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| 34 | Just went out and did about 15-20 approachesBro I swear it puts you in this state of high better than most drugs… once you get the ball rolling even with 3 approaches in the beginning of the night (these are the hardest), you turn into this icy cold pimp who doesn’t gaf about rejection. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 11:02 AM |
| 3 | I get dates but girls almost always ghost me afterwards. What am I doing wrong?Username checks out 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Going out with a girl and her friends at the clubDon’t make her your sole focus for the night. Idk how close you are with her or if you know she’s down for you but expect her to get hit by and hit on other dudes. If this happens go escalate on her friend or some other girl at the club. But yeah most importantly have fun. Try to isolate from the group with just the two of you later on and dance… from there on go for a make out and the rest is history. Good luck | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.I can relate 100%, I’ve had girls I was attracted to physically but they became really desperate or came off weird and lost interest just like that. You start seeing them objectively, without their attractive halo effect outshining their flaws. Just goes to show how important reading signals and calibration is. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Why is sleeping with a huge number of women considered so desireble?“A lock that is opened by many keys is undesirable, but a key that opens many locks is a master key” - Sun tzu probably | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Do people go to bars alone? Male or femaleI did it a couple times and there is this pressure for me to not be the dude who holds his drink in one hand and leans against a wall mean mugging. It forced me to go talk to strangers and is really a good test of your character to put yourself outside of your comfort zone. I would say go to a bar (preferably) or a club with a bar. The best place is usually outside by the smoking area. By the time it’s started to peak, people will be too drunk to give a fuck that you are alone and getting reject… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 01:51 AM |
| 5 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can giveExactly proves OP’s point, it’s like telling a depressed person to “just be happy! 😃” There is POWER in accepting the fact that you are short, you will never doubt that about yourself. Acting delusional won’t get you far, it’s like an ugly person acting like it doesn’t matter they ugly when dating. There’s a big disconnect between ur “positive thoughts” and the real world. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 11 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can giveYou are comparing social anxiety to height… and yes social anxiety can be overcome or at least lessened. But height can’t be changed, and as OP stated the brutal reality is that it is a handicap in the superficial dating world. Imagine you have a short guy and tall guy and both are equally good looking and have good game, obviously the taller guy has the advantage and sucks to be short. But yeah you are right, we have to accept the things we can’t change and work on the things we can without bei… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Male, goodlooking, something blocks me from approaching girlsIf you are conventionally good looking to women, you already won half the battle. When women show signs they are attracted then you better find ur balls and approach, because ime there’s a window of opportunity she’s open, after that time goes by, she’s gonna either think ur too pussy or not interested and will have moved on. Its crazy how many guys in bars/clubs do the “mean-mug w/ drink in hand” the whole night, you don’t wanna be that guy. GL | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Are you born a beta or raised to be beta?Both, genetics play a big role in shaping base personality of who you essentially are (how you are when you were an infant). But also, science now points to brain plasticity, how even after decades, a person is able to re-wire their brain (ex. Enough exposure and repetition can ingrain new beliefs), easier said than done though. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 68 | Why are so many young men acting asexual?I think there’s this societal pressure making guys act this way. With all the #metoo shit and women who love to play the victim role, it seems that actively going for girls is almost taboo, that your a “dog” or “thirsty fucboi” and a “simp”. I’ve seen instances in my city where girls will literally report guys for approaching them calling it sexual harassment, though some guys really do act creepy. And combine this with free unlimited porn and easy access to weed/drugs to completely numb you, it… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 09:17 AM |
| 3 | Lack of control in life“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results” -Einstein; Work hard vs work smart | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Vaping?Hey I’m in the same boat as you. I quit vaping nicotine for 2months and last week after being overwhelmed by stress, I gave in and took a hit. I didn’t even feel a head rush and the following days I felt an increased feeling of anxiety. But I felt better overall. The 2months free from nic, I felt down and had night terrors every single night. It’s like nicotine gives you a set of both positive and negative feelings, you pay a price for its dopamine. But we both know that this habit isn’t good fo… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 09:30 AM |
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