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usually she comes back in about a couple of months, girls have a lot more boxes to check off with them and are attracted to more miniscule things like the length of your hair or how you talk. its really stupid but hey we all gotta get laid amirite lolol
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:05 PM
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4 is absolutely nothing
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:26 PM
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better get some non disclosure forms printed out bud
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:43 PM
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they have it easy king, youre doing just fine
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:41 PM
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its kind of a joke kind of not, they just have a lot of options and have men lining up to get with them most likely
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:08 PM
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ugh they don't even take dating seriously tbh. She has crazy options
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:06 PM
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I used to bang a lot of chubbies. No shame in it but aim higher in the long run. Glad you’re having fun though
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:24 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:13 AM
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Don’t feel too bad king girls do a lot worse tbh
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:13 AM
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Mans speaking facts. I wouldn’t worry about shawty fr fr they do guys worse any day of the week
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:12 AM
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Ong
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:00 AM
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Just lie please
/r/seduction09/02/22 04:05 AM
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That’s still a boatload though u right
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:43 AM
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It’s slang for hot young women
/r/seduction08/02/22 02:43 AM
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Case in point. The pool for single baddies is actually kinda small. That’s why I never really get it when people say there are “4 billion women in the world “ lol
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:44 PM
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For a hookup no for a long term thing yes you’re right
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:10 PM
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sounds like she likes u
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:36 PM
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If we break it down mathematically there are 4 billion women but probably only 1 billion single baddies around the world
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:34 PM
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I agree with this but sometimes women have preferences narrowed down to the T when it comes to finding a partner and youll be booted out if you even have one slight disagreement w them. You gotta lie to get the cheeks occasionally
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:31 PM
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That’s women for ya ! Haha hope you figure out the puzzle cheif
/r/seduction13/01/22 04:00 AM
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I’m black too lol (what a coincidence) I went to an HBCU and all the women were pulling but yeah I noticed after college they’re scrambling for dudes
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:08 PM
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Lmaooooo
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:04 PM
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Is this post forreal? Just make a tinder account and have at it lol. You will have infinite selections despite your size
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:49 PM
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Ive been dying to know this answer too.... lol you dont see no women reading books about male psychology I wonder why
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:26 PM
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they do but the women that want u are over 50 and want u to eat them out for 30 min or more
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:43 PM
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i wouldnt worry about it, she says no she not your hoe
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:41 PM
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Yeah sorry this happend to you buddy but yes its strange, women have a lot of time on their hands to go through many hours of dating and even day before they cant take it anymore. maybe next time in the future just read her body language more and maybe try and get a little more flirtacious and physical early on ( not sex but maybe like had holding on the first date and see how she reacts)
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:39 PM
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Just make sure theres a lot of tint on ur window and youre in a secluded place around night time, done it plenty of times, wouldnt do it again but its not that scary
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:35 PM
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yeah alot of those apps are worse after covid tbh. 2020 was the last awesome year of those. Honeslty the best thing to do is reset ur account and use a new phone number and the most high quality pics of yourself that you can find
/r/seduction12/01/22 07:00 PM
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I am sorry bro but trust me you dont want an ice queen. Its not worth the effort, epsecially in this day an age( the simp age). Just drop her ass and move on, unless you would suffer from a dry phone of course
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:58 PM
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Sounds like heaaven
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:57 PM
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I wouldnt worry about it man, woman have it easier tbh
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:56 PM
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ur fine bro i work at a bank and do this with clients all the time
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:54 PM
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MAN. Thank you for posting this, i was in borderline simp mode earlier
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:38 PM
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yeah think of it like this... as a guy to impress a woman you basically have to be riding a unicycle while juggling four bowling pins that are on fire while you are on a tight rope lmao. Basically saying: you have to do THE MOST to get her interested genuinely and keep her coming back. Dont sweat it bro they live life in easy mode ( know im getting downvoted for saying that )
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:35 PM
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unfortunately i agree lol, woman are wayyyyy more emotional to begin with and there is always that saying that opposites attract. im probably gonna get downvoted as well bud
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:31 PM
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Hahahah oh believe me I’ve learned my lesson
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:25 PM
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Thats what ive started doing and it felt a lot less pressuring to go out and do some daygame. I used to just straight up ask for phone numbers or IG's the first sentence but nowadays that can be seen as coming off too strong.
/r/seduction12/01/22 06:09 PM
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That’s not too too bad of a gap. I was thinking >35 when you said older women lol. Then again I am 27. Any-who, do you know exactly what she is looking for out of the encounters? I would play it safe on the first date and take it slow but please don’t be afraid to introduce physical touch into the picture. Maybe give her a hug and put your arm around her and she how she reacts. Kind of read the body language and you’ll be able to figure it out from that angle possibly
/r/seduction12/01/22 03:29 AM
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Trueeeee
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:48 PM
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Forreal dude good luck 👍
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:40 PM
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I didn’t mean build off my bad. I meant learn from that social interaction and just more adept about recognizing female body language
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:37 PM
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Bro I’ve been in that situation too many times. I think it’s important you were able to recognize that and build off from her energy. It’s a shame she’s acting like that though. But sometimes that’s just normal girl behavior. Especially since she’s pretty
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:33 PM
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That sounds like a smooth ass plan. Honestly if she is receptive to your flirting and is showing a lot of interest then I think you are in the clear. Just take it a little slow with her if she is a baddie and youll be alright
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:43 PM
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Youre not going to wanna hear this but it is possible tht you might be coming on too strong. She should want to come over to youre place instead of you luring her over. This is if shes pretty though...... haha. If shes so so looking then maybe shell be down to do all that. I know with pretty girls it usually takes more time and their vetting process is more extensive
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:41 PM
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Youre not going to wanna hear this but it is possible tht you might be coming on too strong. She should want to come over to youre place instead of you luring her over. This is if shes pretty though...... haha. If shes so so looking then maybe shell be down to do all that. I know with pretty girls it usually takes more time and their vetting process is more extensive
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:41 PM
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I do stuff like this all the time lol feelsgoodman
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:56 PM
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Normal girl behavior, sorry that happened to u cheif. Karma will get her
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:55 PM
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haha my boy smooth with it . hope u hit
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:51 PM
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Im confused, is this a girl talking shit ? lmao
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:02 PM
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Niceeee, maybe play dumb and ask about her outfit ( say like oh I was wondering where you got that because im looking for a gift for my sister) and then let that lead into conversations about her. Girls like to talk about themselves all the time
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:00 PM
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Id get on tinder and looks at thee girls instgrams and slide into their DM. Maybe hit up a bar or club by yourself so you can pull
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:56 PM
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oooooo yeah if you scare her away youre going to have to move on to the next. You got to remember to look cool and give her the impression that you have options
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:55 PM
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I woudnt really risk it dude lol sounds like a catfish, she could also block you when you get to the location because that is something women do
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:55 PM
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Thats whats up. Maybe next time ask for her IG
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:53 PM
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Dont give her too much attention or validation without seeing any reciprocation back
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:53 PM
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Maybe dont move so fast, not too sure on this one haha. Dont come on too strong
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:52 PM
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You have to show interest but not too much, validation and attention is a womans currency
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:52 PM
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Yes please dont listen to the people who said " it ll happen eventually" type shit. Trust me as guys we dont have the luxury of potential gf/ bf's constantly approaching us. Youre going to have to put a lot of effort in to make things happen but it will be worth it bro. I just see a lot of buddies of mine ( im 27) in there 30's and late twenties have this mentality and they are not people you want to be lolol
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:51 PM
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Sometimes when i do approaches like this i get a huge adrenaline rush and and elevated heart rate. After i do it it feels so nice. Almost like a high in itself. Keep it up bro
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:48 PM
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hahahahahah, this is pure gold. I wish more guys though like this instead of being some only fans buying ass simps
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:24 PM
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Maybe just be a FWB w her
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:22 PM
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You made it out the mud my boy....
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:21 PM
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I went up to a lady on the street one time and asked if she was single. Lol oh boy the response was so awkward
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:20 PM
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You should buy a house with that. Bitches loves houses.
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:19 PM
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Its a stretch and its kind of simp-y but you can just left swipe on Tinder girls and look for he ones with IG's. You could slide into those dms of girls you fancy. Prolly wont work but its worth a try
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:17 PM
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It took me a fat minute bro. But trust me it’ll happen
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:11 PM
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I’m average too bro. I was lucky enough to get free professional photography done so having photos like that on my profile helped immensely
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:06 PM
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A few years back ago on tinder. Back when the app was a little decent lol
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:02 PM
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I feel the struggle. I wasted so much money on dating app subscriptions to get the deed done lol. Enough money to pay several car notes
/r/seduction04/01/22 03:58 PM
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My bad lol. I lost it at 24
/r/seduction04/01/22 03:55 PM
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Things can change bro I lost my virginity at that age and now my body count is 16. Im 27 rn I know thats short but I hope thats at least somewhat insipring. I usually dont tell many ppl this tho hahah
/r/seduction03/01/22 10:19 PM
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Just order a club soda
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:21 PM
1

Maybe just get on tinder for a bit
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:05 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:57 PM
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Right?! They have so many options and there are plenty of guys out there who can perform to their liking
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:42 PM
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Im going threw the same type of ish bro and all i can say is pussy attracts pussy. Just focus on more girls and leave her alone and hopefully she will come back. if she doesnt then u just gotta move on and look cool
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:36 PM
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LIE LIE LIE to her. Trust me bro youll score
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:16 PM
1

True words have never been spoken lol. Girls high key are afraid that dudes will go on a rampage if they reject us. They will 9/10 give you their phone number or social out of fear of safety ( not 9/10 but you get the gist). Focus on building a little rapport and seeing how shes feeling the conversation
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:57 PM
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honestly im learning this the hard way rn but there is never a " wonderful time" to approach, you just have to outweigh the risks and benefits and see if its worth asking her a question of some sort. Just start with a light topic ( ask about time or comment the weather) and then just work your way up from there
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:53 PM
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Right? We gotta stop simpn and approach them in person
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:00 PM
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We know who the girl is in this post lol jk
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:59 PM
0

Damn bruh younger than 20? Take a load at this guy ;) hahahahahaha
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:58 PM
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This is my same mentality, I try to meet up with them ASAP and some people say Im coming off too strong. I dont know though I thought you had to see each other face to face to see if there is actual chemistry
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:57 PM
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I notice a lot of this too especially on dating apps. Once I start talking about vegan recipes the ladys go bonkers
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:50 PM
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JEEZ lmao. What is this NYC place you speak of ? Sounds worse than California (I know its new york lol)
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:33 PM
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I was gonna chime in and say yeah you only really need to under 10 approaches to close and get a few numbers. I couldnt imagine doing a hundred lol. My max is one a day.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:28 PM
1

Thats true but sometimes I think the quality of people you meet online on apps is for sure lagging compared to the people u meet in persons
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:26 PM
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I tell myself that everday, life is too short
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:25 PM
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Its brazy!
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:13 PM
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lol totally agree, they need to change tbh. At the end of the day whether youre asking for an IG or a phone # youre just another notification on her phone. It easy to come off too strong but i wouldnt worry too much about it unless ur asking to screw or something
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:13 PM
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