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BT_2018/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 11:20 PM
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I am sorry brother! That’s a lot to go through. I hope you get time to make your grass as green as it can get.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 03:46 PM
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Hi Dill, no infidelity on both sides. The reason for divorce was said because I have been a “terrible” partner. What shocked me was how quickly it happened and coincidently after a trip out of state where she spent some time with a colleague. She said she had time to thing…The week before she was over the moon that we’d purchased a house where I am currently residing. With that said, there is significant room for me to be a better spouse ( kinder, nicer, supportive…etc (her words…)) We have been…
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 08:11 AM
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Very well said man. I appreciate it. I have been so focused on “fixing” myself and the marriage, I’d totally lost sight of these points. I will be thinking about these and more. Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 08:19 AM
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Thank you! I am going to fight to keep the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 07:59 AM
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Yes, I hadn’t considered that piece. And to your credit it does seem like she’s divorcing or at least tried to when it was convenient, i.e. when ALMOST done with her training.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 07:58 AM
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Sorry I still don’t understand the part about black window. I do appreciate your insight. That IS a good question. If she’s done it before it could definitely happen again. A lot to think about.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 07:56 AM
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Hi Sicrm. To clarify we haven’t divorced and aren’t planning to anymore. Can you please elaborate why the post nup to share custody wouldn’t be helpful?
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 05:19 AM
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I saw plenty of black widow spiders in WA state. However in the context of this forum, what does it mean exactly?
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 03:31 AM
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Ahh, that’s an amazing idea! Thank you Robin! I am planning to meet with a lawyer to get more ideas on things to include in a post nup.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 03:29 AM
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How hard will I get hit with child support and does it matter if she earns significantly more money than me? Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 03:28 AM
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Good question and I hadn’t considered that. She started therapy a few years ago and figured out she needed to advocate for her self. I thought we had a good marriage. But it turns out she’s terrible at advocating for her self and I am terrible at recognizing she wasn’t doing so. She’s a good human being and we (at least I) genuinely want to make things right. If possible I want to see my children 100% of the time instead of 50.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 03:25 AM
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Please elaborate!
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 01:07 AM
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Thank you for the input! I am a complete noob to this and I will follow up in your advice. Would you care breaking down the logic and law for me a bit more?
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 01:07 AM
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I am sorry my man. That sounds painful to say the least. 😞 Although you can’t see it yet, I hope all of this will be just a blip looking back after you’ve worked on your self and have found that amazing new partner in the future. Best of luck to you and like the others said, take it day by day, hour by hour and even min by min if you have to. You will make it and with so much pain can bring opportunities to build yourself like never before.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 01:54 PM
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Wow I am so sorry man. That’s painful! I hope you find a good way forward.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 05:47 PM
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Bigger red flag to me is the self centered attitude and the need to win over healthily resolving the dispute. Sorry man. Not a good feeling.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 02:49 PM
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I am so sorry you are going through this my man. I am there with you. My wife told me two months ago. Our stories are unremarkably similar. I hate this feeling. We will get through it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 07:13 AM
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