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I was in a similar situation a week ago. An old fling and I were reconnecting. I've never been one to be forgiving for tardiness and she knew this. We were supposed to meet up originally at 9 pm. She texts me at 8:30 asking if we can push it back to 12. I give a firm No. Which inevitably leads to her response "Really?" To which I simply reply yes. We end up meeting at the orginal time because I refused to allow her to change the conditions of our meeting. In your situation I would have done thin…
/r/askTRP30/08/15 08:31 AM
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Texting first if you haven't had contact with her in a long time is inconsequential. The important thing is that when you text her you have an end goal planned out. Logistics have to be in place so that you can streamline the conversation to a meet up. A few key things about this initial conversation though: Don't ask her, tell her. "I'll be in town tomorrow, let's meet up." Or "I'm heading to the bar, meet me there." Less is more here. Texting her a paragraph of where, what, how, and when will …
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:46 PM
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Using actions not words is paramount here. Covert action in the face of this type of test are a hundred times more powerful than overt words. If you aren't working out regularly then now is the time to begin. If you haven't developed a strong sense of frame then begin searching the main sub for articles related to this topic.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:37 PM
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This is the only sound advice in this situation. There is no way around this fundamental part of TRP. Average men today will reject and fight our ideology until their dying breath unless they see the truth for themselves. Even then most of those who witness RP truth tend to never fully understand it. This is simply the unfortunate truth of knowledge of this proportion. Lead your friend by example once the inevitable happens not by words. As RedPillJax says if you do feel the need to advise him t…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:31 PM
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In this context, "Don't fail" has more of an abstract meaning. What OP likely was referring to failure in the sense of giving up. That is the only true failure. Bombing a conversation? Lesson learned. Fucking a shit test up? Lesson learned. Deciding that a chick who has had sex with 25 men before meeting you is worth LTR status? As long as you realize how fucking stupid that was then lesson learned. To fail is to not realize these mistakes and fail to correct your behavior next go around.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 11:56 AM
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And the moment he discovers she has been fooling around with Chad behind his back she'll justify that "You gave me the pills, What did you expect to happen?"
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 08:20 AM
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I actually had a conversation about this with the owner of the MMA gym I visit. He told me that I'm my number one player and anything I do should be to improve my number one player.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 12:57 PM
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Everything went well for about a month. After that I started accepting excuses that I really should have been challenging and I feel like that I was where I fucked it all up.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 12:55 PM
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What does a woman want? Who cares.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 02:17 AM
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I wonder if maybe I should have been a little more confrontational about it. The moment you engage, you lose. Blowing it off was a solid move. There are plenty of funny comments you could have made but all of them stem from internalizing the abundance mentality. It's over now, bringing it up again would only show her it bothered you.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:21 AM
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That's the first thing I thought when I saw this. Can you imagine being her employer and discovering this? Or even a professor?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:20 PM
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To expand on that idea, OP could have responded by saying that working out and bettering themselves or the unwillingness to, is a direct reflection of their personality.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:47 PM
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it’s gotten to the point now that the Feminine Imperative is comfortable in ridiculing men for not already being aware of the Alpha Fucks / Beta Bucks dynamic of hypergamy, as well as ridiculing them for going along with it anyway. That's really the point of it all. The fact that these poor guys can recognize that women prefer the "bad boy" or the successful guy, but don't strive to become that persona.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 12:49 PM
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It's almost as if feminists read The 48 Laws of Power and have ingeniously used it to place themselves at the center of our culture. Damn, they're sneaky.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 11:54 AM
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I finished read NMMNG over a month ago so it's nice to see these traits Dr. Glover outlined. Might be time to revisit that book as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 11:44 AM
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No verbal indication about her wanting to be in an LTR yet but I can definitely see how this is a precursor.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 06:12 PM
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The first step is essential. I had oneitis for my ex. She was my first, and I thought I couldn't get any better. Only once I ignored her, removed her from social media, from my life entirely, did I realize that there are a sea of women out there ready and willing to take her place. It's a stunning realization.
/r/askTRP06/05/14 11:49 AM
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Check this post out. I happened across it last night and it offers some really good pointers for removing your oneitis from the equation. Edit: Link
/r/askTRP06/05/14 10:43 AM
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Found this on StumbleUpon, seems relevant to your argument that one action can't make a difference Once upon a time there was a wise man who used to go to the ocean to do his writing. He had a habit of walking on the beach before he began his work. One day he was walking along the shore. As he looked down the beach, he saw a human figure moving like a dancer. He smiled to himself to think of someone who would dance to the day. So he began to walk faster to catch up. As he got closer, he saw that…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 09:26 PM
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I'll be 21 in October and with the countless stories I've read about divorce rape, I'm glad I didn't end up spending a good portion of my life married to this girl. I don't know what I would say to her if I saw her. As far I so know, she's put on weight from the baby and I've dropped from 300 to 230 so I can only imagine how she would feel about seeing me.
/r/ThankTRP29/04/14 04:50 AM
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Perfect advice. Edit: Best of luck OP.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 09:50 PM
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I appreciate the support. I look forward to making contributions once I have my understanding of RP theory more thoroughly laid out.
/r/ThankTRP26/04/14 09:23 PM
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I don't think that you're interpreting her action in the right way. she knows that if she tells me, "I'm not wearing any panties" I'll get into that horny mood Why do you think she says that? It could be that she WANTS you. Try and reframe your understanding of her in a different way. Is it possible that your dick is already the prize?
/r/askTRP26/04/14 04:17 PM
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I practice Martial Arts 9 hours per week so I don't have a lot of time left. That is really awesome. It's important to always be improving but, improvement comes with sacrifice. You have a limited amount of time and thus limited choices. If you want to continue your practice as apposed to partying then do it. It would definitely be a much better use of your time than going out and getting trashed. But if your really feeling upset about not being able to party then you are going to have to make c…
/r/askTRP26/04/14 03:56 PM
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There are pictures all over the internet with this other guy If you're still able to contact her through social media then you haven't taken this break up very seriously and may be holding out on the hope that things can work out between you again. I've been in a similar situation and the best thing I did was cut off all possible avenues of contact between she and I. Block her, delete her, return to sender, change your number if you have to. Do not allow her to toy with you.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 03:35 PM
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...is that worth sacrificing my years in College...where all the girls are so pretty? You're making the mistake of assuming that you can only be with college girls while you are in college. there will be mostly people who hates me there. People don't just all of a sudden start hating you. There had to be something you did to cause that. I involve myself 100% This is as much a weakness as it is a strength My advice is pretty simple. Spend your freshman year recovering for your irresponsible party…
/r/askTRP26/04/14 03:24 PM
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