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7	How normal is it for women to feel comfortable as the provider role in a relationship? Especially when she earns more than enough where she isn't stressing about money or a home because she already has both, and is looking to settle down with a man she finds attractive? Do you critisize people for people who adventure in risky ways a lot? Like skydiving, scuba diving, rock climbing etc etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 05:11 AM
1	It's not offensive to ask for dna test You can't control what others feel. It should be allowed, and it should probably also be normalised to be okay with it, but you can't tell someone to not be offended.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/25 04:53 AM
1	What are some criticisms about the other gender that make you roll your eyes or cringe? Say whatever you want about hypergamy, once the attraction phase goes away, so does the hypergamy-ness, mostly. Obviously for people who can't gte into relationships at all are affected badly, but seriously, the best relationship advice is self improvement. I'm not saying that "just make yourself appear as a better option to women" That part only applies to the start of the relationship. The problem is real, but not to the extent that red pillars say it is. Or it's more like, the effects of it a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 09:07 PM
1	What are some criticisms about the other gender that make you roll your eyes or cringe? Most men seem to not like the look of makeup. Women tend to wear it for themselves, and not to please men, as it seems pretty mainstream now that most men don't like the look of makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 08:56 PM
2	Redpillers and feminists both make some valid points At this point just change the flair to discussion instead of debate. People who're against this are mostly just comments without any reasoning, and this is filled with similar points and discussions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 08:40 PM
2	Do girls mature faster than boys? How is “maturity” defined? By the end of middle school, the ground was mostly evened according to my experience. We were getting similar grades and the "maturity" didn't seem to be heavily biased against a sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 07:57 PM
2	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" Using the word patiarchy tends to downplay by implying "men did it themselves" I undersrand that you may not mean it, but that does put that in the subconscious. And it shouldn't matter if the problems are caused by "patriachy" or not, the main topic isn't about that in the first place, it's about making the system recognise that these issues exist. Even the fact that you're trying to get this arguement into the convo does suggest that you're implying the "men did it to themselves" thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 04:55 PM
1	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" I think you're probably right on this one. Hard to say that it was the same thing that they were being graded on. Although the chicken and egg thing might be true, it is better to expect teachers to change (by policies or smth idk, or a better solution is to just let boys start a year later instead) than expecting the students to change (which kind of sounds obvious, what were we even arguing about in the first place? /s) The original post complains about how when women have it worse it is consi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 04:41 PM
1	When men face any problems disproportionally, It's framed as being their own fault. Whereas with women, it's always "systemic" Given that they are fine teaching female students, and male students are the same species as female students, that would imply the issue is on the male students not respecting the female teachers It has been consistently shown how teachers mark different grades for essentially the same thing based on if it was written by a boy or a girl. https://www.bbc.com/news/education-31751672 https://mitili.mit.edu/sites/default/files/project-documents/SEII-Discussion-Paper-2016.07-Terrier.pdf So, no, I do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 02:28 PM