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You've never hugged a date? The hug into kiss is like my go to. I find the hug to be a good gauge of if I should go for the kiss........a quick light hug = no go. A tight lingering full body gential press/face press usually means I'm A-OK. /u/wolfbee16
/r/seduction28/01/19 03:51 PM
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I learned game at 25/26 it's never too late. Yeah your options are somewhat more limited if you're not living at a college surrounded by pussy but it's still viable
/r/seduction28/01/19 03:46 PM
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So I took this advice to heart. She seemed really anxious and nervous so I didn’t push escalation. Flirted and teased a bit I wanted to change pattern too. I tend to try regardless. Which probably hurts me We’ll see how it goes
/r/seduction26/01/19 02:39 PM
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What are some tips for escalating sexual tension? Just some general tidbits.......I have some knowledge but a refresh or finding out what I don't know would be appreciated
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:55 PM
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Thanks, I agree she is half interested
/r/seduction06/11/18 10:04 PM
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Does that help?
/r/seduction06/11/18 06:17 PM
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This is basically what I do, I don’t tend to take shirt off tho. I do always try to work my way down and then I get stopped. I will go full throttle Friday 😁
/r/seduction06/11/18 04:48 PM
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20’s above waste only a bit more than a year made moves when I met her, so I nexted. She reintiated and I’ve been making moves a couple months now. Even after a failed attempt she’ll still call again. Hope that helps
/r/seduction06/11/18 04:47 PM
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She rescheduled for tmmrw, fyi. Thanks for advice
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:08 PM
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Hey wanted to update you cause you gave good advice, tmmrw she's coming over
/r/askTRP15/06/18 11:08 PM
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I'm running game tonight at a local show!
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:15 PM
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Meant the quote in the context of this situation. I proposed a plan she can't, now I live my life. I just meant the balls in her court, f she wants to get together she knows where to find me. Maybe I miscommunicated I gotcha, appreciate the advice!
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:14 PM
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It will take a while to build up some hobbies and interests that fill your time Suggestions for other hobbies/interests? I am a gym rat and that's not really something I include her in, I like using it to destress and decompress and don't like going with other people. During the week, I do that and by the time I'm done/eat/shower/etc its usually relatively late. I will either just stay in and read, maybe play a video game, or go socialize at local bars. I don't have musical talent nor artistic t…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:27 PM
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Also, why the fuck would you wait for her to ask you to do something? I'm confused? I don't wait....? I always do the "I'm doing X, at y, want to join" She's not banging anyone else. You're right though, I get used because I'm validating with attention despite little reciprocity....is a chore.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 08:19 PM
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A girl that wants to see you, will see you. She does see me, but she is very bad with the whole rescheduling aspect.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:15 PM
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You’re operating from a place of fear. Fear of pissing her off. You’re in her frame. Stop it. This is true, it was much worse a few weeks ago, now I'm more indifferent. I'll just keep living my life, she knows where to find me
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:14 PM
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It's hard for me to not be available.....I work a M-F 9-5. I go to the gym and work on myself during the week and am essentially unavailable until Friday night. But on the weekends, I am available. I put my work in during the week, and my weekends are for play. At this point she already knows you'll be open to whenever she wants to hang out, so there's no urgency on her part to make solid plans. You're 100% right because she knows I'm pretty free on the weekends and she knows I'm willing to make…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:13 PM
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Yeah I'm honestly the guy doing all the legwork in the relationship in terms of trying to schedule plans and shit, and I realized this a few weeks ago and have drastically stopped trying. She's horrible with rescheduling. Basically I get a no, and then the next time I want to do something I reach out again
/r/askTRP15/06/18 04:00 PM
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That's the plan!
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:59 PM
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Thanks for the elaboration
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:58 PM
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Was considering just responding "okay" (since no response is uncharacteristic) but silence is the better treatment yeah? "Okay" runs the risk of passive aggressiveness IMO.....to an extent I feel silence does too tho Guess I'm just a bit worried that it will put her off....she's very unconfrontational and don't want her to not reach out cause she perceives I'm mad based on the silence. I'm not mad either lol which is a huge step emotionally as a few weeks ago I'd have been crushed
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:08 PM
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Thanks! Good luck with the brutal decision making of Saturday or Sunday :o
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:54 PM
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We've done stuff lol....just haven't fucked and she rarely wants to. I figured I'd ask TRP for a change of pace, glad to see the generalizations are as broad here. TBH the advice and opinion of someone whose hung up on when to text isn't really worth much.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:50 PM
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IDK what friendzone is really considered. We've been dating for 3 months. We were friends before that, yeah. She's let me advance somewhat physically but she always shuts it down. I guess the only real consistent difference between us being friends and us "dating" is that we kiss when we greet each other and make out for a bit when she leaves.
/r/seduction11/06/18 06:45 PM
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She isn't. She has serious hangups about sex/intimacy, I know her friend group well and know this isn't the case.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:43 PM
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Withdraw. This is what I've done. Yeah 3 months. Not really all that outlandish..... I've been dating and seeing other people. I've just seen her the longest
/r/seduction11/06/18 06:40 PM
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Thanks for actual advice. I've distanced myself the last few weeks and it's been progressively better since
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:40 PM
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You have advice?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 03:02 PM
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Cause she's hot and I'm so close?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 03:01 PM
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I forgot to mention as well, her friend asked her how things are going between us and she told her "I wasn't really looking for a relationship, but I think I'd be interested in dating him" - this kind of hangs me up. Because she doesn't really fully act that way when we're together
/r/seduction22/01/18 09:47 PM
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Ignore ALL that shit you analyzed in your original post. Women vote with their feet. If she's not with you, she's not voting for you. her words are meaningless. So, considering she is "with me" is it safe to say she's somewhat interested? I'm not trying to be dense, I'm just genuinely asking for perspective. Like, for instance, last week....she had school during the week, I don't even try these days. Friday she had family party. Saturday she stayed at her house and relaxed. Sunday she spent with…
/r/seduction22/01/18 09:29 PM
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Gracias!
/r/seduction22/01/18 08:57 PM
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I am shredded, hit the gym often. Do see other women. I really like this one though. Can you explain what you mean by micro details?
/r/seduction22/01/18 08:56 PM
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