BadHoundBay Archive

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5	Take women off the pedestal and put yourself on the dammed thing instead The only point I kinda disagree with here is point 8. But context comes into play. I've some minor experience doing cold approaches on the street and I do say something like "hi, I was just sitting/walking by there... and thought you looked really gorgeous. I had to say hi/at least say hi. I'm blah blah" and offer her a handshake. I try and subtly position myself closer to her as I go through the opener unless she leans away. I can vary the genuine compliment with something like "I really like y…	/r/seduction	09/06/23 12:16 AM
2	Girl wants to hookup, I’m too nervous That's really daft and illogical thinking If she sleeps with guy A after 2 dates, he's gonna think she's just right If she sleeps with guy B after 2 hours, he's gonna think she's a "whore" If she sleeps with guy C after 2 months, he's gonna think she's a Madonna When the actual truth is she's all three or a combo of that Besides, this kind of thinking is exactly what's going to make some girl who used to be a stripper/OF girl/escort deliberately not sleep with a guy to make him think she's not "…	/r/seduction	14/12/21 05:03 PM
2	Should i be easy/hard to approach ? if you like her, approach her.... approaching someone you are interested in is definitely not a simp move. Where the fuck did you hear that? Women fear rejection as well(and maybe more for the first approach). So if she feels like she doesn't have a chance she'd auto reject you to save face/social reputation/ self esteem and rationalize her own thoughts and desires... kinda like how we guys sometimes rationalize our approach anxiety by saying "oh she would've not been interested anyways/ this so…	/r/seduction	13/11/21 06:38 AM
3	Girl who is super out of my league wants to keep seeing me and I have no idea why. Feeling pretty intimidated. Would appreciate some advice on how to proceed. because sometimes even women will travel hundreds of miles for that good D	/r/seduction	13/11/21 06:10 AM
3	What are some open ended questions to keep the conversation going? Like I said, AFTER my opener and compliment, my go to questions are "what are you upto now?" And "what are you up to later?" Like some other people have mentioned here, asking about where she's from? And Abt her family are good go-to questions. I get the impression that asking the why? Or how? Questions leave more room for detailed answers from which I could start other conversational branches. For eg: What do you do for work? Where are you from? Seems like you are interviewing her to fill out s…	/r/seduction	30/09/21 12:18 PM
2	What are some open ended questions to keep the conversation going? I'm fairly new to cold approaching so sometimes I feel this too. My go to questions are "so what are you up to?" Or if it looks really obvious she's busy- "where are you off to?" Or "so what are you up to later?" For one, this let's me know about her schedule is like, so I can try for an instant date(I haven't been so lucky ...yet) or I'd know not to propose meeting up when she would be busy. Secondly, she may say "oh I'm off to this place/dinner/clg/homework assignment/blah blah" From there, yo…	/r/seduction	30/09/21 11:40 AM
1	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet OP, we all have some insecurities... too poor, too rich, black, brown, white, asian, one arm, one leg, in a wheelchair, too short, waaay too tall, skinny, too athletic, fat, can't grow a beard, can't maintain a groomed beard, bald...but no nothing is more sad, unattractive, and pathetic than a victim mindset. And I understand, it's only human to have insecurities sometimes, it's alright to have moments and periods of weakness. I sometimes feel at the earlier stages or the attraction stages of a …	/r/seduction	29/08/21 03:54 PM
0	How to make girls fall in love and chase you? How do you know if you're doing it correctly?	/r/seduction	27/08/21 09:01 AM
10	Be careful approaching women especially with the mask mandate going on He's seventeen... Real life experience and mistakes is how he'll learn.	/r/seduction	27/08/21 08:57 AM
1	Guys please Help me understand this Yeah I got pissed at some PC advice on dating for men, which would only work if women were assertive and forward as well. Didn't mean to take that out on you. I apologize if I came off that way Generally, texting should be mainly for setting up dates. is he the player type or does he not have much success with women? If it's the former, you may have to be more forward abt meeting him (and maybe even slightly sexually flirty) because he's gonna go for the girl who's more of a sure thing. We'd see…	/r/seduction	30/06/21 01:15 AM
1	Guys please Help me understand this I don't want to be one who starts the convo or someone who comes out as weird... Ever think he might feel the exact same way.... And he's initiated the conversation twice now, even if it led nowhere. Maybe he wants some reciprocation? So that he doesn't feel like his attention is unwarranted... honestly some women are just as much cowards as most men. Like seriously, grow some damn ovaries and ask him abt that time he mentioned getting drinks or whatever	/r/seduction	29/06/21 11:43 PM
3	What are some signs a woman is 'settling' for a man? I took the anal virginity of an ex (sorta) gf for her bday. She was keen on trying it out and enjoyed it a lot, and even sucked me off right after. While gathering her stuff to leave, she said that was really fun, and would probably do anal with her future husband when their sex life needed spicing up or was in a dead bedroom situation. I thought to myself, WTF!!?? Why would she marry a guy who she didn't have any enthusiasm to fuck her ass?? I pity her future husband already... and if she doesn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/21 05:32 PM
3	Stop asking her if she’ll go on a date with you, instead tell her she’ll LOVE the place your taking her to for your date. of course you have to develop social competency. But part of developing that does mean taking risk. But you have to be okay with whatever the outcome could be. If it means losing the girl, then so be it. It's sorta a shift in mindset i.e. shifting from "can I get THIS GIRL to go our with me?" to "am I socially savvy enough for A GIRL to go out with me using a "risky strategy"?" It's more abt your own mentality than the girl. It more abt becoming confident and secure in yourself that you can get …	/r/seduction	20/06/21 04:35 PM
5	Stop asking her if she’ll go on a date with you, instead tell her she’ll LOVE the place your taking her to for your date. OP means to be playful and sorta nonchalant abt it when actually saying the words...not stating a demand or a direct request. And obviously, do it when you have already built some rapport or flirty/sexual tension. Don't ask, suggest i.e. the tone and implication of the delivery should be suggestive but the actual words may not necessarily be so Eg. Her: oh I love trying new coffee/whiskey places Him: then you'd love this spot I've picked out for our date Or oh yeah? maybe you'd like the venue fo…	/r/seduction	20/06/21 02:48 PM
2	First group approach I agree man, I've approached girls outside when they are by themselves but don't have the balls to do it if there's 2 or more. I'll get there eventually. Abt to go try cold approaching again after a long time	/r/seduction	18/06/21 12:04 AM
2	6 years of pick up experience and my take-aways I should add that these dance classes are probably not always the best for going cold approach style. Like someone else here mentioned, if you end up going for a lot of the Latin dance social events in your area, you may start seeing the same ppl, so it basically becomes a social circle of sorts. I suppose you would need more social game for this, otherwise you might get labeled as the guy who's there to hit on girls. But it does help with social calibration	/r/seduction	17/06/21 12:42 PM
16	6 years of pick up experience and my take-aways I shit you not, salsa and bachata social dances immensely helped my confidence. At first, I used to go with a friend, and we'd decide to dance with at least 3 girls, then it became 5, then 7, then we forgot to keep track. I found that I didn't care how hot a girl looked. If she was standing around, and I wanted to dance, I'd approach. Sometimes I didn't even have to use words, just a slight touch near the elbow and when she turns to look at me, I'd make an open hand/palm up request. if she's dow…	/r/seduction	16/06/21 05:40 PM
9	How do you differentiate between flirting and being friendly? If she touches you more often, longer lingering touches and hugs, sometimes holding eye contact (don't be the first to break off eye contact if this happens), naughty knowing smiles(like both of you have an inside joke), then it's highly probable that she's into you	/r/seduction	15/05/21 03:22 PM
9	Don’t let anyone put doubt in your mind about how you’re perceiving an interaction is/was going I normally make an attempt to go for phone numbers instead of social media. Also, you might want to try asking for the date before going for contact info. Ask her nonchalantly if she'd like to continue your interesting/enticing conversation over a drink/coffee/bite to eat sometime. And if she agrees then go for the contact info (phone number preferred). That way, you already have something to talk over text i.e. the impending date, and you can get her schedule for it. Instead of beating around t…	/r/seduction	15/05/21 01:51 PM