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5

She did you a favor... Cuz if you successfully fucked her, she would have tried to flip the situation if you didn't want to actually be in a relationship... If you got the mental bandwidth to deal with that shit, some women want sex to be a "mistake".. Which means you go there with no intent of fucking and then let her "manipulate" the situation and follow along... You might have rushed the process and then she did whatever bullshit she did.. Honestly, you say OK and put your clothes back on
/r/seduction27/02/25 03:42 AM
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Essentially, what I'm saying is using a gift to open up a conversation comes off as "inauthentic".. Not saying you were doing that, just how it would be perceived... If she mentions it, then you go from there.. But you mentioning it looks bad
/r/seduction13/02/25 12:41 PM
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Lol, nah, if it was genuine, you did the right thing..
/r/seduction13/02/25 11:52 AM
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I actually agree with this.. My philosophy on the gym has evolved over time to where I've become more "open" and broke ice with a few people.. I used to be all business, but people do look for opportunities to develop rapport...
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:23 AM
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Equivalent to a sales objection
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:20 AM
1

Certain words in a weird way fucks wit our subconscious... Sorry Try Hope When you use those words, it kinda "messes" with the energy your trying to push out... Excuse me would be better imo..
/r/seduction02/02/25 12:26 PM
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I don't think he is being inauthentic... I think he is trying to evolve and hasn't found his groove yet... If he isn't getting to 1st base, then he has to make adjustments
/r/seduction26/01/25 03:22 AM
1

I'm not into the social media thing, but I'm asking from a non-judgemental standpoint how these dudes might maneuver from behind an invisible 8ball.. If a female hitttin me up again cuz I lost 30lbs, I can feel that..But a female on my body(who cooled on me b4) cuz I show off a new car or take pics in multiple countries would set off alarms.... Men imo don't realize that women(speaking in general)will trade sex for resources...
/r/seduction25/01/25 12:35 AM
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asking this out of curiosity... How do you filter out the ones who are attracted to the "lifestyle" vs the ones who are genuinely attracted to you?
/r/seduction24/01/25 07:17 PM
28

It can work like spaghetti and meatballs if the chemistry is there
/r/seduction24/01/25 04:28 PM
2

This past Saturday was brutal... I layed in my bed and said fuck it😂 If it's above 25 degrees(actual feel), then I'll hit the streets
/r/seduction07/01/25 12:41 AM
1

Walked right up to this girl, and she dead gave me the stankface and walked away lol
/r/seduction04/01/25 08:51 PM
1

Definitely lower east side...
/r/seduction29/12/24 06:27 PM
2

He's Elon Musk...
/r/seduction27/12/24 02:51 PM
2

If they can expand your social network,yes
/r/seduction27/12/24 12:10 PM
3

This some real shit
/r/seduction24/12/24 06:01 PM
3

I'm in the same boat... But bill Belichick got him a 24 year old.. So there is hope😂😂
/r/seduction30/10/24 02:54 PM
2

It's like sitting in an ice tub... You gradually push yourself until your in there completely... The key is once you dip your toe in, you don't dip your toe out cuz starting over is a bitch
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:40 PM
1

Yall inspire me🥲
/r/seduction21/09/24 10:46 PM
25

Just keep it RESPECTFUL and INNOCENT
/r/seduction08/09/24 10:45 AM
1

It pops up in my head.. But I try to tell myself every minute a new you can be created
/r/seduction07/09/24 06:28 PM
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Breathing Desperation Expression of thoughts in a journal
/r/seduction05/09/24 09:04 PM
5

No vet myself either.. But my biggest issue is the beginning(opening) Actually, improvising off the dome is easier for me once things begin to flow.. What helped me is Timed chess Documentaries Speeches Presidential Debates Remember..your brain is a muscle as well...
/r/seduction04/09/24 11:52 PM
1

Sales... Find some good ones to study
/r/seduction04/09/24 09:38 PM
3

Yeah, I'm a victim of this lol.. I never been allowed to "fail" in peace, so it's impacted other parts of my life... Once the mind catches up to the spirit, it's only a matter of time...
/r/seduction03/09/24 02:31 PM
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It's not about "fault"... It's about a sense of judgment.. Some men will put themselves and/or their girls in a grave over shit like this.. Bro simply should start a channel with women who want to be involved in stuff like this
/r/seduction03/09/24 10:59 AM
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There are other ways to skin the cat... The focus should be on UNDERSTANDING the beginning/mid/end parts of a conversation.. You can create a youtube channel with a female who wants to be apart of it.. Posting women online who might have boyfriends/husbands is wack
/r/seduction03/09/24 10:38 AM
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The goal should be mentally reviewing and figuring out ways to execute at a higher and faster level... Whatever your flaws and weaknesses are from voice projection to processing situations, those the ones you want to highlight.. When the pieces of the puzzle start coming together, you gonna be a MONSTER...
/r/seduction02/09/24 11:09 PM
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You have to present "value" and plant seeds.. It's a guy at my gym who EVERYONE goes to before they even start THINKING about equipment.. Bro is a GENUINELY good guy who takes Obama laps around the gym speaking to men and women So essentially, a simple 3 second conversation is a seed planted that can sprout into something more..
/r/seduction30/08/24 11:35 AM
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Have a main and a sidepiece lol
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:51 PM
108

At this stage in my life, whether it's casual or for real, I would rather take my time...And even then, that can be an issue lol My point is lot of these bitches are crazy and will "trick" you into thinking your "game" was the reason you got some sex... Meanwhile, they were planning to give it to you all along because that's the only way they can keep a man's attention... The lower you make sex on your list of priorities, the easier it is for both parties
/r/seduction09/08/24 07:00 AM
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😂😂😂😂 I be struggling wit the same thing... If you try to be at peace, it will show within you.. I calmed down on the aggressive hip hop cuz it DEFINITELY showed in my face
/r/seduction02/08/24 10:45 AM
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You wear you vibe in your thoughts/facial expressions/speech etc... If you want to change, you got to get in tune with your thoughts and begin to rebuild... Nothing wrong with admitting your jealous and a hater...get it out your system and start focusing on being better When your positivity catches up with your looks, you gonna be a problem... Case in point.. Music with low frequencies create the same feelings of depression/anxiety/fear/adrenaline that your going thru now... It's a day to day fi…
/r/seduction28/07/24 09:59 PM
8

To be honest... Find somewhere quiet to relax and calm your nerves.. Take some deep breaths and relax.. Then try from there
/r/seduction23/07/24 11:58 PM
3

Congratulations my guy
/r/seduction23/07/24 09:51 PM
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Bro I was in your position with a young bitch😂😂😂😂 You gotta embrace the bitterness(L)and make peace with it Big Daddy Kane said ain't no half-steppin.. When you start looking for other contestants, you will NATURALLY pull back instead of doing it cuz you feeling a kind a way.. You can even hang out with her as planned.. But between now and then, try to get that I got other bitches energy and she will NATURALLY know that she better tighten up.. Laws of energy is real
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:39 PM
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It seems you don't have women to juggle and that's the problem.. Women be knowing it's either drought season or they got it like that wit you.. Yeah you gotta add to the roster my boy
/r/seduction16/07/24 11:56 AM
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If she works 5 days a week, maybe those are her only days off??
/r/seduction14/07/24 05:51 PM
12

You caught feelings...lol
/r/seduction14/07/24 01:15 PM
8

Yeah, in major cities, it's damn near a sport lol.. When it becomes something fun, it kinda don't sting as bad
/r/seduction13/07/24 03:00 PM
5

Take her bowling or something where physical energy is exerted... Don't do anything to remind her of her job
/r/seduction11/07/24 07:16 PM
0

The atomic habits book is spot on..at least the part I got up 2 lol Keep pushing and progressing with emphasis on improvement
/r/seduction11/07/24 04:11 PM
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Yeah they all fucking wit someone before you meet them. And honestly that's what we should expect as a human who just entered
/r/seduction11/07/24 02:06 PM
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You should have honestly took her up on the offer and decompressed.. If your vibe in life is "off", an innocent hang out with no expectations can get you going again
/r/seduction11/07/24 01:54 PM
6

Fam you just gotta get it out the mud lol.. As long as you not violating, then do you
/r/seduction09/07/24 03:01 PM
5

Baby steps... Start with a variation of hi and build from there... Breathe and be relaxed as possible
/r/seduction09/07/24 02:05 AM
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It's gonna be at 1st... And naturally, you gonna tiptoe until you finally out your foot in the water... It's just a matter of consistency and progressive overload.. You will take steps back, but then take 2 steps forward
/r/seduction07/07/24 10:53 AM
5

Yeah you should...builds up your weaknesses
/r/seduction07/07/24 02:33 AM
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You might have "triggered" her trauma... The amount of women who told me they were victims of the R word is more than I care to admit... I don't want to dwell to far down the rabbit hole, but I started to prioritize sex a lot less and value conversation more after they told me verbatim and the behaviors/outbreaks kinda matched... Silence and space are your best bet...
/r/seduction07/07/24 02:12 AM
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You guys inspire me🥲 Sub-communication has been my biggest "flaw"... I been working on it and it's gonna all come together... That's when you constantly hit events and the streets and figure shit out
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:53 PM
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You gonna have to get it out the mud by your lonesome
/r/seduction04/07/24 02:14 PM
6

Lol you made a reservation the same day after you left her??? I dunno if you cooked, but even if she is lying, you gotta let that one slide😂😂 Yeah, let her breathe, and if she do respond, you gotta simply establish to her why you were wrong and go from there...
/r/seduction04/07/24 02:06 PM
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It builds resentment lol.. Ask me how I know.. Dub em
/r/seduction03/07/24 03:04 PM
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No.. I've had sex on the 1st "date" and the bitch made me take a sabbatical... If I'm going to hang out with a female, whatever I spend, I'm good whether we speak again or not... Whoever she giving her pussy to, that's her buisness..she was fucking before we met anyways lol
/r/seduction02/07/24 11:27 AM
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I understand the trauma of what you wrote cuz I've allowed myself to be played.. If she ain't respond to the 1st message until after the date, it's pretty much a no go for me.. And I'm saying this as someone who fell for Okey dokes cuz I wanted to give the benefit of doubt... It is what it is even when we think it isn't
/r/seduction30/06/24 06:57 PM
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If your kind and caring while being genuine, that means your daddy... You can be kind and caring, but you gotta give a fuck about them to tap into their emotions
/r/seduction30/06/24 10:16 AM
2

Yes... Jefferson from married with children
/r/seduction28/06/24 12:25 PM
0

Let's say your a quarterback in the pocket.. Social skills= Pocket Awareness Understanding Coverages Embracing Pressure When a rookie starts out, everything moves too fast and it seems like nothing works... The athleticism(looks)doesn't get the results expected After watching film and picking up patterns, the game GRADUALLY slows down and he starts to improve.. Then the skill begins to level with the athleticism The problem is when that blitz comes, the anxiety that comes while and after it happ…
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:34 AM
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It's nature bro...as crazy as it sounds
/r/seduction19/06/24 10:39 PM
35

Not even gonna lie... Cyndi lauper gave us the answer
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:40 AM
1

The biggest mistake I've made and still do on occasion is trying to "micromanage" my life and others... I hear you about the efficiency thing, but once again, we are thinking from our corporate side of the brain... Women don't operate on the corporate side and when you actually able to turn it off, you can begin to see results... But I do understand your sentiment
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:00 PM
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Look at it like basketball.. A star player might score 15 points in a quarter after chilling and just getting in the flow.. You gotta know when to "turn up" a lil... Not too much. Just a lil
/r/seduction08/06/24 09:10 PM
2

Yeah it's natural.. It's important to review your network and figure out what's missing and how can you find it... Sometimes you have to be the "leader" of the pack which comes with its own advantages/disadvantages Als, cold approaching in general might be the only way to wiggle your way into a new network.. Which means even if a broad puts you in the "friendzone", if she gives you access to your her network, that's a win within itself..
/r/seduction07/06/24 10:44 AM
1

At some level he is absolutely right
/r/seduction05/06/24 09:35 PM
3

You should have told them if they were dancing on a rich guy table to get his contact info so you can potentially grow your network wider by proxy
/r/seduction02/06/24 11:37 PM
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There is an unintended irony in the don't overthink it part... She isn't "nervous"... She has other things going on that is of higher importance than seeing bro... Retreat mission and energy
/r/seduction19/05/24 04:25 PM
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