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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | I just.....I just love it SO much.I can tell you right now, if a dude tries to assault me physically, I’ll defend myself physically..... then of course never see their face again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:56 PM |
| 9 | I just.....I just love it SO much.Right?? I’m so glad she instantly stood up for herself though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:18 PM |
| 11 | Asking men how tall they are before agreeing to a date?This. I’m 5’10” and I recently met a guy (who I think was also 5’10”) tell me if we went on a date, I shouldn’t wear heels because “you’re already so tall and i don’t wear risers in my shoes”. I’ve heard of men saying that before but never experienced it myself. It totally blew my mind. Obviously, he never got that date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 10:35 PM |
| 8 | “Should I wait around for crumbs? He says he likes me, tho”Right?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 20 | “Should I wait around for crumbs? He says he likes me, tho”Exactly!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 92 | Never tell a guy you’re dating about your trauma / past abusive relationshipsThis. A dude I dated told mutual friends explicit details about our sex life in an attempt to paint me in an embarrassing light. We later had a conversation about how guys talk sex with their buddies. He denied he ever did but towed the line “did you ex do that to you?” (Which he did). When I confirmed the ex had, current dude played it off that it was just my insecurities that made me think he was telling everyone everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Getting sh*t for not wanting to move in with a man...thoughts?That’s a hard pass for me. I’ll always have my own money and my own place unless we’re married (even then I’ll definitely still have my own money). I can stay at his place sometimes, but I’ll always have my own space unless married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:54 PM |
| 16 | I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world?Amazing that grown men don’t know basic biology. A dude I dated thought vaginas stretched out after lots of sex. Ummm....they were designed to birth entire babies. Dicks ain’t gunna do shit to stretch them out 🙄 I wonder if they actually know this and hope they can still use it as a shaming, negging tactic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 19 | This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman...That’s exactly where he lost me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:27 AM |
| 12 | How to propose in 2020... the bar was already so lowRight?? I was so confused! “But.....the bride’s family pays..??!” So tired of men dragging women for things that the MAN doesn’t understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:48 PM |
| 24 | “Getting mad at wife for hiding away money”. This post makes me uncomfortable...I loooove all the comments saying the woman is right, though 🙌🏼🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:26 PM |
| 3 | And where is the lie?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Got another one for y’all. What’s with these creeps today?!? That’s not a hero, that’s a manipulator💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Not a romantic relationship...but damn. A sister and brother were robbed at gunpoint. Bro told the robbers to take the sister and rape her and leave him alone. This commentator thinks she should ask *why* he said that and mend the relationship.Amen to that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Got another one for y’all. What’s with these creeps today?!? That’s not a hero, that’s a manipulatorYeppp. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 24 | I just have to share because I’m so proud of myself (story in comments)Yaaaaas!!! I’m so proud of you! I bet that felt amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:23 PM |
| 32 | A post on the ‘seduction’ sub, please don’t get ‘seduced’ by a $3 drink ladies“Won’t be in ‘fun’ mode since no alcohol is involved”. Heaven forbid you see what her day-to-day, non-buzzed personality is. Also, if he’s concerned about money, he should be more picky about who he’s taking on dates rather than date anyone and everyone. 🙄 Making women suffer bc of his own low standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:20 PM |
| 4 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?I’d trade him for the 18 year old dog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?Such a winner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 11:35 PM |
| 17 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?BeCaUse He’S a CATcH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 45 | What was one of the most infuriating neg comments an ex LVM/NVM said to you?“Well.....you’re no engineer.” —-LVM about my intelligence. PS I have a college degree while he barely passed high school | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What are y’all’s go to pick-me-ups?Are you me?? I do this too 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:39 PM |
| 3 | What are y’all’s go to pick-me-ups?I love a smelly candle. And I love shopping a lil too much 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 2 | What are y’all’s go to pick-me-ups?Mmmmmm coffee shop. That sounds so good right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 3 | What are y’all’s go to pick-me-ups?Dude, same. (The cleaning top to bottom). Always helps me reset 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 3 | How did you end a long term relationship with a LVM once you learned about FDS?Luckily, we’re not married, don’t live together, and I have my own money. I just struggle with the emotional aspect/connection part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about Bumble?True. I downloaded it because a friend said it was more serious than Tinder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:47 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about Bumble?Great to know!! Guess I’ll delete it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:41 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about Bumble?Bahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:26 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about Bumble?Yuuuucckkkk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:19 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about Bumble?Ewwww yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:18 PM |
| 29 | How did you end a long term relationship with a LVM once you learned about FDS?Ugh. You right. I have the hardest time internalizing this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Help! Is he HV?I say talk to him. If you want a career, then tell him you are going to have a career. And since you will have a career, you won’t be making dinner 100% of the time. And since you’re going to help with the bills (if that’s what you want), then you will also have a say in what is done with the money. His word is not final. It’s great that he wants to lead. That’s awesome. But that does not mean he gets to take away your autonomy and tell you what to do with your life. I say talk to him about your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:42 PM |
| 140 | Out of all the terrible OLD openers I’ve received, this one is definitely up there.“You dress really well and that makes me insecure.” Imagine if the roles were reversed and women criticized men for dressing well and looking sharp. It’s ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | How To Be A HVW When You're BROKE?I’m exactly where you are. And I have one of those LVMs that could be perceived as a HVM on the surface: successful, driven, fit, handsome, independent, intelligent. Until you get to know him and discover he’s actually a LVM. Anyway, this LVM, has been doing his best to convince me that I’M a LVW because I have student debt and my car loan. He’s always saying I’m not doing enough (no matter how much I do, it’s never enough). He ignores the successes and improvements I have made and focuses only … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | How many times I used to say this 😩 🤡Well shit. This hit like a ton of bricks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Remember!Woooaaahhh this is SO spot on for my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | "I'm not judging you, I'm just looking at you!"This. They absolutely understand. They’re just hoping they can bully you/us into backing down by painting us as crazy, emotional or insecure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:41 PM |
| 12 | Women are shamed when they are raped and society thinks rape culture is a jokeThis burns me up. They very may well have expected to have sex. They probably did. But their expectations does not equal consent. What a dumb thing to think. I may expect to get a promotion at work. But if I was passed over, I don’t show up for my “new job” that I don’t have anyway. Expectations don’t really matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:51 AM |
| 9 | "I'm not judging you, I'm just looking at you!"In the animal kingdom, animals of all kinds (mammals, birds, fish, even bugs) have very subtle ways of communicating. They can roar at each other and claw each other up. But they can also posture certain ways or release pheromones that suggest aggression. Human beings, with our highly sophisticated intellect and communication skills, also have highly tuned non-verbal communications. Don’t let ANYone tell you “I didn’t say anything, why are you mad?” Because non-verbal communication is a thing, y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:44 AM |
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