| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough? | Question For Women | Background-Map-7243 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:15 PM |
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| 2 | Besides looks, what trait are you MOST attracted to in a woman?Sweetness, knowledge and moderate (not in politics) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:08 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Why someone with a phd would be boring? Also dyspraxia is a problem in my case because I am a man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 08:56 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?I am used to not eat outside, and if ever I do it max 2/3 times per month and just for networking reasons, and try to go cheap for it as well. In general I try to avoid ramen and other prepared stuff bc I enjoy cooking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 08:55 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Spiritual is okay as long as she doesn't follow a list of ethical prescriptions. Same with vegan and debt. Childfree may be a major issue but CF women are more or less twice in number than CF men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 08:53 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?I am not redpill, I am progressive but I am cynical and materialistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 08:06 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Ramen in a diet? XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 08:05 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?The age is not a dealbreaker but she has to be at least 18. Also vegan and religious are not major issues Childfree and frugality are dealbreakers tho And so does sweetness and not having superhigh libido | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:47 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Average height you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:46 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?I don't want to be a passenger prince I want to live in a city with good public transport so that none of us has to drive. Indeed I don't care if my gf drives or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:44 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Still it will limit my dating pool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:36 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?I will follow your advice, but there are things on which I am not willing to compromise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:32 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Wdym the combination of all of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:20 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Less than 3 times a week is good too Once a week or once a month is okay I don't mind it. Having a vasectomy is not a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:17 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Even if I would be able to drive I wouldn't still own a car. Because costs are too high imho And everything I enjoy is in the city itself, I am into a lot of activities but none of them is about "nature" so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:15 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Western europe, and don't plan to move outside italy/france/spain/portugal/uk No netherlands or germany or nordic countries bc I am 5'7" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:10 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Similiar life goals indeed! No kids, big city, frugality are common goals! I didn't put phisical stuff, Also yes If someone is likeable and make me feel good thzt would be great! But having or not having kids is an issue! Same with religion or other things I listed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 07:09 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?That's okay as well! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:57 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Not in less than 20 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:56 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?I am redpill bc I am cynical and think about the world in a material way. (And abortion, lgbtqia+ rights and other stuff are materially good for society imho) Not bc I love the 1950s world or think women are bad or stupid. Women have their own priorities and they have the right to fight to improve their condition. But ofc I will try to improve my life as well, Maybe sometimes we will be against, but there will never be anything personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:56 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?I lived in rome for 3 years and not being able to drive has been an issue only once, but the older I get, the more mature and down to earth women will get, so it may be a problem nonetheless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:51 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?I can't fix anything unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:46 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?I am moving in paris in september | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:44 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?That's why I pointed out living in a big city. So that she don't need to be my chaffeur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:36 PM |
| – | Are my dating standards too high? Or, am I not enough?Don't care about income, also i think my age brackets are reasonable since I am 22 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: would you rather date a young naive, gullible woman or a young mature confident woman? Why?B I want a functional adult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 09:25 PM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?1 and cheat on her back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 03:29 PM |
| – | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?I am cynical not conservative I am not against women empowerment bc of ideological or religious reasons. Just bc it lowers my sexual success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 11:38 PM |
| 5 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?I have many friends from different political landscape, but living an entire life together is different. I just can't accept extremism. You can be conservative, but don't expect to be a SAHW You can be liberal, but don't expect me to fight back if you say you hate all men For the rest I am okay, you can be pro-life or pro-choice, you may prefer less or more welfare, whatever Also religion is (and has been in the past) a issue, mostly for the fact I wanna be childfree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 07:07 PM |
| 19 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?-religious or too radical in politics -single children (don't want you to be the only caregiver of your old parents in the future) -advocates for chivalry or traditional stuff -wants children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 04:35 PM |
| 6 | How do red pillers raise their sons and daughters?Redpill here. I don't want to have children. If ever, only a daughter and absolutely no sons. Male's life is so miserable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 06:24 AM |
| 4 | Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good?They are not taken into consideration unless you need them as betabuxx Or you don't want to die alone Big difference from 1970s or 1930s is that pressions on women to settle were strong and came in early life (20-25yo) and they were not single mothers (due to inexistence of divorce and religion that prohibited to have sex outside marriage). So even if you were unattractive you would still have "fresh and first-hand flesh" and you could have it already in your mid 20s instead of waiting 10+ years… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:49 AM |
| 18 | Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good?Nice but unattractive guys If they had options they wouldn't date single moms in their late 30s But it means that's the best they can afford | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:42 AM |
| 2 | do you feel as a man that you struggle with communication more in general due to being raised to talk less about your feelings?I do not have problems to meet and talk with strangers. I am extremly extroverted and tend to be in the limelight. Girls are just not interested lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | do you feel as a man that you struggle with communication more in general due to being raised to talk less about your feelings?Ofc without probs: 1) frugality ("don't care how much your partner earns, care about how much they save") 2) child free and not religious 3) sweet/romantic 4) loves physical touch and acts of affitmation 5) willing to live in a big city 6) does not ask me to do things I can't do (like driving, helping with anything practical, ecc) 7) has similiar interests (politics, social sciences, economics, history, philosophy, languages, statistics) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 02:06 PM |
| 0 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.Yes but if does not always apply to stuff bought after the marriage. (You have to specify and demonstrate for every item who contributed the most for the purchase) Also this causes several problems when you rent stuff. While with prenup you can have a deal about who has to leave the house if a split occours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 11:46 AM |
| 2 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.Italy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:32 AM |
| 6 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.In my country prenuptial are not a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Would you like it or would it turn you off to a person romantically if he or she tried to take up the same interests as you just to impress you?Definitely like it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 05:01 PM |
| 3 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)I actually want monogamy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 12:54 PM |
| 8 | do you feel as a man that you struggle with communication more in general due to being raised to talk less about your feelings?Real life friends just tell "don't complain you are okay you will find someone" Also I can't drive lol so great methaphor Struggles with dating depends on my genetics and about my standards (not physical) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 11:51 AM |
| 2 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)Bc they fetichizes me since I have baby face and have particular kinks But I am not good enough to settle with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:49 AM |
| 2 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)I don't do fine. I spend most of my time looking for a partner And eventually find smth, mostly online, mostly short-term (like girls using me just for sex) and always with pretty ugly and girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:37 AM |
| 8 | do you feel as a man that you struggle with communication more in general due to being raised to talk less about your feelings?Simply: When you say you struggle with dating they say "you are a mysoginist" or "stop complaining, nobody owes you anything" or with your job/studies you are just told to man up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 09:36 AM |
| 2 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)Ppl tell me they are unattractive. And I don't care about my appereance if not for my mateability. So it's a concern | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:49 AM |
| 9 | do you feel as a man that you struggle with communication more in general due to being raised to talk less about your feelings?Nobody cares, and nobody cares that nobody cares. Every feeling expressed would have these reactions : "insecure" "desperste" "mysoginist" "toxic masculinity" So it's better to not say what you feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:48 AM |
| 10 | do you feel as a man that you struggle with communication more in general due to being raised to talk less about your feelings?No it's more bc my feelings and needs are not evaluated, so talking about them could only make things worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:39 AM |
| 6 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)Autistic here as well Dyspraxia and adhd too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 03:10 PM |
| 4 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)First round yeah Dentist told me it's 2 per year Also terrible picture bc my genetics is terrible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 03:06 PM |
| 5 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)https://imgur.com/a/WEAI1h5 My teeth after whitening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:52 PM |
| 10 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)I have a disability for driving The dentist told me my teeth are extremly healthy They are just ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 02:34 PM |
| 10 | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted)I am bottom tier. Short, not able to drive, bad hairline and awful teeth. Also I don't want to marry a single mother or an uneducated woman and I want to be Childfree. Bruh life sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Women in relationships with male best friends?Man here No problem for me as long as he is not your ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Telling men their standards are high because they don't want to date or pursue single moms for a LTR is absurdNot at all Lower-educated ppl have kids at this age in my country So it's a great screening lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Impact of aspergers/high functioning autism on menAutistic 5'7'' carless somewhat ugly (bottom 40%) 21 M right here. I managed to rustle up a fair amount of girls (15+) Even if 70% of them is online, I still lost my virginity at 18, had 2 relationships of 5+ months and currently have a FwB I even managed to reject a girl recently (not bc of look) Secret? Scrounge whatever: it's all griest for the mill. Try all the apps, make your social circle as big as possible, write DM of girls in every app, especially the ones who seem socially akward. I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | q4w what is your opinion on "femcel" women?Hey, this is very interesting, do you have any source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 09:27 PM |
| 2 | What is one thing you would change about male acculturation?Who pursues sex, does not pursues the physical feeling. Sex = someone you consider suitable think you are valuable, sexy and fucking fancy you. Sex is about power and value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Still better than nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | 40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a dateFalse We should breed like cattle! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:52 PM |
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