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Tell me why you say that.
/r/askTRP28/02/15 12:11 AM
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What do you need to know?
/r/askTRP27/02/15 11:12 PM
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That's not what I mean at all. Nothing sexual happened and I wonder if it's because she's either very attracted to me or not at all that there were no shit tests. EDIT: Clarified my OP.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 10:56 PM
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That was so alpha, bro.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 05:44 PM
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That's the thing. I think I do an okay job of that, but I feel like a turd on the inside. I feel nervous even though I have been told that I come off as confident. I think I'm holding myself back and I need to get over my internal faggotry to progress.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 07:26 AM
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I bartend in a high end spot and have plenty of social interaction. I really don't understand it.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 06:14 AM
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Haha. Not likely, bud. I hear it enough to know it can't be a fluke.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:38 AM
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If you agree with her, maybe she'll fuck you, bro.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 11:27 PM
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Context has everything to do with it. I make 2-3 times what she does and buying drinks doesn't fuck me over. I have screwed myself in the past by turning into a limp beta bitch, so I concern myself with the "line," if you will.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:40 PM
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I do as well. I make pretty good money and I'm also pretty masculine in my own right; alpha, as much as I hate the term. It makes me happy to help other people, and I genuinely feel for this girl. She pays her dad's mortgage and helps with his copays, on top of being hit up for money by pretty much all of her family members except her brother. I enjoy her company and I hate seeing someone so young in such a shitty spot. She's 23, I'm 28, btw. Having to watch your father deteriorating while simul…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:23 PM
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I feel the same way. I'm not struggling for a woman's attention. I just don't want to start strong and turn beta. Plus, I'm generally a pretty kind person, but careful not to let my kindness/generosity be mistaken for less lofty attributes, like neediness or covert contracts. That's why I'm asking you guys.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 11:16 PM
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Haha. Fair enough. She pays for her own shit 70% of the time. If I invite her out and she says she'd like to but can't afford it, I tell her not to sweat it, sometimes. She only gets to come out every two weeks or so. She works full time and has to take care of her dad, who's on his last leg. Also, we fuck even when I don't pay for her, so it's not like it's some sort of penance she's paying. Just to clarify.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 09:18 PM
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First off, I guarantee you that you don't know any 10/10s. She's a 7 with a good personality and you're thirsty as fuck. Second, the fact that you're this invested already is a bad sign. If, and this is a big if, you can approach this empirically and learn from it, then you can enjoy this for what it is and be better for it. However, if you're going to be overly emotionally invested and take this "relationship" to heart, bail now and try again later when you've assimilated better and don't have …
/r/askTRP21/12/14 07:34 AM
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Husband left her for another girl, which might be telling, in some ways.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 03:13 PM
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She does have some alpha widow traits. I'm glad I ran this one by you guys.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:02 PM
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I agree with you. If you check the list, though: young, one partner, good family, attractive, feminine, warm, etc. I think you'll be able to understand where I put this one in a gray area and why I came here to ask.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:01 PM
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Fair enough. That was me trying to reconcile TRP with my personal convictions, I suppose.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 08:42 PM
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I'm not following. Sounds like you're talking about a specific situation. Ex-dude is definitely on the birth certificate and paying child support.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:26 PM
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You're right about the dude, too. I can see how angry she gets whenever her sister brings him up(work with the sister, that's how we met). The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. She certainly doesn't have any feelings about me that are that strong.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:24 PM
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Damn. I've never met the kid, as of yet, but I didn't realize those laws were in place. That's some seriously fucked up fem-centric bullshit right there.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:20 PM
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You're right. I don't have many RP-to-the-core friends, so I come here for advice. Thought my situation was different because I'm me and I'm different and a special snowflake... /s
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:16 PM
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Nah. I came here for a brain check. Things are probably good now because it's just fun. Much past this would change the situation for the worse. Had to get them feelz busted up by some realz. Thanks, fellas.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:14 PM
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Fair enough. Plate she shall remain. Edit: Also, changed to italics. Who's the dipshit now? Haha.
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:11 PM
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The thing is, I don't go out and "sarge" or whatever in the typical sense. I bartend in a high end place and I work around lots of beautiful girls, so I don't really get freaked out by most social interactions or a girl's looks. Most of the girls I end up being with pop up in front of me.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 06:10 PM
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I have a pretty playful personality. Maybe I'm deflecting and not noticing.
/r/askTRP10/12/14 06:05 PM
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The point of mine is to tell you that that level of physique at 5'6" is unattainable naturally unless this is a top .0001% man, genetically speaking. I just don't want young people to get unrealistic ideas about what to expect from lifting. Zyzz wasn't that big and was juicing. You'd be surprised who is, in fact.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 07:28 PM
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Look up Jeff Seid, Steve Cook, and Mike O'Hearn. They're all "natty" too. TRP applies to more than the lies women tell. I've been lifting for over half my life at 28. I'm 6'1" 248 lbs on a very broad frame and I still have some belly and love handle hanging on. I find it hard to believe that a man 7" shorter than me weighs 28 lbs less than me and is shredded without drugs. Call me a skeptic. EDIT: For a real laugh, look up Kali Muscle. He's natty too.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 07:18 PM
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You're wrong, bro. If the stats are true, 5'6" 220 isn't an achievable thing naturally, unless you're some sort of legitimate freak of nature with a myostatin deficiency. Plus, bodybuilders can't get their money from supp companies if they tell everyone they're on Tren and Clen instead of NO Xplode and Hydroxycut. I behooves them to keep their other supplements to themselves. A lot of guys claim natty and a lot of guys are full of shit.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 07:03 PM
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That man is also on steroids. I don't knock him for it, but don't put the idea in OP's head that this is just Cell-Tech and dedication. OP, lift weights and eat more, but don't expect to be 220 without some "hormone therapy."
/r/askTRP06/12/14 06:49 PM
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No list I've ever seen gives a good definition of frame. We all talk about it like we know what it is, but I've yet to see it in words.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 05:52 PM
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I think.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 09:57 PM
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I came here to point that out. Drogo would just dole out decapitations where they were needed and carry on. Consider yourself counseled.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 08:35 PM
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Soft dread is self-improvement. Becoming a better man makes your woman work harder or find someone she thinks she can keep. Plus, disappear to the gym for an hour or go read in the park. Don't answer your phone while you're doing these things. Boom, instant monk-mode dread.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 08:16 PM
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You probably tease just fine and she's trying to throw you off your game to see if she can. Looking to crack that alpha armor and get your beta core out so she can justify not fucking you. Keep doing what you're doing. If she said it with a genuine smile, she liked whatever you did.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 05:40 PM
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I just don't get why she'd come over alone, get all the way up to fucking, and then not fuck. It's only happened twice, btw. Longtime may have been an overstatement. Plus, she's 22 with minimal experience compared to me and I've also fucked a couple of her friends.
/r/askTRP05/12/14 05:37 PM
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You're getting stretch marks on your arms from lifting? I have those on the edge of my pec major and anterior delts. I've been lifting since I was thirteen and never once has a girl looked at those stretch marks with disgust. I'm hulking out of my god damn skin. Get a good lotion and keep lifting. Mine aren't bright red anymore, though I've had them for over a decade. By contrast, my experience with the lyre is minimal, so I'll refrain from commenting on that.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 05:31 PM
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Seems like it'd be easier in an ltr, unless your girl is a party girl. You get to do all the normal monk mode stuff with the added benefit of regular sex. Sounds like the best way to do it to me.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 05:26 PM
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Haha. Amen brother
/r/askTRP05/12/14 01:52 AM
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You should leave if the culture doesn't suit you. Come back when you're ready, because you eventually will be.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 01:28 AM
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Lol, foreigners. It's cool if that's not your custom, but when you come here it's important to remember.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 01:42 PM
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First piece of bad advice I've seen you offer, man. 18-20% is pretty standard. As a general rule, if I can't afford to tip, I can't afford to eat out.
/r/askTRP01/12/14 01:10 PM
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Yeah, I get that. Wasn't clear on my part. No death grip here.
/r/askTRP28/11/14 10:34 AM
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Okay. I meant the "smile less, laugh less, yada yada" diatribe that goes on sometimes. I smile and laugh when I'm happy and I thought happiness was the goal here, so purposefully denying yourself happiness in order to be happy seemed a little contradictory.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:44 PM
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You mind extrapolating that point?
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:42 PM
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That's kinda what I figured. Maybe it's just a matter of comfort for me.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:41 PM
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Nah.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:40 PM
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It's never really an issue once it happens the first time. That usually takes 3-4 fuck sessions though.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:40 PM
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No. I generally only jerk 3-4 times a week. I get pretty unmotivated if I go at myself too often.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 05:39 PM
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With or without a rubber. No difference.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 11:10 AM
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I've seen you around for a while. You always offer worthwhile advice that seems to come from experience. I'm sure I'm not the only one who appreciates it.
/r/askTRP25/11/14 07:09 AM
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I'm not a religious person. Do you know of any secular programs?
/r/askTRP20/11/14 11:11 PM
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I make good money. I'm planning two trips this year, one to Vermont and one to Oregon. I'm also buying a new car, a G35 coupe. I lift hard five days a week, even when I'm hungover, so I'm in good shape. Could be better, considering all the empty bullshit calories I put in my system. My biggest goals are to get a handle on my substance issues and my negative self talk.
/r/askTRP20/11/14 10:56 PM
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Got any resources you could recommend?
/r/askTRP20/11/14 10:45 PM
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Tell me what sort of self help you mean. Where did you start?
/r/askTRP20/11/14 08:58 PM
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