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Backuponit2017/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 02:38 PM
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Backuponit2017/r/MGTOW22/11/17 02:26 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 02:47 PM
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Sorry man that sucks.
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 02:24 AM
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TLDR
/r/MGTOW07/06/19 01:16 PM
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Reality is often disappointing.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 11:21 PM
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Watch porn instead for a while and save some dough.
/r/MGTOW05/07/18 02:53 AM
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Not worth it. Cut ties now as cold as it may seem. The rabbit hole is deep with BPDs and it takes a long time to recover. Trust.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 05:08 AM
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Look up borderline personality disorder. Very common in your scenario.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 03:13 AM
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Phaedrus, keep your distance from this woman. I skimmed over all of this and one thing stuck out: crazy ex wife, crazy ex girlfriend, and current very attractive girlfriend. Crazy is the common denominator. I’ve been there too many times. There’s something in YOU that attracts you to these types of women beyond just physical attraction and maintains these relationships. Looking from the outside, creating and maintaining drama is a driving force in all these scenarios. Step back and take a look a…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 05:03 AM
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Agree with above. Ironclad prenup, no children, and the relationship didn’t work out. I don’t think there’s anything to criticize about her actions.
/r/MGTOW16/02/18 06:41 PM
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If I read it correctly, he ended things in a civil manner and her eventual response was to send screenshots of their intimate texts to his employees? Wow...Just wow. That’s evil.
/r/MGTOW05/02/18 09:05 PM
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Anal LMAO...I just choked on my coffee!
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 03:13 PM
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When I first tried it, I️ was worried that I’d get too tired or feel too weak. It was actually the opposite. Your body adapts. Have been doing it for around 8 months and continue to make gains on all my lifts.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:56 PM
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Viagra.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 08:12 AM
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AWALT indeed. Hang in there...it will get better.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 08:09 AM
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This was a very insightful post. Kudos to you for living your life as you wanted it!
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:52 PM
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She initiated. We had been having issues for some time and had attempted counseling together for a brief period of time. I went to a therapist on my own and attempted to salvage it even after her filing for almost 4 months. Why did it happen? I️ would say ultimately both people have to value one another and the relationship and put the other person’s needs first and ultimately it became only one person doing it. It has to be a mutual effort. As mentioned, i tried to salvage it and stopped after …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 03:48 AM
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I️ think we all have those moments. Happiness is an inside job, but I️ think that the moments that bring us the most peace on a spiritual level is when we are part of something greater than just our own needs and desires. To put it another way, when we are doing something for others that is just for their benefit (and not our own), it helps us to attain peace.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:39 PM
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AWALT indeed. Take it as a clear signal to keep moving forward and continuing on your path. As you wrote, she was trying to push your buttons and see if there was still a way to hook you and get an emotional reaction. It’s unfortunate that she tried to rescind her “apology” which speaks volumes to her character.
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 03:22 PM
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I️ have my children with me half the time. Had to fight for it to be an equal parent. I️ work really hard to keep a loving stable home environment for them. Raising them is the most joyful and hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life and they are my biggest priority.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 02:58 PM
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I️ posted this originally as a cross post but removed some specific details so there would be no potential identifying markers. She probably cheated, yes, and I wouldn’t be surprised if she did. There was no cheating or abuse on my end.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 06:46 AM
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In between sets here at the gym so I’ll respond quickly. You make some valid points regarding coparenting and believe me, I’ve tried it. My intention about posting wasn’t seeking validation or cheers. I asked for thoughts to get people thinking about how this one example of mine could be easily applicable to those who had been in similar situation and what pitfalls to watch out for. I️ do appreciate the folks commenting on how well/poorly I️ handled the situation at the time so others can learn.…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:18 AM
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In between sets here at the gym so I’ll respond quickly. You make some valid points regarding coparenting and believe me, I’ve tried it. My intention about posting wasn’t seeking validation or cheers. I asked for thoughts to get people thinking about how this one example of mine could be easily applicable to those who had been in similar situation and what pitfalls to watch out for. I️ do appreciate the folks commenting on how well/poorly I️ handled the situation at the time so others can learn.…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:11 AM
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Just a bit of additional background: after the divorce was final at the beginning of this year, I️ had asked to communicate by email only and only about the kids unless it was an urgent matter. She would continue to text about non urgent things (not always child related) and basically try to cross the boundaries I’d created for myself, upon which I️ would then ignore her messages. These boundaries were very clear. Messages from her would peter out and then ramp back up in a cyclical pattern. Thi…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 11:23 PM
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completely agree. She got dumped and was sniffing around. There was no real remorse about the consequences of her actions upon her children. It doesn’t really matter I️ suppose as I’ve been able to focus my energy and efforts upon being a better father and person and my life has improved in so many other ways aside from finances.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:50 PM
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Appreciate the thoughtful response. You’ve made excellent points. I️ have put effort in the past to maintain a cordial, business-like relationship (definitely not friends) with her regarding the children to maintain stability for the children, but invariably she reneges on any agreements made about the children and I️ end up having to clean up the mess. In addition, she would frequently also try to cross boundaries and interfere with either my time with my children or with my personal life. I️’v…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:45 PM
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This was via imessage. There were additional text message communications about the children after I️ wrote that text so it was certainly read by her. Plus, her “read” receipts is on for IMessages. What firm decision are you referring to?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 04:44 PM
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Thank you. I’ll take a look at it.
/r/MGTOW22/11/17 02:49 PM
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Yes, I deleted the original post. Life_advice made an excellent point. I️ can maybe repost with much less specifics so other people can recognize the AWALT nature and manipulative tactics used and learn as I did. I agree, much of it was focused on just herself and superficial things and not upon the value of a real bond and the work it takes to maintain that bond and commitment.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 02:09 PM
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Agreed. That’s why I️ ignored everything she said and only responded to concerns regarding the children.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 04:34 AM
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