Babybearstarlight Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
535	When I’m doubt, DO NOT give men the benefit of the doubt.	RED FLAG 🚨	Babybearstarlight	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/21 11:28 PM

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8	REMINDER: Playing devil's advocate is a social fauxpas, and men who do it are LV It’s not even about playing devils advocate and “hAvInG a BalAnCeD ViEw” anymore. It’s about saying something that contradicts what you’re saying. You could literally say “the sun is a star” and they’ll say something that contradicts that so much like “no it’s actually boiling water” or something and it drives me insane. It’s not about a balanced view. It’s about contradicting you to feel more in control at the cost of your sense of self. They can’t be right about something on their own. It has …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/22 12:24 PM
15	This ain’t no Build-A-Boy, ya know? This is not loyalty. This is being his mommy. There’s a fine line between support and wiping his ass for him. Scrotes will go out of their way to put the mommy figures on a pedestal like “she was there when I had nothing” and turn around and cheat on her. Never feel bad for leaving someone who’s a work in progress. They’ll pull out every line in the book, all along the lines of “you’re SUPPOSED to help me grow!” And what? Leave you out in the sun for 3-4 hours and water you 5 times a day and fee…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 01:59 PM
24	When I’m doubt, DO NOT give men the benefit of the doubt. This! A guy that actually cares about you will SHOW you. Everything else is just excuses to see how long he can string you along. Actions > everything else	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 04:49 PM
18	When I’m doubt, DO NOT give men the benefit of the doubt. Absolutely! “Hear him out” is just “in what ways am I going to let him blow smoke up my ass and make me feel guilty for trusting my gut”. Every time we give a LVM the benefit of the doubt, we start trusting our gut instincts less and less.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 04:44 PM
42	When I’m doubt, DO NOT give men the benefit of the doubt. Another classic- the “wasn’t my intention” line. Intentions mean absolutely nothing when the action has already done it’s damage. Actions speak louder than words and especially a lot louder than intentions. You’re spot on with this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 03:06 AM
30	When I’m doubt, DO NOT give men the benefit of the doubt. He sounds so toxic taking advantage of your empathy like that. The audacity, honestly. I’m so glad you’re out of that situation!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 02:10 AM
72	When I’m doubt, DO NOT give men the benefit of the doubt. 100% this. If he wanted to, he would have. Simple as that. No if’s or but’s.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 12:48 AM
23	Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling. Reading that gave me whiplash. I think I need to go lay own. That poor woman. I hope she leaves his ass and actually makes a better life for herself- buys herself stuff and spoils herself and let men take care of themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/11/21 03:51 PM