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This is the video that is a great example I was talking about - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6NQiHtbpa8s
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:07 AM
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I did run across a book called "Pitch Anything" that deals with frame.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:05 AM
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Please recall that self-forgiveness of past transgressions helps in the exercise of willpower in the future. Giving yourself a label that allows for this process is not inherently bad. -See The willpower instinct. Taking this to the extreme can be costly and counterproductive (playing the victim). I agree with sticking to the winners and the basic idea of your post. I would warn against any true addicts/alcoholics to not seek help. Personally, willpower failed me with regards to drinking and I h…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 08:55 PM
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While AA may and often is used as a place to seek comfort and play the victim, this isn't the purpose (as I understand it), but rather to take ownership of your life and create healthy boundaries and not rely on drugs/alcohol to make you feel better while not working on yourself. There's nothing wrong with seeking out other strong men who got over their issues by working diligently on themselves and seeking their council. Obviously you have to seek out the good people and be choosy about your co…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 12:59 PM
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AA has helped me a lot through the years, but you have to see past a lot of bs there. You have to seek out quality people, which is difficult at best.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 12:41 AM
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It seems more /seduction than /trp to me, I guess I've taken the slow approach to growth, the the rewards are substantial. I have a friend who does it and he dates well above his level. Good luck
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:49 AM
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That's why I suggested hobbies, if you have a common bond, you can relate based on that. I'm not sure I'm suggesting you make new friends, find a way to make new acquaintances and be choosy about whom you call friend (I do). Learn to reward these people and punish them as they do what helps you. You at least seem interested in being more sociable, use these people as testing grounds, be interested in them, what they say etc. See if you can understand things from their perspective. Most people ar…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:20 AM
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I've personally never done it unless I feel comfortable, my advice is don't do it, focus on yourself and expanding your social network. Expand your hobbies and if you have to cheat, go volunteer at an animal shelter to meet new girls. Warm approach is far more preferred, after a while you get so comfortable socially that you don't even realize you are approaching randoms. Be friendly to everyone and not just the people you want to sleep with. Been around trp a bit and had great success, good luc…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 12:20 AM
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It's unique to the girl. Hard next her and gauge the reaction, go from there.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 09:44 PM
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I don't get that, do you talk about it with the butthurt? Talk about how great having kids is and how you have such an amazing relationship with them and your ex wife. If you don't have it then work on it.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 08:26 PM
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Lol, I love making bitches bring me shit.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:42 AM
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I've said all kinds of dumb shit about why/how I can't drink.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:20 AM
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There are a lot of people out there that don't drink or worse, can't drink - alcoholics for example. She may be one and its already uncomfortable for her. You may have made yourself off limits. Source - sober alcoholic
/r/askTRP15/01/16 05:16 AM
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just how -bluntly put- does the nature of females square with that? Are you trying to argue that women aren't perfectly suited to exploit men's weaknesses? You realize this is the red pill, where men have come to strengthen themselves, right? How do you square that? They are perfectly suited to keep men righteous. Someone is still living in Disney world. Marriage has nothing to do with love and everything to do with becoming the best version of yourself, by trial and tribulation. As a vestige of…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:50 AM
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The blue pill cannot stand any action taken against it.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 11:55 PM
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Tempted to pay for gold just to give it to this man. Bravo.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:10 AM
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Sometimes it's two steps forward and one step back. Discipline is a skill that takes practice, if it was easy, everyone would do it. Making the same mistakes over and over...those aren't mistakes, those are character defects, we all have them and it takes work to replace them with character traits. What is it you want to do? Have plates? Figure this out first and just fucking do it. I find that reading topics that interest me helps to exercise my mind, always something to do either self improvem…
/r/askTRP10/09/15 07:27 PM
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I agree, especially with number 2), I'm in an LTR and she is very strong willed when it comes to her moral compass, which leads to a lot of disagreements. However, these seem only to strengthen the relationship, not diminish it. I've had LTR's where there are no disagreements, it gets boring.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:15 PM
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Depends on what type of asshole you are dealing with, definitely read the 48 laws. For the easiest solution, just treat them as children, beneath you, don't worry about them because they don't matter. Show distain for their tactics and give them no mind.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 07:29 AM
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Why is everyone getting all butthurt? Seriously there was a thread like two days ago talking about how the red pill was not a democracy and we can ban whoever we want. Stfu, stop playing the victim like anybody owes you anything or did we forget that we aren't shit and totally disposable. Jesus F
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:07 AM
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Started at age 32, life great. Get ready bro, shits about to get interesting.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 12:23 AM
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I'm letting him stay at my place, ya can't really be helped and I didn't wanna write a wall of text explaining every detail.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:31 PM
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That's my understanding, from what I gather, the other guy said he won't mess around with the wife now.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:19 PM
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His marriage is falling apart, I took pity on him.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:18 PM
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He's a bible thumping nice guy, he's plugged in hard.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:18 PM
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I'm allowing a friend who is having to stay at my place temporarily while he works this out with his wife, according to him anyhow . She was staying here about every other night. No, plates don't come to the house, my plates all have places of their own. I'm in an open ltr that lives with me.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:17 PM
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The guys my roommate, my main chick is not his wife. I'm not sleeping with his wife. Lol. Me and main chick rent him a room, his wife visits.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 08:22 AM
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Their tactics are often much more subtle. I've noticed certain women will kino with men when they do tasks for them at work. Beware of when you are being trained.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 06:19 AM
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Thanks for this post, been feeling this a bit lately and starting to set new goals. It's so tempting to just stop and be like wow, I'm the man now. Let me relax.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:09 AM
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Can we talk about this a bit more....I get that obviously I'm not hanging with my boys enough. It seems that being with my plates often has caused me to be lazy, wanting to watch movies or do activities with little actually activity. The lifting continues as I refuse to let that drop off, any thoughts or ideas? I'm currently considering dropping them all and going monk for my sanity. My attitude with the plates hasn't been great either, breaking frame now and again. Is there a word for what's ha…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:30 PM
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Take the pussy off the pedestal. It doesn't matter why children do what they do on the playground, analyzing it would drive anyone insane. Just enjoy yourself man, they aren't important.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:45 AM
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Can't possibly see it as a bad thing for the people in your life to receive the benefit of your being around them, for them to be able to learn from you. Funny that trp likes to make children of women and you seem to be unwilling or refusing to take responsibility for their development. Rewarding good behaviors and punishing bad is a good thing. Depakote is a good mood stabilizer.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 02:35 AM
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Just wondering here if you could turn this into a profitable venture, perhaps contacts some execs somewhere and ask if they would like to meet some "nice girls". Make that shit true if it helps.
/r/askTRP27/12/14 04:49 AM
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Relevant quotes: Sometimes you have to slay some ogres/dragons to rescue the princess. Fat girls are like mopeds, fun to ride but you would t want your friends to see you on one. There's nothing wrong with using girls for practice, be social amd practice the tools that are outlined and sleep with them, get good at it all so the princess is easier to save. Eventually you will become skilled enough that none of this will be a problem, but recognize that it is a problem now and needs to be worked o…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:08 AM
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Your life is a mess and I have no idea why your posting here. Are you looking to improve? What the hell are you looking for and why did I just read this? Want some advice? You say you want to be open an honest even if it kills the relationship....ok...take the bluepill....otherwise improve yourself so that you are better than everyone else and can be honest about that.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 04:35 AM
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Why? This is a good article.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:50 AM
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Thanks so much for this! It's true, I've got two part time crap jobs that get me around women all day, I'm getting the best puss of my life and I make crap money compared to what I was making as a beta.... The sex is so amazingly more hot...the words dont do it justice...than the crap routine sex I got as a beta making 5 times as much.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:40 AM
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Not anything you can say to change it, once your blushing your hand has been tipped. The underlying problem is that your a perfectionist, so am I, you and I both need to learn to allow ourselves to be wrong and be ok with that. Self compassion, it's a learning process.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:05 AM
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I'd suggest reading the 48 laws of power, but more importantly you need to be more social with people and comfortable in that enviornment. Start treating these pointed jabs as shit tests, agree and amplify. You say they see you as less intelligent, the opposite is likely true which is why they view you as a threat and take shots. Agree with them, you are a total moron and need help, just lol that shit. Do not let them affect your emotional state, when you feel your heart tense up, know that you …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:35 AM
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This belongs on /r/thanktrp Really cool, too bad she drinks on pain meds.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 12:58 AM
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Merry Xmas! You know that really nasty thing you want her to do but she swears she won't, make her do that. ;)
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:05 AM
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I don't know if it's the season or what, but I'm feeling lonely. This is your main problem, you need to learn to be more yourself and stop giving a fuck if people like you. You say you have friends, if this is true, you should be getting companionship from them, if not than you must be holding back. I can't have fun with them because I need to find out if they're loyal, I can't be kind to them because I need to find out if they can be abusive, I can't talk about anything personal because I need …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:02 AM
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This belongs on /r/asktrp Stop being so butthurt, she did actually try to make new plans which is a very good sign, despite her irresponsiblity. If irresponsiblty is a deal breaker than just lol her and go no contact. Do not under any circumstances go on a rant with her, keep your emotional stability.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 11:41 PM
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Not a fan of the head on strategy for aa, stay in monk mode and when you stop being a bitch your biology will tell you by not giving you the aa, lifting seems to really help this. Also, be social to everyone, get comfortable being the man and enjoy the process, stop focusing on getting your dick wet, it's a byproduct of success, it's not success.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 11:37 PM
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Can confirm, child support has effectively made me poor, I now have an open ltr who has money and a house that I stay at. I'm also spinning plates and continuing to date. You really don't need money to get laid, I've taken quite a few girls for coffee and a walk on the beach that turned to sex on the beach. I find the money thing can be a good disqualifier too. It's not about money, is the world your playground or isn't it? She just wants to be along for the ride.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 03:40 PM
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This sounds familiar. Get high smv and a rich girlfriend. If you can't beat them....
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 08:32 AM
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Got high smv? Grab up some orbiters to use as emotional tampons. Got a plate you want to get rid of? Use her up. That wouldn't really be a consequence if your done with her anyway... Kind of a bitch move, but hey...
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:56 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 06:50 PM
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Start lifting.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 01:36 AM
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Saying unique things for unique women doesn't work?
/r/seduction08/09/14 02:45 AM
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The hierarchy is mostly a mess, it is not clearly defined at all. There really isn't much professional interaction here at all and I've taken to treating it like a social interaction. The GM and owners hang out with the staff and so on. Socially, I'm an asshole but you should have seen me a few years ago, this is improvement- this I also told to the girl in question. They uninvited me and some others without informing us, I was disappointed. What would you do? Update: I discussed the issue with …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 02:49 PM
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Perhaps I don't understand frame control, usually I view it as my ability to keep my emotions in check, as long as they are in check and I don't feel pressure from my heart I allow myself to speak freely.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 05:23 AM
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Lower the bar! Take that filter and toss it, just say anything on your mind. What you have to say is more important than anyone else, regardless of what they think about it.
/r/seduction09/08/14 05:58 PM
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Bravo!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 06:55 AM
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Don't need you to believe me. Kill yourself you sad little man.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 07:35 PM
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Yes, I'm a moron and am all talk, I'm gunna go cry myself to sleep now.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:31 AM
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Message a mod, maybe they care how you feel about it.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:03 PM
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Yes, obviously teaching a lesson does not imply hitting someone, actually had a good conversation with op. I made it clear that death was the only option for offenses made against my family, it's not personal.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 10:52 PM
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PM'd, not my child, but as fair warning, I'd like to put out there that if you make a move like this, you should get to know who the family is and if you are really the one who should be captain of the ship.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:54 AM
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That's all good until you run into the fact that it's another mans child. I have an ex and a three year old son with her. Just like you, I would give you one warning not to hit my child, then the police would never recover your fucking body. There are much better ways to discipline a child, especially one that's not yours. Honestly, I wish this were my child, so I could teach you a lesson in manners.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:35 AM
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Just befriend them, if you wish them ill it will show in your frame and actions. They should naturally move away if you are more stable than them and if they refuse to even though they are less stable they will just get pissed and look stupid. Have no fear, irritation or outcome dependence and say whatever the fuck you want from that place.
/r/seduction27/05/14 08:24 AM
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Where do you live? Have you checked out all the local spots? Find something new and exciting for you both, a museum, a hike, a new food spot, look up events happening in your area.
/r/seduction03/04/14 05:58 AM
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Have a friend mindset, just make a new friend.
/r/seduction27/03/14 03:22 AM
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Me and a few guys are going out on Friday, you got yourself a group that goes out? What's up?
/r/seduction27/02/14 02:18 AM
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Great, got a number? I'll send you a message and let you know when myself/some people are heading out. How old are you and how long you been at it?
/r/seduction04/01/14 08:58 AM
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She just moved back in after the infestation was exterminated, but all her furniture was gone, including the bed. Ya, she doesn't seem to have her shit together much.
/r/seduction14/12/13 08:16 AM
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