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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Advice - girlfriend laughing at manhood It’s pretty gross that you made it clear you didn’t want her to see you soft and she kept trying to do it anyways! That’s not funny. But, as other people have said, you know what is funny? Dicks. They’re a weird organ and like other people in the thread have point out, she was likely giggling because dicks are just weird, especially if you don’t have your own so you’re not used to them. Still, and I can’t stress this enough, not cool she was doing this as a bit. Good on you for telling her it hu…	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/25 10:49 PM
6	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. Fully agree that men need more support and more encouragement to make meaningful friendships where they can be open about their emotions! The best way to meet people and actually connect with them is boning through mutual interests. Bars and dance clubs are terrible for this. Classes, hobby clubs (book clubs, tabletop gaming, adult rec leagues), volunteering… all give you something else to at least start talking about. I’d highly recommend looking into one of those as a post college way of makin…	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 02:58 AM
18	No one talks about the loneliness men go through. Going to speak to the women mastering the are of friendship: I agree the socialization of women encourages express their emotions more, making it easier to create deep friendships. Even if OP is specifically talking about romantic loneliness, a lot of my friends met their partners through mutual platonic social connections.	/r/ExRedPill	16/02/23 02:51 AM
1	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? A lot are published freely and can be accessed by the general public! Google has an academic journal search engine - scholar.google.com - which is quite useful for this!	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 09:15 PM
3	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? Okay awesome, as someone who has wasted my time in the past arguing with them wanted to make sure we were all on the same page! There’s definitely value in balancing trollish nonsense with intelligent comments so future readers can see well thought out replies, so I appreciate what you’re doing. Have a wonderful day!	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 04:44 PM
3	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? To clarify, you’re asserting that everyone has the same preferences?	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 04:43 PM
6	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? You seem like an intelligent and normal person, so I just want to flag to you that the account you’re arguing with is an hour old and has in that hour managed to spew a lot of manosphere nonsense over a few subs. Just wanted to bring that to your attention. This being said if you have the time and energy to fight with the trolls, fight the good fight my friend!	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 04:41 PM
2	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? Can you elaborate on what you mean by “preferences exist in a monolithically”?	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 04:38 PM
4	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? No problem! I always think learning is good, and think it’s great that’s you’re thinking critically about this. And I personally am a sucker for an academic source or three.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 04:30 PM
3	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? The issue with labeling people as high or low value is it assumes people have the same taste and values. People don’t universally value the same items equally and hold the same things as good/bad. Education, politics, and religion aren’t easily ranked categories and people’s preferences on what a partner holds in these categories- and how important those qualities are to them- will vary person to person.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 04:25 PM
9	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? Sigma is hysterical to me. The manosphere couldn’t stop at roleplaying some discredited idea about wolf hierarchies, they also needed to make a special not like the other boys category.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 04:16 PM
12	Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS? It is not widely accepted, and attempting to apply it outside of the manosphere space is a great way to get discredited fast. Here’s an academic journal article discrediting it: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/247779752_The_myth_of_the_alpha_male_A_new_look_at_dominance-related_beliefs_and_behaviors_among_adolescent_males_and_females And if academic sources are too dense to start with, here’s some layperson articles you may find interesting: https://www.theguardian.com/science/brain-fla…	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/22 04:15 PM
1	why are RP men convinced that women are lying to them when it comes to dating advice? That’s not conflicting. Becoming friends with someone prior to asking them out isn’t a bad idea. Becoming friends with someone solely in hopes that they’ll date you eventually is a bad idea. If you’re going to do the latter, shoot your shot and if it doesn’t work, move on.	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/20 11:57 AM
12	why are RP men convinced that women are lying to them when it comes to dating advice? Be her friend before you ask her out isn’t bad advice. It’s advising you get to know the other person better prior to trying to initiate a romantic relationship. Worst case scenario, she’s not interested romantically and you have a friend. Now, if you become friends with this person and are only maintaining that friendship in hopes of it turning romantic... that’s the friend zoned guy that women complain about. If your plan is “befriend, and then disappear if rejected”, just straight up ask her …	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/20 04:13 AM
9	why are RP men convinced that women are lying to them when it comes to dating advice? I think you’re onto something when you note people misconstruing advice they receive. Dating advice isn’t cheat codes. Being nice and respectful isn’t a guaranteed ticket to seduction. This does not mean the women advising of this are lying. I think this is particular is difficult to accept after immersing in the manosphere, because TRP promises a guaranteed set of instructions that will work for everyone (AWALT! Except they aren’t, so those instructions won’t work all the time). There’s a LOT t…	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/20 03:51 AM
3	Red pill guys criticizing women for doing hookups If a minority of women will sleep with a misogynist at any given time, this decreases a misogynist’s (obviously includes incels and redpill subscribers) chances of getting laid. That doesn’t mean that all misogynists won’t get laid. Saying that “some people will sleep with misogynists” invalidates “women don’t generally like misogynists” is about the same as saying “some people will get attacked by sharks” invalidates “people don’t generally get attacked by sharks”.	/r/ExRedPill	13/07/20 11:53 PM
7	Red pill guys criticizing women for doing hookups The fact that women have individual thought processes is problematic?	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/20 07:20 PM
16	Red pill guys criticizing women for doing hookups Women aren’t a monolith. Some may be fine sleeping with a misogynist, especially for a one time hookup. Person may not initially appear misogynist (2a?) Some of these guys will train in appearing non misogynistic (PUA stuff sometimes does tell you to say the “right things”) but will actually hold these beliefs. And then post about it on Reddit later.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/20 06:34 PM
57	Red pill guys criticizing women for doing hookups It’s easier for them to disrespect and disregard the women they sleep with if they can dehumanize them.	/r/ExRedPill	12/07/20 02:07 AM
3	When you see it... What type of psychopath browses in day mode on mobile	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/19 11:13 PM