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| 1 | Communication is useless if he straight up doesn't care | BaconSquared | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:36 PM |
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| 52 | How I sleep at night knowing no man is cheating on me, lying, hiding things, scheming for ways to undermine me / get my money, drooling over instapics of another woman, watching porn, dragging me to his buddies...!Isn't that the best way to wake up? My pup wakes up and I honestly think she misses me while we sleep snuggled up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 87 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.Its about weed. You take the weed and put it nicely in a pipe (also called bowl because it has an indentation to hold the weed) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 04:19 PM |
| 63 | Family annihilators and how to spot one quickly when dating. Long-ish post. TW [murder, suicide]If you haven't read it yet, read gift of fear. These guys are human and its very easy to see why they these things. And if we understand why they do them, we can me more accurate in predicting and gtfo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Are they getting off on knowing that we know they are larping at this point? All this BS and the scrotes still won’t quit…I love that you're not going to address that. Its like you've blocked and deleted that from your brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:28 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, how long did it take for the man's mask to slip, during dating?Its like a love nuclear bomb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 08:16 AM |
| 42 | More Women Should Snoop. : "Ex-wife found out husband had secret life when he was arrested for fiancee's murder"Even when a woman is over thirty, you still aren't in the same place in your life as someone 20 years older. Plus I don't want to be taking care of him while I've still got life to live. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 03:22 AM |
| 28 | Vetting Tips I Learned And Used Just By Dating A LVM: A CompilationOr high-school years excessively | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 06:52 PM |
| 8 | Why do men gain weight after getting engaged?I am aware of that process. What I really would like to read up is on the malabsorption and that angle of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 03:39 PM |
| 12 | Why do men gain weight after getting engaged?Is there a name for this? I'd like to do some research on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 07:26 AM |
| 27 | Men are now sticking women with needles instead of putting roofies inside their drinks! They’re now recommending we all wear denim jackets to avoid getting needle drugged at clubs and bars.I doubt a denim jacket would stop a needle injection. Are they excepting women to go in head to toe denim? Not even an ankle or foot showing?! Denim turtle necks?! It seems safer just to not go to these places. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 07:14 PM |
| 103 | Red flags and alarm bells are sounding when I saw this. What in the pickmeverse is this?!In The Gift of Fear book, they mention this. Like a person joked about an usual box being a bomb and then it was. Your brain is screaming at us the right answer, we just have to trust it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 02:06 AM |
| 150 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...It is okay to use oriental for objects. Im sure they see these women as objects | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it.Wooow thats next level. I am glad that you are out of that situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 05:53 AM |
| 17 | A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it.Oh the ol trick of drive you crazy and then call you crazy 🙄 its like they all know the same tricks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 23 | This is how a HVM should reactI'm not trying to argue but how is this bare minimum? I can't thing of what more he could have done. He respected her, took care of a situation AND fully supported her if she decided to not accept the way he took care of the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 11 | A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it.I can't see the comments but I bet it's not worth seeing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 05:57 PM |
| 29 | A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it.He wants control over her. By twisting her reality, she has to rely on him. Like how he said she wouldn't need a job, and got her friends on his side | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 05:57 PM |
| 35 | A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it.With one of my nvx I told him we should argue over text because things always got twisted things and I'd like to have a record to look back on. 🙄 obviously he never agreed to that, he just wanted to yell and twist the situation and police my "tone" and "volume" I spoke to him in. Never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 05:55 PM |
| 34 | We deserved to be protected. We deserved to be stood up for. We deserved to be treated with respect and kindness.Being innocent isn't something I strive to be. I want to be strong and wise. Seems better than innocent to me. And it comes with time and experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 16 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itIts okay to not let any man sleep over, if you do ever decide its worth a shot to try and get close to a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:13 AM |
| 11 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡If you never ask you can never get rejected 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 08:59 PM |
| 57 | LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.Good! I was thinking that's what a hv man would do but I didn't really know how badly they threatened him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 65 | LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.So what did hv uncle do? Did he stop or keep helping in secret? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:17 PM |
| 33 | Lurking Redpill forums is actually very beneficial for womenI like this take on it way better than the way I first interpreted it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:50 AM |
| 26 | Lurking Redpill forums is actually very beneficial for womenAre you actually promoting using Red pill tactics back on them? That's not very high value. I see learning and understanding their tactics but using them back to them just lowers yourself to their level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:10 AM |
| 15 | I’m so tired of hearing that women are “lucky” because we get free drinks at bars or get into nightclubs for free.Yeah but I'd have to be a women they're not interested in and/or no attraction to to make it even. And the women has to be bigger and stronger than them, easily overpowering them if she wants. That way it's even. Actually this is why a lot of homophobia exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:57 PM |
| 23 | The “Menstrual Cycle of Abuse” 😂😂😂This is a very fine line away from reality 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 08:32 PM |
| 10 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑"Tested a couple times" 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 05:28 PM |
| 46 | The “Menstrual Cycle of Abuse” 😂😂😂This is obviously satirical lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 161 | Old as dirt scrote tries to hit on much younger (and richer) woman at gym. She acts like a Queen 👑Would have been more accurate to say he's too old for her. But I guess then you take the risk of him becoming aggressive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 58 | “Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates.It's a perfect textbook neg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:10 PM |
| 88 | "You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging himThats an expensive fetish to keep up on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:11 PM |
| 285 | Trust He SucksEven if it is just ignorance, its still okay to drop him. You don't want to be with a bumbling ignorant moron who doesn't understand basic human relationship mechanics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:42 PM |
| 32 | The "Woke" Men Who Still Want HousewivesIn my experience they'll just live in filth. And if you live together, you'll live in filth too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 09:43 PM |
| 6 | 5 months since leaving LVM, my success/progress storyYay you!!! I also have high value puppies. It's the best knowing that my love will be returned ten fold. I dont think there is a man in existence that will miss me while we sleep in the same bed and be absolutely elated to see me and do anything I want to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 34 | What are (seemingly) benign things that a LVM does that betray his character?Thats terrible. Seems like he cared more about your body that you or your relationship 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 77 | Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing?My lvm ex said this to me all the time. After not solving the issue, saying he didn't want to talk about it and/or doing it again. IM BRINGING IT UP BECAUSE ITS STILL AN ISSUE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Can we talk about entitlement in dating for a sec?🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:51 PM |
| 0 | That fucking slug story broke meI dont think this is real, she says she terrified of slugs but has a pet snail? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Bumble Finally Paid Off...Let me know how you like it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 9 | Bumble Finally Paid Off...I strongly reccomend the book The Gift of Fear. It teaches us to trust our institution. Its helped me a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:48 PM |
| 6 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSStatistically a woman will be a safer bet if you are attracted to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 5 | “Doesn’t like men”I love that my pups are pickmes, I wish everyone deserved that kind of trust and love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | I know we don’t waste time writing paragraphs to NVM - especially ones who send d*ck pics - but this is hilarious! Make them squirm!Sometimes people get off on being abused and treated poorly. Its sad but it may be due to past trauma. Obviously its NOT SAD when they force this fetish on unsuspecting women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Put your energy into the type of love that rewards youMy favorite is fuzzy love. I have two high value pups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 78 | Men will date you while still looking for his wife ..I agree 50%. I am childfree for life. If a man has kids there are only two options. 1 he is a deadbeat dad, so he and I wouldn't see his kids but he is a nvm. 2. He's a good dad and the kids would have to be part of our lives, noooo thank you. Buuut I've been divorced before and I learned a lot and grew as a person. While I totally respect your standard of no divorced men and fathers it gets harder as we get older. In my mid 30s seems to be downright impossible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:58 PM |
| 19 | What do you ladies think?Universal basic income | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 07:49 PM |
| 105 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.I've actually done that before. A guy kept calling us women girls so I started calling him and his friends boys. And he stopped and was like, thats disrespectful, im a man. And I was like oh, well you kept calling us girls so I thought boys would be fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:37 PM |
| 30 | Tell it to me straight QueensI feel this so much. I think the hardest thing is the fact that we have to be okay with being alone or we will lower our standards to be with a lvm. I will say I have dogs and loving them has never been wasted. They give me love back ten fold. They always are excited to see me, read my emotions and do their best to match it, cheer me up and give me a great reason to better myself for me and them. I would say they're hvp (high value puppies) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:31 AM |
| 12 | Teen male gamer murders female gamerWhat does "MRA" mean here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 06:11 AM |
| 9 | Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship.This is a huge reason my relationship ended. "Why cant you just be easy and fun?" "Why do you always have a problem" bruh the problem was him and the reason I always had a problem was because he was always around doing the same stuff without changing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | I asked men why don't they accept compliments from other men...The only way to "win" is to not play. But block and delete doesn't work irl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:52 PM |
| 5 | How's your life/love life right now? What's on your mind these days?Im still living with my lvm ex. I have a few days till my new place is ready. Its so hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 20 | I asked men why don't they accept compliments from other men...So when we accept compliments they think we are attracted to them?? Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 19 | Background checks workI totally read this wrong and thought you were going to search for dates in the online court pages 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Thank you FDS for helping me leave a DV situationI am proud of you❤❤❤ You are incredibly brave and strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:58 PM |
| 14 | QUEEN ENERGY 👸🏼 She caught her younger boyfriend lying about being with his coworkerI think that was cute because Jim already said he was going to marry her. And then he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 59 | A Valentine's Day Tale.Oof that last line hit me hard. I have just recently broken off my long relationship with a lvm. I told him all year things I want for Christmas, I told him to write them down because ill forget. 3 days before Xmas he asks me what I want. I told him I've been telling him and I'd like a surprise. He asks again because he forgot it all. I told him the best gifts are when he notices a problem in my life and fixes it, like when I say I wish I had another instapot pan I can make 2 things. I asked him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Here are awesome RED flags to watch out for when vetting men. Found them in a Kristen Leo video. Link is in the caption.Do the men actually go 50/50 on childcare/housework and have enough paternity leave? I know its probably a person by person situation but just from dating and talking with people I know that is absolutely not the norm here in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:14 PM |
| 6 | Here are awesome RED flags to watch out for when vetting men. Found them in a Kristen Leo video. Link is in the caption.❤❤ what a good guy! I think I read somewhere that Denmark has a very high happiness index. I bet women being equal and no slut shaming has a lot to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 08:50 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts on The Five Love LanguagesIts always the worst when they change for a short amount of time. Its like oh, you ARE capable of this but then they go back to not caring. If your caring only lasts a short time, I dont want it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 08:20 PM |
| 5 | I had a man say "enjoy your servitude" when I told him about my job that pays me more than his.Did she overheat and get burns or did it catch on fire? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 20 | My parents tried grooming me, but I wasn’t having ANY of it!They'll be sleeping on a bare mattress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:08 PM |
| 92 | My parents tried grooming me, but I wasn’t having ANY of it!I once had someone teach me how to carefully tuck in a top sheet on a bed saying this is what men want once you're married. I just stuffed it in the bottom and said if he's not happy with that, then he doesn't want me. I was difficult to raise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 04:17 AM |
| 77 | This Sub is so empowering that I can't stand other relationship subredditsI communicated with everything I had. He didn't care, he fully understood. Understanding without caring makes commutation useless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 12:53 AM |
| 4 | To lurking FDS women: You want advice on your relationship? Easy answer below.The Gift of Fear goes into this a lot. Its a good book that shows you, you DO know whats going on and to trust yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:27 PM |
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