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| 3 | Regret hookup during actDo you have a link to that research? | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 07:39 PM |
| 110 | I feel really horny alone but when I get the chance with a girl I don’t go for sexSounds a bit like anxiety or approval seeking - both are completely normal feelings to have, within reason. It might help to ask yourself at what stage is this feeling changing, and maybe unpacking your own personal desires and fears about women. I think most men go through this to some degree in their 20s, whether they realise it or not. | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Change Her Mood, Not Her MindThe problem with this post is that if you changed a few words, you could be teaching DV perpetrators how to manipulate and keep their abused partner around longer. Take that as you will, I personally don't feel like I'm doing good things if I'm playing sleight-of-hand in someone's brain to change their mind to my benefit. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: how should a woman reject a cold approach?I'm sorry to hear that you don't have any platonic male friends. As a guy, I have a lot of female friends I'm not interested in sleeping with, and they're some of my favourite people to hang around. I hope your way works for you though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: how should a woman reject a cold approach?You ideally should be able to trust your partner to make friends with either sex and not be intimate with them. Cold approaches are just something you've got to be a bit more clear and firm with, so they know what your boundaries are. And think of it this way: is a guy talking to a guy or a girl talking to a girl a cold approach, or is it just a person talking to another person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/18 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?I understand your beliefs prevent you from abortion being an option, that's fair enough. However, it comes at the cost of being another immediate deal breaker to many otherwise checklist perfect guys, and that if your perfect guy unexpectedly ran off on you when you got pregnant, your only option is to join the single mother pool. These are choices you make and are well out of the realm of what any laundry list can solve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: being “too picky” and having a “laundry list” of standards to avoid being a single mom: why is that bad?To be fair now, that would be completely your decision. You can sleep around without having children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/18 08:33 PM |
| 2 | The world doesn't need to change to fit you, you need to find where you fit in the worldCC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/16 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Will the urge to sleep with other women ever go away? Does this mean I'm not ready for a relationship?Can you give a little description in how you went "full beta" and why it affected the outcome of this particular relationship? | /r/seduction | 10/08/16 12:40 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] It's incredibly sexist of women to demand that the men they date don't act like assholes.People here don't seem to understand what an asshole really is. I can't believe nobody has pointed the whole problem with someone proudly claiming to be one: Assholes are shitty because they don't truly realise their actions affect others negatively Someone claiming to be an asshole is someone using it to justify their shitty actions. They know what they're doing is bad, but it's easier to say "I'm just an asshole, bro" and waive responsibility for their actions, and get to pretend they're alpha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] It's incredibly sexist of women to demand that the men they date don't act like assholes.Assholes don't argue like this. These are the words of a loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/16 07:09 PM |
| 7 | I'm actively seeking rejection to get over my rejection anxietyThere's a subreddit somewhere that showcases comments like this. Come on mate, grow up. | /r/seduction | 31/03/16 04:14 PM |
| 4 | I'm actively seeking rejection to get over my rejection anxietyIf you're actively seeking it, you're going in with the expectation of being rejected. That's a very different feeling than going in with the expectation of success and then being rejected. I personally think you should just take rejection as "oh well, better luck next time" and next time being the next girl that catches your eye. Also after reading some of your comments, stop using "I'm incredibly masochistic" as an excuse for failures. That's like when people (mostly kids) say "I could totally… | /r/seduction | 31/03/16 04:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you maintain a strong frame when another guy comes into the set?Bro, he wasn't talking to you | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 02:46 AM |
| 13 | EYE CONTACT- Simple Body LanguageOnly if you make it creepy. It's not like you're staring at them, making good eye contact makes it become mutual | /r/seduction | 20/12/15 05:11 AM |
| 16 | My Grooming RoutineGreat post OP, but two things: if you're wearing perfume/cologne (and sometimes even if you're not), don't wear fragranced deodorant, use a non scented anti perspirant. Roll on works well, and it will stop you from smelling stanky but let your lighter natural odor be noticed up close if you choose to forgo perfume. This would be considered "advanced" but often better than using any scents if done properly. go to r/skincareaddiction for information on your skin. Don't "express" or try to physical… | /r/seduction | 23/11/15 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How To Stand Out On Tinder And Get Actual DatesI couldn't agree more. People mindlessly swiping everything right and fucking the system still irks me a little, but Tinder is for fun in your free moments about your day, there is very little past that it should be considered for. Besides, the real world happens to be way more interesting. | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 07:04 PM |
| 4 | How To Stand Out On Tinder And Get Actual DatesHonestly, you're right, despite the downvotes. All guys have to do is be vaguely vigilant in who they swipe instead of swiping literally everything right. But the limit certainly exists and it's not all that hard to reach it. | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 06:01 PM |
| 9 | How To Stand Out On Tinder And Get Actual DatesTinder has a like limit now and puts it on a cooldown of sorts. Shit's out of date as fuck | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Why You Must STOP Explaining Yourself To WomenNot everyone looks at usernames, and the downvotes would say it's not enough on its own. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 12:57 AM |
| 6 | Why You Must STOP Explaining Yourself To WomenYou should tag/label your posts with your name or brand. Otherwise you're shrouding the fact you're using Reddit as your advertising platform. You'll have more success being upfront about your position and being part of the community. A great example of this is the Rite in the Rain representative in /r/notebooks. | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 06:28 PM |
| -3 | How to re-initiate conversations with people you haven't talked to in a fair while?That's the point, I would if I were messaging someone else and starting a conversation. It shouldn't lie on the recipient to be responsible, and if you think that's okay then be prepared for a lot of shit or ignored conversations. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 04:56 PM |
| -7 | How to re-initiate conversations with people you haven't talked to in a fair while?People are busy, I'm busy and my friends know this. If they all expected it to be my job to make conversation, I'd only talk to a select few. People who actually make some effort get my attention immediately and I'll probably reply right then and there. If OP really wants to talk to them, he should strive to be an outlier, not some lazy person who expects their friends to make the effort instead. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 04:18 PM |
| 3 | How to re-initiate conversations with people you haven't talked to in a fair while?Yeah, if it's someone that will reply to almost any text, like a good friend who you talk to at least semi-regularly, it's the lowest effort cost to start conversation. If it's someone you don't want to gamble that on though, I'd do a little more at least. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 04:05 PM |
| -1 | How to re-initiate conversations with people you haven't talked to in a fair while?They're the one being lazy and putting it on me to make conversation that they want. If not replying makes someone a dick in your eyes, you should probably avoid messaging people at all. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 04:02 PM |
| 14 | How to re-initiate conversations with people you haven't talked to in a fair while?Please don't do this. Whenever someone messages me this, no matter how close we might be (even my best mate), I'll likely not reply. It's a zero effort attempt at conversation, in fact I'd argue it's just a way of asking the other person to do all the work for you. | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 03:56 PM |
| 3 | 1st Date TipsI think it's to do with betas putting them on a pedestal and treating them like the mention of sex or anything forward is rude, to avoid any possibility of rejection. It's in quotations because really they just want to sleep with them, but they're taking the ultra safe beta route. | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 04:23 AM |
| -3 | Being straightforward on TinderWho cares? If someone sees you on tinder, they're using it too. Either do or don't, trying to keep anonymous on it is silly and gets you 90% less swipes. | /r/seduction | 12/06/15 03:09 PM |
| 8 | How To Get a New Zealand Girls NumberI mean, it worked, but I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking there was a lot lacking. It does serve as a good example of a street approach though. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 11:35 AM |
| 4 | Houston LiarIt'd be really helpful if anyone actually knew what that was, mate. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 04:09 PM |
| 13 | Request: Condom EtiquetteThat's also a great idea if you want to clog her toilet for her. If you're scared of a girl trying to steal your semen, don't sleep with her. Being that paranoid sounds like game killer anyway. | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 10:21 AM |
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