Baboonofpeace Archive

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2	No one cares about men It’s a good question, and answer varies, depending on the individual. What I am NOT doing any more is dwelling on the past and letting it consume me. I can’t change the friends and family who turned their back on me. I can’t go back and get all the years and money and energy. I wasted on an empty marriage. I’m not pissing away my time sitting in my recliner, drinking all day with the curtains drawn. I moved to a different country and I’m learning a second language. I cleaned up my diet and losin…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/25 12:15 PM
1	No one cares about men I’m coming up on 5 years after 40 year marriage (65). Finally getting back to normal. I wish I gave myself 30 days to get the tears out of the way, then let it all go. I wasted 4+ precious years brooding over it. We don’t have many years ahead of us… make them count brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/11/25 02:01 AM
1	Show your tattoos It took me way too long in life to figure out that if you respond after your emotions settle down… Or better yet just keep your mouth shut… there’s nothing to regret or apologize for. I love that feeling.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/25 04:05 PM
2	Show your tattoos Way to go… love the attitude.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/25 06:13 AM
6	Thirteen Years, and a Grief I Didn’t See Coming Be careful of catching the feelings, then you’ll be right back where you started	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/25 02:12 PM
18	Thirteen Years, and a Grief I Didn’t See Coming I’m at the 5 year mark, and feeling 90% back to normal. 40 years married. Lost money, friends, kids, sobriety. Devastating. But it was a waste of precious time to grieve. I should have given myself 30 days to cry about it, then turned my back to the past and let it all go. There’s a reason you see the same old advice repeated over and over in this sphere. Stay away from drugs and alcohol. Work on yourself. Exercise and diet. Meditate, pray, and focus. Set reasonable goals, and start building a n…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/25 06:11 AM
2	Divorce has made life quieter and more peaceful, but also a lot harder Uber Abuela to Applebees for a few hours? Bang at the girls place? Let’s get creative!	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/25 07:49 PM
7	What did you learn from your divorce? That evil can come in a pretty package.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/25 12:19 PM
2	What do I say to a friend going through a divorce? If I were you, I would be very careful (and it sounds like you’re trying to be). You sound intelligent and reflective, so I would advise you to think where your personal lines would be when it comes to encouraging him. They’re going to be some things that you’re just not going to be helpful as a young woman friend. Some things a man just has to work through on his own and you can’t go there with him.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 08:27 PM
3	Divorce has made life quieter and more peaceful, but also a lot harder Everybody has a different situation and maybe my suggestion wouldn’t fit yours… But if you have a room to spare, you might search out a lonely Abuela that would love to come in and keep the place clean and do meal prep and exchange for room and board. There’s a lot of lonely grandma’s out there that would love nothing better than to bake cookies, make coffee, make tacos and their favorite meals for a single dad and his daughter. It would give them someone to love and a purpose in life. It would …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 08:20 PM
1	Full of resentment I don’t know, man… I’m five years post divorce after a 40 year marriage. I really don’t want to hate, but a woman destroyed my life and everything I worked for. I’m lonely and horny as if I was 16 years old again. In a strange way, I still believe in true love. I just don’t think I’ll ever find it. Every single woman I look at now, no matter how hot and sexy, I ask myself a simple question: “other than those tits and ass, what is she going to bring to the table“? In other words, is she going to …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/10/25 05:37 AM
1	How do I avoid getting fucked in the divorce (ca)? Buy gold and stash out of the country. Move other assets out of the jurisdiction.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/25 05:10 PM
1	Hard mode : loneliness and celibacy This is an old post, so I apologize for jumping in late. I divorced my wife after 40 years (valid reasons). Post divorce life as an older man with Christian convictions adds a layer of difficulty. Four decades of stress and heartbreak, as well as losing half of my assets has wrecked me for wanting to ever be married again. But sex outside of marriage is immoral, yeah? So I’m boxed in. Not going to get married … but can’t see escorts, get a FWB, date casually, etc., etc.. so it’s a weird zone to …	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/25 08:29 PM
5	I’m Floundering Boys You really are going to be OK… If you’re careful. Being fit is important, but you don’t have to be in the gym four hours a day. Go for a long walk every day for at least one hour. Stay away from drugs and alcohol for now. Do the basics like personal hygiene, keep the house clean and the bed made. The little chores keep you busy as well as keeping your environment squared away. It took me a solid four years to feel somewhat normal. I’m terribly lonely, but I’m staying away from relationships for …	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/25 07:21 PM
3	Why the fuck would anyone get married again? The PPP is strong. It’s too bad that post nut clarity doesn’t last longer than about ten minutes.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/25 07:08 PM
2	Admitting you got divorced because of a dead bedroom Everyone gets banned other there unless you are a complete simp. It’s a badge of honor	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/24 12:18 AM
1	Handling depression. I don’t know if there is a magic bullet that makes it go away. People have tried many coping strategies… Leaning on friends, support groups, writing out your feelings, stay busy, stay focused, one day at a time philosophy, etc. etc. I’d say they’re all good but it’s not gonna make the depression go away. It just makes it where you can endure it until it starts to fade with time. For god sake, stay away from substance-abuse . If you start drinking in your depression and rewire your brain for depe…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/23 03:20 PM
2	I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage. Oof. I felt that one right in the kidneys	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/23 11:41 PM
1	I'm in the anger stage of grief, and it has opened my eyes to the truth of marriage. 😂	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/23 11:36 PM
2	Is anyone else thinking about deliberately staying single as a life decision? 40 yrs and 2 years out. Brutal also. It’s hard not to be cynical.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 05:22 PM
6	Security drops annoying blonde in Ukraine I wasn't trying to be literal, jfc. I know the difference	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/21 07:16 PM
129	Security drops annoying blonde in Ukraine I was kinda hoping he would get dropped too	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/21 02:03 PM
60	Security drops annoying blonde in Ukraine Got to give her credit for keeping her legs modestly closed after the KO.	/r/PussyPassDenied	21/08/21 01:28 PM