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I agree. I think it has evolved past the reference to "those belief systems" to include a person who says anything even remotely against women. And as such, it starts to lose it's meaning entirely. Negative names rise to more common use, become blunted, and are ultimately replaced by something even more sharp. Now we have incel, man-child and weaponized incompetence because they are sharper and more insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:48 PM
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The future of romantic relationships is AI companions, combined with sex toys. More for men than women perhaps. We need about 5 more years of development to perfect the process, although it will be close by next year. Mating with a human..... yuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:06 AM
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"I don’t think they’re meaning it that way" That's correct. " to say your “celibacy” is involuntary kinda suggests that if you were allowed to, you’d be fucking people." It "kinda suggests that" to a feminist. I see the word incel being used by women about men for which they don't know whether they are celibate or not, or even whether they are married. The name calling went from sexist to misogynist, to incel. I think they use incel bc that is more insulting as it speaks to his manhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:20 AM
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Yeah, that's true. To many men, a woman's value is intimacy and bearing children. Other than that, he'd prefer to be alone or with another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:15 AM
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Yeah, I guess that's true. But not just feminists, pretty much most wives (in the US) say that. It seems like there is a growing number of men that are not like that these days. These are the men that don't want to get married, or if they do, have less interest in sex and more interest in things like gaming. We're now seeing a growing number of women that are complaining about lack of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:44 PM
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Yeah, good points, I'm sure that has a lot to do with it also. I guess that's what I meant by feeling vulnerable and disposable, but your description is much better. I'm laughing bc that is what I used to tell my daughter. I never said disgusting but I told her that is what boys want about a thousand times. I should ask her now (she's in her 20's) what affect that had on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:27 AM
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"you can masturbate without porn." Yes, ofc that's true. But when I hear women complain about it, they are usually linked. They say things like "..... getting off to these women.." Or, "... thinking about her when he's jerking off." Or, "... why doesn't he jerk off to pics of me instead" But I agree, some say they don't mind him jerking off as long as he is only using his imagination. Ofc, his imagination is usually born from looking at porn or thinking about that coworker, so what's the diff?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:21 AM
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So women are raised to believe male sexuality is bad bc men believe women are only good for sex? That could be true, and it would explain why hetero monogamous relationships are disappearing. Also, it would explain why marriages with a poor sex life are doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:32 PM
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"... they have been raised to believe male sexuality is inherently bad or misguided. Most of the things men will find sexy will be seen as base and dirty." Perhaps that's true, but the question is by whom and why are they raised to believe that. The answer is by women, who associate male sexuality with infidelity, and fear they cannot compete with those things men find sexy. Women have always felt vulnerable, and disposable, and that leads to insecurity. That's why they hate their partner going …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:36 PM
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"... she doesn't want him to have any outlet for sexual satisfaction that doesn't involve her. " For women in a committed relationship, this is true with the majority, but ofc not all. We see it every day, and reddit is filled to the brim with women complaining about their partner's porn use. I don't recall ever seeing a post from a man complaining about his wife's porn use. But like most other things, the exceptions are many. BTW, I think AI and male sex toys will have a major impact on relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:22 PM
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Women have a lot more filters and boxes to check than men do, and see a whole lot more things as red flags than men do. As a result, the possibility of even being compatible for a date is now quite small.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:39 PM
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Well, if women won't date the tall, very attractive guys, then I guess nobody is dating anybody. But then why are all these women on TikTok complaining that they did the guy and then got ghosted?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:37 AM
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It's not a winner for you, but it is for them if that is what they want. And there seems to be plenty of women that are willing to play the game, even if some of them are hopeful of a different outcome. ONS and short term seems to be a significant and growing objective for the young these days, and dating apps is playing to that desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:32 PM
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It seems to work well for tall, very attractive guys that want a one-and-done, or maybe a short term situationship. They seem to be the winners of the dating app scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 05:11 PM
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And based on that one experience, she is moving back to her home country, after recently moving here. Move to a new country, have a bad date, and move back. Wow, that's rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:49 PM
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Any statements about "men" or "all men" are irrational, just like statements about "women" or "all women."
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/25 06:33 PM
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"There seems to be this widespread belief..." Nope, no such widespread belief, at not by men. Maybe the women think that, IDK.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 05:49 AM
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They don't like "feminazi" for sure. I used to say feminatti, as in illuminatti, but they always read it as ...nazi and would really get triggered.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 11:57 PM
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The thing is, who cares? If someone is on a dating app with a dude, why get into that?
/r/MensRights12/03/25 11:45 PM
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Will this finally shut down the rhetoric? Probably not. Men going their own way... invest in yourself.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 05:04 AM
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That's great for all those single women out there, no need to stay home alone.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 09:52 AM
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If it is true, that's good for women, they have wanted this for a long time, and perhaps it will have an impact on female insecurity in the long run. I never trust anything The Guardian puts out. Also, who cares who gets lead roles on the big screen? This is irrelevant to men's rights.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 04:28 PM
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I think they meant female women.
/r/MensRights24/01/25 06:56 AM
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If my wife looked like that, I'd pay for beauty treatments too. Or plastic surgery.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 07:43 PM
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College enrollment will get easier bc the immigrants coming into the country do not apply for college, for the most part. Housing should loosen up after the boomers die off and the GenZ moves into the house buying age. But the rest is questionable depending on what happens with immigration. The revised numbers, including all immigrants, shows that the US population has grown during the Biden years. And AI, robotics, autonomic operations, and WFH (outside the US?) is just in the embryonic stage o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:18 AM
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Nope, no evidence. I'm sure that fat women can be happy and I know some, even many, that are. And I hope that they all are. There's nothing wrong with being happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:32 AM
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Yes, ofc, but both things can be true, meaning the movement helps diminish unhealthy behaviors in those that are obese, and also enable obesity. The ideal is to have fat positivity alongside movements to promote healthy body (and mind) positivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:35 AM
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That depends on whether you define attraction as willing or desiring to look at pictures, esp. when those pictures expose certain parts of the anatomy, or whether they are attracted to fat women irl. Those are very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:00 AM
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"The point of fat positivity isn't to encourage women to be fat..." Ofc, that's not the point, and the actual point is a good faith effort, as you indicate. Some question whether it has an unintended consequence of enabling the current growth in obesity, esp. among the young.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:56 AM
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I'm not familiar with the study or OKCupid, so I can't reply. I have reviewed a lot of studies for my profession (not dating), and know that the "devil is in the details." I did hear once that less attractive men have a habit of swiping almost everyone and then making a decision when the few women swiped back on them. Whereas women were more thoughtful. But I could be way off. There is a lot of talk about hypergamy in the apps. Like 80% of women swiping on 20% of men. But I have to admit, I'm wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:49 AM
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Maybe they do. When I said "not most men," I meant that I'm representing my ideas as just mine and not speaking for them. But yeah, maybe they agree. It seems that most women don't find most men attractive these days either. I think it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:30 AM
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Yeah, but that's just me, not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:58 AM
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I think some confusion comes in on the physical vs. mental attractiveness. Or esthetics, such as tats, nose rings, blue hair, etc. And then there is the political attitudes, one way or the other. Or women that come off prudish vs. slutty. And the weight keeps going up. Heavy makeup, and so on. Underneath, most of these women are attractive, or cute, but there are so many ways now for a woman to seem unattractive (to any given man). So, the question is are they pretty, or would you like to have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:32 AM
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Women in that age group are the most physically attractive, and I think that is the primary factor for most men, when looking to date or simply to look at. There are some men that are also attracted to their innocence and youthful, sexy spirit, which can be magnetic. Yet, there are also some dudes that enjoy the power dynamic of an age difference. "... absolutely nothing.. " is disingenuous, as are the accusations that it must be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:37 AM
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"For some men a rich male CEO being murdered is an opportunity to aquire what they had and one less powerful and intelligent guy that they have to compete with." That's the most absurd statement I've seen on the internet today. By "some men," you mean the 4 or 5 guys that are competing for the CEO slot for United?
/r/MensRights25/12/24 05:55 PM
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Actually, I thought of that, but didn't comment. Until now, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:43 AM
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I agree. This is a reddit premise, designed for upvotes and to start circular convo's.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:39 AM
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"... women are choosing to stay single in ever increasing numbers. Men are making themselves sexually irrelevant." That's true for vice versa. Hetero relationships are going away, men feel it more in their 20's and women more in their 30's. Women enjoy it more, at least for a decade or so, bc they can go out and get banged whenever they want to. But it's the same in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:34 AM
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There are many male princes, but also a lot of male queens these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:21 AM
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Wrt "useless," I think the issue is salary and the ability to find a job. In my area (suburb of major city), one can get a job as an asst. plumber, with no experience, today... like literally today. The pay is not great, but they train you and you gain valuable experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:20 PM
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We're not really talking (in this thread) about their communities, unless you are defining their community as a group of other men. And I'm not talking about validation, which is different from uplifting each other. In fact, you're supporting my argument. Men need validation, but men validate each other in a different manner than women. Men get validation thru recognition, whereas women get validation thru acceptance in the group. That's why men like vid games much more than women do, we get poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:47 PM
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I never said women are wrong for uplifting other women. Women should uplift each other, and as extremely social beings, they rely heavily on it. They form very highly developed groups at a very young age, and rely on support throughout their lives. The uplifting from other women is critical. I'm just saying that men are less dependent on it. Our groups are more competitive than supportive, and we prefer to be more stoic than social. We are more naturally confident, adventurous, and aggressive. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:33 PM
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Men don't really need men to uplift us, we uplift ourselves naturally when we are free from a negative feminine environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:29 AM
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It's a US thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:22 AM
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Why do you allow anonymous people on the internet to determine your self esteem? (legit curious)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:16 AM
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It's not going to get better. A shrinking minority of US women are attractive, physically and especially mentally. And some of the ones that are have become single moms and situationally unattractive. Many of those women that are attractive will match with the very attractive men. But for the average man, there will be AI companions, male toys, sex workers, and a passport. Ofc, there will always be a minority of men and women who find each other and form monogamous relationships, and half of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:02 AM
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Yep, so true. It's happened down thru history. Many of the young men who went west in the 19th century did so for the same reason. And the dudes who joined the pirate ships. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:00 PM
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Fair enough. I think the choice issue is a good one. I think the lack of choice for a human relationship, or one could say loneliness, will be a driver for choosing to try AI. And social media, dating apps, porn, and manosphere in combination really forms an algorithm also. But I get what you're saying. We'll see where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:16 PM
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Progressive? I wouldn't think so. I believe it is the genetic instinct to be part of the pack, mostly for protection, combined with the situation they were born into (lacking family structure, poor neighborhood, etc.). Perhaps some would call that progressive, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:05 PM
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There are no 12 yo boys saying your body my choice, or extremely rare. In fact, it rare to hear adult males saying that. Every time I ask for examples, I get Nick Fuentes, or some group of frat boys who are doing it to get clicks. If a 12 yo is saying anything like that, it's bc his older brothers or gang members were treated poorly by someone and/or they have bad parenting, usually from a single parent. Ofc, at this point in our development, the concepts originally flowing out of progressive sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:57 PM
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It can be a chicken and egg thing, and like any social movement, there are always contributing factors. But I think OP's premise has a lot of truth to it. Regardless, now that we're here, it has momentum, a life of it's own so to speak, and the manosphere and disintegration of hetero relationships may not be reversible, and will probably continue. I am convinced that AI relationships is the next big wave, perhaps a tsunami, in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:19 PM
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"Lies designed... ?" Really? That's unhinged conspiracy language.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:04 PM
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You do know that professional athletes and revered entrepreneurs make up less than 0.01% of the male population?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:53 PM
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Don't look now, but you just made OP's point. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:46 PM
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What I was referring to was my earlier description of "you say something and he doesn't listen." In other words, the type of conflict that will eventually get her "to a breaking point." As OP says, "Guys like that are better off not being in relationships" which I would clarify as not in a relationship with her. What I'm saying is that if you're going to leave him eventually bc he won't put his clothes in the hamper after being nagged about it numerous times, you're better off ending it early on…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:27 AM
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I was talking about romantic relationships, not platonic, as you talked about BF/husbands. Platonic is another thing altogether. I define the seriousness of the conflict as the level that would ultimately lead to "a breaking point" as you alluded to. Before you marry, if you are clear about something and he doesn't listen, one time, end it right then and move on. The issue to me is having an LTR when the couple is incompatible, didn't set clear and agreed to expectations, or one of them accepted…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:07 AM
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It would be best if people without children would not threaten but just break-up if you say something and he doesn't listen. One strike and he's out. That goes for sex too, both ways, although that should be 3 strikes and you're out. Couples should not get married, or have children, until they can live together 2 years with no conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:11 AM
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" it’s not like literally any expression of interest gets you ejected from the social space forever" It happens enough that sensible dudes no longer approach, it's not worth the risk when you're talking about some group/activity that is meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:50 AM
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Weird misogyny cult chat is not seriously wishing for woman's downfall. It's pretty much just dark humor or entertainment. When a so-called cultist meets a nice woman, he goes normal pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:46 AM
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Basically, we should ignore peoples attractiveness, gender, race, religion, etc. and give them your patronage / tips based on how they treat us and do their job. I agree regarding realism for things based on historic truth. The thing is, people like watching and dealing with attractive people though.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 06:05 AM
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Yes, that's my point. Empathy is based on how you grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:54 PM
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Men grow up with women are strong, independent, can do anything men can do (and better), are smarter than men, their equal, don't need men, etc. And some get annoyed if you hold a door open for them. Something like 40% of boys grow up with a single mom who is quite strong and capable. Women play violent sports, including wrestling, boxing and now cage fighting (UFC). Half of men are not married and don't have a daughter. So I'm not shocked that there are a lot of men like the guy who yelled at y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:30 AM
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*than an unthoughtful woman, who couldn't connect with normal people and explain herself, and relied on voters to hate Trump. Fixed it for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:50 AM
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That's true. And women do the same. It's a natural tendency on both sides. And it works the same for things other than gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 08:44 AM
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hahaha true, probably 50/50.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 08:38 AM
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The US is disintegrating right in front of our eyes. I give us until 2060.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 07:13 AM
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I wouldn't say men should hold back due to what a woman might be, but bc it could backfire on them if it is perceived to be creepy or unwanted. The risks for legal or otherwise negative repercussions seem to be rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:24 AM
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Men don't care about your job / career, or if they do, it is so low on the priority list as to be irrelevant. They do like a woman to be focused on working and trying to be responsible. Your situation is perfect, focus on other things.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/24 03:10 AM
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She may apologize, but her comment may bely a resentment that you do not make enough to make her life easier. In essence, she does or will blame you for everything that is not perfect in her life. Not good.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 06:01 AM
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Social movements tend to go too far and then retrench, but not all the way back to where they were before. Two steps forward and one step back. That is what we saw in the 1960's and early 1970's; in the late 1970's and 1980's we came back a bit, but not all the way to the 1950's. The other concept is that sometimes, social movements get overcome by other social movements or world events, such as war or the pandemic. In this case, I think AI will have a great affect as it will take away a lot of …
/r/MensRights17/04/24 05:02 PM
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Radical feminism will outlive western society, which will collapse later this century. Focus on your personal well being and fulfillment, with or without women in your life.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 05:45 AM
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Wikipedia has really lost it's way since it was founded 24 years ago. You can't rely on it for social studies, political or cultural discussion anymore. It's gone woke.
/r/MensRights17/04/24 05:40 AM
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You're not accounting for AI/robotics/autonomous machinery.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 05:10 AM
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Thanks for your comments, I understand the long standing dynamics as you pointed out, and they are unfortunate. To be clear, I am not uncomfortable in those situations (group of women), it's just that it is unproductive. TBH, I'm not usually interested in the topics being discussed anyway. And yes, I can't avoid them bc I'm usually with my wife or trying to be sociable.
/r/MensRights14/04/24 10:47 PM
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Because these are men speaking from the US, and their experience in these matters is based here. For reasons you pointed out, these issues vary greatly from country to country, and in the US, from state to state. It would be disingenuous for me in the US to talk about men's rights in Chile, or Indonesia, for instance. Ofc, there are men from all over the world that can speak to their experiences, or that of their countrymen, and that is more than welcome. My belief, which could be very wrong, is…
/r/MensRights11/04/24 06:08 PM
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Thank you for asking and being concerned and open minded. I'm sorry if you got beat on a bit - we have some frustration roiling under the surface. I think the start of the men's rights movement came about bc of perceived inequity in divorce, and especially child custody and support. As we moved from "patriarchy" based on SAHM's, to women's lib, no-fault divorce, and now young women with higher college matriculation and out-earning men (at least in their 20's), the divorce/custody laws/norms/prac…
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:56 PM
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Well said.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:43 PM
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"Even now that women go to university more the democrats complained that women have more student debt than men" This is the result of not understanding, or being accountable for, consequences, especially unintended consequences (and it's not only for young women). They want the college education that men rec'd, but not the student debt that men accumulated. And as they flood into liberal arts colleges, the costs soar. They want to major in gender studies but expect the job rate and salary that a…
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:42 PM
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I agree, the discussion has to be at a national level, and religion based, to be meaningful. Using theocracies in the middle east and Asia is not going to yield a productive convo for women in the US, for instance.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:15 PM
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I agree on the mansplaining thing. And women talking over men. It's as if they are tired of having to listen to men, so they just assume we shut up. When I am in a group with more than one women, I often keep my opinions to myself, or if I possibly can, break away from the group, even though I enjoy listening to people. Note: I find talking to women 1:1 is much different for some reason. It's like the social issues evaporate, like they go from the mansplaining, convo dominating mentality to bein…
/r/MensRights11/04/24 05:00 PM
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".... choose violence to secure resources" I think this is a big factor for the last two generations in the US, as the American Dream and other ideas about getting ahead in life seem to lose credibility. With inequality and hopelessness for the future, for men at least, violence to secure resources seems more reasonable, and for some, justified.
/r/MensRights04/04/24 08:07 PM
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Very true. Also, the most aggressive and oft times offensive (or perhaps less agreeable) men were more successful in the military and business, and therefore were stronger leaders and more wealthy - ergo, better providers and partners (and therefore role models for young boys). While women throughout history relied on social networks to survive, men were best when self reliant, confident, and driven - the 'strong silent type'. The best fighter morphed into the best warrior, then morphed into the…
/r/MensRights04/04/24 08:01 PM
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Below is a summary of theorized root societal causes that contribute to violent crime in the US. In looking through the list, numerous of items are more prevalent in men vs. woman, but you can decide for yourself. Of particular interest to me is a stat that I saw about a year ago: 80% of incarcerated men in the US were raised in a fatherless household. Beyond these societal issues, there are evolutionary theories and treatment of gender questions, as others have commented on. Poverty and economi…
/r/MensRights04/04/24 07:43 PM
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Yep, it's a sad state of affairs, to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 03:24 AM
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Yeah, that's a lot. Keep in mind, though, that includes "desiring" in addition to "attempting." It would be nice to separate those two things. I once calculated that approx. 12% of marriages end from cheating based on cheating being claimed in divorce (US). But if you add in separations that don't claim divorce, and cheating that is either undetected or forgiven, and it is probably above that level, perhaps 1 in 6 marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 02:06 AM
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Chad is just a convenient name for an attractive dude, in all the ways that women find attractive, who is interested in casual relationships. He is active on dating apps or in the casual hookup scene. I say convenient bc like so many other labels, it's a lot easier to have a name or acronym than try to explain it every time. It's not really different than using the label incel, or slut, prude, hottie, or whatever. Chad became a phenom when dating apps took over the dating scene. It's actually a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:34 PM
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As opposed to cheating, which is considered non-ethical. Ethical non-monogamy means both partners, and the 3rd person (which would normally be called the affair partner), are consenting to the arrangement and transparent in how it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:22 PM
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I agree. In the US, not being "normal" is the "New Normal," no matter what you're speaking about. It's an 'anti' thing. Here is a summary from an AI bot: "Based on the available data and research, there does seem to be a slight trend towards more acceptance and practice of non-monogamous relationships like polyamory and open relationships in the United States in recent years, but monogamy remains the dominant relationship structure" Also: A 2020 study by the Kinsey Institute found around 1 in 6 …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:13 PM
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Well adjusted to what reference point? In the US, relationships and dating have changed radically in the last 10 years and are changing still. There seems to be no normal anymore. AI companionship does not preclude irl friends, hobbies, or sports, in fact they can enhance them, especially hobbies that you tend to do alone. But more and more, at least in the US, friends and acquaintances get together online, which has the benefit of collecting friends from all over the world, with subsequent cult…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:27 PM
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AI will change a lot of things in the next 5 years, including romantic relationships, especially for young men. It's not for the best overall, but it will help a lot with loneliness and depression being felt by many young men. Young men thrive with the digital and virtual world, so the upcoming tech explosion will be good for them. Their socializing will be online or virtual. I also foresee radical changes in our education system will help boys as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:12 AM
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In the US, most people are misanthropic at any rate. And most of all media is shit, so maybe there is a correlation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 10:43 PM
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But what a fantastic way to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:47 AM
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When God made women, he took a rib from Adam. Ladies - give us our rib back!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:44 AM
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"Withholding sex" is an inaccurate term and shouldn't be used. It was given life during a period of time when sex for women was either poorly understood or not well communicated. Libido for men and women is a spectrum and therefore abounds with anecdotal protestations. In general, on average, on the whole, a woman's libido is lower and especially much more variable. Woman's libido and men's can ebb and flow at different times of the year and different phases of life. Women generally are more sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:40 AM
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Yeah, I'm sure that's true, but I think the percent that expect strict virginity, vs low body count, is getting to be a smaller minority. The focus now seems to on having a low body count with men in at least short term relationships, as opposed to the hook-up culture of ONS. But there will probably always be the more religious types that want pure virginity. So it's like a slowly shifting spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:59 PM
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Maybe in some parts of the world that's true, but not in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:46 AM
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That means she is done with the promiscuous lifestyle, where she bangs on the first date, and is now looking for someone for a relationship, so she is going to make you wait. She's letting you know that she doesn't want the 'pump n dump' from you. It could mean she has a high body count too. Now it's your turn to decide what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:31 AM
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Thank you. The whole reference to being "human" or not seems like radicalized misandrist language bc it has no reference to reality and therefore cannot be defended. How can one argue with whether a human should be treated like a human, especially when there is no common understanding of what it means. It's propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:20 AM
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In that case, it is like treating her not like a human, so like an animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:04 AM
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"I think it's a fundamental divide in how men and women tend to use language, where women use it to advance their values and men use it to try to describe things." Thank you for this. I'm not sure why yet, but this could be the most insightful thing I've read in reddit for a very long time. I've put it in my journal and will roll this around in my head for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:50 AM
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Maybe not where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:59 AM
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Ofc women wear clothes that are appealing to men, it's just that it may not be on a conscious level, it gets buried into cultural norms and fashion trends. It gets ingrained into what is attractive and so they believe that they are doing it for themselves. And bc their ego is boosted by not being dependent on men's approval, they are unable or unwilling to see it as pleasing men. Also, women have a history of being unsafe around men, and don't want to be seen as inviting men's sexual aggression,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:50 PM
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Actually, that is what OP's point is. What is for you and about you, is wearing clothing that happens to attract a lot of male attention. And there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:29 PM
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Men don't care if women want to be promiscuous, they'll enjoy it if they can, they just don't want to seriously date them or form an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:17 AM
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It's easier for men, bc whatever the situation is, we at least have a chance at being happy. Women can never be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:25 PM
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In the US, very few women are attractive these days. I don't know if it's weight, poor nutrition, lifestyle, or what. All the fake stuff they put on and pierce, and the heavy makeup mitigates their natural femininity. And they act more masculine, too. Evolution can be an unkind master.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:43 AM
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I think the first wave, and much more popular in the next decade will be virtual gf/bf. They will offer a viable alternative to a relationship in the next year or two, using AI. They are almost now at the level where they can offer everything but the physical touch. And advanced toys will go a long way to providing the physical sensation, again, almost there now. That combination will be enough for many of the GenAlpha's as they exit their teenage years. Full humanoid robots that can he used for…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:09 PM
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Yes, that's true. In the US, most people, men and women, have a very low cognitive ability and are capable of irrational thoughts and action.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:28 AM
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I don't know about the others, but Elizabeth Holmes is a smart, educated, fit and very attractive woman who committed a white collar crime. I'm not surprised at all that she got a man, she can probably get thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:22 AM
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With all due respect, you choose to use your bf's boundaries as the example to prove a point that applies to the genpop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:06 AM
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Your argument here feels a bit disingenuous. If you're willing to dive off a low board into a pool, should you then be fine diving off a 100 foot cliff into the surf below? You can take every situation out to it's extreme if you want. But you ask the correct question: where does it end? Each partner has to set their own limit based on their reasoning and experience. That's where it ends. The other partner has to decide if that is acceptable or not. Each partner is correct bc it's a personal deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:01 AM
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Interesting. How about: I have a boundary (for me) that I will not be with a woman who does XYZ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:43 AM
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Good point. When I hear words like "controlling" and "insecure" when talking about standards for a monogamous relationship, I know it's a way of manipulating men to accept a woman's promiscuity. If she's not ready to be exclusive / monogamous, she should continue with her party lifestyle - no problem with that. But OP should move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:36 AM
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End the relationship. She is not ready to be exclusive to you, she still has flirting and whatnot to do. If she wanted a serious relationship with you, she would want to spend that time with you. Perhaps she'll be ready to calm down in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:29 AM
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Interesting. Thanks
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 03:26 PM
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Good for you, and for him. There is great value in taking life not so seriously all the time, and making someone chuckle. Being a little silly, or even goofy, makes someone fun to be around. Perhaps seeing death as he did taught him about the fragility of life and that life is short (ofc I wouldn't know that). At any rate, it would be nice to get him to stop some of the jokes without affecting his overall demeanor. Have you spoken to him seriously about this? I mean asked him to make some change…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 05:23 AM
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This is way off topic, so ignore it if you want, but what is this with the stars? That's a new one for me.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/24 05:11 AM
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So we agree to disagree, which is cool. Have a good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:24 AM
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I think there are three issues here. First, is the issue of "how many men" say those things, which is a very small fraction of the men on all of reddit (just a handful of subs), and reddit includes approx. 18% of men in the US (in all subs), so you're talking about a small fraction of 1% overall. And those that do speak out are usually those on the fringes. Second, men are not likely to speak out in a critical way of other men even if they think it's complete bs, probably bc most men think there…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:22 PM
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Gotcha. Sorry if I misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:00 AM
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Everything I've seen basically culminates in them wanting a woman to be their mommy at home and just a hole to use. It's pathetic IMO " a large population of men online" ... want this. Did you know that in the US, there are approx. 95.3 million adult men online (according to the Pew Research Center)? That's 94% of adult men. So, I guess what I described is just my interpretation of what your comments being made sound like? We're both free, obviously, to interpret what we read. I do agree that so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:08 AM
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Woman build the men that build society. Both women and men are doing less of each now, speaking of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:13 AM
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You should consider that the US culture today is based on hate. That's almost all we do, and it is promoted by our gov't, universities, and media, even our top leaders. It's institutionalized now, and based on all sorts of factors. We hardly know how to communicate among ourselves without involving hate, and so hate has become fun, it's a form of entertainment now. That's why memes have become so popular. Another consideration is how much our biology and societal interaction get in the way of li…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:59 AM
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Well, context is everything, and my comments were narrowly focused on venues where relatively young people meet for social interaction, like a club. I live in a liberal area on the US west coast, so perhaps one of the better areas for treatment of women, although I acknowledge that women can be treated poorly anywhere. To be clear, no man has the right to expect a smile, eye contact, or conversation from a woman, except perhaps in some business environments where it is also expected of men. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 05:42 AM
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Since he is a mod, I assume he is putting up with her to draw attention to the platform. Twitch seems to be working toward becoming a low life version of Tik Tok and all of the views for this is helping toward that end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:53 PM
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I think you struck a point here. The question is equivalency of ridicule and vitriol to "choosing not to kowtow and curtsy." Some women seem to think that they have to swing all the way to the other extreme to compensate for past sins of the patriarchy. I have never witnessed a curtsy. I agree women don't have to talk to or even give the time of day to any man, yet someone with a reasonable amount of self esteem can simply send him on his way without the vitriol. The aggression between the sexes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:51 PM
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Yeah, that is frighteningly true. The key is how many 'likes' it gets and the number and nature of the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:39 PM
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Nothing wrong, not saying it's offensive, just wanted to note that I didn't say it is all. And your assumption is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:14 PM
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15 years ago I would have said porn, and just porn, but it is a lot more than that now, and a medical checkup and therapy could be used to figure it out. It's not just porn in the conventional sense, it's the explosion of sex work such as OF, but also social media, virtual reality, video gaming (and social vid gaming), and all sorts of digital attention deficits. The elephant in the room is low testosterone, which used to be an 'old guy' thing but it now very much a young man's issue. Also, heav…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/24 11:06 PM
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I didn't use the expression "fat women," but if and who she trusts is up to her, just like any other women, no? IMO, the "crave validation" concept, which could be a bit overstated, goes with being more 'down to earth', not "stuck up," and more approachable, than can be the case with thinner women. So perhaps that is misleading as it pertains to the actual percentage who have casual sex (vs. just being easier to talk to).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 09:29 PM
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LMAO I won't get the image of "fuck their entire zip code" out of my head for the rest of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:51 PM
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I agree, at least as it pertains to weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:47 PM
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You are not compatible. He will never change ("act manlier") and he shouldn't change his nature for you anyway. You will never be happy being with him. End the relationship and look for someone more masculine. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 08:05 PM
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Many young men in the US today have very low testosterone, from birth. There is a strong feminine conditioning in society, esp SJW media Boys raised without a dad in the house are more feminine Public school educators promote feminine characteristics and behavior Being LGBTQAI+ is the in thing for young people
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/24 08:02 PM
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Andrew Tate is a major player in the mind of women. There are very few men, RP or otherwise, that give him a lot of validity. In the so-called manosphere, RP, or men's rights world, I never see or hear a reference to Tate, and for good reason. The dude is a wacko who gained notoriety bc he was one of the first to speak about men's issues. He's old news now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:11 AM
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You're conflating issues. RP men want to settle down, or get into a relationship, with a woman with traditional values (not necessarily a "tradwife"), esp someone into family life and motherhood. Avoiding marriage is a separate issue which few really follow. Pumping and dumping is for when the Chads are with women in the hookup culture and usually applies to promiscuous women doing essentially the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:43 AM
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Men just want a normal person. They don't like drama. They are shy of very attractive women bc they tend to be arrogant and self centered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:30 AM
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Don't hold your breath
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:24 AM
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Women are seen exactly as they present themselves. If one jumps around and bounces her titties to teens on Tik Tok, she will be seen as a sexy human who likes to bounce her titties on Tik Tok. If anyone is dehumanizing anyone, it is her dehumanizing those teenage boys, so she can make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:22 AM
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Actually, you did say men are like guns (A "by saying" B).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:11 AM
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Mission: Pink pill women having enough self esteem that they are not obsessed with red pill men and women. Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:08 AM
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I agree. Unfortunately, there are millions of young men and women who don't think that way. Readily available birth control, abortion, the destigmatizing of birth out of wedlock, the explosion of sex workers, and the prevalence of single motherhood, have separated hooking up with having and raising children. We are now in a hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:03 AM
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They may be fun to smash, just not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:18 PM
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In the US, the norms of society are disintegrating, and many of our young people have mental health issues. The old norms of gender relationships are dissipating, sometimes for the best, and the result is a often confusing spectrum of gender roles. There are probably fewer men who abide by the more strict rules of being an alpha, perhaps bc there are labeled as toxic and/or creepy when they do. The age adjusted average testosterone levels of US men has been dropping steadily for at least the las…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/23 09:19 PM
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"I've had sex with a few guys in college, like a lot of girls, but it's not like double digit or anything like that! Just a few. I'm not into the hookup thing, I'm looking to be with someone for a relationship." Honest, but vague, Ofc, this assumes that it's not appropriate to say "none of your f'ing business." By the time a guy has the right to ask, you should have been dating for a bit and at least exclusive. If you don't give it up right away, he shouldn't ask at all.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 11:25 PM
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I would not describe your situation as a high body count (although some would). I tend to discount some sex in the first year or two in college as a period of high experimentation, especially if she came from a conservative background. Beyond that, you have maintained sex to when you've been in a relationship, which is usually considered fine.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 09:03 PM
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I don't know but doubt it affects their view of real women; the men who watch the very violent stuff may already have a warped view of women, which is why they are attracted to it. Or, they may just be curious. At any rate, that impact in the real world is probably rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 11:26 PM
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It solves the problem of men who want to have sex with a voluntary partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:36 PM
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Incest and pedophilia have been prevalent since the dawn of our species. Porn may normalize that to a certain degree by making it more assessable, but it's not clear that it has any impact on behavior. And, at any rate, that is not going to change now. Men are not "suffering from porn addiction." They are masturbating to a lot of porn, which is a good way to avoid abhorrent behavior outside the bedroom. It also helps husbands deal with a low libido (or no libido) wife, and can be a good way of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:32 PM
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Is that what you feel is the issue with sex work? No pension plan? So, they are the same as plumbers, interior designers, and landscapers. I feel much better now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:10 PM
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Yes, I agree. "Porn addiction" is like calling someone who works long hours a "workaholic" or someone who refers to her dog(s) as her child(ren) as a mother. There is a difference between an addiction, a fetish, and being passionate about something. RadFem's want to push the porn addiction thing bc husbands/partners watching porn can somewhat relieve them from the wife's power of sex denial. Her ability to use control/denial to coerce submission is damaged when the man has porn/masturbation as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:05 PM
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You will not deal with porn, or prostitution, much like drugs and gambling, from the supply side, as long as the demand is so high. It's best to legalize it and work to control it, like the combination of casino's, online gambling, and lotto has done for gambling, or similar to smoking weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:48 PM
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Prostitution is a good thing, should be legal, and regardless, will grow significantly in the future. The combination of AI gf's and prostitution is the future and will alleviate societal problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:38 PM
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Right? This month's updates on NSFW gf's/bf's are amazing. The combination of API's and multi-modal platforms will have an incredible impact in just the next 3 to 6 months. But yeah, 2 years.... a whole new world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:31 PM
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Just like if that young women who is more mature, smarter, emotionally intelligent, and makes better decisions is the victim of a predator if she decides to date a slightly older man. Suddenly, her brain is not fully functional until 26 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:21 PM
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Yep. A conundrum encountered countless times throughout the ages.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 07:21 PM
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RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:15 PM
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Lack of accountability falls on both sides.... but that doesn't address the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:51 PM
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Selectivity, by either sex, for dating or any other reason, is a good thing. Don't listen to "society" as that noise is mostly from the small and extreme tails of the distribution. In the US, most people lack the cognitive ability to render unbiased and rational opinions anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:02 PM
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Yes, that's a better way of stating it. And I think your numbers are spot on.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 01:24 AM
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The big tech firms are overly dominated by white and Asian men, which is why they are desperate for women and underrepresented minorities to join, esp at the intern and entry levels. There are slightly more women lately but still far from enough. We need way more women in the field in general. I didn't say/mean that most internships will go to women, only that given competition among equals, we will select women. He is also a year behind others seeking those openings, so that is a disadvantage a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 01:22 AM
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Man here. It's not your job to "get him to his full potential." That's his job. You're his gf, not his mother. Don't start nurturing him now, he'll never be the man you need down the road. His short term focus should be to grow up, finish school, and start his career. His focus. Regarding internships in tech, esp in sales and marketing, they will go to women, he probably didn't stand a chance. Plus he's a year behind you. He may need some serious career planning, esp. with AI on the way up, and …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/23 06:25 AM
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Ok, that's reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:42 AM
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When you say "done something," can you provide a couple of examples? I assume you don't mean invented a new molecule or designed the new museum building, or do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:25 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:21 PM
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I agree that what she did was manipulative. If she had no intention of having sex, she should have said she wasn't coming over. Then, she could have arranged a proper time and place for discussing the possibility of a relationship, where there would be no expectation of sex. Or, tell him over the phone that she would like to come over but exchange some thoughts instead of sex on this particular night. She came over under false pretenses and made him sit there chatting with a boner before springi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:41 PM
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Do you mind me asking how you got that super font? Is that heading text?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:34 PM
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As a man, I think that when a man or woman catches some feelings, the other should accept it as a compliment, and a positive feeling, and let the other person down gracefully - a soft landing as it were. Afterall, he/she (who caught the feelings) is expressing loving feelings of affection, and asking for a relationship, not a fight. And it never hurts to be nice in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:31 PM
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I get what you're saying, and it sounds much better than whatever it is everyone is assuming he said. TBH, we don't know the exact words that he used. He said he asked her to leave. Why would he say "Let's stop having sex...." if she had already said no more sex? I know of no man who thinks being courteous or using kind words is "beta." You fundamentally misunderstand men's concept of "beta," which is made clear by a comparison to a "monster." Women should stop expressing men's thoughts and inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:20 PM
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But she shouldn't have come over for a booty call late in the evening and sprung a renegotiation of the relationship on the guy. It was like an ultimatum of sorts. A classic "Don't ask the question if you're not prepared for the answer." Who knows, if she had handled it differently, maybe he would have agreed to try it a somewhat different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:05 PM
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Right? Some nice booty twice a week.....damn!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:59 PM
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Right? When she was coming off a divorce and wanted some good D, he served her purpose just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:56 PM
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Good point. She should have said she couldn't come over when he called, and then asked him for coffee on Saturday afternoon or sometime time / place for an adult convo. She came over for a quick booty call late in the evening and wants to withhold sex and have a deep relationship convo instead? That's a BS move.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:53 PM
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Dehumanizing? But wasn't she dehumanizing by trying to coerce him into a committed relationship. She offered her vagina a few times for some wild sex, and then comes over for sex and witholds her feminine charms until he commits to a relationship? That feels like toxic feminine manipulation to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 07:45 PM
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Men and women are basically incompatible and often dislike attributes found in the other. Civilization taught women to respect and be attracted to men for things like protection. In the last 50 years, in the US, the dynamics that drew the sexes together have melted away, and as women don't need men anymore, the unlikeable characteristics have become more predominant. Also, things that they reluctantly provided, like sex, are no longer necessary and therefore add to the tension between the sexes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:05 AM
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There seems to be a trend where single mothers are focused on manipulating her children's gender identify. I wonder if it isn't an unconscious attempt to keep them from having a conventional romantic relationship when they grow up, like freezing them as children devoted to her. Or possibly an internal misandrist rebellion against the cis men that left her, or a way of making them unattractive to the baby daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:37 AM
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The Chad's luv female promiscuity/hookup culture bc they can get laid often without committing to a relationship. They are the winners, along with the women racking up body count. Neither of those groups are going to complain. The losers in the hookup game need to play the in-person look for a gf game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:58 PM
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Guys who whine on PPD make-up less than 1% of the 80%. In terms of a hook-up, when I was in that market (years ago now), I found that the bigger girls were more fun to be with. Less bullshit games. They may look for a hook-up, go on Tinder, and complain about not being able to compete (which is true), but I'm still willing to bet they'd rather have a down to earth feminine gf they can hang with. But the Apps, and other societal dynamics, are limiting there ability to find a nice gf bc those girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:48 PM
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You may feel it isn't true, as is your right, and perhaps it is not true, but it's not a lie, at least not in the traditional definition of a lie. That aside, I believe it to be true when speaking about men overall, and particularly young, single men, and not just those on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:54 PM
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The 80% of men don't want a hookup, they want a girl friend. They know they are not Chad and never will be. They may lust over the super hot woman, but they really want a gf who checks other boxes, and that's who they are improving for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:03 PM
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Thanks for clarifying that. If that is his sole concern, I'm not sure what all the dialogue on swimsuits, body count, morality, and transparency is about, but whatever. Given that narrowing of scope, combined with his lack of decisiveness, whether driven by immaturity or something else, my advice would be to seriously consider moving on in the foreseeable future. You are quite young, so you have time on your side to be patient if you otherwise feel strong about him. If he can't get past it at 26…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 06:14 PM
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He doesn't know if it's a deal breaker. He has strong feelings for her. He has probably never dated anyone who posted pics like that. He's trying to figure it out, but he's not experienced enough, and probably not mature enough, to just bring it to a final decision. If she can't wait it out, she is free to leave as well. Many men and women have said that they thought they could put things behind them and move on, and then years later, realize they can't. He is free to follow accounts of women wh…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 04:39 AM
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He's probably immature, so I won't defend him. It's not when she lost her virginity, and not about one guy, it's about her posting sexy pics and having an unknown sex life. He doesn't know what her body count is or if she had a train or not. She admitted to a few guys, one questionable one in particular. The common thinking is that women way underestimate their experience when they talk about it. It's the "what if" imagery in his mind, as you put it, that takes a while to dissipate, if it does.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 04:24 AM
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There are many men who feel about promiscuous pics in the same general direction as sex pics, a sort of lite version. And there are many young women, who post bikini pics but exchange nudes in DM. Many. And even beyond exchanging nudes in DM... I imagine OP did not, but this is what these young women need to think about - who else is in the mostly innocent club they are joining when they post "sexy" pics, albeit not "sex" pics.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 04:11 AM
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And there it is....the true feelings said aloud. Woman hate men, now that they're equals in western society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:58 PM
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AI companions are getting pretty good, and he can get a dog too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:30 PM
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Yes, true. And since men approaching is either unsuccessful or seen as creepy, they are more and more just going their own way. The only ones who bother are the chad's who are going to fuck and run.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:17 PM
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That is true, but just one of the reasons that we have such wide spread mental health issues among our young people today.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:59 PM
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Normally, for women, it bother's them more than their husbands. I like the way my wife looks now but it bothers her. She always complains about her backside, but I like it more now! The guys that complain about their wife sometimes are worried about how it looks to the other guys with skinny wives. It's a vanity thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 10:24 PM
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True. In the US, with each generation, the percentage of dysfunctional men and women, physically and especially mentally, continues to rise. Most Americans have a low cognitive ability, for one reason or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:18 PM
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Good points. In today's society (US), fewer men and women have to settle, which is good. That is just one reason the LTR is going away. Fat people will date each other in the US, if for no other reason, most are fat (although many don't get too fat until after the wedding, and for women, after having children).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 04:11 PM
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There are no more functioning people in the US. or very few. Maybe elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 03:58 PM
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I'm happy for you in that you finally rec'd some needed insight. I gather you are not alone with a very low libido. I do object to your reference to morals, as I don't see this as an issue of morality, and wouldn't want to label women with higher libido as being immoral in any way. I have heard some that speak of the need for a solid connection calling themselves demisexual. At any rate, we are all different in that regard and should be content to be ourselves. Good for you in being able to sort…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 04:06 AM
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There's a diff of "only" vs. "must include." A man can love a woman as a human in a relationship that must include sex. That would mean a woman can love a man as a human in a relationship that must include providing financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:11 AM
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Men and women. My wife just leaves it bc she knows I'll take care of it. Although I assume it's more men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:34 PM
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Women are more likely to complain than men. Also, men are more likely to overlook flaws for the minority of their female partners who enjoy frequent sex. Given those 2 factors, polls/ studies will always favor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:14 PM
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Well, what if we say 3:1 W:M?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:10 AM
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I wonder if men tend to rate themselves on a wider set of attributes, such as salary, whereas women tend to rate themselves more strictly on looks, which is where their SMV is centered. This would give the men more opportunities to reduce their own rating. Just a thought (and probably wrong).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:28 AM
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That's a few very impactful assumptions you're making...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:23 AM
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True. Plus, an attractive woman at the wall is likely to be insufferable. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:19 AM
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Both men and women overstate their smv, but women are far worse than men at doing this. The constant rejection that men receive, and the high level of attention that women receive, leads men to be more realistic then women. Also, the body positivity movement is allowing women to overlook the impact of their obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:11 AM
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These links are relevant and not cherry picked. Sorry for the confusing language. I was commenting that sometimes the data is, but didn't mean to implicate these.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 12:03 AM
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Nice response - thanks for the links. Numbers don't lie (except when they're cherry picked ofc).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:10 PM
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Speaking from the US, an adult is a human who has achieved the biological age of 18 years, with no further specification required. The teacher disciplines a student for being rambunctious, not for being a child. We criticize Karen's for fitting a behavioral pattern, not for being an adult woman. The issue is not defining good behavior in one's mind, it's applying a general term that can apply to a larger group. What if someone tells a promiscuous 20's female to stop being that and be a woman ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:01 PM
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The challenge for men is to become highly functioning and fulfilled without the company of a women. Being with a real woman can be very enjoyable, and worthy as one of the goals, but should not be mandatory as a successful LTR is not likely at any rate. Men should focus on being happy first, and let female companionship happen naturally, if at all. The ironic part is that a successful man with high self esteem is more attractive to women and makes him more likely to find a mate (assuming he want…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:26 PM
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Women love to define how they want men to behave and perform, and label it as being an "adult." In this way, they can accuse a man of not meeting their standards, usually being feminine, as not being an "adult," and it's variant's such as man-child and man-baby. When I see the word "adult," I assume there is some misandry coming. Many women like men being vulnerable, but only if, when, and how they would be vulnerable, and only if the man opens up to them in the proper way, which allows her to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:53 PM
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So true. It's been that way on this planet for a billion years, and isn't slowing down now. If you want the prize, show your plumage, or step aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:41 PM
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Maybe if they put "I will fuck on a regular basis" in their profile, men would know how much to bring?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 11:37 PM
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Wow, that's tough. It's probably not the right time, but maybe you two can get a way for a weekend without your son, in the woods or on a beach, and try to get back into dating mode. Without distraction, be the people who fell in love originally, open up, revisit each other, and decide if you can start all over again. He needs to figure out, again, that you're the person he can enjoy being with, have fun with, flirt, laugh, and share. Perhaps whatever you have been thru has clouded the real you …
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 10:01 PM
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Yeah, a people thing for sure. I think once people get together, a whole new dynamic takes over, and all of this stuff doesn't really mean anything. So, it's just the process of getting to the first date, the filtering process. Yet a funny thing is that few really know about stuff like sexual history anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:37 AM
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You said you've both been through a lot and are not the same people, which sounds kind of ominous. Has whatever happened just pushed you two apart? You said "learning to adapt" so I take that as a relationship still, at least in part, in flux? Not speaking when both of you are on the couch seems a bit awkward - is he naturally quite introverted?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 03:50 AM
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Men don't care about ideological consistency, so that's an academic issue, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:39 AM
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"men" means the average man. Chads are a reasonable small minority. It's apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:35 AM
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Both men and women do that for sure. The thing is, women are more likely to overlook that (his history) if they are attracted to the man and he checks the right boxes, whereas many men consider her history (low body count) as one of the boxes to be checked, and for some men, a very important box, even if they're not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:33 AM
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Yes, this. Enough status, and maybe tall, dark and handsome too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:11 AM
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So sorry to hear your story. What does he say when you talk to him about this? Those are some very long work hours - is he just burned out or exhausted when he gets home?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 03:01 AM
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Yes, def sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:33 PM
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I wonder if the hatred from men comes from a breakdown in the sexual, or general physical intimacy, part of the relationship. When that goes away, and men blame their partner for that, a lot of dark feelings can emerge, some seemingly related and some not. In that case, I imagine that men see their partner almost the way a woman does when she is a victim of abuse or assault, it's very personal and hurts the soul. Just my musing - please ignore me if that doesn't make sense (and it probably doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:47 PM
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I'm OG (50's) but spend a lot of time with older and younger folks. I'm good at getting along with everyone, yet given your comment, I'm glad that I have always been careful not to spend much time with men who have, for lack of a better term, low moral character, or those I would label as 'low cognitive ability'. I've heard men talk about their wives behavior or speech with a rolling of the eyes, mostly about being nagged or scolded about something we're discussing, but not true disdain, with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:13 PM
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This OP is foolish rage bait. I have never once heard a man say he hates his current wife. Men don't really talk about their wives, at least not seriously, that's a woman thing. Men will not have sex with a women they find "disgusting." Less or not so attractive, sure, for a hookup, esp after drinking. A woman who they wouldn't really consider for an LTR, sure. "Disgusting," no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:45 AM
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