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| 1 | Is it wrong to tell your kids why you and your partner separated if the partner cheated?I think it depends on the age of the kids, can they handle it? Are they in therapy in order to process the divorce? I think if the kid is over 12/13 then yes, if the kid is younger I think it would be too much for them to handle at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | QW: For those women who didn't engage in casual sex do you think you are unicorn or more common than the manosphere believes?You stated your opinion on your post, I stated my opimion on my comment. Why is it okay when you do it but pointless when I do it? Did I ever said yoy couldnt have an opinion different to mine on casual sex? I honestly how you went on a whole rant about dehumanization (and I'm not sure you understand the meaning of that word, because feminism advocates for people with mental health issues a lot by encouraging both men and women to get help, those women and men who make fun of men for having ment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:13 PM |
| 3 | QW: For those women who didn't engage in casual sex do you think you are unicorn or more common than the manosphere believes?What the actual fuck lmao You stated your opinion on your post, I stated my opinion in my conment, I really don't understand what set you off like that. I'm from LATAM, stop asuming everyone with access to the internet is a gringo. And please stop using us as prop to shut other people up, the whole "people in the third world have it worst" it's just an attempt to make people speaking up think "well someone has worst problems than me so I should just be gratefull" and guilt trip them into staying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | QW: For those women who didn't engage in casual sex do you think you are unicorn or more common than the manosphere believes?First off, you can't say this: I am not trying to be rude here just curious. On the same comment that you insinuate I am unable to think by myself: So of course it's good to you because society says so. And accuse me of attacking marriage and monogamy with zero evidence (I even mentioned I've been in a relationship for the past 6 years lol): And another thing you feminist get to critique marriage and monogamy but we aren't allowed to critique hook up culture and casual sex? And second, I mention… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | QW: For those women who didn't engage in casual sex do you think you are unicorn or more common than the manosphere believes?I met my bf at 19yo so I only had 2 sexual parteners before him, I don't think casual sex is bad in any way and I certanly don't consider myself a "unicorn", most of my friends were single for all these years (I'm now 26) and only 2 out of 6 had one night stands. Out of the 2 that did engage in casual sex, I only had issues with one, because she wasn't being safe, but aside from that I have absolutely nothing against casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:27 PM |
| 3 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreBecause It's creepy. It's useless, the experience you get on a brothel has absolutely nothing in common with the real thing except a vagina. The woman in the brothel is either getting paid to pretend they like you and what you arr doing, or has been trafficked and is being forced to pretend as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:34 PM |
| 9 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsIntimacy can be freindship, family, a partener, even pets. Interpersonal relationships are more than just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectLmao okay Skinner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectI agree, but I think you are down playing the element of force. Most of those women were sold to their husbands and were forced to have sex with them, marital rape was legal not so long ago, and still is in many countries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectNice save | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectLmao thought the exact same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegalYes, I said so on my comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 01:31 PM |
| 13 | Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegalThreatened is the word you are looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 09:18 PM |
| 16 | Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegalLmao men on this sub will die on the "it's legal" hill, knowing damn well they would say the same thing if 14 was the "legal" age. I'm in my mid 20s, I hate getting hit on by men BECAUSE they don't take no for answer, and I remember getting hit on by men in their 30s when I was 17-20 as well, it always felt off, like a red flag, I thought it was wierd and never liked it, but only now I realise how creepy it actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:54 PM |
| 5 | What can we learn from Tom Brady’s impending divorce from Gisele?Gringos forget there is a whole world outside of their country, american football is not known all over the world the same way modeling is. Giselle has more money and more fame than Brady. And idc about THEM, but I do agree that staying in a marriage with a neglectfull spouse is hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Tom Brady’s impending divorce from Gisele?God you are dense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you be mad if a man you liked a lot made you wait for sex?I would be more than happy to wait a few months, but I wouldn't wait untill marriage, I need to know if we are sexually compatible before. He tells you in the past, he used to do one night stands, FWB and fuck buddies... but he grew to hate those relationships and decided to change course. I wouldn't care at all about that, tbh I don't see how his past is relevant when it comes to my own feeling about waiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 01:52 PM |
| 5 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.Jesus, next time just add a flair that says incel so people don't waste their time trying to have a productive discussion with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 05:12 PM |
| 8 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.Psichology todat didn't run that study, they just published an article about it. Paul Dolan is the researcher. And somehow your personal and biased anecdotal evidence is more reliable? Just how dumb are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:59 PM |
| 16 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.females Ugh. Where did I say what if? I stated our 3 options, and that no one with an ounce of self love would choose option 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 10 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.Your anecdotal evidence vs sociological study, yeah, checks out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 16 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.You can have a partener and still have friends, I have been with my bf for almost 6 years yet I always make time for my friends. Women today really want some kind of guarantee don't they? What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:45 PM |
| 10 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.Oh, and "all the spinsters I know" is? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 7 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.OP is equating gold diggers to young, usually underage, women who have to resort to sex work in order to live. And he uses the world "females" when reffering to women, he is an incel, and this a revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 03:56 PM |
| 7 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.I just don't think they will be OK with being alone. Most spinster I know are miserable. I Single women are the heppiest demographic. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy females Ugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 03:45 PM |
| 42 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.We should rename the sub to "revengefantasy" lmao. Anyway, if this is the case, then who cares? Let us crash and burn. As we see it we have 3 options: Get with a man who meets our standarts, and maybe get cheated on. Get with a man who doesn't meet our standarts, and maybe get cheated on. Stay single, enjoy life, travel, hang out with friends, discover new hobbies, masturbate/get a fwb. I don't think anyone with an ounce of self love would choose option number 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Women’s ability to be insanely selective is unfounded, being a privilege afforded them by their looks which don’t last long at all. Since this behavior is ultimately bad for everyone and is ruining dating, they should take some responsibility for the current disaster we are dealing with.So if they don't, you just want to force them? Because that is not a response to my last comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Women’s ability to be insanely selective is unfounded, being a privilege afforded them by their looks which don’t last long at all. Since this behavior is ultimately bad for everyone and is ruining dating, they should take some responsibility for the current disaster we are dealing with.I hardly belive forcing women to raise kids they do not want is good for stable child rearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Women’s ability to be insanely selective is unfounded, being a privilege afforded them by their looks which don’t last long at all. Since this behavior is ultimately bad for everyone and is ruining dating, they should take some responsibility for the current disaster we are dealing with.Then kys, spare the world from your idiocity, your sacrifice will stop the idiot gene from spreading | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Women’s ability to be insanely selective is unfounded, being a privilege afforded them by their looks which don’t last long at all. Since this behavior is ultimately bad for everyone and is ruining dating, they should take some responsibility for the current disaster we are dealing with.This dude be talking like Lord Farquad: "Some of you may die, but that is a sacrifice I am willing to make" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Women’s ability to be insanely selective is unfounded, being a privilege afforded them by their looks which don’t last long at all. Since this behavior is ultimately bad for everyone and is ruining dating, they should take some responsibility for the current disaster we are dealing with.Dude be talking like Lord Farquad: "Some of you may die, but that is a sacrifice I am willing to make" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Women’s ability to be insanely selective is unfounded, being a privilege afforded them by their looks which don’t last long at all. Since this behavior is ultimately bad for everyone and is ruining dating, they should take some responsibility for the current disaster we are dealing with.Lmao what is "take accountability" here? Admit that we are the gatekeepers of relationships? Or giving free bj to every lonely incel we can? This screams entitelment, "I'm lonely, so you have to be my gf right now! It doesn't matter what you want, I want to have a gf!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How often do you get approached and asked out in public?A. I have a permanent bitch face to try to detter them but it doesn't help much, if I'm smiling it's even worse tho. I am average, in my worst day I'm a 4 or 5, if I put a little effort I would say I'm a 6 or 7, depending on how much effort I put into it. I'm not a model but I don't think people see me and think I'm ugly either. I'm 25, 1.56m, 52kg, I would say mu body is pretty similar to Alexa Demie's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Does unconditional love truly exist?It exists, but it's only healthy when it's parent-child love. Unconditional love exist in friendships and romantic relationships as well, but it's never healthy to love someone else (aside from a child) unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:08 PM |
| 5 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?It shows you don't see gay sex equal to het sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 04:08 AM |
| 5 | If your spouse cheated with somebody of the same sex, would you feel the same as if they cheated with the opposite sex?sleeping with another woman so it’s not really cheating to my husband It's just homophobia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative)Wouldn't that apply to you as well? You don't have to be low value to preffer to be single, a lot of people are single by choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative)Same for women, they can have peace and happiness without any man at all, and if they want good sex they just need a fwb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative)Lmao the same logic applies for women. A lot of women rather be single and be happy instead of putting up with low quality men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?They are biphobic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 07:44 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingWomen no longer need men to provide, so there is no need to stay with a man whose only atractive quality is money unless the man is extremly wealthy and you want a sugar baby-sugar daddy relationship. Now that women provide for themselfes, they don't want to come home from work to an emotionally stunned man who thinks washing his ass is gay, now that the "marry me or starve" rule is gone, women can actually choose a parter that brings value to their lives. Sadly most men still expect the woman t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:46 AM |
| 7 | There's two ways to get women to have more children, the carrot and the stick, which is a better plan?Just let it crash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Women here, do you expect the man to plan most/all of the dates when you’re in a relationship?No, for me it's a meet me half way kinda thing, I don't expect the dates to be super fancy, or to have dates every week. I planed all the dates in my relationship for over 4 years now (we've been toghether for almost 6 years) and Im done. Him not planning any dates even after I comunicated this to him just drives home how little effort he is willing to put on us. In my ideal long term relationship, we would have dates every other week. Around half would be planned by my partener and around half … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThis 👆🏾 Is essentially saying the same as that 👇🏽 Exactly, men commit rape but won't admit it unless the word is replaced. In every possible scenario it might not be. But your psycho and thug are more likely than your local Sunday school brother. University students are more likely not "psychos and thugs". Sunday school? Well there you got me, I have never in my life heard of a priest, preachers, or youth pastors ever commiting sexual crimes, ever. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenThis 👆🏾 Is essentially saying the same as that 👇🏽 Exactly, men commit rape but won't admit it unless the word is replaced. In every possible scenario it might not be. But your psycho and thug are more likely than your local Sunday school brother. University students are more likely not "psychos and thugs". Sunday school? Well there you got me, I have never in my life heard of a priest, preachers, or youth pastors ever commiting sexual crimes, ever. /s, just in case you are as dumb as you sound | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 03:25 AM |
| 8 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenMost of them get away with it, so why would they stop? A recent study from “Violence and Gender” found that nearly 32 percent of college male participants said they would “force a woman to [have] sexual intercourse.” When asked if they would “rape a woman,” that number dwindled to 14 percent. And it's not just psychos/thugs. Men are really good at lying to themselfes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 11 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenMost of them get away with it, so why would they stop? A recent study from “Violence and Gender” found that nearly 32 percent of college male participants said they would “force a woman to [have] sexual intercourse.” When asked if they would “rape a woman,” that number dwindled to 14 percent. And it's not just psychos/thugs. Men are really good at lying to themselfes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:25 AM |
| 14 | Dating is not fun for men, but is for womenhttps://archive.thinkprogress.org/1-in-3-college-men-in-survey-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-they-could-get-away-with-it-ffa7406b9778/ Nearly one in three college men admit they might rape a woman if they knew no one would find out and they wouldn’t face any consequences, according to a new study conducted by researchers at the University of North Dakota. Men, always so wholesome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Should you show your weaknesses & vulnerabilities to women that you are dating?Well, since I will probably leave my bf because, even after 6 years, he refuses to do so, I would say yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 01:14 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject himWell it is the only result of post wall I've seen irl (and I'm talking about around nine women), so I think I'm gonna trust that instead of a revenge fantasy I read on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 09:08 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Girls can be completely attracted to and interested in a guy but still reject himI've seen more women in their early 20's crying over men that look like deep sea creatures than I've seen women over 30 "settling", I used to belive in the wall and even be afraid of it, but now I've seen that the women over 30 in my life ended up with good looking, high quality men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Study: Sexually Unsuccessful Men Retaliate By Endorsing Anti-Egalitarian Attitudes and Becoming Fiscally ConservativeMisery loves company | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - How does it make you feel that your husband/boyfriend/significant other has been rejected by 90% of women he approached in the past?My bf has social anxiety so he only succesfully approached women when he had alcohol in his system, wich wasn't often, so his rejection rate is pretty low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Never take dating advice from womenWay too many people hide their real personalities while dating, and only show their true colors when their partener is already emotionally invested. An abuser won't strike you on the first date, they will make sure you care about them enough to not want to lose them first. Once you are at that point you think "well yeah, it was not okay for them to be so controlling/yell at me/hit me/etc, but aside from that they are great to me, and I truly love them, I don't want to be too hasty too end things… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 01:18 PM |
| 5 | Which scenario would you pick?Well well well I guess my bf is secretly evil then, so are all of my male friends (almost all of them in relationships) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 12:17 PM |
| 6 | Which scenario would you pick?Him being LV means he will be a terrible husband tho, probably cheat and won't help around the house. What you described is a HVM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 12:35 AM |
| 13 | Which scenario would you pick?Option 3 is the winner by far, but since I would like to have children I may consider option 1 as a second choice. All the other options are equally terrible and I would not choose any of those. Also, you are using HVM wrong, being rich and hot won't make you HV if you are still a pos that cheats on his wife (option 5). I won't choose option 4 since LVM is abusive, cheats, incompetent, lazy, dumb. But if by LVM you mean average looking not rich, but is a good man who helps around, sees me as an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?Then I guess the difference in our points of view lies not only in the transactional thing, but also on our own experiences, since I've seen and experienced myself sexual harrasment and violence almost on a daily basis since the age of 11/12, by different men every time (wich means A LOT of them do it), but only seen the behaviours you complain on women a handfull of time irl and some more on the internet. It was a nice conversation tho, even if it lead nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?I guess the difference is how many men see decency as something transactional, when I call out a relative for being racist or homophobic I'm not thinking about what those communities should do for me in exchange, when I called out the friend that was cheating on her bf I wasn't thinking how much he would owe me for that, those were things that needed to be said and I was there so I said it. Did it hinder my relationships with those people? Yes, I even cut ties with the cheater, but I don't see t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?I would have to weigh whether the comfort and wellbeing of some stranger is worth potentially sacrificing a hard won friendship. Again, thanks for proving my point. But, I will also thank you for being polite on this thread, even if the content of your comment is quite misoginyst, since it's rare to have a polite conversation on this sub. Edit. I want to add something that is my personal opinion, I think NOT harrasing women is the bare mininum and doesn't deserve any praise, however I do think c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?You proved it by basically saying "what reason would men have to do this, if they arent getting anything out of it from women?", the reason is human decency. If I see a woman cheating on her bf I call her out (I've done it before and would do it again), I don't get anything out of it, I did it because of common human decency and respect, if I were that man, I would like someone to tell me as well. However, on your mind, women only deserve respect if they give something in exchange (you most like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?Thanks for proving my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 01:03 PM |
| 3 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?If it is from a man to a woman, i believe a lot of have been told by women that women DON'T NEED MEN TO HELP THEM OR PROTECT Women asking men to call out their friends when they commit sexual violence against women is not asking for peotection, is asking for human decency. When women call out men, the men being called out don't care, after all, why would you care what an object had to say? If they respected women enough to care about what we have to say about sexual harrasment, they wouldn't har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 07:13 PM |
| 4 | What would like the other gender to change about themselves?I wish men would stop sexual violence against women and other men (this includes everything from rpe, to harrassment, to sharing nudes without consent, to cat calling, to make sexist remarks, to talking about their "conquests" as if they were describing an object instead of a person among friends), I wish the men that don't commit said violence would held their male friends and relatives accountable when they see it happening instead of looking the other way because "he is mostly a good guy". We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to love someone and cheat on them?Short answer: No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4W (30 years old and younger only): would you have preferred to have been born a male?Lmao ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4W (30 years old and younger only): would you have preferred to have been born a male?25f here, I wouldn't want to be a man, even if I had no obligation to reproduce. I mean yeah sure, men have it easier in almost every way aside from casual sex, but I love being a woman, even with all the shit that comes with the package. But to answer your actual question, I don't think I would have issues pulling women, with my womanly personality and the looks that faceapp showed me when you switch gender, I think I would be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated?I mean if it's a special location while traveling, sure, but it's not activity I would choose to do on my saturdays | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated?How do you get "I never leave my house" from "I don't go hiking on weekends"? Mental gymastics must be your favorite sport | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Would women really reject men on the basis of being intimidated?Don’t women WANT a shredded, active guy? Are they capping or is that genuine? Not my type, I can already tell that we wouldn't be compatible. So yeah, I wouldn't match. Edit. You forgot to add that he likes to go hiking, marathons, and plenty of physical activities on his free time, that's a hard pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Fuck stepping in for a woman in troubleOk, just remember when women say all men, they mean you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | The male vs the female gazeGen z is not only teens, I'm 25 (gen z starts at 1996) and don't find the muscular agressive men more attractive than an emotionally mature regular looking man. Tbh I hate the overly muscular look, the veins popping out creep me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Tell us your story of the 5'1 Chick magnet we all knowNot all relationship work, tall men also go through break ups you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Tell us your story of the 5'1 Chick magnet we all knowSo you know he is racist and have no issue with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Tell us your story of the 5'1 Chick magnet we all knowOk I'll start, they guy I lost my virginity to was 1.60m (5'2) and I was soooooooo in love with him, I knew before hand je wanted to be single and that he had no intention of becoming my bf but my 18yo dumb ass thought "I can change him" lol no. Still I will always keep him as nice memory (not the sex, that was terrible, I just had nothing to compare it to at the time) but the dates and the way he listened to me when I talked. In fact almost all the guys I had a crush on were around my height (i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 03:45 PM |
| 4 | What is your advice to men on how to get the most sex? What is your advice to women on how to get the best relationship?This is great advice! Now I'm gonna ask my 12yo cousin some advice on how to do my taxes. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Can having sex with very attractive people "ruin" your ability to get aroused by others?That would be against rp theories tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 01:40 PM |
| 4 | Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts?I don't have a negative view of them, I just wouldn't date one. What would you even consider to be a high n-count? 15 partners at age 30? 30? 50? 100? I want to hear your definitions and boundaries. It depends on the age, it's not the same being 18 with a nc of 15, than being 30 with an nc of 15. I'm 25 now, so a man my age with 10 I would consider high but acceptable. More than that I wouldn't like. How do you/would you feel when discovering that your male partner has a high n-count? Is there j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Is a Man Approaching a Woman in the Streets an Effective Way of Dating today?Not to me, when Im walking down the street I am going somewhere, I have a place I need to go to, I don't have time or interest at the moment. Even if I like the guy, making conversation would imply being late to the place Im going. Getting approached at bars/clubs can be a little annoying but the context allows for it to be a place I can actually talk and dance with someone if I want to, there is also the fact that I'm with friends so I know they can help me out if the guy doesn't take no for an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?True, there is one that said in was a corny commment, and one that said women like being cat called. No one else said anything positive about the old man, if Im missing some women please tag them. And no one here is saying he is predator, we are saying it's creepy and inappropiate. Learn the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:55 PM |
| 3 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Me and every woman here dude. Creep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:46 PM |
| 4 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Now you are just playing dumb dude. Put your finger in my coffe to make it sweet, implies she taste sweet, implies he wants to taste her. But you are specting people to react the way you did because you left out vital information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 3 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?When the woman is getting paid to be nice to you, yes, forbid it. Or maybe, leave your number for her to call you, don't tell her you bet she taste good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:27 PM |
| 2 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Yeah, because servers choose their job based on passion and not the need of money. Being a server comes with being harrassed, but it shouldn't, not every costumer is going to make sexual inuendos, so why not tell the people doing something wrong to stop instead of telling innocent people to suck it up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 07:12 PM |
| 3 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?South america. Still think the implication of the comment (I bet you taste good) is not sexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?I don't feel that being complimented by the opposite sex is creepy You didn't answer my question. I don't mind being complimented, as long as the compliment isn't creepy. There is a difference between "your hair looks nice" "you are very kind" "your makeup suits you very well" and "put your finger in my coffe, I bet you taste good" ffs. The examples of women who enjoy being harrased you used are great. Perfect examples of women who lack internal validation so they look for it outside, shallow wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 4 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?It's a older gentleman calling a girl sweet. It's saying he wants to taste her dude, just accept the fact that every woman on this thread finds it creepy. Would you tell a male server the same thing? No. Do you think modern women are sexualized so much by guys on Tinder and in the media that they immediately view things through a more sexualized lens ? Lmao guys on Tinder? The men on the street are enough. The first time I was cat called I was 13 wearing my school uniform, the first time I was g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Oooh, your man is your sugar baby, I thought you were in a romantic relationship, not a transactional one, my bad. Women like this are looking for anything that they can cry harassment for. Do honestly think the example OP used is not creppy or gross? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:32 PM |
| 5 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?It's clear SOME women view it as disgusting. That was in the title of my post. Havent found a single women here on this thread that doesn't find it creepy/corny/annoying. My goal is to understand WHY. It is innapropiate, flirting in any way with someone who can't tell you off without endangering their job, it's taking advantage. It makes us uncomfortable, it is rude, it is sexist. And you should remember your sexual inuendo is not the only one she recieved that day, she has to smile to your and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Because he it is harrasment. If your man is not creepy or says anything creepy, then you don't have to worry about servers finding him gross. Also, if your man flirts with women that can't tell him off without endangering their job, he is not only a creep, he is not your man. But for real, tip based on service not gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Or maybe, men should learn to not be flirty towards people who can't say no without endangering their job? The fact that it happens a lot doesn't make it okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 05:46 PM |
| 2 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Sexual harrasment =/= sexual liberation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 05:38 PM |
| 8 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Dude you came here with a question for women, every women here it's telling you it's creepy/nasty/gross, you got your answer, stop arguing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 05:34 PM |
| 4 | "Put your finger in the coffee, it'll make it sweeter": endearing or Harvey Weinstein?Ew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/21 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?Buff men, they look wierd, and the veins popping out freak me out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 03:49 PM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?Doesn't surprise me at all, I know a total of 6 women who were comfortable enough to tell me about being sexually assaulted, and that s only the ones that confided in me, I have no idea how many women I know went through it and kept quiet. I only told my bf and my bff about my worse experiences (attempted rape, sexual assault with penetration but not quitw rape, and some other very bad things) the other more mild sexual harrasment and assaults I can talk about openly. I don't get how this is bas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:30 PM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?I live in south america, I don't know a sinlge woman who hasnt been sexually harrased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 07:18 PM |
| – | Why do a lot of you talk badly about men, even though you have a loving boyfriend/husband at the moment?They are annoying, but mostly they are scary. I've been in a happy relationship for the past 5 years, but I still get harrased, get sexist remarks, get to be scared walking down the street, etc. Not to mention all the experiences with men harrasing me I had before getting into this relationship. Being in a good relationship with a good man doesn't erase all the terrible treatment I recived from men before, and still do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 5 | It is nota problem that sexual desire and emotional intimacy are connected (for most men)Emotional intimacy CAN involve sexual intimacy, but it doesn't have to. Think of it this way, fingers CAN be thumbs, but they don't have to, they can be indexs or pinkies, etc. Emotional intimacy can come from a friendship and it can be just as intense as the emotional intimacy that comes from a romantic partener. And it has nothing to do with being gay, the problem is that male friendships are very limited, because they refuse to be vulnerable with each other, because society has taugh them tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 6 | It is nota problem that sexual desire and emotional intimacy are connected (for most men)Then you agree that men can be emotionally intimate without being a sexual factor included. Therefor, it has nothing to do with sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 10 | It is nota problem that sexual desire and emotional intimacy are connected (for most men)Men didn't had to "throw" their daughters under the bus, because the system that they upholded already did, and a lot of them still do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:21 PM |
| 6 | It is nota problem that sexual desire and emotional intimacy are connected (for most men)Why do you think emotional intimacy has to be sexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:04 PM |
| 8 | It is nota problem that sexual desire and emotional intimacy are connected (for most men)But they made sure to not let them elevate by themselfes, otherwise women would had always had rights, and men that hold up sexism wouldn't exist, yet they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 05:02 PM |
| 7 | It is nota problem that sexual desire and emotional intimacy are connected (for most men)It has nothing to do with being gay, It's because the patriarcal society expects men to only have two emotions: anger and lust, so when a male friends expresses anything else it feels uncomfortable and "un-manly", and since heterosexual men don't see gay men as manly, feels "gay" (even though it has nothing to do with sexuality) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 04:53 PM |
| 15 | It is nota problem that sexual desire and emotional intimacy are connected (for most men)Ask me how I know. Because mem have been doing this to their own daughters forever and you think women behave the same way men do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do you want guys to open up emotionally if you know you are going to be disgusted when they do?What would make you disgusted though? Being treated like shit. It doesn't disgust me, but it annoys me when he pretends to not have emotional problems and pretends like he can handle everything, like dude, you were never taught how to handle emotions, let me help you or at least consider a therapist, even journaling can do wonders to understanding yourself. I try not to push him too much, but it's frustraiting. Or can you be sure he is just clever enough to not tell you the truth? He has deffine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Why do you want guys to open up emotionally if you know you are going to be disgusted when they do?Why do you want guys to open up emotionally if you know you are going to be disgusted when they do? Because I wouldn't be disgusted, It's a turn on when a man trusts me enough to show me his soft side, it makes me feel secure and I feel so protective of him. I love when my bf opens up, I want to make him feel safe, I want him to be confortable with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in the following hypothetical sci fi scenario?Of course I would do it, and take his refusal as a red flag that I may or may not ignore and trust my gut. I would also let him get all the paternity test he wants (as long as he is the one who pays) and would be happy to have both of us sing a prenup. However the oracle should open this test to non engaged couples so I don't waste my time. In any case, this a very shitty and convoluted analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Is hypergamy actually increasing? If so, is that bad?Of course, I meant that modern women also have mainly company to offer. Men may not like it, but they can learn to keep the house by themselfes, and if they want they can also be single fathers. Luckly in today's dating market both men and women have mainly their company to offer, since both traditional gender roles can be fulfilled by either gender. Both women and men can be providers and manage their household by themselfes. I'm so happy I have the opportunity to actually choose who I want to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 08:51 PM |
| 9 | Is hypergamy actually increasing? If so, is that bad?It's not increasing, is just that the "marry me or starve" rule is no longer in place, so women don't need to settle for men they arent attracted to. If a woman can work, own property, have kids through artificial insemination/adoption, have casual sex or use sex toys, what do men actually have to offer? The same thing women have to offer men, company. The thing is most men are socially innept and refuse to seek treatment for their repressed emotions (I know this is not every individual mans fau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Is hypergamy actually increasing? If so, is that bad?Stats show men cheat more. https://haywoodhunt.ca/infidelity-statistics-for-2020-do-women-or-men-cheat-more/ https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 12:35 AM |
| 6 | Is hypergamy actually increasing? If so, is that bad?Ever watch the fresh & fit podcast? Why would anyone waste their time listening to those scammers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Is hypergamy actually increasing? If so, is that bad?Actually, stats show otherwise, men are more likely to cheat and more likely to ditch their wives for younger women. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america https://haywoodhunt.ca/infidelity-statistics-for-2020-do-women-or-men-cheat-more/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Libido drop following childbirthCheating is emotional abuse, if you are happy to abuse someone, you don't love them. Maybe it’s a harem mentality, but I think we should normalize having mistresses and that even goes for women too. I think affairs can be healthy That's called an open relationship, not cheating, by cheating you are taking away your wife consent, you are taking away her choice since she doesn't really choses to be with you, she choses the lie you sell her, a scam. If you want an open relationship that's great, ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Libido drop following childbirthCheating is emotional abuse, if you are happy to abuse someone, you don't love them. Maybe it’s a harem mentality, but I think we should normalize having mistresses and that even goes for women too. I think affairs can be healthy That's called an open relationship, not cheating, by cheating you are taking away your wife consent, you are taking away her choice since she doesn't really choses to be with you, she choses the lie you sell her, a scam. If you want an open relationship that's great, ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?K, let's argue in english then. Also, there are way better ways to practice english you know? Plenty of apps for it, but I guess making dumb ass comments on reddit is better practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 01:21 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?Y porque una mina como ella querria estar con alguien que se identifica con chancho? A todo esto, yo soy una mina como ella en ese aspecto, se que para vos la idea de respetar a tu pareja es de otro mundo, pero es la norma entre la gente decente | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?Uf, que emocionales que son los hombres. Sos vos el que decidio comparase con un chancho para evitar tomar resposabilidad de tus actos, te insultaste solo. O sos un hombre inteligente, o sos un bicho sin uso de razon, elegi y deja de joder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How much of the sex you have is sex you didnt necessarily want?Es diferente un chancho, un animal, a un hombre que en teoria tiene uso de razon, los hombres eligen ser desagrdables, el chancho no. Y btw, los chanchos son tiernos cuando no estan sucios. Tldr. This is the same as "boys will be boys" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 12:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.Are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.Dude if you don't care if a woman wants you or not, and you are so salty about being undateable, just hire a prostitute. The prostitute doesn't want you, she wants to get paid for her services. The answer is clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.Yeah it really shows how the misoginy is still strong even today, and men want to take away women's rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:26 PM |
| 9 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.Na man, young women do want that, just not with you. Imagine being on a date and the guy goes "well I do think women should have no rights, like in the good ol days", that's a big no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 5 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.You forgot the /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 05:16 PM |
| -2 | Why do men push the Older Man/Younger woman dynamic?Yeah it is, and it's also creepy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Where did the "Men only want sex and women only want attention" come from and why is it repeated so much?There are many reasons so here goes my best explanation. Reason 1: social conditioning. From a young age we are taught wearing makeup is the norm, part of our moms daily routine, every celebrity, most of our toys even (barbie, bratz, myscene, we even have makeup for kids to play with) so when we reach the age when it's expected to wear makeup we do and we don't think about it too much. It is conditioned to the point where going to a job interview without makeup is unthinkable, an interviewer exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 06:42 PM |
| 15 | There is no 100% PC Way of Approaching Women Without Risking to Appear CREEPYNah dude, while pretty privilege is a thing, I've met creepy attractive guys and I met non creepy ugly guys. The other day I saw a PUA compilation on yt, the two most attractive guys in the video (both were above average, one was a 10 or 9) were the creepiest ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractiveHhmm, are your ribs showing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 02:49 PM |
| 0 | Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive"I'm about to starve to death" skinny or Thimothee chalamet skinny? I personally like skinny guys, and most of my friends also do, exept for two that go for bear types. The only types of bodies that I personally dislike are starving skinny, fat, and gym bro 100% muscle type. To be clear, I consider this to be fat https://images.app.goo.gl/TUyo3meJ8HGfp6EV9 And I consider this to be gym bro muscle https://images.app.goo.gl/xg5hmvb6AUVuMeKe7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.Just look around the sub, a lot of ussers (usually men) say that improving one self is useless unless you have perfect bone structure, are tall, or whatever. I don't agree with them of course, but there are plenty of people here that become angry when someone points out that no one owes them sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.Are you new here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 06:18 PM |
| 19 | Study: Authenticity predicts high relationship satisfaction, except for people high in trait (DT) psychopathy.People on PPD: don't tell us to "improve ourselfes" that's shit advice. Also people on PPD: don't tell us to "be ourselfes" that's shit advice. I swear, some people here actually belive they are entiteled to love and sex, and will be angry no matter what you tell them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 3 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?https://ncadv.org/blog/posts/domestic-violence-and-the-lgbtq-community There are more, but as a part of the LGBTQ community I would like for people to spread awareness about or stats when it comes to sexual and domestic violence, the general public believing same sex relationships are always great is not good for us, it's silencing us just to keep appearances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.Women who have truly overcome their past abuse, do not blame men for their past choices. When did the conversation shifted to be about these women? We were talking about what this person defines as "her best" is actually whats best for him, read the thread, no one is blaming anyone here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.But that's the thing, it's not her best. What he/she did or tolerated at her lowest is not her best, it's her worst. What you call "her best" is not her best, it's what is most beneficial FOR you no matter how much it pains the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.It's kind of fucked up that you expect people to always take abuse if they were vicitms of abuse once, or that you don't understand the concept of "I made a bad choice, and now know to not do it again" , and are willing to place "love" above your own mental and physical health. But, at least you are consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.It still wouldn't be his best, it would just be whats best for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.That wouldn't be his best tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.So, it's not her best what you want, you want whats best for you. Let's say you had a gf and she pegged you twice, just to try, and it was the most painfull experience of your life and you two never did it again. Now it's 2 years later and you have a new gf who wants to pegg you, I assume you will allow her to pegg you no matter how much you hate it, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.But that is literally not her best, the fact that she would accept that treatment because of her low sense of worth puts her at her lowest. Her best is when she worked on herlsef through therapy and doesn't need external validation to feel human, therefor not accepting abuse. You don't stay in abusive relationships because ypu love your abuser, you stay because you can't love yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Men should have a hoe phase before committing to anyone.I meanI agree that one should expect their parteners to try/be their best. But the "if she let someone else do it, then she should let me too" is not right because of the simple fact people change, a lot of women (especially young ones) have extremly low selfsteem so they might let a guy fuck her and treat her like shit because she is so desperate for the external validation he can offer her "he is with me, so I am worth something" she is willing to look away from his cheating or how he treats h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 03:32 PM |
| 14 | A woman relaxing and gaining 50% of her BW after marriage is equivalent to a man relaxing and taking an easier job with a 50% pay cut after marriage.It's also important for women, do you really think a woman would be happy if her husband gained 50% of his bw? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 07:14 PM |
| 2 | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Isn't she the best he could get too? Young and attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?If he had money but was ugly, she got better. If she was broke but hot, he also got better. Both got someone that was above them in one department but bellow them on another department Btw, I wrote a large comment and you decide to respond to that little note? Fr? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Sorry I didn't realised i wrote that, I meant to write "there is no point giving your WORD". This is why marriage is a flawed concept. Never make promises you cannot keep If it is a promise you can keep then there is no problem, it's not that marriage is a flawed concept, it's that marriage is not for everyone. Because change the word marriage for long term relationship or monogamy, these are not flawed concepts, but they require a level of commitment and work that a lot of people won't give. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Some people want to celebrate their relationship with their loved ones, and want to let it be known they are commited to the other person. I personally don't see a problem with that, but the problem is when people throw that commitment away the second it's an inconvinience. I belive the only good reason to finish a marriage quick is any kind of abuse, wether it's verbal, physical or emotional (like cheating). I know people can fall out of love, but when you commit you have to at least try to wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Maybe at first, but after a few months they have to realise they don't actually like her personality or they have no shared values even if they still like her face right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 12:12 PM |
| 2 | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?You do realize that a man going for beautyful woman is also hypergamy since she is above him in that department right? how do you know she wasn't hypergamous in the first place? So if she was hypergamous she deserves to be discarded after 20 years of marriage? The only way the shallow transactional relationships are victimless it's if both participants understand they are being used. If you marry a woman that tricks you into believing she loves you and not just your money, if she says "till deat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 12:09 PM |
| 3 | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?You mean when even "good" relationships were transactional because the "marry me or starve" rule was in place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 11:57 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?I mean if their mindset is "beauty and youth above anything else" they HAVE to know they are shallow right? If they never felt a connection with an average looking woman with good personalty, they HAVE to know they value looks above anything else right? Like, most gold diggers won't say "Im shallow" but will say "I only date guys with money" wich is literally the same so men around then know what they are getting into. However shallow men disguise their lack of emotional maturity way more often,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 03:27 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Then don't get married nor commit to a ltr, just date casually until you make enough money to live the Di Caprio way. Why hurt and make someone waste their life with you if you know you are so shallow and will eventually leave them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 03:14 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Then she is also shallow, but if we are talking about what happens more in real life for average people it's men and women getting married, both aging, and the the man monkey branching to a young woman, throwing away the commitment and deep connection and family that was made with the wife. If we are talking about a Di Caprio situation, where it's basically sugar daddy - sugar baby kind of relationship, it's expected that he is going to change to a younger sugar baby once the first one gets old,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 03:00 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Oh sorry my bad, I interpreted your post as "if it's okay when they do it it's also okay when we do it" instead of "if it's wrong we do it, it's also wrong when they do it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:50 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Ok, then go for it, but don't pretend you are any less shallow than the women from FDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:40 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Are we taking about the gold digger or the wife? As I said in other comment, monkey branching is disgusting no matter what gender does it. And a woman that's only with a man for his money is just as shallow. Sounds like she's using emotional connections to keep a guy It's called commitment and a meaningfull marriage, if a man only values the beauty of a woman then why marry when you know she is eventually gonna age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:40 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Seems like some people forget what a monogamous relationship/marriage is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:29 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Because when you marry someone you know that they arw going to age, if you don't want to be with someone old then go the Di Crapio way as much as you can afford to. When you marry someone you don't marry then soley because of their beauty, beauty fades. You marry because you have shared values, similar sense of humor, a deep emotional connection, common interest, and want to share the future with them. If you belive that your partener is not worth your time after they age, then why marry? Just d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 3 | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?Maybe because one is a person and the other one is an object? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:16 AM |
| – | If you agree that young attractive women leverage their looks for high level Men, doesn't it then make sense when successful Men later cheat or leave their older wives?I think that makes him shallow, just like the women that go for men with money. People should date who they are attracted to, but if after 15 years of marrige you leave your wife for newer model, you are shallow, because you value more a nice ass that a deep emotional connection, shared values and having fun with each other. Same goes for women who are in a meaningfull marriage/relationship and leave for someone that has a lot of money, even though they don't like him as much as their current pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?The elegance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/21 01:31 AM |
| 6 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?Elegance is a good look | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?You don't need to be bisexual or femenine to have good skin, just clean your face everyday, use a face cream once a week, and use chapstock before leaving the house. It's not a dress, it's basic hygene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Question to Women: how much of a factor is male fashion?I don't expect him to have the best fashion sense, but when a guy wears clothes that compliment his body shape (it doesn't need to be skin tight, just look good on his body shape) it really does it for me. Also, i hate skinny jeans on guys, not sure why, I just preffer a properly fitted jean or pant. An ironed, clean tshirt without sweat stains on cool colors (navy blue, moss green, bordeaux, black, white, grey) are a must, the colors don't have to be super dark, but nothing loud, graphic shirts… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 0 | How many of the men complaining about the dating scene are actually worthy of dating?Agreed except for this part His looks allowed him to consciously sway the gut instinct of some women, luring them into a false sense of security to which he took advantage of. Bundy waited outside schools and hospitals, pretended to be hurted and wounded, and asked his victims for help. He wasn't counting on being hot, he was counting on the maternal and protective instics of schools teachers and nurses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 9 | What argument here has changed your mind?Whoever is okay with cheating or being part of cheating is a pos, cheating is emotional abuse. Why would you want to be around that kind of people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 06:04 PM |
| 17 | What argument here has changed your mind?She is also a fucking pos for trying to be part of the emotional abuse of another woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 02:10 PM |
| 8 | Dating women forces men to be superficialYou are telling me a CEO without an Instagram account has less status than the guy who lives with his mom but has over 2million followers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 6 | Dating women forces men to be superficialHow does the fact that women go on social media more disproves the point she made about how men care a lot about status because of their competitive nature and not because of liking women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:43 PM |
| 16 | Women putting off children is not due to children being expensive - the poorest in society have more children than anyone.Globally, you're in the top 1%. Tell me you are a teen born in the US without telling me you are a teen born in the US. No, I don't want kids bad enough that I would be happy to live on the street. You are either an extremly sheltered adult from a well off family or a teen from a well off family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Women putting off children is not due to children being expensive - the poorest in society have more children than anyone.No one denies it, when you ask people who want children why are they putting it off, most of say it's too expensive and we don't have the means to give a kid a good lifestyle. Where are you living that people say they would be happy to have a kid they can't feed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:14 PM |
| 14 | Women putting off children is not due to children being expensive - the poorest in society have more children than anyone.It really looks like OP is a teenager that has never paid for anything in their life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:12 PM |
| 10 | Women putting off children is not due to children being expensive - the poorest in society have more children than anyone.I want kids, I also want to be able to provide a good life for them. Women start to have kids primarily for two reasons: Their clock is ticking and they recognize that their SMV is dropping. Their friends are all starting to do it and they don't want to feel FOMO. Thia has to be the stupidest thing I've ever read, do you have anything to back that up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Makes sense, people search confort, it's natural to be attracted to people with similar views and values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Hhm, that's interesting. I see sex as valuable and intimate but am able to divorce passionate sex from casual sex, i know a lot of people are not able to do that. To me that's a contradiction, because if you see sex as valuable you wouldn't give it up casually to random strangers in one night stands, imo. You can separate casual sex from passionate sex, but if you choose to practice casual sex you are not treating sex as something intimate. Of course, I don't mean any of this will ill intent, ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?15 and 21 are close enough i probably wouldn't care no. 21-15= 6 8-2=6 It's the same but one bothered you and the other didn't, why? Disclaimer: these are genuine questions, you and I have different mindsets, I value sex as something intimate so an n count of 18 would be an automatic no, I'm curious about how a casual sex kind of person sees n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?N count isn't really a problem for you then? Though I find it wierd that you said that if a woman has two docens then she probably has self steem issues since you are pretty close to that number. If you had 15 and she had 21? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Still doesn't compare to the n count. If a person see sex as something intimate and important (I do), it would make sense if they wouldn't want a partener with a high n count because that would mean that person sees sex as something casual. People usually want to date someone with similar values. But given that the op has a high n count, he clearly doesn't see sex as something as valuable and intimate, (or maybe he has self steem issues since he is pretty close to two docens), either way it woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Idk, I wouldn't mind at all, the more equally we earn to each other the easier it is to divide expenses, I would also hate to feel like a leech. I just asked because I wanted to know if the reason op didn't mind his gf n count was because he had a higher n count. Not sure why you made that comparison, doesn't really make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 05:10 PM |
| 10 | Seems like men are wanting a woman with a low N count who will sleep with him on the second date...wait, what?Would you feel the same way if she had an n count of 8 and you had an n count of 2? Or if you had n count of 18 and she had an n count of 29? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.Yeah, the birth rate lowers every generation, this isn't new | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:54 PM |
| 4 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.Gen Z here, me and almost every other person my age or younger I've met has the desire to habe kids one day. None of us wants one right now, we are young, most of us are broke, we want to enjoy the freedom of being a young adult, but we do want to have kids in the future. Of course there are childfree people among us, but that is the minority. Also, the oldest gen z is 25, people usually change their minds a lot (maybe it's politics, career choice, relationship boundaries, having kids, etx) from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?Yeah, but it goes beyond money, none of us wants the responsability of taking care of a kid right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?A rule of thumb for young women who do want that would be, look for the guy who doesn't party, focuses on his studies and goes about with his hobbies in his spare time. You just described my bf, we've been toghether for almost 5 years now, he doesn't want to get married any time soon. I want to, but not now either, and I've dreaming of marriage since I can remember yet have enough common sense to understand we can't afford to, much less afford a kid. That description also describes most of my ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexOoh, yeah that's pretty common and usefull, I though it was approachin a woman that way but in another context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexCould you define cold approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?Not a lot, but I've met more than a few, they were usually extremly tall with not body fat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?Not op but Im small and skinny (157cm 49kg, but I started to lift recently so I expect to weight more in the future), I don't feel attracted to guys that are skinnier than me, I don't know for sure why but it's probably because I never want to be fat and being with a guy that is skinnier than me makes me feel fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 10 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?if a guy said similar things people wouldn't be anywhere near as understanding This whole post is about how people got angry with a woman for having standarts. lot of women don't seem to have much to offer themselves yet expect a man like the one the original woman mentioned. For a man trying to date it's quite off putting. Then have your standarts, low value people will be mad because either they can't fit into them or it doesn't feed their own agenda, either way it's not your problem. A lot lf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?You can be a really good person but of course It's gonna be hard to find a partener if you are ugly as sin, that goes for men and women. But a lot of people think they are good person because they ACT nice to certain people in order to get a relationship/sex and then ger bitter and rude when they get rejected. You are not a good person if you only behave nicely in order to get sex, good people act good because they want to be good, not because they want sex. I had a classmate in college, she was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 01:22 PM |
| 17 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?You talk like you've never seen an average looking non rich guy with a girlfriend, try going outside and you will see most couples are not "hot bimbo - insanely rich chad" (that's the way Hollywood people go about dating), most couples are average looking (maybe one of them is better looking than their partener but usually not by a lot), usually similar financial situation, similar backrounds, etc. I am in a long term relationship and I'm average, almost all the people I know in relationships ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 01:03 PM |
| 3 | What do women on this sub think of the "where are all the good men gone" types of women?I think of these women the same I think of incels: people that rather complain and blame others for their own problems instead of working on themselfes. They ask "where are the good men" but they never stop to consider why would a good man want them. They disgust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women, especially young women do want casual sex and they covertly chase it.Many women choose not to have casual sex because of these beleifs as well, they abstain because they have bought into the notion that it devalues them I agree with everything except this. I abstained from casual sex while I was single because I relate sex to love, or at least a very deep trust since I am at my most vulnerable both physically and emotionally while having sex, to me sex is a form of intimacy and trust that can only come after a deep connection is made, that can't happen by matchin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/21 04:32 AM |
| 5 | What is purple pills view on a young woman who is not promiscuous and doesn't want a promiscuous man?So, men are more likely to cheat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 5 | What is purple pills view on a young woman who is not promiscuous and doesn't want a promiscuous man?In other word, men have less self control than women? Is that what you are saying? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?Looks matter, being with someone you are not attracted to is doomed to fail, but looks don't trump personality in my opinion, I've seen good looking men that are horrible people, I wouldn't date them. Of course there will always be dumb people that chose to date based soley on looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 10:28 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?Are you asking me as an individual or are you asking the demonized version of me that's in your head? I've seen plenty of men get women leaning mostly on a good personality, I've also seen men get women leaning mostly on good looks. I've seen female friends date assholes that look good, I've seen male friends date toxic women with a good body. Looks matter, attraction matters (duh), but personality is what meakes or breakes a person, kf course there will always be idiots that chose to date horri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?You call it assertion, I call it being an asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?Go tell your gf she is ugly to her face at least, bashing her on the internet, what a cowardly asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?I would rather be a cat lady that date that asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?Personality matters, it's just that some people are assholes, and that some people choose to date them for whatever reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?On a regular basis men are called "far from being a jackpot" or "Eggheads" from their SO and nobody is bothered by this I care, when I see comments like that I call them out (although I have to admit I don't see those comments very often, in fact I've never heard the term "egghead" before) abd saying "hey, everyone insults their SO's looks" doesn't make it okay dumbass. I know she doesn't mind it and we live our life. You JUST said she wouldn't be happy about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?OP's thread was about strangers we see on the street, not parteners. The point still stands: why would you say that about your gf? It does not bring any value to the conversation OP started, and it would hurt someone you are supposed to love. Maybe she wouldn't be happy reading this but i know i'm not perfect either if she calls me out on my ugly stretchmarks then so be it i don't mind. Now, I know this isn't a relationship advice sub, but take in mind that even if your gf making fun of your str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?Were you ever bullied in your life? I mean really bullied for one specific physical trait? Seems like no and you don't know what happens to someone getting this hammered in your head everyday. I was, that's exactly why Im saying this, I used to make self deprecating jokes about it too, Im not really sure why but it hurted anyway, and if my bf made jokes about my biggest insecurity it would crush me. In fact i think she is absolutely stunning Then why make fun of her on the internet? No one asked… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 5 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?she even makes jokes about putting on a McDonalds bag over her head if it helps me xD There is no way someone can be as dense as you are comming off, do you honestly thinks she is happy about her bf thinking she is ugly? Those jokes she makes, it's probably more like a "if I don't laugh I'll cry" situations. Even if she is ugly, do you honestly think it feels good to hear your bf say it outloud? Or to the point she says that kind of self deprecating jokes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 04:37 PM |
| 12 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?Dude you really just went and called your girlfriend ugly on the internet for no real reason? What a catch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 03:11 PM |
| 0 | [Q4All]How often do you see ugly people of the opposite gender?Rarely, most men I cross on the street, that are not super attractive, are average or just bellow average, it's very rare to see a flat out disgusting looking guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveYeah, they are to me and to you, but not to everyone. Dogs are expensive and I love them, but a lot of people find them annoying, is that reason enough to tell people who want a dog to not have them? Also, that is not an answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 6 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveIs showering necessary? People in the past would take 1 bath a month (maybe) yet here we are risking a fall that could break our necks for the sake of being clean. My bf lets me shower so he probably doesn't love me right? I mean, if he really loved me he would rather me smelling like shit than risking my life on that death trap we call shower. Also, what would you say if I answered that the task was not "necessary" since it was going for coffe with my mom, would that mean my partener thinks im … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 11:45 PM |
| 7 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveBut leaving the house carries more risks than staying inside, so, by your logic, if a partener let's you go outside (the riskier option) they must find you expendable right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:31 PM |
| 7 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveThe car is an example, and you really got to be a new kind of stupid to not get the point. Change, driving a car with taking the public transportation and you got risk anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:30 PM |
| 6 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveIt is riskier to be pregnant, but it's also riskier to leave the house, so if a partener let's you go out that means they don't really love you right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:27 PM |
| 4 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true lovePhysical intimacy is much more than just sex, is cuddling, huging, deep conversations, making out. I have a high libido so it is important to me, but if my bf fuckes me twice a day yet never huges me or kisses my forhead, never held my hand, etc. I wouldn't feel physycally intimate, I would feel used. I love sex and the physical connection it implies but that doesn't mean everyone feels the same. Saying that love without sex is not complete love is saying asexuals or people with disabilities are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveWhat kind of logic is that? Wouldn't that also apply to driving a car you may crash, taking a shower where you can slip and die, trying new food you may have an allergy against but don't know yet? There is risk in everything if you look close enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:12 PM |
| 6 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveHow do you know that? Is there a study to prove this theory or it's just your experience? It's easy to say the mayority of long term stable couples that face this issue have children because the mayority of long term stable couples have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 13 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveYou better sell your car the second you get into a relationship then, wouldn't want to risk a car crash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 12 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveSo if I donate my kidney to someone that needs it and my partener encourages me and is proud of me for helping someone in need does that means they don't love me? Also this logic would mean they can't leave thw house. What if my partener dies in a car crash? Then letting them go to work would mean I don't love them or our relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 11 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship of true loveAre you saying people need to stop having children to evolve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:59 PM |
| 5 | Why are women doing "body enhancements" seen as normal but men doing it are seen as "insecure"?Just go to any insta thot comments, once the simps comments are done, the hate for plastic surgery begins Also r/instagramvsreality r/botchedsurgeries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?Wait, genuine question, im skinny and im trying to biuld ass. Im doing glutes exersecices with weight and all that jazz, am I going to loose my ass fat? I don't want to loose it, I want to keep the ass cheeks and build muscles. Sorry for bad english | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Yes, there are two different worlds when it comes to casual sex (and everything else) . Inhibited and uninhibited. Most of you need to change (some of) your social circle.He deflected but tbh I don't see how that question matters, Ive seen it before on this sub and I just don't get the logic behind it. Ive told my male friends, that I don't intend to fuck, they look good more than one time, usually when they get a new haircut or do something to their beards, even if I don't consider them above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 01:05 PM |
| 4 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?Because, at this age, N count is stupid - are you going to judge a 42 year old divorced parent on what they did for 6 months when they were a hormonal 18 year old? Or are you going to see that they cheated on their ex-spouse after 16 years of marriage, and be concerned about that? While I agree, N count at your age is stupid to YOU, so maybe it's best so that people can choose wich characteristics they would like on a partener. If you’re a virginal 18 year old, N count makes sense Why do you kee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 07:32 PM |
| 7 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?not ever having been married or had a serious (5+ year) LTR is the massive red flag at this age, not N count You do realise that you are doing exactly what you don't like men or women to do right? You are picking an arbitrary experience (or lack there of) and making it a "valid" red flag. Why is it that you can say something is a red flag but others can't? A lot of people could argue that divorce is a "valid" red flag, so why do you say "this is a red flag, and this is not"? Maybe, jusy maybe, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Staaar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Yaaay remedial remedial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Dummy remedial | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Dummy dumb dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.What a dummy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?Wait, is this a wooosh? Are you a troll? This can't be real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Lmao then try to not contradict yourself and actually contribute to the debate dummy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.That’s like me going to an under water sub that talk about water then going to a land sub that talk about land and then saying oh you contradicted your self, make no sense On both comments you are talking about how a woman's n count affects their relationships. And two I didt say your relationship is gonna fail because you didt sleep around I said pep with two partners are more likely to have a fail relationship Na man, you didn't say my relationship is gonna fail, you just came out of nowhere t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?because you don't view women as human. You do realise that this implies a lack of empathy right? Abusers just don't think women are people. Are you implying that only women get abused? And that only men abuse? Lmao girl you are gold mine of dumb shit. OK. 70% of americans at least are unhealthy. Can you tell me why it would, at all, be relevant to disclude unhealthy people from a conversation about normal people? We are no longer talking about fatness, we are talking about empathy. Abusers aren'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.For the second point if you read the study because I link it in that thread you went through you would see that it said that women who had two partners where more likely then women who had 9 partners to have a fails relationship and then over 15 partners the chance of a failed relationship is greater then that of 2 partners I just compared the comment I liked and then the comment where you said that women with 2 parteners vs women with 9 parteners, THAT'S where you contradicted yourself. I never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?I'm not interested in telling you information about my life because you seem mean af. And because you don't do shit to help people and pat yourself on the back just for feeling empathy. Not all humans are healthy. So that's a weird way to phrase it. 70% of americans are overweight. Being unhealthy is the normal. Only in 'murica, you know there is a whole world outside right? Being unhealthy is the normal. Not when it comes to empathy, people who lack empathy are the minority and usually land on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 10:37 PM |
| 0 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.just because you have a low n count that doesn’t mean your immune from relationship failure Where did I say I was? I just said that my partener and I have the same N count and that both of us abstained from casual sex, I said that because the usser I was answering to said that women want men with more sexual experience than themselfes, so I just pointed out that wasn't the case for me, so Im not sure how you got "my relationship is better than yours" from that. And what exactly did I contradict … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?I think you are a little slow so let me explain. Feeling bad for someone, AKA feeling empathy is healthy, is an important human trait, I feel empathy, you feel empathy. Caring for someone implies actually doing something to help them. Example: I feel bad for the homeless man across the street, I wish he wouldn't be in that situation, I emphatise with him. I will give him some money if I have, I will buy him some food, because I FEEL for him. However, I won't ask him to come to my house so he can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?As I said, I care enough to feel bad for said person, but I wont do much more about it. Do you want me to feel bad for fat Becky? Okay, next time I will make sure to let them know their lifestyle is unhealthy and they should eat less and workout, that's what you wanted right? After all, if I care about someone I will do my best to help them. Notice how you completly skipped the part where you benefit from sweat shops, and care but not enough to stop giving them your money tho. I won't cry over s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 10 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?Do you use a phone? You know that phone was probably made by underpaid and overworked people right? Do you feel bad for them? Probably, but not enough to stop using a good phone. I might say "that sucks" but it won't change my life or affect me in any other way. I won't cry over something that happened to a stranger. Do you cry whenever someone on this sub talks about how lonely they are? This is actually not healthy and something you might want to talk to a therapist about. Then you should too,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?Yeah but the person you responded to just said they wouldn't date people with unhealthy lifestyles, I wouldn't date a fat person, also wouldn't date a smoker. I don't give a flying fuck about other people's health unless they are a loved one tbh, if Becky down the block eats her way to diabetes Im not going to feel bad for her because I don't know her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 08:32 PM |
| 9 | Is there something wrong with fat girls?poor people and people of color are way less healthy than rich people. People who sit at their jobs all day? Sedentary people? Okay so Im NOT on the lets hate fat people train, but I work a sedentary job and Im broke, yet still find the time to workout at home and eat somewhat healthy. I just wake up earlier than I would like to and workout even if I would rather sleep. And I buy cheap but healthy food once a month, spend a day cooking a bunch of meals and freeze them, then eat them through out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.She already has plenty of offers, but all are from men who want to have sex, not religious men that want to wait. And tbh OLD is not a good sugestion to anyone, much less to a virgin woman, if you read through this sub is pretty obvious that virginity is a fetish to most men. Tell her there's a reddit dedicated to that and virginity Does this kind of thing even work for people outside the US? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Your point was that women always want more experienced men right? Even virgin ones. I just told you that wasn't the case for me, neither for my friend (who is a virgin) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Good thing I don't care much about random stadistics right? Also, could you link that study? Is that for baby boomers and gen x? And what was the point of that comment tho? "Lol your relationship is gonna fail because you didn't sleep around" Nevermind, you are either a troll or an incredibly stupid person since you contradict yourself here https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/mhjvaf/newly_married_and_sad/gt1gxhw?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 42 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.I never tried casual sex, never seen the appeal, and I always wanted a guy with similar views, then met my bf, he wasn't into casual sex either and we both see sex as intimate. He had my same body count (2) and I loved that about him. One of my two best friends is a virgin, she wants to date a guy who is also a virgin, so no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 04:33 AM |
| 2 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Why would I point out someome is ugly out of nowhere? Men are different we call out bad behavior That's calling out low QUALITY not low value. I call out shit behaviour when women do it, such as cheating, lying about body count, treating your partener as an ATM, physically or emotionally abusing someone, and most women I know irl do the same. But that's calling out low QUALITY, not low value. whereares TRP or MGTOW are quarantined The fact that there is a double standart about wich toxic communi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:57 PM |
| 2 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?We all know RMV and SMV but nobody filters based on RMV, it's what it is I filter like that, I think most reasonable people do, looks fade away eventually and money may run out, so choosing a partener based soley on that is setting yourself for failure, it's importante to be attracted to your partener but their personality, values and emotional maturity are whats most important to have a happy relationship. But you still havent adressed the point, mayority women don't deny that lv women are very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 3 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?If I know a woman that's fat, ugly and a sinlge mother, I wouldn't tell her that she is low value unless she asked me, not because I don't understand she is in fact LV, but because it's rude. Same reason you don't tell an ugly person "Hey you look like your mom smoked crack while pregnant", it's rude. I have a former friend that is a single mother, she is not fat but is also not skinny, and she is VERY ugly, I won't send her a message saying "hey you are lv and are gonna die alone". But that doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:41 PM |
| 3 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Who said pick me girls are low value? Fds? That's like taking the opinion of a group of incels and say that is the way all men think. Most comments here describe low value women as unattractive, usually fat, with no job or a minimum wage one and no intention to support herself, usually leeches, sigle mothers of multiple baby daddys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 07:28 PM |
| – | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Do you really think women don't belive low value women exist? There are plenty of comments on this thread proving otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Why are seemingly all women bi?When I say attracted I mean wanting to have sex or pursue a relationship with said person, I though it was obvious from my first comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Why are seemingly all women bi?I know, I was just pointing out how stupid it is to say that unless you had a sexual experience with a gender you are not attracted to said gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Why are seemingly all women bi?So are straight virgin men not straight? You are telling me that because you never experienced sex with someone that means you are not attracted to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:07 PM |
| 9 | Why are seemingly all women bi?So if I, as a bi woman, like dick but fall in love and marry a woman and have sex with her everyday. Am I straight? After all, I like dick as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 19 | Why are seemingly all women bi?Im a bi woman, I can distiguish between "she looks good" and "i wanna date her" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 07:50 PM |
| 59 | Why are seemingly all women bi?A good example of erasure on the media is Freddy Mercury, he had sex with plenty of women and men, he said his ex wife was the love of his life, but because he ended up with a man and people were (and still are) unconfortable with the idea of not fitting the "one side or the other" mentality he was labeled as gay. The sad part of being bi is that a lot of people, both straight and gay, will say it's not real, or gay light, a phase, that you are doing it for atention (if you are a bi woman) or th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 07:47 PM |
| 3 | The double standard for being a slut exists for a good reasonYou still don't get it, your post was just saying water is wet, you are not making any points, you are just stating the same facts we see everyday on this sub. When did I say in my title or body that I’m trying to do that? Exactly, you are just ranting, not providing anything of importance. You will never have sex with “her” Im bi so I could date "her" fwi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | The double standard for being a slut exists for a good reasonJesus how can someone be this dense. I find it funny how you choose not to be with promiscuous people but can’t understand why men have a problem with it. I completly understand why, proabably the same reason I do. You don’t need sex to survive so the food analogy doesn’t work. That's why also used the shower comparison, but I guess you missed that. l. Do you go out drinking every night? Well I do but don’t you dare call me a drun We agree on that. The thing is, you never framed this post as "wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | The double standard for being a slut exists for a good reasonYou seem to want to take every dick in town without consequences. As I said I wouldn't date a promiscuos person because they wouldn't share my values, hence Im not promiscuos myself. I've been in a monogamous relationship for the past 5 years and hope to marry this man one day. Woman fix it by; impulse control, vetting out their partners better, not having sex with popular people who brag about it, not being overtly sexual as much online But what would motivate women to change exactly? Do you ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 04:06 AM |
| 10 | The double standard for being a slut exists for a good reasonHere I was expecting a compelling argument or some study to back it up, instead I got the same shit from every day "It's not fair because I didn't got to do it too" no shit sherlock, life isn't fair. I understand and agree that it is a horrible position to be in, that it's frustraiting and demoralizing, but I don't know what you people expect to accomplish with stating the obvious again again. Do you want pity sex? Do you want that women as a colective start having sex with everyone no matter if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?To me he is hot as hell, but looking back to my first impression of him I though "he looks good, but not my type" until we talked and realised he was the funniest guy I've met in a while, he was also akward (wich made him look insanely cute) and we had a lot of things in common, by the end of the second date we also relaised we shared a lot of values and world views. We've been toghether for 5 years now. To answer your question, I think he is in the top 30% or 40% The men I would qualify to be i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 01:31 PM |
| – | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."You don't feel bad for the woman that was beaten and almost raped? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Isn't that what most of the world eats? Are the sizes bigger there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 07:59 PM |
| 13 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"I mean my country would also be considered big (not as big as the US) but cities here are more the style of NY where having a car is somewhat troublesome so people either walk or use public transportation. My SIL went to the US for work and she told me there are vitually no streets to walk, that it's mostly highways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 07:56 PM |
| 28 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"Why are north americans so fat tho? What do people there eat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 05:36 PM |
| 17 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I think a lot of people confuse both concepts. For example Chris Brown and Amber heard are hv, they both have looks, money and status, yet they are both abusive pieces of shit that should be in jail, making them low quality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:35 PM |
| 12 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.You are mixing high value and high quality, two different thing. Chris Brown is a woman beater and criminal, he is hv because he has fame, money and looks. A regular looking man that works at McDonalds can be hq if he is nice, smart, supportive, funny, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:24 PM |
| 37 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.High value is not the same as High quality, a man can be HV because he has a ton of money, status and good looks but can be a dead beat cheater abusive pos, making him low quality. A man can be HQ because he is caring, supportive, smart, driven and masculine, and he can be low value because he doesn't make much money or is not avobe average looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURESo, you don't tell them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 01:19 PM |
| 0 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREI assume you tell them this before they go down on you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | What proportion of the self improvement you do is solely for purpose of getting opposite sex attention?For me, it used to be 100%, I (from age 12 to 18) used to think if I had a bf all my self steem issues would magically go away, that if someome loved me then there was my proof that I was not a waste of space. Wich was kinda solidified by the fact that no boy liked me at school, until 18 when I met my first love, it ended in faliure but that was the first romanc story I had. Then (19) I met my now bf (great man, I hope to marry this man), after we started dating I couldn't shake the feeling that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?I mean I chose my bf because he is smart, faithfull, funny and we share a lot of interests. We are both broke and while he turns me on like no one ever has, an objective person with no feelings attached would consider him to be slightly above average. We always go 50/50 unless it's a birthday so I don't see how I wouldn't meet that criteria. But the real puzzle here is why you are so eager to paint women as horrible monsters, we agreed that both genders are somewhat shallow yet instead pf saying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?You literally posted your check list to be a HQ woman, they werent that hard to achieve, being average looking, being faithfull, and having my shit toghether is the basic in order to be deteable, if those are your requierments to be HQ woman then Im surprised you met so few. Regarding the other, I think is clear we both agree that both genders are shallow and nobody is going to look for a relationship with someone they don't find attractive. When did I play victim or said women have a harder tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/21 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?A high quality woman/man CAN be high value as well but being HV is not a requierment to be HQ. Plenty of HV people are low quality. MGTOW is supposed to be about men going their own way, but if you go to their sub they barely talk about actually going their own way, instead they talk about how women are the worst. FDS is supposed to be about getting a HQ man but instead they bash men that are Low value even if those same men are HQ. That's why I said both subs became toxic echo chambers over tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?Fit attractive women are high value women, not high quality. HQ has more to do with morals, manners, femininity and intelligence. I don't like FDS, I find it just as toxic as MGTOW, both subs are for people to better themselfes yet manage to have most of their content be about how the opposite sex is the worst thing that ever happened. I pointed out that you wouldn't be eager to date an ugly fat single mom because you keep talking about how shallow women are because they want someone that they a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 01:50 PM |
| 3 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?Aah yes, because I bet you would be happy to date a fat ugly single mom. Quality women seek quality men, somehow I highly doubt you are pne | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 10 | Who told you looks are irrelevant?Shh don't tell them that, it doesn't fit their narrative | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.Another usser replied to me, a 29M saying that he seen that go down. You know that chlorine gas is deadly because someone actually studied it, not because of your critical thinking. How can you be older than me yet fail to see how wrong you are? Again, it's like talking to an anti vaxxer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.I havent been to one in a logn time either, I think the last time I went I was 20 or 21 (Im 24), I don't know if it's because we got older or what but we now like bars. Same with alcohol, I used to take tequila shots like it was water, now I only drink beer and with one pinta I'm already tipsy. I did meet my bf on a night club, I've never thought of the night scene as a place to meet an actual partener. But he also told me he never really liked going out like that, I think men go to get wasted a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 04:53 AM |
| 1 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.Yeah, it sucks, and it takes a lot of courage to aproach a girl out if nowhere, that's why always tried to be nice, but niceness is not usually mutual after one's self steem is hurt. I know a lot of women say no but are just playing hard to get, I personally was never a fan of that since a night club where people are wasted and the lights are low is not an ideal place for a guy to actually see all the "clues" of the "try again and I'll say yes" game. I understand when guys push for a yes 1 or 2 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 04:36 AM |
| 5 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?I get that it is unfair, and that women have a lot more options when it comes to dating, but I've seen plenty of comments calling women "stuck up" "entiteled" "arrogant" etc when they reject casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 04:30 AM |
| 2 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.Congratulations on not being an asshole, sadly that was not my experience, but since you actually been to night clubs, do you find it hard to belive that even average women get approached multiple times? Or that a lot of men react with agression when rejected? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 04:27 AM |
| 2 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.Lmao if you never even went to a night club then how can you be so convinced that it is not true? You say you are not a moron yet give bold statements about something that you know nothing about. I thought I was arguing with someone that had enough life experience to agree or disagree but you have no idea how can you be so sure that you are right. You sound like an antivax, never went to medical school but will fight you to the death over the ingredients in vacxines May I ask your age? Because i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.I'm not lying, I never said the men that approached me were handsome or confident, some were fine, most werent. I honestly don't understand how you find it so hard to belive that women, even average women, are approached a LOT on the night scene. Either you never went to a club or you never paid attention. And the point still stands, you ask women to place the feelings of a stranger over their own safety, you don't belive my experience (wether it is because it doesn't fit your narrative or you j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 03:59 AM |
| 0 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Wouldn't know, what I know is that casual sex is way more common than relationships in the community | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/21 12:56 AM |
| 2 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Most of are atheist but we were all raised in catholic families, none of our parents are hard core religious or conservative but they are deff old school, but most girls I met that didn't share our backround were low to medium n count, I'm starting to think that casual sex isn't as common as the internet says | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 5 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?I think it depends on the social circle, my friends and I have low n counts, but because we don't have casual sex wich means we are the devil according to a lot of men here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 3 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Good for you, I personally wouldn't be in a relationship with someone with a high n count (man or woman) but I won't judge those who don't mind it. You do have to agree that most men on this sub care a lot about women with high ncount | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 11:30 PM |
| 11 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?There are plenty of men in ltr, but I see how guys that just want to fuck would like the gay approach more. One thing I don't get is that men on this sub complain about women with high ncount, but also complain that women are selective when it comes to sex, so wich is it? I understand that N count is important to a lot of people (myself included) but what I don't get is that they want low n count women but are upset when women don't fuck every guy that approches her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 10:51 PM |
| 11 | If all men struggling with dating were to turn gay, most would have their dating problems vanish, doesn’t that suggest dating is hard cause of women ?Casual sex? Sure, but actual ltr are hard to find in the gay community | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.Im not sure if in the US is different, but having more than 15 men aproach you is a normal night here (Argentina) have you ever went to a night club with a female friend? Because that is pretty standart. The fact that you find my experience (wich is similar to pretty much every woman I know) just goes to show that you have no idea what the female experience is like, you guys talk about empathy but never even attempted to put yourself on a woman's shoes Edit: and Im not even that pretty, I'm a 6 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 09:55 PM |
| 11 | The reason most women are indirect with rejections...is that we are afraid of retaliation.You could say that you telling women to focus on not hurting the feelings of strager rather than their own safety shows you lack empathy towards women. I always rejected men nicely because I know it takes a lot of courage to aproach a girl out of nowhere, but it always went 1 of this 2 ways. Option1. I say no thank you, the guy tries to change that into a yes 2 or 3 times and then goes pacefully. I would say this one happened 10/50 times. Option2. I say no thank you, the guy tries to change that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleHe has a ltr, a wife, of he wanted a ltr with OP he would've divorced his wife, instead he manipulated her into an open relationship so he could keep OP as a booty call | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleIf they started an open relationship wouldn't that mean that they are working on their marriage? Why start an open relationship when you are getting a divorce? You are making no sense, oh and an open relationship only works when honesty is at the forefront, cheating is the opposite of being honest so this open relationship is not good for you. If the wife found out about you and decided to open the relationship so she could save her marriage then divorce is not on their minds, and if she didn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 05:44 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleGet a man before sleeping with someone else's husband, low quality woman And you cared enough to lie about the open relationship and divorce lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleWell she is fucking a married man... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleWell this particular man is married so I can't think of a culture that would be okay with OP being a side piece | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Almost all women can find a good man as long as they're open-mindedNow everything makes sense, you think is okay to cheat because your whore mother is a cheater too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleDidn't you say on your other post that he is in a loveless marriage and they are going to get a divorce in ten years? Seems like you enjoy switching the narrative in order yo make you look like less of a whore Oh and https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/jdlbg8/i_did_it_i_finally_ended_my_relationship_with_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share There is no open relationship You are a low quality woman, just like your mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleLmao sure. If your man hates his wife so much, why doesn't he get a divorce? You can't honestly be naive enough to belive this man is in love with you and not with your youth, what did his wife do? Age? What do you think will happen after you age and he goes hunting for the next bimbo. You are part of the emotional abuse of that woman, you are the side piece, this man has children and you are happy to fuck up their lives. He is the one to blame but you are no innocent lamb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleOP's name is u/[deleted] if anyone wants to know why she deleted the post it's because this man shw is fucking is married with children and she "forgot" to state that on her post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleHe is married, OP is a side piece | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleWell he is married so one would think he is in fact a piece of shit, bur OP knows and is happy to wreck a family so.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleWell this guy is married so OP deserves nothing but pain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 4 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleOP forgot to mention he also has a wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:02 PM |
| 4 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleWell the fact that he is married and she is a side piece probably has something to do with the shaming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:01 PM |
| 6 | People around here forget the biggest obstacle when it comes to young women dating older men: their friends and social circleWell of course, since you have fun ruining another woman's life and you know that he is a cheating pos you don't want to think about the future. Your friends shame you because what you are doing is shamefull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?I think you didn't read my comment correctly. Beautyfull women have ton of men as suitors, the men they choose will most likely be their counterparts look wise, but personality still matters. Let's say this woman is 9, and she has two men courting her, one is a 10 but she doesn't like his personality, and the other one is an 8 and she has a ton of fun with him, she would choose the 8. I said that the men she chooses doesn't have to be the most attractive OF THE LOT, not of the entire male popula… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?Lmao what? Looks matter, but if you expect a Vitoria secret model to hop on your lap because you said a funny joke you are delussional, that model has a ton very attractive men telling her jokes, shr will chose from those men (her counter parts look wise) the one with the best personality, even if he is not the best looking one of the lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?If personality had no weight these below average women would never date an average or below average guy, they are dating their counterparts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?Are the "dogs" average or far below average? Are those guys average, above average or below average? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?I've seen more average funny guys success than I've seen hot guys with 0 personality have a chick fall from the sky. And grinding? Do you define succes as making out on the dance floor? Because that's were average guys thrive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?The question is, were those guys engaging the room actually likeable? Or were they the annoying guy that thinks he is funny? Were those shy guys able to strike a nice conversation? Or did they just give 1 word answers? No one is saying looks don't matter, but an average guy with a good sense of humor can kill an above average guy with the personality of a potato | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?Yet he managed to have a wife, a side chick, and Rose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the Black Pill because they hate Incels. NOT because they don't agree with it.And the women I reffer to are not over 25. I don't want to tell you what this means. if you are reffering to money, we are all broke, men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 02:47 AM |
| 15 | TruthThe fact that he is an A list actor and his video was viralized on mainstream meadia probably had something to do with that too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/21 07:36 PM |
| 6 | We all know the truth ladies...Yes, because women only have sex to satisfy their man, it's not like they have libido or anything s/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 3 | We all know the truth ladies...Not how vaginas work, after a week or so it goes back to their normal size, the vagina has a permanent size change after giving birth. Also, you say one partener, but that doesn't mean one sexual encounter, if a woman is in a monogamous relationship for all her life having sex daily her vagina would expand daily. If another woman has had 50 sexual parteners (1 sexual interaction per partener) over the course of 5 years her vagina would only expand 10 times a year. Therefor by your flawed knowled… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the Black Pill because they hate Incels. NOT because they don't agree with it.But by your deffiniton I also must love every attractive man, and I've known men that are attractive but once they open their mouths and say stupid shit or are just plain mean they loose all the appeal. And the women I reffer to are not over 25. If we were 100% controlled by evolutionary psycology, no man would beat his wife because according to you men have the innate desire to protect their mate but some do, women would never cheat on their HQ mate with a LQ man but some of them do! I understa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the Black Pill because they hate Incels. NOT because they don't agree with it.The fact that we don't to fuck them doesn't mean we hate them, and while biology and evolutionary psycology do afect us, we are not animals and I'm not forced to hate ugly men by it. I am bisexual, and there are women I like and women that I don't, but that doesn't mean that I hate the women I don't feel like fucking. I also know bellow average men that have gilrfriends, and most of those women are actually more attractive than their parteners, that is impossible according to you, they should ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Women hate the Black Pill because they hate Incels. NOT because they don't agree with it.I know more that a few bellow average men and I like them I just don't want to fuck them, they are my friends. I'm RP and the reason I don't like the Black pill is because according to them women are the devil's whores and want to see all men burn (similar to what the hard core pink pill says about men), the fact that you wrote that women HATE the men they don't want to fuck just proves my point. I've seen post from black pillers say that sex is a right and women should be treated as property be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | The Real World Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings About Birth ControlYou said the men having the children or fucking are not the men paying taxes. But if everyone pays taxes means that the men having children are paying taxes. Whatever your position on public health is, you worded your argument wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | The Real World Doesn’t Care About Your Feelings About Birth ControlYou are telling me "chads" have a tax free life? Is there an exam and if you are hot enough the gov doesn't tax you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?That's why I said "stereotype" and not "as matter of fact you are all the same". But since you decided to mock me by congratulating me for being wrong (wich I wasn't, you just chose to misinterpret me) I might as well congratulate you on being inmature enough to celebrate when you think the other person is wrong, maybe that's why you have so much in common with a 23yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?Well Im happy for you two, but you are the exception, not the rule. And about the superiority complex, it's not a man thing, it's an american thing. The stereotype goes "Yeah Im an american, we are the best country in the wolrd, everyone wishes they were me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?Argentina | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?I wouldn't know, never been to north america, the most prevalent stereotype is that they are fat and entiteled and the men are fat and have a superiority complex. But you are the exception, most women try to find someone in their age gap. And the truth is that, while you can find some things in common, both of you will never trully relate to one another. Im not against age gaps, but don't be blind, you may be able to make it work, but most women try to find someone with a similar age to them, ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?You went to some third world country to find her? Or is her family having a rough patch money wise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 04:22 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: What does an LTR mean to you?I do think of it like that, I am in a LTR and my hope is for it to last until one of us dies. What else could a LTR be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?At this point you are willfully missing the point. Manipulating someome into a commitment is wrong and decietfull | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 11:50 PM |
| 4 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?I cannot belive you think that lying about a womanizer past, your character and your beliefs just so you can get into virgin mary's pants is not wrong and decierful. At this point you either lack the mental capacity or are just willfully ignorig logic so can pretend to be better that the women you call decietfull. I just hope no young woman fall for your manipulation and waste her time and virgity with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?You are still lying about your character, your past and your beliefs in order to manipulate someone into giving you what you want. The betrayal is still there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 03:11 AM |
| – | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?Because they couldn't work so they needed a man to feed them. You are saying that things were better back then because women couldn't afford to say no even if they de werent attracted to them. And while understand that fertility decreases with age, I'm 24f and never had a fertility test, nor have any of my friends, fertility issues are not only dependant on age, there is a chance that an 18yo is less fertile than me, or that a 30yo is more fertile than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 01:34 AM |
| – | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?If you "pretend" to be religious so you can bang/marry her you are as shitty and manipulative as the women that lie about their body count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/20 01:26 AM |
| – | Why would a young, virgin woman want to marry a man over 30 who is not even religious?Im a trad woman in her twenties (24) with a low ncount (3) and booooy a man in his 30s is the last thing I want. Hard to fall in love with someone that doesn't get the humor of your generation, someone that couldn't relate to my childhood, someone that will want to get married and have kids in less than 3 years. Not to mention that introducing him to my parents or friends would raise every single eyebrow. But the RP doesn't promote this delution, the BP does and some of them claim to be RP while… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 08:40 PM |
| 12 | Genuinely curious if women can understand where men are coming fromWomen understand where you come from, you understand were women come from as well. It's not that one gender doesn't understand the other, is just that no gender is willing to change their ways, and that's okay, women and men are different, expecting anything other than that will lead to resentment. But tbh that strategy of making him wait is something older women do (30s and above), I don't have much sexual experience (3) but I had sex with them when I felt ready. The first one, I lost my virgin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 8 | Genuinely curious if women can understand where men are coming fromIn all honesty, what do men think then? That she was locked in a basement and came out to date him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be?Yeah but I didn't like the ending tho, Hana best waifu | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 04:00 AM |
| – | Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be?Lmao please tell me you saw Prison School | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/20 08:40 PM |
| 11 | My tinder experimentThere are much more male tinder ussers than female tinder users so the woman will always get more matches since it's simple suply and demand. Also, I know women usually do an image search when the man is very attractive since cat fishing is a thing, so unless you used the model's name as well chances are more than one woman knew it was a fake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 08:39 PM |
| 3 | N-Count matters to men but also the quality of those ex-partnersIm no religious virgin but I told my partener my N count and he told me his when we started dating. I really don't see why so many women are offended by the idea that their parteners want to know their sexual history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually?The first time I noticed a grown man looking at me that way was around 11, the first time I was "cat called" I was 12 coming home from school Oh, and the first time someone grabbed my kiddie ass was when I was 10 by a kid one year older at school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | This is kind of a sister sub of r/CapitalismVSocialismIdk why but I read this with matthew mcconaughey's voice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 8 | CMV: "Monogamy is the way that we can ensure that average Joes get to get married too"https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/jnhdxs/cmv_monogamy_is_the_way_that_we_can_ensure_that/gb1ovv1?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 They proved you wrong so you changed your argument instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 11:44 PM |
| 9 | CMV: "Monogamy is the way that we can ensure that average Joes get to get married too"You've already seen all the comments, there is no point in linking them, there is no point in arguing with someone with a closed mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 10:56 PM |
| 11 | CMV: "Monogamy is the way that we can ensure that average Joes get to get married too"I do, but I don't have anything to add since my view is similar to all the commenters offering facts and you dismissing them. Why post a CVM if you are unwilling to change your mind even after being proved wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 38 | CMV: "Monogamy is the way that we can ensure that average Joes get to get married too"OP HAS AN OPINION!!!!! He doesn't have time for facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?Guess you preffer masculine women then, that or you don't want to engage in debate (on a debate sub) and just wanted to spew your already made point of view. Quite closed minded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?Women don't actually understand men that much. Have you ever heard the w: what are you thinking about? m: nothing w: you have to be thinking about something m: nope, nothing w: okay (but can't wrap her head around how he was thinking nothing since women always have something on their minds) And about that misinterpretation, it happens with men being blunt too, because people lie or because one man has already made their mind about other man no matter what that other man says. You want femenine t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Why women have such a deceptive communication pattern?You could say that but women understand each other, therefor they belive men are the ones that should be able to get the hints. Men understand each other bluntness therefor they belive women should be able to be direct and blunt. Since confrontation is a masculine trait and non-confrontation is a femenine trait there is no right or wrong way, there should be a middle ground. Men learning to be more perceptive of non verbal communication and women learning to be more direct. We are different, try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't women worry more about polygamy than a man worrying about hypergamy?Have you ever met a woman? One of my biggest fears to get cheated on. I don't need to have children to feel betrayed and back stabbed by the person I love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 0 | Shouldn't women worry more about polygamy than a man worrying about hypergamy?Oh god forgive for being shy, I was 18 when I met the first guy I dated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Have you ever actually been asked your N-count, and if so, was the relationship worth it?My bf didn't exactly asked but it came out during conversation, we've been toghether for four years and I'm pretty sure we are going to grow old toghether. For context: I'm 23f with 3 sexual parteners (including him) and he is 24m with 3 sexual parteners including me. He gave me my first orgasm, and is way better than the previous guys I was with, ironic because those 2 guys had very high n-counts. Edit. He once told me he didn't care for N-counts, on the other hand N-count is a big deal for me.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Is there anything inherently wrong with being a MGTOW?Wether it was because of their bad decisions or the simple fact that the world isn't fair, they are now as adults making the choice of being bitter and blame the wolrd for their problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t really desire a man. They desire money, validation and attentionThis has to be a troll post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really areThen get a hooker or a flesh light, you make it sound like men are unable to have healthy and loving relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 01:27 PM |
| 3 | LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affectionThat's not sexual coercion either, but I really don't want to start this kidn of conversation so early in the morning. Where is the logic on that last sentence? I'm a woman and I've never heard a man complain about that, in fact the group that I see bring up the downgrading of the word are always women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 12:59 PM |
| 12 | LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affectionI totally agree that this is manipulation and a shitty thing to, but don't call it rape. Downgrading the word rape to fit every sexual act that is not 100% healthy only hurts actual rape victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Although women seem to be genuine in their belief that opposite-sex friendships are platonic, men seem unable to turn off their desire for something more.OP: hey here is a study about how the earth is round. Also OP: but I am certain it is flat! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality?The post asked a question that had nothing to with incels, I answered it with my opinion, if you want to take it as a personal attack be my guest. But if you want my opinion regarding the incel improvemetn subject here is my take: The world is not fair, some people will be born with everything they need to succeed, wether it's good looks, money, or a good family that will help them to be confident and a good person. Of course others play a role in how we percieve ourselfes and how we get treated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality?Then they could try to improve their looks as well, as I said, it's not one or the other, if you want to be succesful on the dating market you gotta try to look your best and be a decent and interesting person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality?Sure, but OP didn't say that, he/she said "no physical atraction at all". One thing is saying "she has a few traits that I don't really like, but I'm atracted to her and find her pretty" or "she can be really annoying some times but I like her overall personality" VS "she is the nicest person I've ever met but god I can't wait to marry her so I can make our marriage a deadbedroom" or "she is as interesting as bowl of white rice but she is also an ass model" On the first two scenarios you underst… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 8 | Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality?If my bf told me he loves my looks but hates my persobality it would crush me just as much. Is not about being the hottest woman alive or having the best personality of the whole world. It's about knowing that he likes my looks and my personality, even if they are both flawed. It's not one or the other, both physical atraction and emotional compatibility are needed in order to have a good relationship, at least that is what I belive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality?I am not saying looks are all that matter, but if my bf told me he doesn't feel atraction it would crush me. It's not about being the prettiest one, it's about being pretty to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 55 | Would you be bothered if you found out that your SO did not find you physically attractive at all, but just like you for your personality?It would crush me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 1 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?That is why I said that I wouldn't call it forcing, just shaming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 07:24 PM |
| 5 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?I don't think loosing your V card at 17/18 is late but ok. Btw I edited my last comment so it would be more complete | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:59 PM |
| 7 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?I'm 23 and my bf is 24. Tho we met when I was 19 and he was 20, but if we break up in two years, 25 and 26, both with an N count lower than 5. Just focus on people that take relationships seriously. Or their friend group, people usually hang out with similar minded people, my bff has been single for 3 years now yet her N counts remains 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?I wouldn't call it "forcing" but I've heard many people and read many post that men that don't want women with high N count are sexist and insecure. So, more like shaming them for their preferences. On my end, I wouldn't date a man my age with more than 5 bodies, since the amount of sexual parteners you had shows how you view sex. I know a lot of people see it as something casual and that is okay, but I see it as something that requieres a certain level of trust and love that doesn't exist if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 8 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?I do. I wouldn't date a man my age with more than 5 as an N count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What's the bare minimum for you in a boyfriend?Sense of humor Doesn't compare me to other women Good person Has similar views Honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Before and After...On another note, how can you complain about a generalization when you yourself are doing one by saying this sub is for incels. I'm 23f, I have friends, a bf, good family and a job, AKA I'm what incels hate yet I'm here on this sub, so this is not an incel sub. You made a generalization while being dead serious, so don't complain when someone makes a generalization as a joke. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/03/20 06:40 PM |
| 7 | Before and After...Then don't look at it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/03/20 06:17 PM |
| 9 | Before and After...Girl chill, I'm a woman too. It's just a joke, a generalization that does not apply to all women, but more than a few. If you are really going to get so upset over a joke you need to stay away from the internet. If the joke does not apply to you just laugh at the joke, or scroll past the bad joke. If it does apply to you just "lol, true" or "that is not how it work, but ok" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/03/20 06:06 PM |
| 6 | If there were this many men as there are women making fun of small tits it would be on the news, but since it's women making fun a man's small dick it's fine.I mean yeah, but the term grower (as far as im concern) is for men whose size changes A LOT when hard | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 03:58 PM |
| 2 | If there were this many men as there are women making fun of small tits it would be on the news, but since it's women making fun a man's small dick it's fine.I mean, i seen 3 dicks in total. The first two wouldn't change THAT much when hard. What i meant about "experience" wasn't that he was my first. Sorry for the misunderstanding | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | If there were this many men as there are women making fun of small tits it would be on the news, but since it's women making fun a man's small dick it's fine.Not really | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 02:38 PM |
| 10 | If there were this many men as there are women making fun of small tits it would be on the news, but since it's women making fun a man's small dick it's fine.I was 19, finding out guys can make their dick jump was also a surprise | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 12:32 PM |
| 107 | If there were this many men as there are women making fun of small tits it would be on the news, but since it's women making fun a man's small dick it's fine.The first time i saw my bf naked i though "i wish he had a larger dick" (It's like a thumb while flacid) then he got hard and it was the scariest shit i've ever seen. That is when i found out what a "grower" is, but to be fair i had little to no experience before him | /r/MensRights | 27/06/19 03:15 AM |
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