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–	Recently sober, looking for advice from other addicts on how to transition my game. I stopped drinking about a year ago for health related issues. It hasn't been an issue for me, but its mainly a confidence thing in my opinion. I never give anyone a chance to question it and make it seem like the most obvious and normal thing in the world to......order just a diet coke at a restaurant. Or when I'm at a bar with a girl, just ordering a virgin cocktail. When someone asks, I just say I'm cutting back on my drinking and no one really gets into it or seems to care. If you don't care…	/r/seduction	19/03/19 03:46 AM
–	Asked a girl out to a date via text never heard back from her No problem! Also to reiterate what I said before...keep it low key and have the no big deal attitude about it when you see her in terms of her not responding. If she tries to apologize, just say something along the lines of "ah i'm not worried about it." or "its not a big deal" and transition into talking about something else. Or if she doesn't bring it up just ask her how the night went and tell her you hope she had a fun time with her friends. Don't seem desperate about the situation.	/r/seduction	18/03/19 12:45 AM
–	Asked a girl out to a date via text never heard back from her In my uni job and internships, it was the same deal. Try being friends with her first. Maybe she can introduce you to one of her friends, you never know. But I would still keep it professional - even in a relaxed friendly atmosphere.	/r/seduction	18/03/19 12:40 AM
–	Asked a girl out to a date via text never heard back from her Isn't one of the golden rules don't sleep with your co-workers or roomies....? I don't know the full context, but I know in my work place and all the ones I can think of it would be really unprofessional (Business/finance world). I would brush it off the next day. Don't point it out that she never responded, don't make up so lie about what you did instead. Just say I hope you had fun with your friends and leave it at that and keep it professional next time.	/r/seduction	18/03/19 12:37 AM
–	Do girls care about race? Hey OP....don't let some guy on the internet feed into your insecurities. Don't generalize women into thinking they're not attracted to Indian men. I'm Indian and I haven't ever had an issue meeting gorgeous women (that line literally sounds like an ad...). Its all about working on your personal self: Getting into shape. Do you lift weights and have visible abs? Are you a marathon runner? Or...are you some flobby indian with no muscles and a pot belly? Maybe you need to check out /r/loseit Dress…	/r/seduction	16/03/19 06:43 AM
6	Do girls care about race? Well, I'm Indian and I don't have any issues being with stunning women (from White to Latina to African American to Central Asian. South Asian is pretty much the only major ethnicity I have not been with). Working on being in shape, good fashion sense, developing an outgoing personality, and having a strong career makes a really big difference. The thing with being a minority is that you need to develop an "exotic" appeal, not a "foreigner" stereotype.	/r/seduction	16/03/19 06:34 AM
3	Literally every excuse you tell yourself to not approach can be translated into “I’m scared to go talk to that girl”... But in a way she doesn't mean for networking...because thats what I would think if a work colleague asked me for drink. :)	/r/seduction	08/03/19 09:14 PM

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