BadJuJu8627 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Separated for 8 months (39M & 38F) — is this actually better for the kids?		BadJuJu8627	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/25 10:02 PM

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4	Something I can never get past I know what you mean when you describe “the look.” In my case it was this look of anger is etched into my mind. Anytime I see her I see that expression looking back at me.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/25 01:03 AM
1	What did YOU do wrong? Explains a lot	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/25 03:21 AM
1	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? I disagree because It depends on the situation. It also does not mean you decided long ago to leave. If someone changes and you call them out on it and try to work on it you are not deciding to leave.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/25 10:43 PM
3	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? I noticed really significant changes five years ago. I had wondered what happened to her back then. And I’m still grieving to this day. So I guess 6 years of missing what used to be. And yes seeing a therapist.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/25 03:37 PM
8	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? In my situation I tried with therapy and written out letters and confronting issues head on. Despite my best efforts she ignored it all and I asked to separate. So in a way I was grieving then …and I’m still grieving now. In my situation specifically there were a lot of problems that had been major issues for a long time. But she didn’t see things as issues despite the effect it had on me. Maybe towards the end she felt the change but rather than course correct she doubled down on disrespecting …	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/25 04:42 PM
8	Wife Comparison I think some injuries cannot be healed. I don’t know how someone can use that type of venom against another in a relationship. I’ve been in your friend’s shoes in a different way. Ultimately, she sounds awful and at the very least therapy would be a must if he wants to try and salvage anything or even for him alone and move on from her.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/25 12:41 AM
-2	You know what’s worse than divorce? What do you mean by this?	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/25 01:58 PM
5	What was the final straw that led you to divorce? Lost our home in a wildfire. I poured blood sweat and tears into the house. She mocked me saying that I cared more about my childhood home surviving over the loss of our family home.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/25 05:20 AM
1	Separated for 8 months (39M & 38F) — is this actually better for the kids? I appreciate that. I think we both tried but at different times. We did two years of therapy where I felt like she spent most of it attacking the therapist for “taking my side.” However, once we actually split I think she has taken therapy much more seriously but it feels like the bigger changes are in her relationship with other people and it’s largely the same with me. For me, I’ve always been the main care taker since I work remotely. I did drop offs and pick ups and I’m the one that usually …	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/25 05:09 PM