r/seduction16/04/15 10:49 PM
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Good stuff, keep it up. A good presentation relies on having some sort of connection with the audience to keep them engaged. Eye contact certainly helps with that connection, but there's definitely more than just that. I do presentations for work and have seen my share of 20+ slide presentations from ADULTS who turn and read off their slides...
/r/seduction15/04/15 09:34 PM
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This is actually a great way to practice in a safe environment. If you're in school or lecture sit in the front or close to it and just maintain eye contact with the speaker. Presenters typically change their gaze to different people throughout the room and will default back to people they know are paying attention. In this case they WANT you to be paying attention so there should be no reason not to maintain that eye contact or look away. If they are constantly coming back to you, youre doing i…
/r/seduction15/04/15 05:10 PM
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Basically what he's saying is if you start to get nervous/anxious or have trouble looking into their eyes look at the more boring spot between their eyebrows instead. Its hard to tell the difference from their end as it still appears your looking into their eyes, while its easier for you to maintain it. Similar to the effect if you're day dreaming while accidentally staring at a woman's chest. You're simply changing the focus to somewhere else, but without her being able to tell.
/r/seduction15/04/15 05:00 PM
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All great advice here. I never considered darts before, but the more I think about it, its totally a good situation to keep things casual, allow you to be flirty, goof off and be a little competitive. Just remember to be humble.
/r/seduction14/04/15 04:52 PM
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I can relate to this greatly. I'm introverted and very analytical and your post describes many of my actions and previous failures perfectly. I use to try other peoples methods, pick up lines felt awkward, approaching groups was never going to happen. I thrive on 1-1 and deep conversation, I'm good at thought provoking questions and relating to women in conversation. Generally because I love to learn about every possible experience and perspective out there. It's part of my analytical side where…
/r/seduction10/04/15 01:19 AM
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It's funny because I've had girl this to me before, but I never really thought much of it. Made me laugh quite a bit.
/r/seduction04/04/15 04:24 AM
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That was exactly it, I lost control. I kept telling myself I wanted to draw or I wanted to play my guitar, but I had no will power to do so. Gaming was always the easier option, so I deleted it entirely.
/r/seduction07/03/15 05:22 PM
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You're absolutely right about the talents and they are the first things I dove back into. I had been craving them but at the same time it felt so overwhelming to start what seemed like a huge task. I've got my foot in the door and am already seeing progress. You really just have to get used to not having that instant gratification of games.
/r/seduction07/03/15 04:53 PM
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I've definitely caught myself spending too much time goofing off online. In the beginning it was alright, as long as I wasn't gaming anything was better. I tried not to beat myself up about it. Initially I spent the first few days away from my computer. I got everything I was neglecting back in order. I'd look at each room in my house, what needed to be done and what could I Improve. Then I went back to the things that made me happy, music and art. I had played multiple instruments when I was a …
/r/seduction07/03/15 04:43 PM
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I played video games over 20 years of my lifetime. It started as an escape from my parents constant fighting. Immerse yourself into a game to drown out the screaming. It eventually became a natural coping mechanism and an addiction that would slowly suck the motivation and drive out of me as I grew up. I always managed to get by in life, but life was always put second to gaming. Do just enough work, and maximize play time. I was REALLY good at games, and it felt great. Then college happened. I s…
/r/seduction07/03/15 06:35 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2nb5ok/which_post_have_you_saved/ So now I have ALL the important links in one place
/r/seduction25/11/14 11:11 PM
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In my opinion no, similar interests allow people to relate to each other. Just having a shared interest with someone makes it much easier to talk to them (more comfortable). A relationship should be built on common interests, values, sometimes personalities etc. If you have no common interests between your partner then what are you in the relationship for? At that point its purely physical, and that tends to not work in the long run. Source: I've watched my parents struggle over my lifetime as t…
/r/seduction16/10/14 04:21 PM
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Your maths off, total experience adds up to 9.9173. Forgot to take the inverse of the cos(0) when calculating the decrease of the jealous bitch.
/r/seduction28/08/14 03:39 PM
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Rebranding for a more normal guy approach: "Ill 'respect' you in ways you cant imagine"
/r/seduction08/08/14 05:46 PM
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I prefer to think of it as just another aspect of the game. Sort of the same theory where you dont put all your eggs in one basket. I can meet women in real life AND see whats going on in the online scene as well. I dont rely heavily on one or the other, their all just a different means of access. I wouldn't recommend completely ruling it out, but that decision is up to you and your style.
/r/seduction07/08/14 05:44 PM
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"Oh yah right, I'll go get you that tea" Goes to kitchen. "Sorry I'm all out of T, can I offer you some D instead"
/r/seduction23/07/14 05:00 PM
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This post actually brought up an old memory of mine, that actually got me to laugh now that I look at it again. I was back in college, I was a sophomore, in a crowded bar definitely illegally as I wasnt 21 so senses were a little heightened to start. I was also much more timid and shy back then if I wasnt in my element. I had never heard of the claw technique before especially then, but I was walking through this bar and actually had a girl CLAW me. Pulled me right out of the aisle right to her …
/r/seduction23/07/13 05:11 PM
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