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Men search out this content in order to be better men in all aspects of their lives. It has very little to do with you honestly.
/r/RedPillBooks30/04/22 12:36 AM
14

You've got this man!!
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:07 PM
99

You did the right thing, it took you a while to get there but you did the right thing ( I'm an advocate of the only breaking up once thing) She's gone now - you were unhappy, you voiced it, nothing changed so you left - case closed Now you need to work on yourself. You're severely lacking in self esteem and self respect - this is what you should focus on primarily. Find things you enjoy doing and that make you feel good and throw yourself into them - lifting, martial arts whatever it is that giv…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 01:03 PM
1

If that's all you take from what gets posted here - you're only reinforcing our points.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 07:25 AM
6

I think it all comes down to how you phrase it, "Can you please get started on the dishes Brian?" vs "Brian, get started on the dishes - please." Both are issuing commands but the second one feels more direct and authoritarian. Just my 2 cents
/r/askTRP16/04/21 03:58 PM
4

How many red traffic lights do you need to see before you stop your car my dude?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:25 AM
2

It means playing pretend
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:04 AM
2

Too much bullshit with this one by the sounds of it. Find another one that's less work.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:15 AM
30

My theory is that Dogs are easy social media click bait. No one is gonna comment ' Dogs are shit' on their posts or downvote them. The almost unanimous positive feedback they get from dog pics will give them heaps of feelings of validation.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 09:05 PM
2

That's a good response and good result dude. You've got a choice as to what to do moving forward - if you're already planning on cutting her this seems like as good an opportunity as any. I personally would drop her for this with zero further contact - but I'm not you.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 12:15 AM
4

What's the modesto manifesto my guy? I gave it a google and it just came up with the Billy Graham stuff?
/r/MGTOW230/11/20 03:00 AM
14

I would argue that in the process of redefining or changing anything - it is necessary to attack it. If this dude's definition of masculinity comes down to bullying and harassment that says more about him than it does about true masculinity. As for the post he's just virtue signalling I guess he forgot the #notallmen
/r/MGTOW220/11/20 11:49 AM
1

Gotch Bible.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 01:53 PM
2

Look up the Gotch Bible. And make sure you're eating.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:04 AM
19

This. I'd lean more towards the no response at all but that's just me.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 12:33 PM
1

No.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:41 AM
5

No. Don't go back. Ever. Read Stephen King's pet cemetery as for why you shouldn't bring things back from the dead. You said yourself that you're a 7 and she's a 5. Given that your value is higher than hers she should be the one entering your frame not the other way around. You told her that this will only work as an FWB arrangement but then caved and entered her frame. Now you're having dinner together? - don't do it dude nowhere near worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:10 PM
5

As for the fears you are ok moving countries because you move from one isolated bubble without interaction with strangers to another isolated bubble without interaction with strangers. The only difference being the location. You fear acceptance - or rather not being accepted. This is why you can perform on stage and at speeches but not in more intimate settings. If you're on a stage or podium you're basically behind a barrier and this intimacy is blocked.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:02 PM
11

For the next 21 days everytime you say something to anyone look them in the eye. Cashier's, friends, family people you walk past in the street absolutely everyone. Once you've done that for another 21 days say 'Hi' to 3 people a day preferably strangers. Try this out it works.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:58 PM
88

She's not yours it's just your turn. Eventually she's gonna be fucking and sucking another dudes dick. Keeping that in mind usaully keeps the oneitis in check. Also there are literally billions of chicks on the planet my dude - it's madness to think you've found the best one. Hopefully this helps.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:49 PM
3

Actions vs words dude. What she says is meaningless. She's trying to get validation through sympathy by ' being sad about the breakup' and also flaunting the attention she's getting from other dudes. Stop torturing yourself by following up on her actions it's not productive at all.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:26 AM
3

Are you ok being lied to? Do you need to give her closure as to why? The answer to the above should be no. Ghost. Fuck her one more time kiss her after pack your bags and never talk to this bitch again.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:19 AM
4

Have you read no more mr nice guy? Start there.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:21 PM
23

You want a girlfriend with longer hair, she knows you want a girlfriend with longer hair, she chose to cut her hair to a shorter length - now you get to choose if she's still your girlfriend. There are enough of them out there if this one doesn't meet your needs and requirements replace her.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:05 PM
1

I like how male issues are dismissed as 'so what?' It's also real telling how a Wahmyn has taken a debate about men's struggles and simultaneously twisted it to ridicule and diminish male issues while also making the entire thing about her. Since when do females have the monopoly on suffering? I digress - that subreddit isn't helpful entertaining or representative of reality and wasting time debating in a logical fashion with the creatures that dwell therin is dumb as fuck. Let them keep eroding…
/r/MGTOW208/10/20 12:35 PM
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I think you should follow through dude. It's gonna help your mental health to persevere and achieve something you've set as a goal despite shit going sideways. Id look at it as a chance to COMPLETE the prep work and tournament process rather than looking at it as something to compete in. Learn from it and improve for next time.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:01 AM
1

Fuck yeah bro marry her and adopt her kids!! It's cool! On a serious note - if you're as thirsty as you say do it but whatever you do DON'T GET ATTACHED. once you've done it because that's where this whole thing is heading - get back in the gym and find some girls your own age to game.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 08:55 AM
1

3 dates no sex is usaully a cut off point man. I'd leave it as is let her be the next one to initiate contact. When she does she'll ask what you're doing over the next couple of days or however she does it. You respond with "I'm doing X at Y - you can come'.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 08:50 PM
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I make a point of turning off my phone when I'm with my girl and she follows suit. If she starts playing on it when I don't want her to I will take it off her and turn it off - normally only needs to be done once. Funnily enough I've never had to explain why - they know it's a shitty thing to do.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:11 PM
3

Don't focus on your unchangeable limitations - maximise your strengths.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:56 AM
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You can't control how she acts man. You can't control her actions when she decides to cheat and you can't control what she's going to do when you dump her. For your own sanity growth and life you need to drop her - you can only control your actions not hers.
/r/MGTOW206/10/20 02:49 AM
2

Sounds a little bit like you're dogging the boys here mate. Maybe you just need to adjust your priorities if it's upsetting you.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 02:05 PM
2

Blood test dude - you can't chance that shit
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:56 PM
1

Seems legit enough. Set up another meet up just you two and try escalate to get a full read. You're clearly interested in fucking her or you wouldn't have matched on a dating app - don't forget or be afraid of this. Shoot your shot just like normal.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 12:55 PM
2

If you BYO you make sure you will be drinking something you like. Sounds like she's down to smash anyway so just to be safe bring your own condoms and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 11:48 AM
9

No one is making you do it man - in fact society is kinda working against you succeeding. Maybe you're not ready yet.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 11:45 AM
2

Cool.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 07:02 AM
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So she's asking you openly to submit to her frame and you're asking if it's a good idea to do it because she's a nice girl?
/r/askTRP04/10/20 06:57 AM
4

Dude. That's a shit load of work and stress for a girl you're not fucking. You are definitely in her orbit - and she's giving you just enough to keep you there while she's out fucking other dudes. Cut her completely - no contact at all outside of class and there keep it to the bare minimum. This is oneitis at its worst - if you think it's anything else you're delusional.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 06:53 AM
3

It's a dog chasing cars scenario There's no rhyme or reason as to why they do it they just do. And once these dogs finally catch the car they don't know what to do.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 11:58 PM
2

Yikes. I thought Twitch 'Just Chatting' was bad.... The best bit is her justification of it not being easy work....
/r/askTRP03/10/20 11:56 PM
6

There is always a bigger fish
/r/MGTOW203/10/20 11:04 PM
1

If you're in a long distance LTR you don't have a girlfriend you have an imaginary friend. I wouldn't read too much into her crying about missing you. As nice as it would be if it was genuine chances are it's just a ploy to mess with your emotions. All you need to tell her is ' you know where I am'
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:24 PM
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Part of male bonding is giving each other shit - making jokes at their expense and light bullying. Anyone who has ever been on a sports team knows exactly what it's like and this sounds like it's no different. Id look at it as bonding with a bunch of guys who helped you out and taught you some stuff.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:19 PM
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Next time she pulls this shit hit her with this. "How else am I gonna find your replacement?' She's worried you're gonna be able to get a hotter younger model - confirm her fear and call her out on it. Good shit with the training though my dude! It must be working if she's feeling this threatened.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:14 PM
6

Jesus christ dude. Cut your losses and ditch all of them - if your friend circle has this much drama in it and is comprised of a genuine cucklord and a slut that cries rape when she's angry and bored - your first priority should be bettering yourself and making more quality friends. As a side note being a girls 'bestfriend' is stupid. It's just a euphemism for favorite orbiter. You can be better.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 02:09 PM
1

Sometimes they just wanna fuck man.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 07:28 AM
3

' I asked too many questions' with a smile.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 06:01 AM
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She's a lost cause man. Sorry but your turn is up - begin distancing yourself and chasing other options. The mere fact she wanted him and 'settled' for you initially is all the proof you need she will fuck this dude again at the drop of a hat - relationship or no.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 02:17 PM
5

Focus on yourself. Find/work on your mission - let the pussy come to you.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 06:17 AM
3

Sounds like something weird is going on between them. I'd wanna talk to your boy about the situation and find out what his side of the story is before taking any action. I think if she really wanted this behavior to stop she would stop it - so it could be a ploy to get more commitment out of you.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 10:14 PM
3

Supplements are supplementary dude. If your normal eating is solid they're good but a mass gainer alone will not be optimal without the rest of the diet being in line. Eat enough so that you shit 3 times a day and sustain that and you'll gain weight. Then once that slows look at the mass gainer
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:58 PM
2

Let the monkey do the swinging bro don't try bribe it to hurry the process along. If your read on the situation is correct it will happen naturally. I'm coming at it from a place of experience and looking back it wasn't worth it.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:54 PM
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IDK man if you slide into her DM's you're most likely gonna come across as the creepy older dude she met at a party. Snakeing or trying to snake a dudes girl after you've hung out with him is a bit shit of a thing to do so - I'd let her take the initiative if anything is gonna happen. I don't think it's worth it - but then I'm not fully aware of your exact circumstances but gut instinct on this one is saying dodge.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:32 PM
1

I'm a disposable lighter repairman.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 01:20 AM
2

She has just shown you exactly how fickle and temperamental she can be during the break up process. Under absolutely no circumstances will this end well - she's still the same shitty girlfriend you had before, breakups don't change people they just make them bitter and manipulative. You won by dumping her which is why she reacted like a child. This will be a thinly veiled attempt for her to try and win.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 12:32 AM
1

You gave commitment and developed oneitis for a girl who swallows loads on request. No matter how special her 'perfect girlfriend' actions were to you - they clearly meant absolutely nothing to her or she wouldn't have cheated on you. By being unable to get her out of your head you're still trapped in the relationship while she's out riding the CC and living her life - every time she fucks a new dude she's basically cheating on you again because you're still trapped in the relationship.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:54 PM
2

It's definitely a risk man she's effectively a teenager and that's a can of worms that it usually pays to avoid. It seems like she's pursuing you so if you were to not bang her and reject her you could be looking at more headaches and drama than by just banging her. Living in your building is a bit sketchy aswell in terms of logistics and fallout. Do what you've got to do man but proceed with caution and I'd advise against making it a habit.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:36 PM
9

I've got a 3 piece system. 1 - will not bang 2- will bang but not admit it upon pain of death 3- will bang and admit it The other 7 numbers on most scales are bullshit
/r/askTRP29/09/20 03:23 PM
2

They all test it's the nature of the beast and it gets worse once they think they're safe. If this is how they're testing you with no commitment - they'll go full blown bunny boiler if they get a whiff of validation. My advice - keep them around till you find something worth while they're gonna break eventually.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:23 AM
5

Red pill women is probably your best bet.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:10 AM
2

What was she doing to string him along for a year? would be my question.
/r/MGTOW228/09/20 06:38 AM
1

Because you're seeking approval. You want someone to pat you on the back and tell you it's all ok because you lack the self confidence to have it internally.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:24 AM
3

Let's look at the positive - you'd have to try real hard to find a scummier girl than that. And now you have a laundry list of shit you're not willing to tolerate. It's not gonna be hard to find a better one. As for the dating game being shit for men - it's always going to be so don't let that dissuade you. The game is the game we just have to know the way it works to maximise our odds. As for the addiction to nicotine and vaping - you can't blame that shit on her man that's all you and your lac…
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:21 AM
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Why do you require another person to be happy? Throw yourself into what you enjoy man. As for the missing out on couple stuff - are you sure there are things you just can't do by yourself?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:08 AM
1

It sounds more like you're having a fight than being actually broken up. Find some new pussy and drop this one - she's nuts, she wrecked your shirt and if you're having to hampster this much about her she's preventing you from living your best life.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:09 AM
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There's still a chance you're fucked buddy. Gotta stop doing that shit. I know it feels better but I bet 18 years of child support feels way worse. Don't fuck your life up.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 11:12 PM
1

If she's going no contact it seems like the perfect moment to drop her and find one that isn't faulty. PMS is no excuse for disrespectful behaviour - if we know it happens once a month so do they and they should be expected to make adjustments around it.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 11:05 PM
2

They're like goldfish mate your shot with this one has gone stop the mental masturbating and cut this one loose. Let her come back to you if she actually wants to have them cheeks clapped.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 04:27 AM
1

What they say they want and what they actually want usually differ. She's either leading you on and enjoying the attention or the idea of you fapping to her texts and has no intention of any follow through. Or she is saying she wants all this rough rape play when in reality she just wants some light spanking and for you to cum on her face - because that's what she's seen in porn and thinks it's normal. Either way if this eventuates keep the texts get a safe word ahead of time. As for the filming…
/r/askTRP26/09/20 03:47 AM
1

I've got a few on display. If I'm ever questioned on them, which doesn't happen a whole heap is ' I like to read' Of course my library isn't limited to Red Pill and pickup books - Mein Kampf tends to get more of a reaction,but it's always amazing what people gravitate towards when snooping through your shit.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 11:49 PM
2

Sounds like the window has shut man find another.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:37 AM
4

You said yourself you won't tolerate this. That's your choice to make just like her doing the role or not is her choice. I'd give this one no more thought and move on to the next one. She doesn't belong to you she belongs to the streets - and sometimes you have to release them back into the wild.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 09:35 AM
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Definitely! Just start loading Tren and Test E You'll be benching 62.5kg in no time!
/r/askTRP21/09/20 01:54 PM
1

I like this!
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:12 PM
2

it's real simple man your first sentence gives you the answer. You WANT to dye your hair. - Do it. the core of the whole of TRP is doing things you WANT to do.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:28 AM
1

just say no?
/r/askTRP18/09/20 02:02 AM
18

You've been going for 2 weeks man you're not gonna see results in that timeframe. Strength adaptation is largely neural in the beginning and it will take about 6 weeks to notice a marked difference. What I suggest to you is to record every workout - I use a notepad because I'm a boomer but you can probably get an app. Anyway however you record is besides the point - make it your mission to beat your previous workout everytime you go to the gym. It doesn't matter if you're increasing reps, weight…
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:36 AM
17

Marriage is more expensive. Prostitutes have the integrity to tell you the cost ahead of time.
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 03:09 PM
3

Drink bleach.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 02:20 PM
3

Yes.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 10:02 AM
2

Keep the screenshots of the messages. Have zero contact at all with her from here on out. If she tries anything post the screenshots publically. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say the fiery stuff she sent you will be the worst of it but you never know.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 06:34 AM
14

There are men, there are women and there is mental illness.
/r/MGTOW211/09/20 09:42 AM
4

Talk to him and explain what's going on. It will help him improve his business for other clients and will probably get the most favourable outcome for you aswell. Making up an excuse doesn't help either of you.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 09:40 AM
3

Don't reverse it. Maybe it's time to stop banging girls your own age if it keeps being an issue. Unless YOU want kids then fuck dude good luck
/r/askTRP10/09/20 11:38 PM
189

They're never ours it's just our turn. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news bro but it seems yours may be at it's end. There isn't really a winning play here but this is what I'd do. I'd continue to ignore it and not show it phases you - and when she talks about an in person meet up respond with 'my girlfriend wouldn't do that'
/r/askTRP10/09/20 10:58 AM
1

If you're selling a used car you don't expose all the rust.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:03 PM
9

As a kid you used to piss the bed and shit your pants? Are you still trying to get over that? No exactly. Move on and focus on being better. Chur.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 05:25 AM
20

They know they need to work harder to be competitive in the market. Have fun for a bit but don't get attached or trapped
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:42 AM
1

That's good my man! But hang on to your how it could be - that's your ideal, that's what you want - and don't settle into a LTR for anything less.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:51 PM
2

Bro no. Hard next asap. Here's the thing with red flags - they're red fucking flags. Merely having red flags there is sufficient grounds to avoid the activity or interactions.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 11:39 PM
6

You've been wanting out for a month he's only been in hospital for a week - there's a time discrepancy there. You either don't really want out or you would have left already or you're looking for people to give you the balls you lack internally. The reality is there are always gonna be excuses not to do it. Ultimately her happiness and feelings are being prioritised above your own and that's fucked dude.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 01:59 PM
1

What if she doesn't
/r/askTRP04/09/20 03:20 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 02:18 AM
1

Atta boy!!
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:40 PM
66

Essentially consent can be revoked at anytime my dude and saying they've been sexually assualted or manipulated into doing something they now regret is easier than admitting they gone goofed. It's shitty but welcome to 2020.
/r/MGTOW203/09/20 02:22 PM
2

Right now it seems like a big deal man but it's not. Bang her now brother - having pussy is like having a job, it's easier to get another one when you already have an existing one.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:11 PM
3

No matter how special you think you are you're not different and you cannot win with this one dude don't even try. Learn from the collective experience ghost her completely - she probably isn't a stranger to this as I'm guessing you're not the first fly to be caught in her web. The vindication you're seeking can only be obtained from not engaging with this hot dumpster fire of a life this chick has going on.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:07 PM
10

Send the laugh emoji.
/r/MGTOW231/08/20 03:06 PM
3

If you're suspicious that's enough man. You don't need proof to get rid of her if she is giving you cause to doubt.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:09 AM
2

^ This
/r/MGTOW229/08/20 01:25 PM
2

You're wasting your time - he just doesn't view you as a sexual candidate anymore - the why is irelavant at this point you have two options. Maintain the status quo or move on. As an aside - in terms of living a healthier lifestyle you should want to do that for yourself and your own well-being primarily, not to make you more attractive to your man. Unless you're gonna need someone to blame when you balloon after the breakup.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 04:19 PM
2

He never wanted the relationship but tried to make it work for your sake anyway and then it got too much so he shot the puppy. We've only got your side so we can't give a direct blow by blow of what happened but the Crux of the issue is the above. My advice to you would be to let it go and respect people's wishes instead of trying to force them into something they clearly and expressly dont want. Big props to your guy, sometimes it's a tough call I hope he's doing ok.
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 01:05 AM
6

You can face the same accusations and bullshit without even sleeping with them so you may as well get something out of it - is my rationale
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:30 PM
6

They are.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:30 AM
3

You're still asking the internet for advice on how to live your life dude I wouldn't say you're too much better than anyone else. If you want to keep your ego in check I'd suggest taking up a martial art. The disipline instilled from that form of training is very good at keeping egos in check.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 09:28 AM
1

Get a new one. There's no point wasting time on damaged goods when there is plenty of quality stock left in the store. Good shit hanging in there for 2 years though that's some solid effort
/r/askTRP23/08/20 07:58 AM
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Once you've shot the puppy my advice would be to set some goals. They don't have to be huge or life-changing just write down some shit you want to focus on and achieve and ensure you do at least one thing everyday to move towards it - I've found depression thrives without structure so having daily habits will help you and if they make you a better dude in the process that's even better.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:14 PM
1

There is no timeline fella it'll last until you find the next one - so you can feel miserable for as long as you choose to really
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:17 AM
8

It's a shit situation for her man but ultimately that isn't your problem. You made it clear you don't want long distance ( invisible friends) and then this happens - she has made her choice. Personally I'd cut my losses.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 01:09 AM
4

cut her move on and let her figure it out - she knows your boundaries which is good - she violated them which is bad, she should have known better - NEXT.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 04:55 AM
37

Get rid of her man 10/10 not worth the effort for a 6
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:37 AM
1

Invercargill bro
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 08:18 AM
1

Yeah man down south
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 08:04 AM
10

You don't need to say it just because she does bro. I'd give her the old Han Solo " I know "
/r/askTRP07/07/20 11:59 PM
2

If he's 15 can't he just opt to live with his Dad following the split? Pretty sure that's how it works over here ( New Zealand)
/r/MGTOW203/07/20 09:21 AM
3

This could actually be a blessing in disguise....now people will HAVE to read the sidebar
/r/askTRP29/06/20 01:55 PM
40

You're an idiot. But you're young so it's somewhat excusable. Never ask about their past you'll never get the whole truth and even if you do get some info it's never going to be a happy experience. Use this as a template for getting better and not repeating the same mistake with the next one. Don't feel sorry for her - she's gonna be fine and even if she isn't it's no longer your business or problem. Take solace in the fact you ran into something you didn't like and removed yourself from the sit…
/r/askTRP16/06/20 12:36 AM
1

From what you posted you don't really have a reason to stay either.... In my experience if a girl is taking up this much space in my head it's already time to move on.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:25 AM
1

What on Earth is Facebook dating?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 10:04 AM
6

You're in the right place. This is your red pill moment and it sounds like this one is impactful enough for you to make real change. Instead of dwelling on what was and is now gone and can't be resurrected this is your chance to improve yourself. Stop worrying about what she does and did do it's no longer your concern. Don't try to understand her it's just gonna do your head in and get in the way of your progress Read the side bar and internalise the principles this will take time. Do better wit…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:21 AM
1

It's giving her shit for not being able to stay entertained - and cheekily making her aware that that's her role and he isn't there to be her entertainment. Lines like this get a shocked funny reaction which I usually find tends to work out pretty good with new plates and can build into inside jokes if done right. Of course you need to do it in a joking way or she's just gonna think you're calling her a retard
/r/askTRP31/05/20 01:23 PM
4

Ask if she has ADHD or something and if you need a certificate to hang out with her
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:10 AM
5

Probably means you should spend less time reading her stupid posts and work on your goals and own life. Contrary to popular belief people don't post that kinda shit for themselves they do it to get attention and illict responses from other people - she's trying to get his attention would be my bet
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:31 PM
4

Tinder has an algorithm for matching if you spam likes you get more wildebeests popping up because the app sees you as low value.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 02:29 AM
16

It's a lack of self esteem you know you can talk to your family like that and they'll still put up with you but you don't feel like you can talk up to anyone else.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 10:04 AM
1

You ignored red flags just to get your dick wet and then got comfortable and stopped pursuiting other options which in turn makes you more susceptible to putting up with her crazy shit. For the record a long distance relationship is about as real and legitimate as an imaginary friend. Learn and improve for next time brother
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:38 PM
1

If she was ever serious about fixing her behavior it would have changed after the first time. As for the crying and emotional stuff - that's her problem and she's no longer your problem so why let it impact you?
/r/askTRP13/05/20 12:20 PM
3

To elaborate further - it's a trap don't do it. If you decide to do it, like you most likely will- invest neither emotion or resources.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:38 AM
4

No
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:37 AM
4

Save her the job bro and just delete her
/r/askTRP11/05/20 12:41 AM
2

Stop whinging about what's going wrong bro and start putting shit in place for things to start going right.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:20 AM
1

Bro if you've tried 27 million times and it's still broke just let it be broke - my advice: find a new one without the history and baggage.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 03:27 AM
1

She sounds boring as but that's not exactly rare... Does it matter what her hobbies are to you though? Unless you plan on going shopping and fancy restauranting with her it kinda seems like a non-issue.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:50 AM
3

Yeah it does. They're always going to be a worse option comparatively due to their situation. Say you like tall girls and you find two that you're into one has a kid one doesn't this automatically makes the one without a kid a better option because of a heap of factors I'm sure you understand. Deep down they know this too
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:30 AM
136

Usaully it's because they don't want to call you the wrong name...
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:07 AM
5

I remember this! But it does beg the question if you're ending up at hers on a first date - chances are you're gonna smash anyway right?
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:28 AM
3

It's over for you bro - commit your life to defeating you arch nemesis and stopping him from his global domination.....
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:38 AM
3

This!!
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:13 PM
2

Wait for her to fuck this guy and then forgive her because it was 'just an accident' and it 'didn't mean anything'..... You know exactly what to do....
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:16 AM
2

It sounds like you've repeatedly fallen into her frame here dude. That means this 'accidental relationship' already has a time limit counting down. Ultimately it's your call but your whole post is saying how you don't want this - go with that. Either cut her directly or blame beer flu and move on.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 02:00 PM
12

I think you're blowing this up in your mind dude you should be sweet! Good save on not grooming a minor too!
/r/askTRP29/03/20 03:02 PM
3

Ask yourself - is this the best possible use of your time? If you can't realise it's not and that all you are to her is an orbiter maybe you need to READ THE SIDEBAR...again or for the first time by the sounds of it...
/r/askTRP29/03/20 04:32 AM
2

Starvation kills faster and surer than corona I guess. Maybe it comes under ' essential services'....
/r/askTRP22/03/20 01:40 PM
1

"Yes. Prove me wrong, [set up meet]"
/r/askTRP22/03/20 01:37 PM
8

Your initial post in a nutshell is saying you're not as attracted to her as you were at the outset. She's showing no effort on her part to stay attractive for you as she ages. Why waste time trying to change her into what you want her to be instead of getting another one that already fits what you're looking for?
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:12 PM
11

I hear break-ups are usually great motivation for a woman to get into better shape....
/r/askTRP19/03/20 01:01 PM
16

Here is a script. "Hey , this isn't working for me anymore - your stuff is in my letterbox. Goodbye.' Then block across all platforms.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 08:29 AM
1

I think this depends on your confidence level with the chick but the first thing that pops into my mind would be 'you may not be'
/r/askTRP10/03/20 07:38 AM
3

Love it mate!! My initial reaction is 'who says they're for you?' but yours is fantastic. 100% agree with supplying your own though.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 12:07 AM
1

She is a sex worker.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 01:01 AM
1

You have oneitis. She will seem a whole lot less 'special' when you've upped your n count. If you're asking the question 'should I dump her?' you already know the answer.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:12 AM
2

If you're genuinely suicidal man that sucks but get off Reddit and get legit help don't rely on a forum to solve your quarter life crisis. As for dealing with reality and accepting it - it's the confines in which we operate as humans we can't impact or change it we can only work with it. Be thankful you have the knowledge you do and stop hanging your validation on whether or not women will ever truly care about you.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:50 AM
1

Is this the same co-worker that was hitting on you 2 years ago and you asked what you should do? Or is attention from girls at work a common theme for you?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:04 PM
1

" I also never judge anyone" sandwiched between about 100 words expressing how she judges people....
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