BLHom Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Question for divorced men. Why do some of you see an fwb instead of a prostitute for sex and vice versa why do some of you see a prostitute instead of a fwb? “All sex is transactional, darling. If you don’t understand that, you’re just being billed indirectly.” - Madame Maeve on Westworld	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/25 06:01 AM
17	A Guy I Work With….. Lack of penis	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/25 01:26 PM
5	Being Alone Sucks I feel this. Haven’t been able to bring myself to take the decorations and tree down since everyone cleared out.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/25 05:27 AM
4	Holy Shit! I’m not that guy anymore! Fucking this right here. THIS is the energy I’m carrying into 2025. My STBX have been together since we were teens, now in our mid-50s. Turns out I also don’t like the guy I was in that relationship. All my personal growth has and is leading me farther away from him, and her. I am actively letting go of those things which no longer serve me. She is one of those things. Sad but necessary. P.S. “Off its fucking head” is now my favorite phrase. Cheers!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/24 06:47 PM
1	What do you do when you see their ghost? She’s already paying a heavy toll. I insisted she tell our grown kids the reason for our split or I would. They are big mad	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/24 12:36 PM
1	What do you do when you see their ghost? Yep. Ironically, with someone she met during law school, while I was working two jobs and raising our kids so she could go to law school.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/24 09:10 PM
1	What do you do when you see their ghost? My STBX is an attorney with a prominent local firm, and is on billboards all over town. Even if I chose to ignore her IRL, her ghost pops up and smiles at me at every 4th traffic light. No escape.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/24 04:55 AM
2	$400 an hour Short answer is: you can’t. Over the course of years and decades, you will both experience personal growth and evolve (hopefully!). And that growth may lead you in divergent directions. My STBX and I got together in high school almost 40 years ago, when we were both a mess. Now, after nearly 30 years of marriage, we have grown and evolved to become people whose needs and wants are at odds. Neither is more right or wrong, our goals are simply not compatible. If you truly love someone, you want wh…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/24 12:14 PM
2	Today’s my bday. That was me last year. Our youngest had just gone to college and STBX was on one of her many solo vacations. I don’t usually make a big deal of it, but it was definitely a weird feeling to be fully alone and uncelebrated. Hang in there, brother. 42 is the meaning of life - gonna be a good year for you!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/24 01:43 PM
4	How old were you when you get divorced? Amicable & uncontested, just beginning the process	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/24 12:58 AM