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You're right, you didn't say that. You simply implied that in order to have a valid opinion on women, a man must first be sexually active with women- and by extension, have a way to prove it. Let me dumb that down for you: you implied that in order for a man to contribute something worthwhile to the MRM, they first must have their manhood validated by a woman. It's not MGTOWs who are being dishonest here, pussybeggar.
/r/MensRights02/09/14 02:55 AM
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My own theory about the kind of mgtow that became common there is that they are involuntarily celibate and in denial about it REAL men aren't MGTOW, bro! REAL men sleep with ALL the women, bro! REAL men MAN UP, bro! REAL men know it's all about GAME, bro! REAL men don't choose the WRONG woman, bro! REAL men beg for that pussy, bro!
/r/MensRights01/09/14 10:30 PM
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You know, I think my favorite quote of yours is actually this one: "shiet, i saw this on 4chan, didnt realise it had already been posted, thanks mate" ... which is located here... http://www.reddit.com/r/TumblrInAction/comments/1zo18c/so_now_i_dont_get_to_say_no/ ... which was a deletion of this... http://imgur.com/HgXbVOw
/r/MensRights11/03/14 02:33 AM
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For someone who doesn't understand how a man could be raped by a woman, you certainly seem very knowledgeable about rape statistics and DEFENDING from a position of men-can't-be-victims in your replies. You also have a significantly better vocabulary in your past posts, especially for a 16 year old. I didn't know you were an RPer- that's collaborative short-story writing, correct? I wonder what led to the sudden decrease in linguistic capability... spending too much time beneath a bridge, perhap…
/r/MensRights11/03/14 02:30 AM
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If you ask me, the men who don't fit in are the winners.
/r/MensRights10/03/14 03:57 AM
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"I guess I just wanted to share the following... don't ever show any negative emotion, and be very spare with your positive emotions. Keep them inside. "Man up", as it were. It may be terribly wrong, but it's the best way to maintain the respect of the important people in your life." No.
/r/MensRights19/02/14 12:46 AM
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... says a troll.
/r/MensRights03/01/14 01:22 PM
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... says a troll.
/r/MensRights03/01/14 01:22 PM
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You're doing a better job of outing yourself as a feminist troll.
/r/MensRights30/12/13 07:57 PM
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To me, it's not even about filing charges. It's about this statement by OP: "(...) I left her sister a message and said let's just forget this for her sake, I'll let it go if you do." In my eyes, OP doesn't need to file charges if he doesn't want to. To be clear, I believe he should, but the fact that he's willing to 'forget' a physical assault on him by a person who is around his children is far more unnerving. That being said, thank you for your honesty. I know my responses to posts are hardly…
/r/MensRights29/12/13 12:33 PM
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This is a really great story of how you gave your wife's sister a pussypass for violence.
/r/MensRights28/12/13 10:04 PM
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Any MRA who doesn't discourage their friend from agreeing to a really bad, one-sided contract where the penalty for default is prison without trial should not be in the MRM.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 07:12 PM
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That's nice. I don't care about you anymore, though.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 08:58 AM
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You're obviously closed to reason. What this woman is doing to you is wrong. What this woman is doing to you is illegal according to civil court. What this woman is considering doing to you is unjustifiably criminal. You've made it pretty clear that you don't really want help. I wish you all the best. Bed. Made. Lie. Now kindly excuse yourself, as there are men who actually need- and more importantly want help.
/r/MensRights24/12/13 08:57 AM
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Really? It's not following you too closely? Huh. So why is it you're throwing away fourteen months of work on a degree, plus all the money that's been spent to get you that degree? You need a serious goddamn wake-up call, brother. You're allowing your false-rape accuser to alter your entire life, and very possibly destroy it. When people ask why you dropped out, they're gonna say it's because of the false rape accusation. When you remember dropping out years from now, you're going to remember th…
/r/MensRights23/12/13 11:26 PM
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"I blame very few people for what happened to me. I was wrong to sleep with someone who had already committed herself to a relationship. She was wrong as well, and to accuse me of rape, but I know something of fear now and can't help but forgive her. Women ARE victims of slut-shaming in areas like mine and hers. It was her or me. And no one can entirely blame a person looking out for their own skin." Yeah, I know what you mean. It's like murderers. They've gone through hell, you know? No one rea…
/r/MensRights23/12/13 11:21 PM
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It sucks to say, dude, but you're not in a good position at all. Your best bet is to get a recording of her explaining why she told her boyfriend you raped her, or her friends gossiping about it. I want to tell you to go to the police, but there's the very real possibility that you'll end up being arrested. You can try going to the school counselor and telling him or her about the night, and about how you didn't want to have sex with this chick, but that she pressured you in to it while you were…
/r/MensRights23/12/13 11:15 PM
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I am all about equal rights for women, though I'm not an MRA. I want women to be held equally accountable under criminal and civil law. I want women who have the right to vote to also have the same duties and obligations as men who have the right to vote, such as having to sign the conscription waiver thing in the US. I want women to have the same number of homeless and DV shelters as men do. I want women to receive the same level of healthcare as men do. I am all about equality.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 11:03 PM
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It's not a huge victory until she starts teaching it in class, or publishes it in a peer-reviewed paper. Outside of that, words hold no value apart from sentimental.
/r/MensRights07/12/13 09:53 PM
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If they just made a parody, I wouldn't give a crap. The fact they're using it commercially- as in, to sell a product- then they should be held accountable.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 06:17 AM
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This, in itself, comes off as a very poor attempt at trolling. You aren't supplying evidence. You're asking ambiguous questions that presuppose that "they" MUST be one or the other, thereby limiting critical thinkers to your framing. You've stated you're using a throw-away account which does nothing but color the environment of the frame as one in which a reader should be afraid or even paranoid. But that's not the kicker. The kicker is that you asked three questions in succession that aren't co…
/r/MensRights26/11/13 01:16 AM
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I thought the unspoken Female MRA "sammich or tits or GTFO" rule was self-evident because all men misogyny.
/r/MensRights24/11/13 09:34 PM
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As one (former) counselor* to another, I would suggest that you lead with the fact that he isn't alone. You don't have to throw out statistics; the fact that a patient isn't an anomaly is often comfort enough and should help you guide him through his emotions. Second, if he's reluctant, I would recommend attempting to frame it not as "women abusing men" or vice versa, but more as "people abusing people" or "and adult abusing an adult." Doing this should get rid of all the automatic trumps that a…
/r/MensRights24/11/13 04:50 AM
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It's good to see equality in action.
/r/MensRights24/11/13 04:16 AM
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So basically what you're saying is that it's a whole bunch of individual men who are going their own individual way?
/r/MensRights12/11/13 08:18 AM
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You need to break up and kick her out of your life. Why the hell would you want to stay with someone who, in your own words, is emotionally and physically abusive?
/r/MensRights28/10/13 01:24 PM
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nar·cis·sism [nahr-suh-siz-em] Show IPA noun 1. inordinate fascination with oneself; excessive self-love; vanity. Synonyms: self-centeredness, smugness, egocentrism. 2. Psychoanalysis . erotic gratification derived from admiration of one's own physical or mental attributes, being a normal condition at the infantile level of personality development. Nothing in my posts point toward comparing Elam to myself, or indicate that I hold myself at a higher status above Elam. So I'm pretty sure you didn'…
/r/MensRights10/10/13 11:23 PM
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You seem to be under the impression I care if it made an impact. ;)
/r/MensRights04/10/13 10:46 AM
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EDIT: "Movement" and "irrelevant". I wish I'd chosen my words better. MGTOW (to me, anyways) is more of a loose association than the grouping that the word "movement" would imply. This jist of it is, some MGTOWs care about this manifesto. Others, like myself, don't. There are some parts of it that are relevant to me as an MGTOW, but as a whole- as a singular, authoritative document- I find it has little to no bearing on me GMOW.
/r/MensRights03/10/13 03:12 PM
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I've been exposed to this before. I don't know about it's legitimacy, but haven't encountered anything that said MGTOW didn't start off with it. Regardless, it's a largely irrelevant piece of literature to the actual movement these days, though some in the MGTOW movement favour it. Personally, I'm too indifferent toward women to care about "instilling" anything in them.
/r/MensRights03/10/13 03:05 PM
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And thank you for reinforcing my choice not to donate to AVfM even more.
/r/MensRights03/10/13 02:18 PM
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Thank you for reminding me why I don't donate to AVfM.
/r/MensRights03/10/13 02:18 PM
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Oh, I agree, the site can and probably has helped many men. But I wasn't talking about the site, I was talking about the guy who spawned it. Just because a thief helps an old man cross the street doesn't mean said thief isn't still a thief.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 03:03 PM
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He wrote an article where he bitched about men asking for help. I'm not your secretary. Use Google.
/r/MensRights01/10/13 03:00 PM
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I'm all for Paul's in-your-face attitude. Unfortunately, he throws fellow men who need help under the bus when he does it. So fuck him.
/r/MensRights30/09/13 10:50 PM
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No.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 07:34 PM
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Are we not man enough Fuck you.
/r/MensRights25/09/13 07:52 AM
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Men Going Their Own Way.
/r/MensRights23/09/13 03:21 AM
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Yes, it's entirely practical. Finding men with the courage to do it, though, is what's difficult. Ultimately, one would end up putting a bunch of non-violent men in jail. The first ones would have the biggest challenge ahead of them, as they'd be in there with unsavoury types. However, as more and more men were put in jail for non-violent offences (re: child support), the more violent prisoners would be pushed out in to their own block. Eventually, what one would have is entire prisons filled wi…
/r/MensRights19/09/13 08:09 PM
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You're being strawmanned. Whether or not men judge feminism, or women judge the so-called MRM is irrelevant and has no impact on either. Actions have impact. Regardless of whether or not they're ignorant or educated judgements, a judgement in this context is still just an opinion... and I consider Feminists' opinions of my judgements to be irrelevant.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 10:04 PM
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What mutt said. If I wanted to just stare at a chick for a prolonged amount of time, there's this new-fangled thing called 'internet porn'. On the street, I rarely 'just look' at someone without saying anything because 1) There's no point to it, 2) Bitch might be crazy, and 3) Why the hell would I bother interrupting either what I'm doing or what they're doing if I'm not going to interact with them?
/r/MensRights12/09/13 09:52 PM
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Usually I say "good morning."
/r/MensRights11/09/13 02:46 AM
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Don't care. Yes. The motivation isn't to encourage slutty behaviour. It's to take mens' control of /themselves/ away from men by telling them what they should be thinking and shaming them for acting in any way without first seeking a woman's approval.
/r/MensRights11/09/13 02:35 AM
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Hamster wheel detected. Actually, what you said was: "Second, we never clicked physically. He was my first and only partner up until that point and he didn't respect the fact that I didn't like some of his... fetishes." See that second, unnecessary sentence you passive-aggressively included that contributes nothing and only serves to let us know how much a "creep" he must be, and reiterate how much of a good person you are in comparison? Yeah, that. Why, you even included an ellipsis to imply th…
/r/MensRights05/09/13 09:45 AM
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So, in a land where everyone kicks their dog, you chose not to kick yours and you want... what? An award for being ethical? A pat on the back? Someone to say, "Golly, I'm so proud you didn't kick your dog even though it's the social norm!"? Of course, that still didn't stop you from taking a swipe at his sexuality. But good job for not kicking your dog TOO hard. I'm so proud of you!
/r/MensRights04/09/13 01:41 AM
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Smells like Troll.
/r/MensRights28/07/13 06:21 AM
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One small piece of legislation for Feminists, one giant surge in awareness for OpenDNS.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 05:34 PM
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Ah, that kind of makes sense, though I still think that given the risk, it's still a lot more likely to be cheaper and just as effective in the long-term to pay for ones own medical insurance and create/update a will with beneficiaries.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 08:53 PM
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Not trying to start anything, but I am honestly curious. You say there's "almost" no reward, which would seem to imply that there is some form of reward not present in other relationships. From my perspective, even if everything goes 100% well in a marriage, as a man you are still legally only entitled to 50% of what you individually earn. If you marry a woman who maintains the same level of income as you do all throughout your marriage, at best, you come out at break-even. As for kids and someo…
/r/MensRights12/07/13 08:17 PM
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I figured you would mind given how you made a baseless speculation that casts MRAs in a negative light and then constructed it in such a way as to present it as a statement. But nice attempt at post-modern character assassination, bro.
/r/MensRights29/06/13 02:26 AM
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Nice concern trolling, bro.
/r/MensRights18/06/13 09:58 PM
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At the end of the day, this type of stuff does more good for the MRM than it does harm. Boys and men who read it end up feeling personally attacked, and more than likely begin searching for places to vent via YouTube or various forums where it's much more difficult to silence people with anti-sexist viewpoints. So let the trolls win the battle of Urban Dictionary; they're just helping us win the war.
/r/MensRights17/06/13 10:34 AM
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Looks like two groups of women arguing about how best to control men. But hey, whatever blue pill gets you stiff.
/r/MensRights03/06/13 10:36 PM
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File a sexual harassment complaint against the HR Lady. Since she has no proof, and since (assuming innocent until proven guilty, as the law rightfully requires) you did nothing wrong, then a complaint of sexual harassment can actually be considered sexual harassment in and of itself since the original complaint is regarding sexual behaviour [edit] and requires you to view/witness materiel of a nature pertaining to inappropriate displays of sexuality (re: the sexual harassment thing you have to …
/r/MensRights29/05/13 02:52 AM
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Take your sexually-focused shaming language over to /r/Feminism,k Sasha? Thanks, hon.
/r/MensRights23/05/13 09:04 PM
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Yeah, these were such brave women to wait for the hacking to stop before asking if it was safe to approach a corpse that was being attacked by religious fanatics who's religious beliefs- as extreme as they are- forbid them from harming women*. They should get medals, those brave, brave women who arrived just in time to ask if it was safe to comfort a corpse and were never actually under any threat. Allah states in the Qur'aan, "All ye who believe! Ye are forbidden to inherit women against their …
/r/MensRights23/05/13 09:18 AM
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Illogical argument. By this standard, if a nation has an abnormally high murder rate and catches and incarcerates all of it's murderers, then it's a good place to live.
/r/MensRights28/04/13 08:07 AM
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http://www.avoiceformen.com/a-voice-for-men/fuck-you-kate-harding/
/r/MensRights28/04/13 07:26 AM
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If you want to see more uplifting stories, why not post one? Not so easy to find them, huh?
/r/MensRights27/04/13 01:50 AM
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http://daddyjustice.com/wp/ Some other resources which may be helpful to you: http://www.avoiceformen.com/ http://www.shrink4men.com/
/r/MensRights25/04/13 02:43 AM
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No problem. I'd suggest not putting all of your eggs in one basket, though. Still suggest to your daughter that she get a weekend/part-time job to help mitigate future downturns in your financial fortunes, keep looking for work (even if you already have a job; you may just find a better paying one), and keep your head up. Oh, and make sure to keep posting links to your FundRazr. Maybe contact Daddy Justice and see if he can point you in the direction, or reach out to the AVfM forums and see if a…
/r/MensRights25/04/13 02:22 AM
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Link to the Kickstarter?
/r/MensRights24/04/13 10:20 AM
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Fuck it, you can even try Kickstarter.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 07:22 AM
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In the long run, her yearbook pictures and a trip to Disney is going to mean diddly squat to her. But if you REALLY want to fuck her up, then suicide's a good way to do it. Hell, I can practically see the conversation at your funeral now: Someone you probably hate, providing false comfort to your daughter: "So, why'd your old man off himself?" Your daughter: "Because I couldn't go to Disney." Everyone who is, was, or might have been on your side: "Wow, [OP's Ex], you were totally right when you …
/r/MensRights24/04/13 07:21 AM
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If you immolate yourself, it'll only hurt you for about the first minute as that's how long it will take the nerves that transmit pain to die. Your kid, however, will hurt for the rest of his or her life.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 06:40 AM
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Don't mind me, I'm just roasting some marshmellows.
/r/MensRights24/04/13 01:45 AM
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How about "Feminist Monday"?
/r/MensRights21/04/13 09:28 PM
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Tell me- while you're busy putting words in my mouth ad reductio absurdum, can you hear the laughter I regurgitate them with as I watch the MRM become neutered by Feminist agents inconnu and their blue pillers? Of course I'm going to say women advocating hate toward men is the same as racism, because- shocker- it IS! Both racism and the avocation of female hatred toward men (re: sexism) are prejudices. And, just like racism, such sexism comes in different flavours: there are Israelies that don't…
/r/MensRights20/04/13 07:56 AM
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People with common sense don't blame, hate, nor disagree with racism. They advocate for research and action on issues affecting blacks that are not readily being addressed. Misinformed radicals with common sense are as damaging to common sense objectives as misinformed radical racists are to racist objectives. Remember, we want our conversations to be inclusive, not exclusive.
/r/MensRights18/04/13 02:07 AM
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This post is the reason I'm MGTOW. $5 says Pauly caves; $10 says this Subreddit is in its deaththrows. Sadly, I find no desire to gloat over the latter.
/r/MensRights17/04/13 12:09 PM
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I suggest going to your sponsor directly. This is third-hand information; though your buddy is your buddy, he may be motivated by his own agenda or fears prompting him to attempt to predict sponsor wishes without actually knowing the sponsor's position. Talk with your sponsor directly, and go pre-armed with stats just in case. I'd suggest sticking to "non-threatening" stats like male circumcision death rates, male workplace safety, male health, etc and staying away from topics that may polarize …
/r/MensRights13/02/13 02:39 PM
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RationalWiki is satire from a progressive/leftist perspective that was created in direct response to Conservapedia. It could be considered the 'cleaner' version of Encyclopedia Dramatica. Treating it as a serious source of information (whether that information is correct or not) is a self-defeating battle; best bet is to simply raise awareness of its satiric background wherever you see links to RationalWiki articles.
/r/MensRights06/02/13 12:32 AM
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I agree the definition is weak, but the focus of the definition is on the act of unwilling penetration of an orifice itself, not the directionality from which penetration is initiated (i.e. the individual in possession of the penetrating object). This leaves me with some hope that this is a step in the right direction, but I'm not nominating anyone for a Nobel Peace Prize, yet.
/r/MensRights12/01/13 11:56 AM
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"This is, however, a display of how the individual many feminists may perceive as at fault is merely an extension of a very particular set of functioning structures which damage -everyone-." So, individual men are the extensions of set of functioning structures? Tell me again about how women are objectified and men aren't.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 12:30 AM
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