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| 2 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?It really depends. Pulling fat unattractive women? Actually very easy, they even pull you themselves. If we're actually talking about pulling attractive women from bars then it's quite difficult because they're very demanded. Since I expect your question was oriented to hot women then I personally think that pulling hot women directly from a bar is not the right way of getting them. | /r/seduction | 24/03/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?You can try asking but he's most likely not interested anymore. Think what mistakes you did that could have turned him off and improve, women always do an insane amount of mistakes and just going out on a date isn't going to repair the damage | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls like being ignoredThey don't like being ignored, when this happens it's because they start to get worried that you're not interested anymore despite the fact they showed no interest at the beginning. In summary they're just dumb | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔You need to work on your self esteem first, if someone hears you talk about yourself like that it will be a big turnoff. All you need to go is to start going to the gym and learn more about how to make men happy and that's all. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔Have you thought about going to the gym and getting fit first? I've seen a lot of women who have obtained the body of a model by doing hard work at the gym, looking attractive is mostly a matter of taking care of your body and staying healthy. And a lot of men don't like the looks of plastic surgery, I prefer the natural look of a woman. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔Well you need to change that, dating can't be that easy. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔To be honest most of the times the biggest turnoff isn't the looks of the woman but her personality and attitude. Most women nowadays are very disrespectful to men. You need to honestly assess first if the problem is in your personality and the way you treat men rather than your looks. And I'd say looks are the easiest one to fix, all you need to do is to go to the gym and get fit | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔You can easily go to the gym for 1 year and stop being "unattractive". I've seen women doing miracles after 6 months of going to the gym, I see no reason why you can't do that. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 07:11 AM |
| -1 | Did meeting girls in real life work better for you than online dating?I only meet women in real life | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 07:39 AM |
| 1 | What should I say to an older woman when she said she worried that I am too young?Just ask why and adjust from there. It really depends on what her reasoning is | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 02:17 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go to line when a girl flakes out on a date yet proposes another day for the date?Right because something that is written in a book has to be true right? If someone writes something in a book and this book is published then it automatically means that everything written in that book is a true fact. This is why we know that the lord of the rings, game of thrones and the bible are actually true stories since they're written in a book. | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?I've only seen this happen in the following scenarios: 1. She knows you from somewhere already 2. She knows you have a girlfriend, it's very fun for a lot of women to try to mess other women up 3. She's bored and she's very brave so she decides to go talk to you | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 04:12 PM |
| 6 | What’s your go to line when a girl flakes out on a date yet proposes another day for the date?This is not how attraction works, this is some nonsense you made up. Even if it were true that she's "testing" you why would you want to go out with a dumb bitch like that? This makes absolutely no sense | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 04:08 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go to line when a girl flakes out on a date yet proposes another day for the date?You're not helping if you're giving terrible advice like this, someone could believe you and fuck up because he followed your advice | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 03:35 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go to line when a girl flakes out on a date yet proposes another day for the date?Exactly, that mindset is retarded | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | What’s your go to line when a girl flakes out on a date yet proposes another day for the date?This is 8 years old advice | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 03:27 PM |
| 11 | Age Gap during Clubbingor the age gap will make me look like a stupid pervert? Why do you care about this? This is your own life and you need to do what you want and what will make you happy. Stop worrying about what other people might think about you, this is not their business | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | lack of solo womenThis sounds funny, I'll try this today | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 10:02 AM |
| 6 | Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker?I like your attitude, if you think like this you'll be able to fix this very quickly | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker?No and yes. If you're confident and you're fun to a woman it's not going to be an issue because the most important thing for women is that you're a secure and fun person to them. The issue is that you being overweight is going to lower your confidence and create insecurities and women will notice that, which is what I think is the biggest problem here. You don't need to wait but you'll need to be very confident despite your weight and don't let it make you insecure, if you can do that you'll be … | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:22 AM |
| 1 | 19M Never talked to a woman before, where to start.At 19 you're almost a child, that's not an issue at all, be glad you're fixing this at 19 rather than at 30 like many guys do | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 01:03 AM |
| 2 | When asking a girl out and another guy joins too?You need to make it clear that you're both together and that he isn't invited, this situations suck a lot because they're are very rare, almost never happen, but when they happen you need to act very decisively. Some people will also abuse the fact that you don't want to be rude but you need to act quickly and put a stop to it as soon as possible. This is a lot easier if the girl actually helps you and rejects the guy but situations like this are also very rare and unusual for women so sometimes… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Should i cold approach if i am overweight?Yes of course. The only thing you need to approach a woman is being a man, that's all. But you need to keep working on your health, it will improve your confidence massively and make everything easier for you | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Nightgame feeling boringI'd say it depends on the country you're doing it in. For example, bars are very fun in South America, but I'm currently living in Finland but I don't go out anymore because bars in Finland are terrible and women here are very boring too | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you wait for signs to approach?No, it's not a good idea, the best women I've met didn't give me any signs to approach. Just think about it, she doesn't know anything about you, she doesn't know that you like her and you're interested, she's busy thinking on other things and might not have noticed you, there are a lot of reasons why she might not give you signs but she could still like you | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 06:08 AM |
| 0 | Loners: Prioritize making female friends over trying to pull girlsThis advice sucks ass. If you end up becoming an attractive man women will never introduce you to their friends because they'll want to be with you and they'll get jealous. You don't need to waste your time befriending women, I've dated 10s and I don't have a single female friend, perhaps only one but she's only my friend because she has a boyfriend | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Is sex in club bathrooms a thing or just something in movies?It does happen but most of the time people do it because they're with their girlfriend so it becomes easy to arrange. If you're talking about pickup up a random girl and having sex with her right away then it's still possible but it's very unlikely to happen | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 06:00 AM |
| 2 | How many people have a hard time dealing with AA?Every human being struggles with this, it's scary at first but after some approaches you realize that nothing bad is going to happen and then it becomes a lot easier. Even if you get rejected badly and the woman is disrespectful it's not your fault if you were respectful so you don't really have to worry about that, just be respectful and treat them well | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 08:41 PM |
| 7 | Making it a Man/ Women FrameA lot of things happened but after I realized that women aren't so different compared to men, that they like honesty and that they like talking about sex too it became very easy | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Denme tips para ligar,seduccion y manipulacionManipulación? Esa es la mejor manera de hacer que las mujeres se vayan. Hablar con mujeres se vuelve fácil cuando uno las entiende bien y sabe de que les gusta hablar. No hay trucos de "labia", si usted no entiende a las mujeres va a terminar diciendo cosas que las van a hacer perder interés. Lo que yo haría es hablar con ellas y preguntarles cosas sobre la vida de ellas en relaciones y la experiencia de ellas en relaciones y qué les gusta, las mujeres la mayoría de veces le dan todas las respue… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Being the funny guy?You also mentioned that you lack confidence and that has nothing to do with you being funny. I don't see any reason why you can't be confident and funny at the same time, if I were you I'd focus on fixing my confidence first | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want to go to your place.All women are different in this sense, some women are ok going to your place and some prefer having you go to their place. Don't overthink this because this really depends on the woman | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Do you agree with this ? I have heard it from a lot of people .No, this is terrible, you should go and talk to women you TRULY like, lowering your standards is pointless because you'll act accordingly. If you approach a woman you don't find sexy she'll eventually notice and she'll be very uncomfortable, trust me I've tried this. However your can still try to talk to them to see what happens but you'll do better anyways with attractive women | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How to keep attention or get a date of a 10/10?It's impossible to know what you're doing wrong without seeing you in a date but you clearly don't understand women yet so I'd recommend you trying to have more empathy and just treat them like normal human beings. I think I do well with 10s because I treat them like normal people, I'm very honest with them and show a lot of interest. Also if they don't meet you again after sex it's impossible to know the reason, sometimes it's their fault and there's nothing you can do, I've met women of some n… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 01:52 PM |
| 2 | whats your tips/advice?This is a very wide question so I'll mention the most important things. A rejection from a woman you just met is completely worthless, what can she reject if she doesn't even know you? There are a lot of reasons why you can get rejected that aren't you fault, for example she could be scared, insecure, or think you're out of her league. Which sounds stupid but trust me, most women have no self esteem at all even if they look perfect and it does happen very often. Women need to put some effort too… | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 01:46 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is / are the best books / resources for pick-up and dating?To be honest none, most PUAs are completely out of touch with reality and there are very few men who truly understand women | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Never go on Dinner DatesI don't know why people think that you need to physically escalate during a date. If she likes you and she felt comfortable she'll go out with you again or go home with you even if you didn't touch her. However dinner dates are not the best choice for a first date since the food can be distracting, it's fine for a second date. It's also sometimes their fault too, that excuse for leaving is extremely disrespectful so you didn't lose much, even if you went on a coffee date with her she would have … | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Are b*tch shields and sh*t tests really a thing?Your experience has nothing to do with what I mentioned and doesn't prove anything. I don't need your advice. I attract 10s consistently and understand women better than you do but you're too stubborn to even try to understand what I wrote like most people in the pickup community | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Are b*tch shields and sh*t tests really a thing?Alright and you want me to give you a medal or what? Do you want a trophy because you slept with a feminist in less than 15 minutes? | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Are b*tch shields and sh*t tests really a thing?Not necessarily, because of feminism women are learning nowadays to play games and to be disrespectful to men because they think that's the safest way to date even if they like them. That's one of the reasons why they act like that. There are also countless cases of couples who disrespect each other so you can't really make black and white statements about it | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:02 PM |
| 0 | Are b*tch shields and sh*t tests really a thing?It depends a lot on the woman, some women are very sweet and respectful so "shit testing" you is against their principles. I don't get shit tested because now I understand that when a woman acts like that it's not because she's testing me but because she's just rude so I just move to the next one | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone.You could do something like "I think you're very attractive, do you want to go for a coffee?" and say it with full confidence. When you meet a woman you can say whatever you want, they're going to like it as long as you say it with confidence. The most important thing isn't what you say but how you say it, as long as you do it with confidence it's not going to be cringe. If you feel uncomfortable doing that in a hostel maybe try to do it somewhere else first to build your confidence? You need to… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Dating is kinda painful when you’re personality somehow kills their attraction.I didn't read your whole thing but I was called ugly when I was 19, was an incel and very boring until I began to learn about women when I was 24. Now I'm 29 and I attract and date 10s consistently, my personality has changed a lot of over this time. It's a journey that you need to embrace but I would say the key to make things easier for you is to actually understand women properly. If you have empathy and understand them properly then you'll know how to act with full confidence, so you can sta… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Why are men interested in situationships?Who told you men are interested in situationships? This only happens if the woman is unreliable and the man doesn't trust her, a man is never going to start a relationship with a woman that isn't trustworthy. Have you considered that maybe you did a big mistake and the guy doesn't trust you because of that? | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 10:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone.I don't understand how can you end up in the friend zone if you never had the intention to be a friend. But in summary the way you never get friend zoned is by showing CLEAR interest and not giving them other options. They either accept your approach and go out with you or reject you, there is no friend zone option | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Best inner game mind switches?I do well with women but I'm not unreactive or cocky as you mentioned, you don't need to be like that to attract women. However after thousands of approaches and talking to women a lot I noticed that some women treated me very well and some others treated me like crap. Later I learned that some women just have no clue of how to treat men and I was doing nothing wrong, so in the end one of the most important things that I learned is that you don't have to do everything. Dating is a game of two an… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 10:22 AM |
| -1 | Are b*tch shields and sh*t tests really a thing?You're absolutely correct. Shit tests don't exist, some women just have bad manners, are shy, play games or are just dumb. That's why you sometimes see them do weird things that PUAs call shit tests but in reality these girls don't know what to do | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 10:10 AM |
| 5 | Very cold girlBrother, there's no "true"personality, her true personality is what she has shown you already because it's part of her, otherwise she wouldn't be acting like that. With all respect I think it's strange that you like this kind of behavior but it might be because you don't understand the the challenge in this case is not very interesting | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 11:58 AM |
| 3 | I need advicesIf you're in the friend zone you're clearly doing something wrong. Kino has nothing to do with leaving the friend zone, in fact you can weird her out if you try to touch her and show interest without ever doing it before. The only way to never get friend zoned is that you need to accept that you'll give women only two options, either they date you and stay with you OR they reject you and stay out of your life. So all you need to do is to go and talk to this woman, tell her that you're interested… | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 11:48 AM |
| 9 | Very cold girlYou need to understand that some women know how to treat a man properly and some other don't. Also some women have very good communication skills while some other don't. Once you understand this you'll notice that there's not much to do here because this girl is clearly one who doesn't know how to communicate properly and probably doesn't understand men, which is bad for you because if you were to end up in a relationship with her it will most likely fail very fast due to bad communication. Thes… | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 11:41 AM |
| 3 | How do I know if she wants something casual without directly asking?Once you understand women you'll learn that women never want something casual, at the end of the day they eventually want a husband to make a family. Some women claim they want something casual but it's just that they don't feel ready for a relationship. Whenever I date a woman I don't even wonder if she's looking for something casual, I always assume they're looking for a boyfriend and they always follow along | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 04:33 AM |
| 2 | How to get better at conversation? Best practice tips?The best to tip is don't force it, you don't have to do everything. Some women are very good at talking and making conversations with them is extremely easy while other women suck at talking and having a conversation with them is almost impossible | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 04:25 AM |
| 1 | My game is literally nonexistent, how would you start from zero?Talk to women and try to learn how to understand women. Understanding women is an art, and once you understand them and your empathy is competent everything will clear up and seducing them becomes a lot easier | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 04:10 AM |
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