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MALE DEPRAVITYBacheegs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:36 PM
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QUEEN SH*TBacheegs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:01 PM
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SCROTES MADBacheegs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:52 PM
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SCROTES MADBacheegs/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:50 PM
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Oh my god no do not ask a girl about her race or where her family is from it’s really quite offensive
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:45 PM
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I don’t think a man has ever been grossed out by me but they tell me how they feel about other women.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:09 PM
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Not at all, my body is pretty incredible, I’m beautiful. I’m not interested in ‘masculine’ men I’m interested in kind, caring, intelligent, men
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:07 PM
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All of my guy friends are on there and they actually want partners not to get laid. so no, not 100% but a large majority
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:07 AM
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Not true, high value men have standards and can't always find someone they have things in common with. Single people merely just haven't found someone compatible, we can easily find SOMEONE but those people are often of low compatibility/value or whatever you want to call it.
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:06 AM
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I mean.... if all he wants is to get laid and doesn't want to be a friend or something and actually care about a person, if all he cared about is a few of her body parts.... thats what treating her like meat is....
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:02 AM
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Whoa um no, she's not 'using you' for sexual pleasure. Using someone is different than having fun casual dates
/r/seduction28/08/22 02:01 AM
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Absolutely, you can have fun and still treat someone like they have value for something other than their sex organs. You know, thats what friendship and things are for....
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:59 AM
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I said the majority not all, I will say about 99% of men on dating apps are this way from my experience.
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:56 AM
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Yea but try telling a man this..... the majority either see us at meat and can't have any sort of self control to be friends or are grossed out by us physically
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:53 AM
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Yea but masculinity sometimes comes with violence and toxicity, when a man seems to masculine we don't feel safe sometimes because those are the guys that force us into things we dont want to do
/r/seduction28/08/22 01:43 AM
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I’m a little bit confused partially because the post has been taken down… what does other parts of Reddit have anything to do with FDS? Mods don’t need to see what’s on those dark corners of reddit, only approved users can comment and post here so what am I missing? Btw I am a very active user, I was even on the podcast. I’ve volunteered to admin as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/22 03:16 AM
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Well when you’re in a new city you appear on most peoples searches. If you weren’t matching locally it’s because you exhausted all of the local options
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:45 PM
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Actually the data is pretty good that most long lasting relationships are from apps. It’s really hard to meet people in person
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:49 PM
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What’s your starting to talk about makes a little bit more sense now but from what you were replying to earlier made you seem like a huge jerk. Sure being attractive ’works’ in that it gets you a foot in the door. All guys do online is interview us. They ask about where we grew up and what our favorite ice cream flavor is and they can’t have any semblance of a conversation back-and-forth all they can manage to do is ask questions: I actually put something in my profile that you’re not allowed to…
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:30 PM
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I mean the guy that’s been replying a bunch is married
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:20 PM
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You’re married why do you care if there’s a man around me? Also yea if you’re at a coffee shop that makes sense, but that’s not what the op is talking about and neither am i. I think what you do for work and fun comprises the most basic parts of who you are and how you connect with people, it’s ridiculous you think those questions are too personal or invasive. Honestly i do like short cuts, I have limited time and energy so i want to invest in people that are the best matches for me. A married g…
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:03 PM
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That’s the question you’re replying to… like did you even read the post or anything i said? I asked ‘why should i stop in target and talk to you’ and you replied ‘because I have urges’
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:46 PM
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That’s the most misogynistic shit I’ve ever heard ‘a woman owes me a conversation and a date because I have primal instincts that need to be satisfied’ like really?
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:44 PM
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No one has nothing to do with worthiness it’s just like why should I stop doing what I’m doing in target to talk to you? All men think they’re entitled to our time and energy. They think we owe them dates, and a chance. We don’t owe you anything, and the only reason you want that chance is because of our looks, it’s gross
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:39 PM
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That’s the point, we don’t want to get to know you if you come up to us randomly in public. Like why would we want to talk to you? It’s not us interviewing you for a position. How can you know if you fit someone though without knowing anything about them? Because she’s hot?
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:32 PM
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What were your reasons
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:23 PM
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Then tell them about yourself, what you do for work and fun and see if you have anything in common. Women don’t want to get to know random strange men, the only reason you want to get to know us is because we are pretty, so give us information we can use to form a connection
/r/seduction19/08/22 01:16 PM
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The reason we say this is because you don’t have a profile and you refuse to tell us anything about yourself. Try actually making a profile that tells us about yourself so we can see if we have anything in common with you
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:54 PM
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Oh this is so gross
/r/seduction19/08/22 12:52 PM
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There are male surrogates, it’s helpful for some disabled women that I’ve worked with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 07:07 PM
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You can give us specifics. Sometimes they’re not going to be at their best and you can support them as long as you don’t take mistreatment
/r/askFDS26/03/22 06:59 PM
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Every HVM that I deeply loved did not give me an attraction on the first date, it took time. Every LVM i've dated gave me an instant attraction that made me blind to seeing the negatives, don't be like I was, definitely see the flags and let them go. Don't waste your time but also, let me tell you the attraction you get that builds... holy crap that's powerful and you can trust it when they show you they are a hvm versus just getting it from one meeting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 03:29 AM
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I'm not saying it's ok, those men get ignored by me, but this is clearly a good man that just doesn't do one thing she wants him to, it's ok to communicate wants and needs in that case if he has proven himself.
/r/askFDS25/02/22 05:28 PM
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Men are taught they are too desperate if they do things like this, that's why they wait a few days to text sometimes. I think in this case you should tell him what you like and see if he does it.
/r/askFDS25/02/22 03:56 AM
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I totally know that feeling and i'm sorry you're going through that too. In this instance I don't think you should be focusing on what you did wrong. You will find someone who is worthy of you, he wasn't.
/r/askFDS29/11/21 04:44 AM
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In most cases it’s a red flag when a guy lives that far away and is looking for a long-distance girlfriend. Unless you guys are part of a specific type of church group or there is a reason you can’t find somebody local it’s a red flag to me. It’s not a red flag that he asked you for options because you may want to explore his city. I love when men give options, I think it shows respect for what I might want instead of just what he wants.
/r/askFDS21/11/21 10:19 AM
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The one on the discord? Or am i missing one somewhere else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:27 PM
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I think I high-value man treats his male friends the same as his female friends. He doesn’t lust after his female friends they are a quality part of his life. I haven’t seen anything on fds that says men shouldn’t have female friends. If you would not like your man to that’s your decision but I don’t think it’s a Norm here
/r/askFDS13/05/21 11:55 AM
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Ummm what? No I don’t get this vibe at all. He was having trouble before and found something that actually gets him a chance
/r/seduction10/05/21 04:49 PM
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It’s not leading them on, it’s good to date multiple people. Do you seriously assume that after one date a person is going to be exclusive?
/r/seduction10/05/21 04:46 PM
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They see your face on the pictures on the app you met though right?
/r/seduction10/05/21 04:45 PM
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It sounds like you base attraction on your autonomic nervous system, like many people that have had trauma. The spark and feelings you feel, are the sympathetic nervous system, which only fires when you are going to lose someone, or when you think you're not good enough, or when the other person is a jerk etc. Real love is secure and doesn't always come with sparks initially. If he is everything you want, I would give him a chance, and see if it comes. Sometimes 5-6 dates in, the spark ignites
/r/askFDS08/05/21 03:57 AM
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I’ve read fds things that say ‘all men are incapable of self control when it comes to video games’ and honestly from what I see in my guy friends and boyfriend that’s not true. Certainly many many men can’t control themselves with lots of things, and video games are uniquely addictive, but if you find a good man that happens to play video games to unwind when you’re not around I really don’t see a problem with it, especially if he can profit on twitch.
/r/askFDS11/03/21 04:06 AM
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Knowing narcissism, none of what you said sounds like it. Just because someone isn’t a narcissist doesn’t mean they aren’t awful. He seems emotionally stunted, maybe avoidant attachment style, but huge red flags regardless.
/r/askFDS04/03/21 02:58 AM
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If they are dating his friends, that’s a good reason to keep them friendly. Does he use those words and talk about boning women? Or is he just friendly with people that things didn’t work out with? I think it’s different. And if you are assuming he wouldn’t be ok with you doing it, did he say something to that effect? Jealous dudes are huge red flags
/r/askFDS26/02/21 04:13 PM
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Absolutely!!
/r/askFDS21/02/21 11:29 PM
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Sorry if I misunderstood. It’s hard meeting men that meet our expectations, I’m older as well than most of the fds ladies, and it’s certainly harder as we age
/r/askFDS21/02/21 10:36 PM
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You can have needs and expectations in what another person is and can offer. But expecting them to be your everything and meet all your needs isn’t very fds and not healthy. If that makes more sense
/r/askFDS21/02/21 10:29 PM
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Honestly, you can’t expect any human to fulfill all your needs. You have to meet them and be happy being single. Then you find someone you enjoy in your life that treats you respectfully and is what you want in a partner. Meeting every need you have isn’t something a partner should do because it’s codependent and unhealthy
/r/askFDS21/02/21 06:31 PM
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There are certainly more men than you think that can have good jobs that are flexible. Many people are going to have the option to telework now with covid. I would keep looking, it’s definitely not a lost cause
/r/askFDS20/02/21 05:06 PM
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Honestly, the best way is to put yourself out there and realize there are good men who will treat you like you deserve. It’s hard to see now, I totally get it
/r/askFDS18/02/21 07:37 PM
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As many as your schedule allows for you to see each of them 1-2 times per week. Also agree with not being sexual with all of them, fds says wait for commitment for sex anyway. Talk to many online before meeting to make sure they are what you’re looking for, choose the best ones to meet, not just any guy that asks.
/r/askFDS14/02/21 05:36 PM
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I actually find more hvms are divorcees, at my age at least. If a man hasn’t been married by 35 often that’s a lvm sign. Depends on each person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:05 PM
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Early menopause in many women means early death. I think in many cases of genital mutilation it is women’s choice but they are brainwashed. Regardless, it’s your body and your choice, as a healthcare professional it’s important to me to make sure women know risks, benefits and alternatives to accomplish their goals. A lot of women don’t understand how big of a deal it is to take out ovaries and think it’s the only option. Either way, lvms are typically MORE attracted to women who can’t bear chil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:50 PM
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Removing your ovaries wouldn’t change either of those though. That would require more drastic hormone therapies or possibly genital mutilation, that’s why they do it in some countries and it’s very painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:50 PM
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That can cause osteoporosis and a whole slew of health problems, there are plenty of ways to be sterilized without removing your ovaries. You health is most important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:39 PM
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I’m very blunt and direct, I don’t beat around the bush. I’ve read that many women instead of telling men to get a glass of water, they say they are thirsty and they expect a man to know what to do. Instead ask for the water just like you would ask for anything else you need physically, emotionally, etc. We all have different needs and you have to communicate them in order for a hvm to meet them. Even the best men aren’t mind readers that know what a woman’s specific individual needs are. I’m no…
/r/askFDS18/01/21 03:44 PM
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I would give him a chance, I don’t see any red flags here. With the holidays priorities should be on family not random women on the internet you haven’t even talked to, it’s easy to let matches lapse, it’s not like you had been talking. He made the effort to rematch, when he went on the app next.
/r/askFDS05/01/21 01:46 PM
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It was Christmas and new year’s, lots was going on, I don’t agree that he necessarily wasn’t that interested, he made sure to reach out. They hadn’t even had a conversation yet. I don’t think hvms are constantly checking those apps when they aren’t in conversations tbh
/r/askFDS05/01/21 01:45 PM
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I think the most important thing is that you go with what you value and are comfortable with. Honestly we did a few video dates and phone calls and restaurants were not an option even if we wanted to go to one but I wasn’t comfortable going outside my bubble to meet someone I didn’t know much about. I don’t remember how we ended up in the park, we just liked each other and wanted to meet. I had gotten to know him pretty well by this point and he demonstrated his high value and compatibility with…
/r/askFDS05/01/21 01:39 AM
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Well, I like the answer but I wouldn’t stop dating unless there is a stay at home order. I wasn’t comfortable going to a restaurant so I went on a picnic in the park, and six months later this guy keeps amazing me day after day. If you only want that type of date and can’t have it because things are closed I might stop matching people until they are open, but it’s probably better to find alternatives that still meet your standards and are pandemic friendly since we might be like this for a while
/r/askFDS02/01/21 12:54 PM
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I think you misinterpreted what I said. I don’t look down on anyone. Peterson says he believes in equality of opportunity not equality of outcome, which means everyone should be free to do what they want. Sometimes there will still be inequality in who holds what jobs for example because women are generally less interested in being plumbers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:11 PM
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Oh boy, and i just found this, yikes https://youtu.be/wynnme92g_o
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:51 PM
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I’ve never seen any of this, in fact his students are mainly women. He strongly believes women should do what they want to do instead of be forced to be plumbers so we can have complete equality. I’ve never seen him appealing to forced monogamy. There must be something I’m missing here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:31 PM
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Rogan is awful but what I’ve seen of Peterson he is super pro fds values. What have you seen from him that you think goes against fds? Some of petersons rules: "Treat yourself like you are someone you are responsible for helping" "Make friends with people who want the best for you" "Compare yourself with who you were yesterday, not with who someone else is today" "Pursue what is meaningful (not what is expedient)" "Tell the truth — or, at least, don’t lie" "Assume that the person you are listeni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:15 PM
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You definitely don’t have to negotiate your way into a heart but communication is really important. Everyone has different needs. My needs are more intellectual but others may be more emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:57 AM
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Have you tried online dating or are you just hoping to happen upon someone in person? Do you want to date?
/r/askFDS18/12/20 04:09 PM
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I always answer this question ‘I don’t like to tell men this because I don’t want to influence behavior’ and they either understand or look at me like i have 4 heads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:25 AM
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Well first of all I’m sorry that’s awful but actually the most common cause is something called interstitial cystitis. I’m happy to help you with resources but look it up and see if it fits your situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:42 AM
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Luckily I’ve rarely heard that used, it is utterly disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:18 AM
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Run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:17 AM
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This is too true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:01 AM
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This is perfect. I feel like this isn't the norm and that the norm is so toxic. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:28 AM
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