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You didn’t grow up with a mother, sisters, cousins, aunts, grannies, girl-friends? Do you like your guy friends, or other men in your life in a non-sexual manner? If you can like men in a non-sexual manner then you can like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 04:46 AM
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Yeah. I guess that has been a mistake. The PUA teachings made me believe that every girl is seduce-able. But that is patently not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:29 PM
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Why am I so lonely Tbh, I have grappled with this feeling for a very long time and it is only in the recent months that I feel like I have transcended the feeling of wanting to be with someone. I have noticed myself wanting to be alone more and more to the point that when I see a beautiful woman, I mentally acknowledge that yeah she’s beautiful but I feel no desire to want to know her or connect with her because it feels like too much hassle when I feel okay being by myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:13 AM
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The club is one of the worst places for pickup imo. I wholeheartedly agree but I feel like this is the only socially acceptable place to socialise. Gym is out of the question and I don’t meet any girls in university anymore either because I am now writing my thesis so I have to work independently. The only place left would be dating apps which I have never had much luck at.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:31 AM
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Friday night at the club I had this realisation: I spend the whole evening with my head on a swivel looking for any signs of interest, talk to girls only because they are attractive; try to get to know them as quickly as possible, force a connection, sometimes get their contact info only for them to ghost/decline the next day. This makes me feel like a piece of shit that nobody wants. But looking inward, I know that I am not a piece of shit, my family, my friends, my sisters, my cousins, they al…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 09:45 AM
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I meant simulator flying, not actual flying, can't fly fighter jets for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:03 AM
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Nerdy hobbies My hobbies would be working out, hiking, sim racing and flying. I can’t play a musical instrument and have no interest/aptitude for it. I don’t like travelling either. Nor going to music festivals or bar hopping. But I regularly go to nightclubs just to chat with beautiful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:44 PM
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If I get a number/snapchat of a girl on a night-out then I text her only once, if at any point she decides to not respond to my message then she doesn't hear from me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:09 AM
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If you don’t have brain cells to craft a coherent reply then why even bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:28 PM
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Ok at the core of it the idea of other men having sex with the girl you love and adore is simply repulsive to most men. A lot of men don’t embrace and accept their girl’s sexual past, instead they block it out and try not to think about it. That’s a perfectly reasonable coping strategy. Imagine guys who say that the past doesn’t matter are presented with the list of all men she slept with, under what conditions etc. They wouldn’t be so cool with that anymore. A girl I used to talk to told me tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:03 PM
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It’s like saying that posting nearly naked pictures brings a lot of attention (which is an undeniable truth) but you are not intending to accept that attention, only the validation and appreciation that comes with being wanted by men. In this paragraph I essentially said the same thing. Woman posts raunchy pictures, a boatload of men who would fuck her if she lets them give her attention and validation. She takes the attention and validation but obviously doesn’t want to fuck any or most of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:38 PM
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It’s not about the OP but the silent reader. He sees paragraphs of claims being made and you replying under it that it’s all wrong doesn’t tilt the argument in your favour, but I understand why someone would do that. If you have capacity of self reflection and sit down to craft a reply then you would see that he is right at least about some things. Conceding it, as in yielding an inch of ground would make the audiences even more receptive of him. So he must be summarily dismissed. There is not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:39 AM
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No one posts bikini shots of themselves for attractions sake, but for validation and appreciation of oneself. "You" lives inside our heads. The validation and appreciation that you are seeking from outside doesn’t exist inside your head, so you are importing it from outside. It is odd because you denied one thing and in the next breath admitted to it. Attracting people, and gaining validation/appreciation for oneself through their attention is one and the same thing. It’s like saying that postin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:26 AM
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Man these are the most profound words I have read on this sub. I wholeheartedly agree that every man should strive to be self reliant when it comes to his happiness. Pairing up in this day and age is bullshit, just hook up here and there and have fun living your best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:16 AM
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weapons of war They are my passion and the only jobs I have considered above designing the weapons of war is the jobs employing the weapons of war. Except doctors. They are the kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:20 PM
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Come to think of it, all three girls I mentioned, I had met them through friends earlier, it just so happened that we came back from the club
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:18 PM
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That's true, but people with bang average intelligence are found everywhere. Especially in fields that require more memorization than analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:52 AM
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How about aerospace engineering? I think that's one of the coolest job/field out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:59 AM
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Okay so you went outside and saw people in relationships? I have gone out to bar/clubs once/twice every week for the last 18 months. Have spoken to 100s of women. Have gotten dozens of numbers/snapchats. Not one of them converted. Sure I have gotten laid 3 times, made out here and there but that's all. To me this feels like the hardest shit ever. Going for it week after week, month after month despite consistent failures. However, I have noticed a massive improvement in my skills and now I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:51 AM
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The point I was making was that asymmetries exist and some are given a pass while others aren’t, even though the ones given a pass can be just as harmful
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:10 AM
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I have 2 friends, both claim to be 5’11”-6’. Funnily enough both are shorter than me and I am 5’9". They are both more like 5’8". On the other hand I have friends who are actually 5’11”-6’ and I have never felt that they are equal to me in height or shorter. Whereas these two guys, I always thought I am taller than both until they threw the 5’11" figure and made me question reality like how can these two, reasonable and grown ass men be this deluded?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 08:02 PM
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No one cares that a man with a low BC wants a woman with a low BC. It actually makes sense. No one cares that a woman with a low income wants a man with a high income. No one cares that a woman with a short stature wants a man with a high stature. Sexual attraction isn’t symmetric but you guys are happy with ignoring some asymmetries while act concerned over others. Age gap for example, apparently men with more life experience can abuse/manipulate younger women. Fine. What about huge differences…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 07:38 PM
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Yeah, there was one guy I met in August. You would tell him the most mundane shit and he would give over the top reaction like I told him that I cured cancer. That came off as very disingenuous and I immediately became wary of him. My girl-friend wouldn’t shut up how nice he is and I was like, yeah go for it but I find him completely annoying. Everything is good within a reason, after that you start questioning things. Like I recently met a study counsellor, a lady in her 50s, probably the sweet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:42 PM
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I know right, if this is how women think or are encouraged to think then men should take a note. While one can hold out for their unicorn but the cultural messaging and accompanying shift cannot be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:25 PM
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Has any of your ladies watched Sex/Life? What do you think about it? To me, as someone versed in the ways of The Red Pill, it’s like someone sat down and brought all Red Pill characterisations onto the screen. Watching the show also makes me quite a bit nauseous as well, but I power through it just to make myself immune if I ever encounter any such situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 09:20 PM
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That’s like 3 guys per week. Listen up boys, past does not matter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:54 PM
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I have a friend and she sleeps with around 150 men a year Holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:37 AM
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Romance is dead. People guard their hearts so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:02 PM
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who are similarly attractive as themselves I agree with this part because there is a sense of comfort and you feel like you can go a long way if you get along alright. But if you are a 6 with a 10, you might grapple with the feelings of inadequacy and that they will leave you for someone on their level. So you enjoy while it lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:55 PM
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I can’t comment on /r/worldnews so I am saying this here. First of all, I absolutely detest smug comments under every post related to Russo-Ukraine war. The war is real, Ukrainians are losing life and property. They probably don’t find these smug comments about Russian incompetence funny. Second, the narrative surrounding nuclear weapons use is so high on hopium that the prevalent narrative is that as soon as Russia uses a nuke in Ukraine then their entire Black Sea fleet will be drowned. That e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:08 AM
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I say that let’s have this period pain leave because most women don’t have painful periods or have them every single time, and secondly most people are honest and won’t take advantage of this generous policy to ditch their co-workers and chill at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 09:33 AM
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I can’t say that because all the girls I have hooked up with have been in that range.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 09:49 PM
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176 cm man here, my ideal height in women is 170-180 cm, with 175 cm being perfect. I like long, slender legs. But most 175 cm girls want someone who’s at least 183 cm. 190 being ideal probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:40 AM
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abuse from older women to younger men is not a normal thing that happens It happened to me and I have never told anyone until this very moment. The incidence of being fucked up in the head is probably same across genders but women are more likely to get away with shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:52 PM
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See that’s the thing, I don’t automatically assume that the 28 yo woman is going to abuse or manipulate him just because she is older. But if it’s the other way around then people assume that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:47 PM
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If I don't jerk off then my sex drive dies and I can go long without jerking off. If I break that spell out of boredom or whatever then it comes rushing back and then I am always horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:25 PM
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The last three girls I have hooked up with were friends of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:29 PM
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If one thirsty comment vs 10 doesn’t matter to you then the advice doesn’t apply. But then again we don’t live in a perfect world and it is our personal responsibility to take steps to reduce likelihood of undesirable outcomes than expecting the world to be perfect. I, as a man don’t post anything on social media because I hate the fact that once it’s out there, I have no control over who accesses that information and how they use it, even though I am not engaged in any scandalous activities. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:32 AM
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It is such a weird line of reasoning. Among thirsty vs non-thirsty pictures, thirsty ones will obviously garner way more thirsty attention. It’s like saying that anyone can get lung cancer, so let me just smoke all the cigarettes I can. You see the point? There are some things that can, and do happen but there are also actions that increase likelihood of them happening
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:56 AM
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The way I see this may be different than you do. I would like to have kids with the woman who I get along with very well and feel like super solid team, so that when kids come into picture we both trust each other to be doing our best to raise the kids together instead of treating it like a business project where everything must be 50-50 and receipts preserved. It would be very unkind of me to not assist with the childcare when I am present at the home but with that kind of bitter and pessimisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:19 PM
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Don’t have kids with that attitude, you are not doing the man a favour by having kids with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:30 AM
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You got this fam
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:10 PM
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7.5 foot long penis, it’s no longer improbable, it’s impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:43 PM
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Puberty hits some people like a freight train and is slow burn for others. Also life circumstances don’t remain constant, one might not have had money in their early 20s or worked out. So their looks improve whenever they start working out and dressing better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 12:46 PM
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If I ever decide to go out, I'll go up into the mountains and run exhaust into my car and peacefully go to sleep. Then my loved ones won't be the ones to find me. Although I am not feeling suicidal but if one day I decide to do it then I would take a small boat, some cinder blocks, ropes and chains. Row the boat to the middle of the lake or into the sea, create large hole in its bottom, tie the cinder blocks to my feet and throw them overboard. Never to be found again, no mess to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:42 PM
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There's a saying for the British special forces; "[he] who dares, wins". Big fan. During my early 20s I read dozens upon dozen biographies of Navy SEALs and other special forces soldiers. These are the kind of men men need to learn masculinity from, not from dickheads like Andrew Tate. I espouse “Who dares wins” and have nailed the “dare” part but I just need to “win” as often as I would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:52 PM
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She lives about 25 bald eagles’ wingspan away
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:25 PM
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No bro I am 5’9” myself but my friend is 5’8” and he has slept with over 150 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:01 PM
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I hooked up with a girl, rawdogged her, she said that she really liked the whole thing and I seem to know what I was doing. But she has since not reached out (that was Sunday) and I am horny. Should I reach out to her and ask for second servings? And how? She lives about 50 meters away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:59 PM
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Good post 👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:28 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:30 PM
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✌🏽 Final worlds, Red Pill is a just a map. You will not learn much by staring at the map. Take the map and get out there. Also women’s criticism of the red pill is misguided because they are simply not traversing that path, instead they are features on that map and I concede that sometimes those features are misrepresented/misunderstood/mischaracterised but overall they lack perspective on the man’s journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:24 PM
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Your description of the red pill is what I remember it being from its first inception more than 20 years ago. Yeah but I found it only 2 years ago and have found it largely correct in my extensive experience of going out and talking to people. That means that there still plenty of Red Pilled men with critical thinking skills but you don’t notice them because they are not idiots and don’t say dumb shit. I hold zero resentments towards women, I am all for her living her life the way she deem fit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:11 PM
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I love it when people who have no understanding or experience of Red Pill tells us how wrong we all are. You meeting someone stuck in the anger phase doesn’t mean that Red Pill is bullshit considering that they acknowledge that it exits and one must exit it asap. So let me briefly describe my understanding of Red Pill: It’s an empirical summary of patterns seen in modern world dating. It is not science. As a man your primary task is to put maximum focus on self improvement to end up on the right…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:55 AM
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Ah damn! I got used for my resources again; sleep. Alpha wouldn’t have to sacrifice any sleep because he would have his balls emptied in the club itself. 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:46 AM
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/r/ihavesex ✌🏽 This gorgeous German brunette I had met earlier once in a group setting, then we met at the nightclub yesterday. We hugged when we first saw each other, second time she saw me I hugged her again and kissed her on the cheek. And she just bolted away, I thought she was pissed. But later I saw her again and she was cool, so I pecked her on the lips this time. One thing lead to other and she came back with me. But towards the end there was another tall Swedish girl, absolute dime, giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:40 AM
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Did you downvote that post which called 99% of Indian men as unwashed incels who no woman would willingly touch? Last I recalled, it had some 10k upvotes and dozens of awards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:10 PM
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“she's free to do whatever she wants", "you don't own her" That’s true though. Here’s how you do it. She doing something that makes you exceedingly uncomfortable and you think it would weaken the relationship in your head (head is where the relationships exists): you talk to her. If she is not willing to compromise on it then you have to remind yourself that you can’t force her to do anything she doesn’t want to but you don’t have to stay with her if her actions make you uncomfortable. So you bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:06 PM
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As a guy for me it’s when there is barely anything redeeming about the girl except her willingness to sleep with me. It was barely fun, just a little bit validating, and couldn’t help but feel gross in myself afterwards. Had it been with a girl who I found physically attractive as well as was drawn to her personality, I would have fallen for her like a rock. So for me casual sex is possible only with people who have some ruling out factor with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:40 PM
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Thanks yo 🙌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:22 PM
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Of course, no doubt about that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:16 PM
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however why didn't you ask her on a date later? The nature of our conversation was more of friendly and getting to know, I was trying to transition it to flirty and then it would have been more appropriate to ask her out. Here’s what I was doing: A guy from her class was speaking to her and she seemed confused by what he said to her, I jokingly remarked that I think he likes you. She brushed it off, then I asked her if she knows if any of her classmates have a crush on her, she said she doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:31 AM
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example of mate guarding. I am pretty sure that dude was gay, and I had spoken to him a month ago when I was talking to another hot girl and he was standing next to her. I don’t feel threatened by him at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:26 AM
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I am indeed following both tenets to the T. I have improved soooo much in the last 1+ year of going out, walking up to a girl and speaking to her is no issue at all for me anymore, however I have barely anything to show for it. But a small W I want to share. A tall girl was dancing on the dance floor, she had a tattoo of GPS coordinates on her arm, I stared at it with mix of amusement and curiosity, she told me it’s Kentucky’s coordinates and she used to au-pair there, for the next 2-3 minutes w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:24 AM
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There is this extremely cute girl who works out at my gym, I would never approach anyone at the gym because it’s a sanctum for me. However, I saw her sitting by herself in the student nightclub I frequent and she was browsing Tinder, so I just walked up to her and said “would you swipe on me”, and she said “let me have a look at you”, then said “yes I would” shrugging her shoulders. Then we proceeded to chat for 20-30 minutes, then her friend took her hand and said let’s go and dance. She just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:04 AM
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This cannot be a valid argument because you are just handwaving it away. “oh, India has world’s highest rape rates but I don’t have any data to back that up so take my word for it that it’s highest and most rapes are not being reported"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:15 AM
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I can’t even jerk off 3 times a day, and if I jerk off once a day for several days in a row then it doesn’t feel so good anymore. Maybe it’s hormones or stuff. If the guy can manage it then the woman has to just keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:22 PM
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and that I called him out Thanks yo, from an Indian
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:08 AM
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Rape rates are not highest, raw numbers may be the highest (I am not sure about that either) by the virtue of such magnitude of population. India is not even in the top 10. But incidents taking place are highlighted world over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:41 AM
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The great ancient societies—Mesopotamia, Inca-Peru, India-China, Egypt, etc—were often de facto polygamous, or else varied. India, a country which is 3x the population of USA and 1/3rd the landmass would quickly devolve into widespread civil unrest if not for enforced monogamy. Right now every man has incentive to get a job and then a wife. This 80/20 rule, which will take few more decades to reign in India would be absolutely disastrous considering our population.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 10:21 PM
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Not necessarily like mother, but men who grew up with good mothers know first hand what selfless love looks like, how there is a person who sticks by you through thick and thin, is always supportive of you and you absolutely never doubt their intentions. And because she’s a woman, they erroneously think that there will be another woman or women who will love them the same way, some men do get lucky but most are in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 09:27 PM
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As in, she swipes first, I see that someone has liked me, then I swipe on their profile just for the sake of it, organically I wouldn't have swiped on them because either they are too far or fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:02 AM
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The number of horse girls I see in Sweden is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:59 AM
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Lol I bought a new phone despite being on a tight budget, took some decent pictures, put them through Photofeeler and made a profile with high hopes that this time will be different. Haha it’s not. I have almost never organically matched with someone, mostly if someone swipes on me then I swipe back on them, that’s how I get most of my matches. It hurts doubly more so to see the girls from my Uni who I have spoken to or approached in the club, being on Tinder. It’s like she was single, ready to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:57 AM
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The thing is that you are asking ME to count on THEIR redemption when it will have very real consequences for ME. I don’t even care that much about losing half of my wealth to her but it would be quite embarrassing to me to divorce and have my kids growing up to divorced parents and watching their mom in a string of relationships. When I was in my early 20s, I attended the selection process to become an officer in the Indian Airforce 8 times. I was rejected every time, while eagerness and willin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:59 PM
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This is a question that I have no good answer to, yet I care, anything I say can be easily countered. I don’t care about paternity fraud, I don’t care about STD, I don’t care about me being her best lover. For me personally, sex is kind of a big deal and people for whom it’s not, I would say that we don’t have compatible values. I have slept with couple of women I had no feelings for and I felt so gross and disgusted by myself afterwards. I felt like a dick for semi-ghosting them afterwards. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:51 PM
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I am not a black piller but some exceptions don’t make a rule. For every dork with a hottie there are 1000 chads with hotties
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:23 AM
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Why? It seems totally normal to me in this day and age. I mean, why are you professing love for someone you barely know? And why are you so eager to be with her without knowing her? People don’t value what’s easily attainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:53 PM
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I hold door for men and women if they are approaching the door
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:05 PM
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That’s me, let’s get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 03:24 PM
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Seriously, that middle school level insult was supposedly the greatest come back of all time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:46 AM
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Tera-chad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:00 AM
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Scandinavian women are the hottest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:44 AM
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You are very good looking man. Which country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:25 PM
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It depends on what you call a privilege. I would consider it a privilege to fight for my country and can’t bear the burden of sitting out when my fellow countrymen are fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:36 PM
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But wasn’t it men who told them to go seek shelter in a safe place and stopped other men from leaving? Call it toxic masculinity or whatever but I would totally send my mom and sister to safety and stay back to defend my homeland.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:13 PM
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Nah it’s fine. Shitty people going to be shitty, I can’t fix them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:07 PM
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Whaaat? I receive at least 1 random add every day and I ignore them because I don’t know these chicks, so I think that they are probably just building their social media following.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:38 PM
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When a guy is living alone he does shit, he does it when he wants and how he wants. That’s my greatest worry if I ever move in with a woman, I would like to keep our chores as separated as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:36 PM
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Nah bro I am not saying that you have to do or prove anything, it was a general commentary of how things are. How’s your social life? Are you in university or have graduated already? Brown guys need to do the following things to have success: 1) Build muscle and lose fat to have an attractive, masculine physique. 2) Dress impeccably, smell nice, be well groomed. 3) Have excellent social skills, top 20% in charm and charisma, so that people are drawn to talk to you. Good thing is that these are j…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:30 AM
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Are you Indian brah?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:37 AM
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I think you are right about this. I get asked by the girls a LOT if I want to stay (I am studying in Sweden), but without asking they assume that I’m an exchange student who will go back in 6 months. Tbf, even White Europeans don’t seem to do so well because them being there for a short time makes girls not bother with them, except for casual sex of course. Also, one of my Swedish friends went to San Diego State University for an exchange semester, he’s blonde, good looking, and a very social gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:33 AM
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hope you have some research backing up correlating small penis and behaviours that go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:18 AM
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No the actual insult is “she’s loose like a whore". Using loosened vagina as "she's a whore" is anatomically incorrect. It is indeed incorrect but I hope you have some research backing up correlating small penis and behaviours that go with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:15 AM
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I don’t know if these people are genuinely retarded or just malicious at heart because how the hell can they tell that the people who are taking offence with the usage of the SDE insult are the same people who say mean things to women/are Tate fans? I am sure there is an overlap but just ask 1000 random men who have never heard of Tate and what they think of the insult SDE, I would wager most of them won’t approve of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:54 PM
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I have never been a Tate fan, never resonated with his ideas because my idea of success doesn’t align with his, and I have enough examples of good women in my life to not pay attention of his views on women. However, it has been really sad to see women’s insistence on continuing using the term “small dick energy" and that there is nothing wrong with it. Fine. Just don’t lose your shit the next time someone draws attention to your genitals because I have seen plenty explaining the physiology that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:48 PM
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I mean, it’s much better to spread kindness and teach people to not say mean things to each other than find novel ways to insult each other. Besides, my whole point is that people who champion liberal ideas and everything that goes with it, like not being homophobic, racist, sexist, body shamer, etc uses such terms then they cannot expect others to withhold the lofty ideals they themselves are failing at.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:36 PM
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No I think people can insult others however they want to, just drop expectations for the behaviour that they themselves are not displaying. Like small dick energy and beef curtains can co-exist, but one must not exist without the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:33 PM
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The only time I have asked a woman to smile is probably on the dance floor when they are swaying with a blank expression on the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:30 PM
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You called for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:47 PM
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She mentioned “all girl" crew, does that mean that there were already more women there than normally would be and the guy who tried to balance it a bit is used an example how affirmative action doesn’t exists? I am sorry what????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:16 PM
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Man! This one time I was discussing the ethics of working on weapons and this “super progressive” 22 yo chick remarked that I have small dick energy because I want to work on weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:53 PM
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Agreed, lay out your intent clearly on the table but if the interest is not reciprocated then take it off the table and never look back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:22 AM
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What if someone respects themselves more than they care about getting their dick wet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:19 AM
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You are essentially describing secure attachment style. The thing is that people who have secure attachment style are generally not on the market, they are in long term relationships and when those relationships end they get snagged up real quick. They are prime real estate. It’s the anxious, and avoidant attachment style people who keeps getting recycled. Because they are mostly shit for relationships, avoidants even more so. A person who has secure attachment style will turn their partner who …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:02 AM
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I don’t even like him but it looked like a self-goal by Greta because usually you have your own name in your email address
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:17 AM
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That appeal to emotions and subtle guilt tripping is not fun. Just have a running counter of how much you need and how much you got. I would be more inclined to contribute in that manner instead of throwing money in a dark, bottomless well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:40 PM
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And rub alcohol on the fingers, the pussy scent will give it away
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:44 AM
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He’s one of the well articulated ones here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:29 PM
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Don’t lie, we know that you want to fuck yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:06 PM
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I have some girl-friends who do this, they are not that serious about dating and the only thing that will take them out of their comfort zone to go out on a date is some guy who she thinks is absolutely perfect for her, everyone else gets rationalised away for minor, human faults of theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:24 AM
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Rookie numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:46 PM
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I think the payments are decided based on the kind of lifestyle kids were having and that there shouldn’t be a significant difference after divorce. Imagine if Kim K didn’t have means to make a lot of money, so a child support payment or 10k/month would bring them from top 0.001% lifestyle to top 20% lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:41 PM
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Holy fucking shit. She made me feel things. Maybe it’s because I work out a lot but I have observed that my affinity to female gym rats in increasing by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:35 PM
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What about a man who prefers a woman close to his height in either direction. I am 5’9", my ideal woman is 5’7" to 5’11"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:30 PM
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Indeed, the Pick Up / Game can turn a maybe into a Yes but not a No into a Yes. And they also don’t talk about the massive numbers of strikeouts you will face. But game is not much more than letting your inherent Charm and Charisma shine through the anxiety and self limiting beliefs. If you are not charming with men then you won’t be charming with women. So one needs to be well rounded in their social skills to find consistent/repeatable success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:24 PM
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I agree, and I came to this conclusion after going out a lot. Women open doors for men which they can either walk through or miss (deliberately or unknowingly). It is highly unlikely for men to get a closed door open.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:26 PM
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What if you take a screenshot of the picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:56 PM
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Go Chad! Aww 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:05 PM
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For real? I am sorry but I not great at seeing signs unless they are very blatant. Like this one time a girl told me a couple of times that I smell really nice, the girl sitting next to me remarked that “I think she likes you”. I was like, nah, my perfume is BOMB. Next time she saw me at the club she straight up asked if I wanted to make out with her. So yeah, I missed the sign earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:01 PM
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Then I met her on the way out, I asked her how her workout was, she said best ever, then asked for my name. I asked for hers, then we exchanged pleasantries and went our ways. Do you think she was hitting on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:52 PM
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So I was at the gym and a girl tapped me on the back and asked me to show her how to use the hack squat machine. I tried but I had never used it, so I just gave up and told her to wait for the instructor. However, my Overhead Press form is ON POINT.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:46 PM
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You just develop a thick skin and learn to laugh it off, in the beginning every number you get is such a big deal, and after dozens of denials and ghostings you learn to not take anything too seriously. At this point I am not sure if I would 100% count on my future wife showing up to the wedding 🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:36 AM
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most female comedians aren't funny Either my Facebook feed is purposely showing me select clips or almost all female comedians try to be funny by narrating their sex lives and how much of hoes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:33 AM
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Rub your eyes on her thighs to wet her thighs and dry your eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:54 PM
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It’s Christmas time, stop fighting and love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:06 PM
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Personally, I think if a woman does to a man most of the things she likes to be done to her, the man would like it. You like getting kissed on the cheek, on the forehead, on the neck, on the chest, on the stomach, in the inner thighs, you like the passionate lovemaking? Guess what? He likes most of the same things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:38 PM
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I see very violent nightmares almost every single night. Either I am witnessing the violence or committing it, I don’t recall being subjected to it. My sleep quality is shit. The only times I don’t see the nightmares is when there is a woman in bed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:30 PM
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First one dumped me for a guy who was better at sex How did she know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:07 AM
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Tell us the whole story and let us feel secondhand happy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 12:24 PM
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Would you hang out with me CimZim 👉🏼👈🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:14 PM
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You are my favourite hoe, and I would like to discuss these things with you some time 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 08:02 PM
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Q4W When you criticise men when they say they don’t want to marry high N women, do you want them to drop distinction between a high N and low N woman when considering suitability for LTR, or do you want them to only drop the usage of derogatory terminology like sluts, whores etc? Example, two hypothetical identical women, one with N = 4 and one with 40, except the personality changes that came with pursuit and accumulation of additional sexual experience. Do you want men to consider both women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:18 PM
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I do largely agree with what you said which is why I didn't make a top level post. I felt like the lack of empathy from women for men's issues was the driving force behind your post. If you weren't disappointed by it then perhaps you wouldn't spare a thought, much less make a post about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:18 PM
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You have a misplaced expectation of kindness or empathy for men, OP. For men it has always been perform or perish. There's nobody coming to save you. The sooner you can accept that, the sooner you can get down to work. And expecting sympathy from women for sexually unsuccessful men is akin to a woman expecting child support from men who isn't her baby's daddy. Both are contrary to the sexual imperative of both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:01 PM
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There is a girl in my dorm who looks like Margot Robbie, just taller, bigger boobs and younger. Not that I have a chance with her but I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with her if I know she has been around, but I would definitely have as much sex as possible. Hypothetically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:43 AM
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It’s confusing honestly, some girls act very offended when you invite them/yourself to your/their home, and some girls act like you dropped the ball by going a more conservative route. It’s hard to determine who wants what. But to be fair, most of these rejections were simply because they weren’t interested and I was projecting my interest on them. But I don’t regret any of it one bit, I shoot my shot instead of living with regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:59 PM
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1 of the 3 that converted came over directly. I get a feeling that one of the recent rejections can translate into a hookup because I know that this girl likes me, my friend told me that and yesterday she straight up asked if I wanted to make out. While she’s cute, her drinking habits and making out with random guys is a dealbreaker. And I don’t want to lead her on. So I won’t pursue her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 10:44 PM
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The way I see it is that yes, you can't go wrong with being tall, white, lean, muscular, handsome, have big dick, be educated, make good money, etc. The closer you are to the benchmarks in each category, the wider your appeal will be. When you are lacking in several categories, that means your pool is narrower and you will have to work harder to get what you want, and there is no guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:10 PM
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I completely agree with what you said, and I am a guy who goes out twice every week and talks to whoever catches my fancy. The advice that just go out, dress well, smell nice, speak to everyone doesn’t really work as well as people suggesting it imagine. I have a friend who to me looks like Calvin Klein model, a jawline that could cut diamonds. Even he doesn’t get as much play as one would expect. For over an year I was in denial that OLD doesn’t work but after giving the IRL version full chance…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:43 PM
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I met a girl who was 24, by her own admission her ideal range was 27-35. I was 27 then I met another who was 26 and I was 29 and her ideal range was 27 to 35 The most recent one I met is 23 and I am still 29, her ideal range is 23-33. I have a buddy who is 31, who is dating a 21. Another 35 yo married a 25 yo. A girl I was friends with told me that she dated a 35 yo when she was 22. The fact is that if men continue taking care of themselves, they stay attractive to a wide range of women for much…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:19 AM
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I don’t know about Woody Allen but yeah, the protagonist in this movie is indeed very self-absorbed. It’s honestly scary how freedom to live however you want opens door to self-absorption. After all there is nothing greater than themselves anymore, no responsibilities, no challenges. Just like a feather 🪶 held afloat by the winds of hedonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:47 PM
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She isn’t shown as worst at all, she is shown as a regular woman in a feminist society like Norway and somehow she embodies everything that Red Pill talks about, and the movie is made so well that all of it looks effortless and natural. It’s a really good movie, which to me shows that how lack of any meaningful struggles in a prosperous country makes people go crazy and invent problems which are merely a byproduct of a very privileged life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:27 PM
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I am watching this Norwegian movie called “The Worst Person in the World", probably the most red pilling movie I’ve ever watched and it is completely inadvertent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:13 PM
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Don't you agree that historically, culturally and religiously there's a lot more leniency towards men than women in regard to sexuality? There was, is, and will be. For simple logistical reason that consensual sex is almost of no consequence to a man, but the woman risks getting pregnant and if she’s playing with fire regularly then she will raise eyebrows. One has to remove birth control from the equation when discussing the naturality of casual sex. Do you favor more conservative and tradition…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:59 PM
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Well, I debate only to extract actionable advice. Which still stands. Improve yourself and go after what you want. Let the pieces fall where they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:38 PM
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It doesn't disincentivize 99% of male mammals and primates as the reproductive benefit of fathering many children greatly outweighs any possible risk. They would have to find willing females and in human contexts, which woman would want to bear children from several different fathers and raise them on her own? Animal behaviors don't translate directly to human because children are expensive and dependent for much longer. And maybe you don't know this, but humans are not naturally monogamous. We …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 01:51 PM
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if a guy finds 95% of the population hot Who told you that? Guys find only top 20% hot, but they are willing to sleep with the top 50%, sometimes even top 70% in particularly dire circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:29 PM
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Without contraception and modern medical science to treat STDs, very few people will engage in casual sex as it would a very risky endeavor, people would instead pair up and stay with one person for as long as possible instead of cycling through them like clothes in their wardrobe. Think of it like base-jumping, sure it's fun and parachutes allow us to do it without consequences but nobody was able to do it twice without parachutes. So saying that base-jumping is totally normal thing to do is di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:04 PM
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But that’s not what is happening, is it? 99% or more of the sex that is being had is not done with the purpose of procreation, it’s purely for physical and psychological pleasure. College aged men and women are not concerning themselves with the genetic make up of their future babies. They are getting shit faced drunk every weekend and having drunk make outs and hookups. There is no biological imperative being fulfilled here, that’s hedonism. If it was actually the case that women were getting p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 11:06 PM
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OP you are embarrassing brown dudes here, and I am one. You are weak and pathetic, not only in body but also in the mind, which is even worse. When it comes to physical gifts, I am not much better than you, just an inch taller. But I have the humility to accept what is, I accept the challenges and put in work day after day. While I attempt to look my best, I literally don’t give a shit how much I conform to the prevalent beauty standards. I just go after the kind of women I fancy and I will keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 01:07 PM
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You mean Bangladeshi?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:53 PM
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Because it appears to be a lie in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:07 PM
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It means “not lean” just a fat percentage of 18-20% TIL that I have dad bod. I work out 3 times a week, 2 hrs each time. I don’t even weigh that much, just 77 kg at 5’9”. I am reasonably strong, I would say in the top 5% when it comes to pull ups. So to me the definition of Dad bod would look like a guy who regularly goes to the gym but hasn’t bothered with a cut yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 12:07 PM
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Basically the equality of genders started when male phisical strenght stoped meaning as much. Precisely. Even today, although I don’t wish for it in the slightest, men can subjugate women the instant they desire to. They don’t because 1. Most of them are good humans. 2. They fear other men. So the narrative of equality of sexes is not rooted in reality, equality is something men have agreed to and conceded. And it’s good. I love women in my life and want them treated fair and square. But I also …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:20 PM
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Nah, what’s a weak man with a gun? A weak man with a gun. If you want to lead men you want their respect and their trust, that you gain through strength, physical and/or of character and competence. Else they can easily murder you in your sleep. I am not sexist, I have known some terrific women leaders who I will happily follow, they were competent in those environments. But the key word is “those environments”, very non-threatening and commercial. But this is not how humans existed for the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 11:11 PM
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You would think that but in my opinion the simple reason why men have dominated women throughout the history is very simple and something that people seem to miss almost every time. It’s drum rolls Massive disparity in physical strength. Men, women alike bow to strength. Men don’t let weak men lead them either, they quickly snatch power from them, and women in general are weaker than weakest men, so it made zero sense for men to instinctively look up to women in leadership position when most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:56 PM
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I might be an anomaly here but I like tall women and almost exclusively approach women who are tall and hot to me. It’s almost silly that one time I approached a woman who was at least 6’4”, I am 5’9”. There’s a girl who I say Hi to in passing, she’s 6’ or probably more. I will ask her out next time I see her. I don’t approach with the mindset that I am so awesome that anyone would want me. I approach from the mindset that this person catches my fancy, let’s go and find out if the interest is mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:32 PM
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That’s little over 3 eggs a day, nothing to worry about. If it was like 6 dozen then perhaps I would worry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:16 PM
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The anger comes from the lack of humility and some misplaced expectations of fairness. It comes from the expectation of how the world should be and what they should be able to get. I say, the world is as it is, you have to decide what you want, how you are going to get it and what you’ll do if you don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:35 PM
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It’s just honestly much harder to be sympathetic with anyone who is trashing you 24/7 Have a look at /r/TwoXChromosomes and how almost every single post is about women who felt slighted by men. Would you still consider it fair game not to feel sympathetic with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:53 AM
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Nah bro, that is not the main reason that comes to mind, let me tell you what I think. Being a parent for the first time is probably one of the greatest experiences, she already had hers, so our excitement won’t be on the same level if we decide to have a kid some day. It’s like going to an exotic location, she tells you that she has already been there but will still go with you. It’s not the same as if you both went there for the first time. Involvement of the baby daddy: This is the guy who nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:59 AM
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Exactly, if the probability of meeting the right partner is same for men and women, say 1 out of 50, then women at least get to play that probability game. Most men don’t, so they get lucky, settle, or stay alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:43 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/z7fhwg/social_status_and_looks_are_more_important_than/iy873ak/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:07 PM
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No complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:24 PM
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This reminds of this TwoX post where a /r/confidentallyincorrect poster said that "the only reason men can't get laid is because they are misogynists".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:03 PM
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In Google's store it was 366 euros, but in a Swedish store called Elgiganten, it was 274 euros, but now it's back to its usual 460 euros everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:58 PM
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Even misogyny is not a problem for getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:34 AM
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It will drop even more?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:26 AM
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I agree with the message not the wording
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:21 AM
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Yeah, they probably want to get rid of all 6A before 7A arrives. Besides it is right now 10/10 value for money, people who were calling it reasonably good at $449 would lose their mind if they learnt its new price. Besides there is certain charm to have the OS and hardware from the same company, like Apple devices, Surface laptops, Google phones
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:19 AM
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What kind of pictures do you find arousing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:08 AM
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Yeah, I bought it today, and yeah it’s because of the sale, else it’s about $480 here. Crazy sale.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:07 AM
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I just got mine today, it costs $280 in Sweden for some reason. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:26 AM
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But why isn’t a normal woman impressed by this kind of athleticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:24 AM
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I am thinking of putting a small clip of me doing this on my Tinder profile. Do you think the ladies will be impressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 11:34 PM
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Oh shit, actually I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:40 PM
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This particular guy does indeed look silly for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:34 PM
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But it takes two to tango, why are you just pointing out men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:30 PM
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Q4W: How impressive do you find this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ewf8rqGRbrE
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 09:29 PM
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I don’t have much to say about him in particular, I will just say that when you are thrown in a gun fight with a knife, some choose to complain how unfair it is and some sharpen their knife. There is no point in debating women about what they do, why they do it and why they shouldn’t do it. If you are a man with a functioning grey matter then keep your eyes, ears, and head open. Determine what the reality is and figure out a path to get where you want to go. Sitting around and complaining about …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:38 PM
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Okay I probably misspoke there, the self-improvement part may be common to blue pill and red pill but red pill is also an empirical commentary on dating dynamics. My life experience and of numerous other men’s largely align with those observations which is why we pay heed to it as it puts things into perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:58 PM
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Even when first discovered Red pill, I never took anything said in that as absolute truth. Red Pill is not physical laws like gravity and electromagnetism, it is a generalisation of dating dynamics, and by that token there will always be exceptions. There is a girl in my class who I think every guy has eyes for. She’s tall, slender, big boobs, very cute face, very smart. She’s in a live in relationship with a skinny computer science nerd who is a few inches shorter than her. I have seen exceptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:54 PM
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It doesn’t go against Red Pill ideology either if he was slaying but he is not, and blue pill will never tell him in plain words the things he need to fix in order to expand the range of women that finds him attractive. Expanding social circle only increases exposure, you still need to improve the product to improve the sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:48 PM
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The main reason why Red Pill gets bad rep is that you come across a lot of people who are in their “anger phase” because they are in the most emotionally charged state surrounding dating dynamics. Once you have lived with that information for considerable amount of time and seen it real life, you are not bitter about it. Then there are some PPD users like WilliamWyattD and others, who, by their style of writing seem very intelligent people, if I recall correctly, they believe in the core tenets …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:23 PM
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Maybe some men are, I personally find taller women super attractive because I am the legs guy, not boobs or ass guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:07 PM
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I am 5’9”, I have zero qualms about dating someone up to 6’. But would you date a man a couple of inches shorter?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:09 AM
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If it's purely casual from the get go, like picked her up in the club or tinder, that is, no courting or going on dates, then it is understood that is casual and both parties are free to do whatever. But if I asked someone out on a date, we went on a date, had a good time and slept on 2nd, 3rd date. Then it would be a dick move to sleep with others. This American phenomenon of multi-dating is a complete no-go for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:32 PM
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Good jeans
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 11:49 AM
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To those responding to OP, have a look at their post history. They are either trolling or have some major issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:44 AM
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The shagging part or what transpired before that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 08:02 PM
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Indeed, a late 20s Indian guy living in a village/small town and being a virgin is very much different than a late 20s guy living in LA who went to UCLA for undergrad. That was me. I was a virgin until 28, not because there was something significantly wrong with me but largely because rural India doesn't have a dating culture AT ALL. You have to find a girl to get into a relationship, keep it under wraps for months, years before she's ready to fuck, and then it's a logistical nightmare to shag w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 10:42 AM
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I mean, hating them as a whole and while simultaneously trying to get with many of them sounds rather contradictory. Have empathy, for yourself and for others. Have a good attitude towards your failures and successes. Just like you don’t want everyone out there, not everyone out there want you either. Fair is fair. There is plenty of value in interacting with women on just platonic, human level as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:34 PM
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Nah, I don’t hang around unnecessarily. But I might have looked silly when I sat on a medicine ball and spoke to a girl for 10 minutes or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:27 PM
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Yeah I figured, still wanted third party’s opinion. Yeah I don’t fancy her, so it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:11 PM
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I am 5-6” in length (depending on how you measure, visible length or bone pressed) and only 4" in circumference. So while the length is average, the girth is below average. I used to be insecure about it, that the 1) girl won’t be satisfied, 2) She’ll leave me because of it. I internally addressed both. 1) Girl won’t be satisfied: Very real possibility, shows the empathetic part of me that I want her to enjoy herself too. But there is nothing I can do about it. It is what it is. She can choose f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:24 PM
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Imagine you have two dorm hallways with one common area. I live on one side and the girl lives on the other side. We say hi to each other in passing, occasional small talk. Once I texted her asking if she had tickets to an event I wanted to go. That was a few weeks ago. Yesterday she texted me asking if I have Snapchat. I replied with my snap username and asked what’s up. She adds me on Snapchat and replies that she saw me standing in the gym doing nothing. I replied that I was either waiting fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:13 PM
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