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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	A woman who sees you as a high value male will not friendzone you. Of course, be high value but show interest. Even if you’re high value, someone is going to beat you to her because they simply showed interest. They took a shot.	/r/seduction	02/11/20 11:21 PM
2	Do you guys have a lot of good friends? You’ve identified what you want. You want to talk to more people. More friends with aspirations. You’ve identified your problem. You don’t know how to talk to people, is that correct? Or is it finding friends with similar aspirations specifically? Understand your issue. Why do you struggle talking to people? Are you having a hard time expressing yourself? Are you having hard time knowing what to say? Is it you want friends that are constantly involved in your life? How much does this bother you?…	/r/seduction	31/10/20 09:14 PM
–	How do you make the girl you like chase you? First, you need to make she feels like you’re worth chasing. If she sees you as a kid, or just some other plain simple guy, she won’t chase. Second, to be worth chasing, be high value. Social proof (does me wonders), confident & relaxed body language, assertive tone, not taking things serious, being witty, dress well, have your true opinion (without insulting others). Once you do that, get her to chase with push-pulls. Show some interests without being easy to get like it’s easy for her to get e…	/r/seduction	31/10/20 08:17 AM
–	Confused about this situation I think she did like you. She even “thought” about it. My theory is you didn’t give her the experience she wanted. Maybe turning her off by her assuming you don’t know how to make your moves. Like the rest of the comments, you don’t ask her to be her boyfriend. You make it happen by acting as if she’s already yours. Obviously, you wouldn’t just kiss her like if she was yours. What I mean is escalate things slowly. Flirt with her, take her out. Build her emotions over you. Get her liking you. Tak…	/r/seduction	16/10/20 08:10 PM
0	I tried kissing a girl and got rejected!! Yeah, learn body language, listen to her words because they have deeper meanings than it sounds. And escalate slowly. (Verbal, physical or location escalate)	/r/seduction	15/10/20 11:18 AM
1	Besides confidence, what qualities attract women? social proof implied social proof social pressure competence frame control escalation skills Iconography inverse of behavior health power/force recklessness/resilience	/r/seduction	19/07/20 12:39 AM
2	Mentioning the kiss? Sounds perfect the way you’ve described it. You can go both either ways. As long as you’re not being awkward about it and also depending how much you’ve got her attracted in order to escalate and take a risk. It must be your body language and confidence that’s helped you. As long as you maintain that, you will be straight. I’ve mostly escalated without mentioning though. I just do it based on her body language and how much she’s into me. A lot of time, when we’re talking at this low voice with s…	/r/seduction	28/06/20 05:53 PM
2	Should you try to talk to as many women as possible or just the ones you're interested in? More than normally. Even if they’re not in you’re interest, you’ll have the chance to practice your game. You’ll develop social proof. When a 7 talks good about you to an 8 or higher for example, it’ll make it easier for you to get the girl you’re actually interested in. Just don’t talk to girls that are way below your level. There’s a chance they’ll think you’re just being sarcastic when you compliment them.	/r/seduction	28/06/20 02:57 PM
1	I did a dumb thing You can either send them a picture of you, tell them the truth and hope they’re okay with it or you can say nothing, meet with them in public so that if they see you, they don’t flip out. Be casual, confident, and act as if everything is okay and that nothing is a big deal. You will have a chance to show your personality and game them when meeting you in person than not. If she points out you not being the one in the picture, do not make a big deal by explaining so much about your situation. A s…	/r/seduction	22/06/20 01:54 PM
1	How to show u have other girls without making her feel bad You are correct. You should show you have options without bragging or pointing it out. It shows you have value and social status. If you can show her other girls have chosen you or at least have something with you, that means it’s easier for her to determine whether you are worth her time or not because others have accepted you. The way to show her is by pointing it out indirectly. Not necessarily “pointing it out” but speak about it subtlety. To be more specific, you can tell stories. For examp…	/r/seduction	22/06/20 12:51 PM
2	Over confidence Create a story between you and her. Have her experience all sorts of emotions. You don’t want to immediately tell her you like her or story’s over for her. So a way I like to trigger emotions is by doing push-pull. Let her have a sense you’re interested in her, but you’re not sure if you want her. Say something positive with a negative or positive/neutral. Flipped will work too. Negative/positive, neutral/positive. “You’re cute, but I’m not sure if we are going to get along.” There’s two common …	/r/seduction	18/06/20 11:32 AM
–	Over confidence I’ll answer that. But first, I’ll have to ask you... Where are you at in your game right now? Is there a particular girl you’re after or are you trying to get good with girls overall? How is your success with women?	/r/seduction	17/06/20 08:19 PM
–	Over confidence That’s completely fine. As a matter of fact, great. Don’t minimize it. Trust me when I say, you’re better off arrogant than not. If you’re naturally confident or arrogant, you’ve already triggered emotions. You may have not noticed it. The fact that you’ve been told you’re too cocky is already a triggered emotion. Whether it’s a good or bad emotion, the key point is you’ve triggered it. You do not want to leave an interaction where the female says, “well, nice to meet you.” You’ll be treated as …	/r/seduction	17/06/20 06:37 PM
–	Over confidence DO NOT minimize your confidence. Just adjust it. I would say a large amount of guys lack confidence when it comes to women. You stand out. Don’t lose your advantage. Even if she tells you “you’re too cocky” don’t fall for it. The moment you decide to change yourself because she told you you’re too cocky, she’s already won. That is not in your favor. Eventually, she will get turned off throughout time because you couldn’t maintain your frame and stay assertive with yourself. As long as you’re not…	/r/seduction	17/06/20 05:51 PM
–	“Just be yourself” during a cold approach? Exactly.. it can also depends on the type of female you’re approaching. If she seems like a friendly school girl that doesn’t go out much, convey more softer game. If it’s a female that seems like she has guys chasing her left to right, and going out often, be a bit more touchy, arrogant, and disqualifying. It’s not a one size fits all. Adjust to the environment, and the type of female.	/r/seduction	05/06/20 04:34 PM
3	how to respond “Taller than you in heels.” Sounds like you are talking about yourself with heels on. I know that’s not the point, but I wanted to address that. You can say something like, “I know you want to find a way to see me already, but let’s slow down before we make dates.” Use a misinterpretation method. Frame it to as her chasing you. If not, you can simply joke by saying how you somehow measured her while she wasn’t looking. Just some options 🤷🏻	/r/seduction	17/04/20 08:08 PM
1	The best way i can learn how to text a girl on Instagram I like your profile. Seems like you have other things going on with your life. Yeah don’t reply too quickly. Almost makes you look needy, as if you’re waiting for her text the entire time and not having anything better to do with your life. But don’t take long neither. Find that sweet spot. When you comment on her story, what do you say? Does your comment get to the point by flirting without coming too strong?	/r/seduction	09/04/20 07:23 PM
–	The best way i can learn how to text a girl on Instagram I wouldn’t completely disregard learning from videos. They’re not useless, as that’s a black and white way to describe them as. What you may be doing that’s causing you to fail is trying to do an advanced move when you’re still stuck on the basics. Makes sense? Learn from the videos by understanding the principles and applying them in your own genuine way. Don’t use the exact words others use. Also, avoid messaging girls, but since the corona virus is going around, I think your chances of succes…	/r/seduction	08/04/20 01:33 AM
–	Im not good at showing girls I like them. What can I do to flirt better and make my interest clear? How do you normally flirt? What’s something you would say to try to flirt? You don’t want to tell her she’s the world’s prettiest girl, but you also don’t want to seem as you’re not interested. Example of that is, “you’re adorable, but you’re a handful, I’m not sure if we are going to get along.” Again, that’s is just an example. Tailor your words based on the moment and something you mean. You can research “push pull method” online to learn more.	/r/seduction	03/04/20 02:01 PM