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If you’re a guy going out with your buddy that’s significantly taller than you, you’re asking for stuff like this to happen. Or your taller friend should be taken or gay preferably haha.
/r/seduction21/06/26 11:03 PM
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I can’t stand posts like this as much as the sappy sad ones. They’re both non-productive and repetitive. It’s about your energy, what you say, and what you bring to the table - both in terms of personality and how much you have your life together.
/r/seduction03/04/26 05:09 PM
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Obviously you want that but how do you do it?
/r/seduction01/04/26 03:04 PM
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not sure where kino comes in here. but yes this is a fun move if you can place it in the right part of the date/interaction, and obviously keep the vibe going for awhile after.
/r/seduction10/03/26 03:14 AM
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Ignore her at dinner and then go to your room and play video games.
/r/seduction02/03/26 06:51 PM
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hot take maybe, but never get a lady flowers before she’s 100% your girlfriend. You’re official, had sex, generally a decent amount of commitment and investment. Sorry you might have hit it off but three dates is nothing.
/r/seduction24/02/26 09:18 PM
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Indirect openers (asking for directions or whatever) imo is a big no-no. You’re going up and talking to because you think she’s attractive and you want to hook up with her or date her. Just be honest while being confident, calm (as if it’s no big deal youre going up and talking to a beautiful woman who is a stranger), pleasant, and direct. All of those silly tricks and pick up lines are corny. They’re ultimately putting her on a weird pedestal/position and you can never do that. Just talk to her…
/r/seduction16/02/26 06:33 AM
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what is actually your process for same day lays? beyond just being funny and exciting, how do you phrase and frame from meeting them to going home to screwing?
/r/seduction08/02/26 09:44 PM
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I agree and understand all of this very clearly. You have to look at yourself as the cool fun person they want, not looking at them as the hot chick you really wanna bang. However, it doesn't aid whatsoever in being able to be this way and get this done etc. "be fun and present in the moment" isn't really actionable advice or a concise strategy, you may as well say "good luck have fun buddy" nothing you don't see on a cheesey poster in grade school.
/r/seduction08/02/26 09:34 PM
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The number one rule is authenticity and confidence, belief that you are 100% good enough now and forever for any and all women. You show up to all interactions with the mentality that things will go well. If it doesn’t go well, you adjust accordingly , you get a hard no you move on. Rule two is, in the early parts of dating, you want her to feel good around you and associate you with good feelings - you want to be a source of joy, arousal, fun, intrigue, positive outcomes/future(even if it isn’t…
/r/seduction07/02/26 07:34 PM
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It’s a lot more empty to have no sex, no connections, no good dates, no experience than to sleep with a bunch of women you aren’t in love with.
/r/seduction06/02/26 06:19 PM
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Being your own man and living the life you want (not winning the lottery or some shit, but having your life together and making a good living) will do wonders for your confidence. Otherwise, fake it till you make it and try to pass it off as not a big deal.
/r/seduction03/02/26 09:09 AM
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I don’t think she was testing you. If you’ve never established any kind of notable romantic/sexual report before, suddenly speaking as if you’re going on a date the future - is weird and unexpected. Did you ask her about dating or tease her about going out in any way? Again everything points to this being odd and uncalled for. What if the last time you saw her at the gym you greeted her with “hey baby how’s it going?” That’s equally like…not called for between you two. It sounds like you like he…
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:58 AM
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Actually it's the opposite. Just because someone is attractive enough to have sex with multiple times, that doesn't make them your soulmate. The threshold for life partner is way higher and more profound than friends with benefits.
/r/seduction03/02/26 06:15 AM
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this doesn't really tell the whole story. how does that make you different from someone they just joke around with when they randomly see around, as opposed to someone they are interested in having sex with? as well how do you make the interactions over time not repetitive/predictable?
/r/seduction03/02/26 06:13 AM
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"i work the corners. 1 dollar to see it. 2 dollars to touch it." the fuk does that even mean lmfao...sounds like some edge lord shit a cartoon character would say.
/r/seduction03/02/26 06:09 AM
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You know when you’re happy with your life and you behave accordingly, including your love life. Deep down you know you’re living the life you want to, moving towards your goals, having fun with your friends, etc.
/r/seduction18/01/26 11:54 PM
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Approaching women and meeting them and dating is obviously a numbers game. I think the idea of thinking of it as an “experiment” is silly. Live your life. Try your best to develop your social skills, build up confidence by having more experience with women. Be direct and confident but still fun/lighthearted, don’t take any sort of rejection personally. But also don’t look at it as this emotionless “experiment” like the world and women are your guinea pig, you are part of the world and each perso…
/r/seduction18/01/26 10:02 PM
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I feel like that just makes me more self conscious and uncomfortable rather than in the zone. Can you be more specific? I feel like being by self conscious about being in the right “state” to be social/get chicks is kind of a crutch, no?
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:31 PM
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My biggest problem is that I don’t have anything to offer (what should I have to offer that’s exciting to a great chick?), I live in an apartment where I can’t be loud at night (I can’t even watch a movie, let alone have sex freely), and I always feel like coming up with new compelling dates is such a stressful chore. Oh and money is tight…paying for my own things, let alone these hobbies you suggest, let alone dates, ugh that is so stressful.
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:28 PM
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Goodness gracious you jumped the shark or two. I don’t lie to or manipulate anyone, at least in a way that is malicious. I don’t even have the skill set for such a thing personally. I do however know that in life things are messy, no one is perfect, and each little “rule” for each little moment in life isn’t always so obvious. Obviously completely taking advantage of someone and fucking them over and sending them spiraling is bad. However a few white lies to get the night progressing is somethin…
/r/seduction23/11/25 09:57 PM
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Agreed, if you make them a certain type of way, they’ll be kissing your ass. You need to show up correctly and progress things right, it isn’t always easy…but that’s the gist of it.
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:55 AM
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Agreed. Women (usually, obviously not 100% of all women ever) don’t want be perceived as a sl*t even if they’re looking for casual sex. So you have to ease them into, frame it as you’re going back to your place to watch a TV show and have a glass of wine, etc. and then the sex “just happened” …we all tell little white lies to keep the social situation flowing sweetly.
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:53 AM
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If you live your entire life and you can tell yourself you’ve been a “good person” but you are sad, alone, led a boring unremarkable life with nothing to show for it - no adventure, romance, sex, art, etc. but you can only say you’ve been whatever your version of “good” is…that actually sounds miserable. You actually have to live for yourself at some point. You might break someone’s heart, disappoint people, not always do the most politically correct and peaceful thing. But you’re actually livin…
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:47 AM
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That’s silly. You could tell the truth to a woman you’re about to sleep with that you just had horrible diarrhea and that would also probably turn her off from having sex. OP isn’t saying he’s about to propose to every woman he meets at a bar. He’s just saying he’s acting more devoted than he really is (maybe he has some examples where he’s really bad, idk if he’s lying about wearing a condom or something really scummy like that.) At the end of the day, you do whatever you can within the bounds …
/r/seduction19/11/25 03:40 AM
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I think his problem is that he does not know what fuckboy energy is at all and needs an explanation of what that is and how to do it.
/r/seduction10/11/25 05:16 AM
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While not the worst advice ever, not really that appropriate to what OP is looking for. You’re writing this like he’s some virgin who’s about to take his own life because he can’t get laid. He really doesn’t sound that pathetic. Yes, a positive mindset where you are 100/100 confident in yourself no matter what is key but I think he grasps that. What he really needs is more specific and technical. He wants to understand the actual social dynamics of casual sex, the sequence and progression of the…
/r/seduction10/11/25 05:14 AM
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While technically correct in some ways, this is meaningless advice. TLDR you’re telling him to “just” be an awesome person with a super cool and interesting life who’s been successful and has tons of fun stories to tell the girl to give them the impression that he’s amazing and she’s lucky to have met him etc. No shit. Everyone who’s ever lived wants to be that person and knows that’s an attractive person to be. But in this context you’re just telling an NBA player during a time out “yo dude jus…
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:43 AM
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I hate this idea that "perfection" means that you are mindlessly mailable and agreeable. It is very similar to the "I did everything right and she still didn't like me/left me." If it is a flaw or weakness or drawback in a given field, it disqualifies you from perfection instantly. Maybe being what you think of as nice is good in one context, but here that trait is bad so it is a flaw, thus someone who exhibits it is not "perfect". Of course, in some cases a negative quality can be irrelevant. M…
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:25 AM
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TLDR: always try to be unique and compelling in conversation, and practice that as much as possible.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:17 AM
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