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BNotaLoka/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 06:35 PM
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In order to have a successful marriage you need to be a part time mind reader and also time traveler. I feel like no matter what she's going to find something to get mad about 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 05:03 PM
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I can't understand it either. I have a son with her, and I come from divorced parents. DIvorce is something I always wanted to avoid. I tried getting her to love herself more and do things that make her happy but it's like she dosent even want to try. Separating seems to be the only solution so im done trying to help her. Men should make it a trend to not get married. It's just not worth it anymore. It's unfortunate, but to protect ourselves, it's the smart thing to do.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 11:32 AM
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It's official for me as well. I turn 30 tomorrow and as much as I wanted it to work and not separate she straight up told me "why try when I don't want to be with you anymore."
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 01:01 AM
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I'm so glad it's also not just me. I'm losing my sanity.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 04:07 PM
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I learned the hard way. Everyone warned me and now getting divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 12:55 AM
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Yes I do & she is willing. I think we are going to seek therapy soon to see if this can work or not.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/23 10:14 PM
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You need to listen to your head and not your heart on this one. The best thing to do is start fresh and find someone without all that baggage. You need to do what's best for you and your future because it sounds like she hasn't changed from her previous relationship. I'm close to getting a divorce and the reasons I want to get out is because our communication is terrible she wants to always be right and that's why our conflict resolution is also terrible. I can't take it anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 04:57 PM
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I'm 28 and on the same boat. I'm just enjoying my time not looking for a relationship and will probably never remarry. I know it's temporary but being appreciated and made to feel like a king makes me never want to go back. I just miss having my son who is about to be 2. I will still be in my sons life no matter what.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 09:05 PM
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Yes I am going through the same situation right now. Honestly maybe look into therapy with her but don't stop taking care of yourself physically and mentally. It makes me so happy to hear you are doing those things, it speaks volumes. I honestly don't know what will happen between me and my wife but I have a mindset to be the best version of myself for my son. I'm going back to school to get my masters in the fall and I work out 5 days a week and feel great. I'm determined to keep moving forward…
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 05:27 PM
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Exactly don't let her manipulate or walk over you. Sleep in another room, keep the conversations minimum, spend your time in the gym if you can. I did these things and she noticed and actually hugged me crying and apologized. She asked if I could get therapy and it would work but we ended up getting into a dumb argument and I left. Haven't been back and it's been a week.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 01:56 PM
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My wife would do things like this. She told me she wanted a divorce but the next day she would get my hopes up because she would be nice and we'd have a great day. Little did I know it didn't change anything she still wanted the divorce. So I stopped getting my hopes up that she would change her mind. Now I no longer fall for that trick, I just make sure my son is ok he is my everything.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 07:42 AM
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