BaabyBear Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Do women actually liked to be approached? "only the tip of the iceberg in considering..." that applies to talking about virtually any topic.	/r/seduction	26/02/25 10:28 AM
1	How do you get over just feeling super awkward if you go out by yourself? Especially if you don't have friends and aren't super talkative? give yourself a few good habits. these will make you feel good about yourself. yes your goal weight might be a little bit far away, but the confidence boost you'll get for putting in the work will kick in after a week or two of sticking with it. Don't be afraid to give yourself a little credit too. self talk works both ways, we can build ourselves up or tear ourselves down. Sounds like you could use some practice building yourself up, but at the same time you need to develop some evidence that y…	/r/seduction	03/06/24 09:13 AM
5	Is height really that important? I think they mean that growth seems like an option. Have you ever been around someone that seems like they’re going to stay the same way forever?	/r/seduction	06/01/22 08:09 PM
5	Calling it a day for once. I respect your choice to turn away from “seeking out” seduction advice. You said women don’t find you attractive despite all the changes you’ve made. Could it be as simple as your flirt game needs work?	/r/seduction	08/11/21 03:33 PM
2	I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice? YO sounds like you have a lot of good examples that you can look at and adapt their social skills. You said you never learned, so learn! Use people you see with good social skills and focus on those skills and practice them. slowly things will click if you just give it some good thought and practice.	/r/seduction	29/07/21 07:30 AM
48	Finally broke the Gym Code Op thickens… his quads nailing those squats	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:25 PM
1	Girls texts you fun party pics but no invite LOL not that deep down	/r/seduction	28/02/21 11:52 AM
-1	How To Seduce Women (By Channeling Sexual Energy) nice	/r/seduction	11/02/21 12:16 PM
3	When you finally sleep with the girl does anyone just think omg is this real? Wait what? Tell me you’re joking	/r/seduction	18/09/20 04:20 AM
4	Does height matter? So a few things to realize is that even funny people bomb jokes and no one laughs. Even charismatic people have awkward silences and fuck up their stories. With that in mind this developing of skills is really going to be consistently practicing, and watching the people around you for demonstrations. This is the EASIEST way to develop social skills when you’re as clueless as I was. First you have to drop your personal biases. You like the person? Hate the person? Doesn’t matter. To develop skill…	/r/seduction	11/07/20 09:11 PM
8	Does height matter? Do you have siblings? If so, do you act a lot differently when with them than with other people? A lot of us create this veil of fakeness to get through our day. It looks something like a quiet, shy version of yourself then you get home and relax and it comes off. Essentially all the skills you’re developing are along the lines of bringing out that ‘home version’ of yourself, and amplifying your weak spots. Without talking to you I wouldn’t know what your weak spots are, but I can guess based on…	/r/seduction	11/07/20 08:14 PM
11	Does height matter? Look at it like this. You might prefer thin girls but does that mean you won’t have a chubby one ? No not if she’s cool af and u guys click right? Girls are like this. There are some things you can change. And some things you can’t. 5”6 is kind of short but it’s not what will drive girls away. But a sulky persona definitely will. A good attitude and social skills trumps physical appearance after 10 min anyways. What I’m trying to say is that even if you grew 6” overnight you’re not about to have…	/r/seduction	11/07/20 08:00 PM
27	How to 'fake it til you make it'?? It’s true that your posture is important when you’re walking but it’s also super important in social situations. First let’s explain what “fake it til u make it” really means. If you’re in a group situation , and you’re standing with hour head down and your hands in your pockets not only are people going to think you’re unconfident and reserved, but you will feel more reserved and in turn act more on the shy side. So since you’re acting shy, you feel shy, and people think you’re shy, BAM you’re …	/r/seduction	28/06/20 06:48 PM
1	Difference between vulnerability and being feminine? Thanks for the thought out response :)	/r/seduction	24/06/20 06:31 AM
1	Difference between vulnerability and being feminine? When I first meet people, I usually have to talk to someone by themselves before I’m comfortable with them, and group settings are very hard for me	/r/seduction	23/06/20 08:43 PM
2	How to cause adrenaline rush and cut the first date short? I agree, but this is r/seduction not r/relationships ya know?	/r/seduction	22/06/20 05:22 PM
2	How to cause adrenaline rush and cut the first date short? Game for a woman and game for a man aren’t the same thing.	/r/seduction	21/06/20 05:55 PM
2	How to cause adrenaline rush and cut the first date short? You know this from your immense world experience? What is this sub about if not figuring out the tricks and know-how’s of social mating? If you had as much experience as you suggest, you’d see that her ‘techniques’ are simply putting the power on the woman’s side and making the dude thirsty. Idk if u ever had a girl ask you out, but it doesn’t have that same appeal to the girl that flirts with you sometimes then ignores u sometimes. There ARE magic rules and techniques. They’re not 100% but they…	/r/seduction	21/06/20 05:54 PM
1	Difference between vulnerability and being feminine? Thanks for this tidbit. That distinction seems so clear after u say it. Any general advice on maintaining a strong frame?	/r/seduction	21/06/20 05:43 PM
2	I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said. misterdobalinamisterbobdobalina	/r/seduction	14/03/20 07:20 AM
10	Game with low dopamine state? He’s saying stay away from preworkout drinks/products, in the context of dopamine serotonin and mindfulness, preworkout will just have you amped.	/r/seduction	14/04/19 07:48 PM
1	How do I become the guy women chase after? Yes I agree with you. But it’s hard to sense desperation if a girl doesn’t make some sort of move. So to be in a situation where a girl might seem desperate would probably be one where she’s making a move of some sort. Yes my logic is stretched but still true. To be desperate you’re putting yourself out there (making a move) in some form. Gracelessly. To be in this situation as a girl you’re probably average looking at best. To be sure there are other examples of attractive and desperate girls. …	/r/seduction	31/03/19 02:04 AM
1	How do I become the guy women chase after? Less attractive girls have less practice with social interactions, Get less attention in general or more negative attention Are going to be making first moves. In general less attractive girls have to make the first move. And let’s be honest. An attractive girl approaching guys period. When does that happen	/r/seduction	30/03/19 10:08 PM
2	How do I become the guy women chase after? To get girls chasing u need to be valuable. And a man in hunt for a girl just isn’t a valuable man. So u need to give the hunt a break and focus on being valuable and assessing what this means to you. What characteristics you choose to be of value is going to dictate the kind of women you get access to. If u think having a good body is valuable then u go work on that. After that you’ll have the attention of girls that think having a good body is valuable. You see what I’m saying? There is no “al…	/r/seduction	30/03/19 06:56 PM
5	How do I become the guy women chase after? You definitely can. It tends to be less attractive girls	/r/seduction	30/03/19 06:49 PM
1	Is it worth getting the mens health magazine? And in this case op you don’t need to buy or subscribe to anything. Just go check them out at your local bookstore and flirt up some smart educational types	/r/seduction	24/03/19 05:35 PM
3	Got rejected brutally There was definitely something in the air that night.	/r/seduction	11/02/19 07:52 PM
3	Solo clubbing advice - UK I would say be yourself. Girls like confidence so just start with that	/r/seduction	14/01/19 12:47 AM
2	Afraid of being denied? Try this! I could see the lisp slipping from his lips	/r/seduction	09/12/18 11:31 PM
2	(28/m) I’ll do anything to help me get over my approach anxiety. But I find it super difficult. Any advice? Hey! Congratulations man, the fact that you reach out is a huge step that many men find too daunting to do. I think people are not only too critical with themselves but they also don’t give themselves enough credit. While I don’t think you should be constantly comparing yourself to others, you may find some comfort or confidence in the fact that many men aren’t as bold as you are in that instance. I think you are very close to your prize, if you are able to speak when you want it’s just about re…	/r/seduction	09/09/18 10:49 PM
18	(28/m) I’ll do anything to help me get over my approach anxiety. But I find it super difficult. Any advice? I’ll try to keep this short. Approach anxiety is not some kind of disorder that select few have. Approach anxiety just describes a feeling that literally everybody that feels things feels. The people that have “gotten over it” have just made a decision. I’m gonna give you a solid piece of advice. More like addressing the elephant in the room. Approaching a stranger is inherently awkward in this day and age, most people aren’t prepared to do it, and guess what, most people aren’t prepared to rece…	/r/seduction	09/09/18 06:41 PM