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| 4 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationship | CMV | BadRevolutionary3034 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:04 AM |
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| 1 | Can we settle the debate in regards of traditional versus modern relationship framework?I was talking about an experience that is very common among men, beleive it or not. Great, many women experience thirsty guys. Are all men thirsty and thirsty men is the big issue of the century? No. No it's nothing like your example, as that roots in an AMALT claim. This is an issue that exists and it's far from being the majority, yet it's significant enough. "Women usually care about money, but men don't usually care about sex! That's completely different!" You are lined up with 99 other, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Latest stats on sexlessnessI love how you completely skipped over me tearing apart your arguments that: PE is "very common" when it's 5% of all people Taking antidepressants is a good guilt tactic when it's just a bit pathetic Men can sneak everything but a sex toy into college All men do oral sex when it's 50% and You're venting your college humiliation online like it's my fault No argument for any of that? Nice No, instead, you skipped straight over to my comment about how I'm not fucking men who can't fuck. "No one ask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Latest stats on sexlessnessIf you are an 18 year old boy, there's good chance that you will cum too fast the first 10 times you are in a warm wet pussy. Hot guys get those 10 chances earlier. There's probably a lot of genetic variation as well, maybe for a good chunk of guys its not an issue. The prevalence of premature ejaculation was 19.5% by self-reporting and 11.3% based on a premature ejaculation diagnostic tool (PEDT). Only 2 in 10 men claim to have problems with PE and 1 in 10 are correct. You have tricked yourself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Latest stats on sexlessnessYou are the one that put gay men to the conversation in the begin with. And you were the one who responded, "I'm not gay!" completely missing the point. Do you think that being approached by a creepy guy is uncomfortable for you but comfortable for women? You really see women as a different species, huh? Average lgbt ally straight women Nope, but cute assumption. Now, all of a sudden, you're pro-LGBT rights after vehemently denying anything to do with "icky gays" when no one asked? Cute | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Latest stats on sexlessnessI'm not trolling. I just don't sit on Reddit, thinking that I'm making progress by saying, "What?!?! Men and women both...??? Penetrated!? But no way!!!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Latest stats on sexlessnessCompletely off-topic and irrelevant. Have a good one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Latest stats on sexlessnessI mean, if you say so. Aren't you the guy who keeps getting dunked on by women in threads? I've seen you take like 5 Ls at this point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Latest stats on sexlessnessOK, and? Straight men get humped by men with less empathy than a serial killer all of the time. I'm not tracking the sub for years, charting its progress. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Latest stats on sexlessnessIt's impossible to learn how to last without a real pussy to practice on. Read any basic book on sex. Women aren't practice pussies. If you want a practice pussy, buy a fleshlight. I had premature ejaculation for 2 years in College before I got a good girl, fucked her twice a day for 3 months, and got used to it/ learned how to control it. It's not something you can learn by yourself or with one fuck every semester. Then, explain all of the virgins who don't have premature ejaculation. Not gonna… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:45 PM |
| 6 | Latest stats on sexlessnessWomen don't have sex with you because you don't have basic empathy for women. Those feelings that you have about men humping you? That's how women feel. Eye-opener, I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:40 PM |
| -1 | Latest stats on sexlessnessMaybe you'd get a chance to do it more if you spent a single minute thinking about how to do it properly. "Of course, I fell off of the cliff and died! I have no hiking experience!" That's why you learn before going up. Women aren't targets for sexual practice. Unless you want to get on your back to give men who are bad lays "some experience," don't ask women to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | At what point does one become unchivalrous?What is unchivalrous? How do we measure such a thing? It is literally just telling her she looks nice, pulling out her chair, and letting petty things like who left the milk out go. It's not complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:17 PM |
| 7 | Latest stats on sexlessnessMost men just don't know how to fuck anymore. If another man offered to get on top of you and hump you like a dog for five minutes, you'd say, 'No' too. It really is that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Give me some of that sweet, sweet ValidationAsk yourself, do you come here to get your personal views validated and receive dopamine hits, or are you here to engage in meaningful debate on gender, relationship, and sexual dynamics? How much of what you believe is based on validation from dopamine? I know you see this as a cool gotcha, but it's not. Most people debating are looking to see whether their ideas work theoretically before applying them irl. "Dating apps suck as a guy. I never get any matches, and if I do they're usually a bot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Can we settle the debate in regards of traditional versus modern relationship framework?Can we settle the debate about XYZ once and for all? No, that's not how the internet works Pay the bills 100% or the majority at least, but also tend to the household chores the modern way, taking at least 50% of the tasks that was traditionally assigned to women, while also take care of all, 100% of the household tasks that was (is) traditionally assigned to men (maintenance/repair/DIY tasks mostly). You are complaining about the lowest common denominator of women. This is like me saying, "All … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Delusional women aren't more common than delusional men. They're just way more visible and vocal.Are you suuuuure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”My knife and fork | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Wouldn't be saying this if his point was just, "Man, women are aiming too high and I can't find my looksmatch." Which would be wrong but his opinion. Instead, he includes loads of verbal degradation. LV strategy. Read. I'm not Thai. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?:/ Right, OK. I disagree. I think women are frigid because men like you assume every woman is a slut. That's just me Again, godspeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)The stats I used didn't really break that down, sorry. I do know that age gap relationships become far more common as people become older though. So, you are right that a lot of the people in the 5-11 gap demographic are probably 48-year-old men with 40-year-old women, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".OKCupid also shows that women message men that they rate poorly, so they are asking out men below 8 You'd have to give me a looks chart for me to self-rate. They're all different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Substitute Michelle with whoever you think is a 10. I think I am telling you that, as a woman, I am seeing a 7/10 guy and I am not attracted to Chad and I am very happy with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I don't though. I'm talking with a 7/10 guy right now (who thinks he's 5/10 for some reason; he has low self-esteem because he's Jewish, I think, which is insane to me because I find him pretty). You people need to like... chill lol. Girls are people. Like you. They're not all looking for Arnold Schwarzenegger any more than you're all looking for Michelle Pfieffer lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?OK. Y'know what? Fuck this I believe in you, man. I know you're insecure, but I believe you can find a virgin that wants you. Godspeed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I'm a virgin. No one wants you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:25 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Dude, it is 6 in the morning. The average person has 5 sex partners. Go the fuck to sleep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?You have a gross, unrealistic view of women. Go outside and actually speak to a girl please. Madonna-whore complex is a term used for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".A few questions. Which part of, "We're not dating. Don't act like we're dating" is a come-on? Which part of, "We're not dating. Don't act like we're dating" means I drink or go to bars? Which part of, "We're not dating. Don't act like we're dating" means I have casual sex? You are properly schizophrenic, aren't you? Not even as a joke. A true and proper schizophrenic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I never applied to be your girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Why are you phrasing this like I'm in a relationship with and negotiating with you? I already don't want you. Visit a hooker for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:46 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Yeah, but most importantly people just need time to sort out their feelings. Often, you will maybe not have sex for 1-2 weeks and your partner will come to you and say, "Hey, I've sorted out my feelings and I know what I want." It's nbd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:31 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Oh. Well... I don't really know what to tell you. As a human being, you will sometimes go through moods where you are repulsed by sex. Your HL partner will become LL and then HL and then LL. That's... life. People's libidos change depending on things like stress, judgement, religious crises, etc. All that you can really do (if we're being serious about this) is sit with them, listen to them, try to understand, and figure out a new way of looking at things (not forcefully). For example, this is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?OK, so... I have thought about this. If push comes to shove and you need sex at that point in your life, it's fair to just leave the relationship (exceptions not withstanding like marriage). Otherwise, it's going to be sexless for however long. There are non-penetrative options like dry-humping, handjobs, oral sex, etc. I'm imagining vaginismus in this case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Probably for STR, but that isn't my forte. LTR, it's usually equal. I just wouldn't generalise it to men/women who don't STR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".I don't wanna hear "my feelings," so I won't ask for it. My experience living in America. So, your feelings. Got it. I didn't say you had no point, I said it seemed like you were agreeing with what I said. Not originally. You're just making up a random false choice based on two straw men you invented. What you actually did was accuse me of "negging". I wasn't. I explained why it made no sense for me to do that and the post has nothing to do with my personal life, then you pretended like I said "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipOoh, not a fan of this are you. I am trying to be helpful. Most women are not going to agree to sex 4x per month. If you want to reduce your odds of marrying by making that essential, you can, but you put extra strain on yourself by excluding hookers and prostitues and this and that. The more unnecessary standards you have, the less your chances. You can make it about "me not being a fan." I'm making it about realism. Teasing me isn't actually going to change the numbers. Weird you've not actual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling"."Women should leave the future of the human race to a coin toss." God, the takes get dumber and dumber | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Hm, I'm very fixed in my opinion and defensive usually, but I'll take you up on that because I don't fully know my view on this. I think that the majority of women look at a guy, feel sexual attraction, and wait until they see cues of what I call "not being a sexually promiscuous asshole" before going in for STR/LTR. Therefore, while looks gets you on the radar, personality gets you in the door. When I think back to every guy that I wanted a relationship with, it was always "looks + personality.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Oh, what does help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:24 AM |
| 6 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Attractive men are 18-31. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipIf your ultimatum is, "You MUST sleep with me once a week for 20 years without fail or divorce," you're gonna be hard-pressed to find anyone but a hooker. Good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 8 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Or you can try to date someone your age... now? My post has 18 upvotes and I'm 18. This must not be that uncommon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".They are common tactics of Americans when they argue, especially when they have no point. I'm not American. Wrong again. Also, I'd love to see the source on this, but I don't wanna hear "my feelings," so I won't ask for it. Nothing you said in the second paragraph refuted my original post, or you kind of agreed even. So, I did say stuff other than "psychobabble and insults" that you skipped over to claim that I had no point. Interesting. Obviously. When did I say it didn't? Which one is it: negg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".OK...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".You can read evopsych books if you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameWe asked respondents which route they have taken when tackling the topic. Hearteningly, the majority of both genders (67.4 percent of women and 58.6 percent of men) reported that they always tell the truth. "When tackling the topic." This refers to women lying to gain social status. In an anonymous survey of sexual practices where people felt safe enough to admit to lying about their sexual history, it is extremely unlikely than any woman in an anonymous survey who has admitted to previously lyi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Have never looked at a cold man and thought, "Wow, he would be good in bed." No idea where you get this idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:12 AM |
| 6 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".... OK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Does that change anything? Nope You simply viewing it through a biased gendered lens is incredibly problematic. Viewing human mating (the most gendered thing) as gendered on a sub about genders mating is problematic. Nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 8 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".Psychobabble and insults only exist in the West. Gotcha. Ignoring the rest of my argument in the second paragraph to say I don't have one. Nice. And then in the next line you admit that this very thing ("negging") does exist. Neat. If you have a girlfriend, why are you mad about other people's sex lives? Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameOK, so it turns out that I was off by 1-2 points. I did a cursory search before finding "5," but I went back to look for the source and decided that I didn't like it. This source below (better source) states that 2-7 partners is the average (rounding to 5 because 7 - 2). Some places like the UK are 7, the rest of Europe is roughly 5. The US says the same (2-7) with around 50% saying somewhere around '2' and 50% saying '7.' Obviously, they cancel out and you get the '5' from before. https://onlin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | I’m relation to two recent posts: Is TRP and FDS toxic or do they merely have a common toxic element?They both make dating ridiculously hard for themselves, which I don't get. Most people realise that they're not Chad and lower their standards, but both groups seem to double down and give themselves mental illnesses in the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:47 AM |
| 13 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".The answer is, you're not good enough. Most women aren't. So get over it and find a man that you're good enough for. "You won't find anyone better than me! I'm the best you're going to get!" is classic LVM emotional control. David Buss did a study ages ago, showing that insecure men who identify as low-value do this because they think that their partners will realise that they're better and leave. He can express his opinion all that he wants, but he litters it with subtle verbal abuse because he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum gameI'm going to say something that's going to blow your mind. Most women have 5 or less sex partners in their whole lives because they're not men. Most men aren't Chad and at most will have the ability to fuck approximately 5 people in their lives. Grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of "not being that into a guy"?Not sleeping with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Society doesn't need more women as CEOs, politicians, and in positions of power over othersYes, OK? And? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:17 AM |
| 24 | Most women don't deserve prince charming. Most women (like most men) are average and deserve average men. That western women waste their youth throwing themselves at high value men they don't deserve only to be pumped & dumped is why they end up bitter, alone or "settling".You're doing a sexual strategy called "making women feel less valuable, so they'll stay with you." Evolutionarily, it's semi-common and incredibly sad, showing that you identify yourself as a LVM. In all honesty? Yeah. A lot of women don't deserve high-status men. But like you said: the person you deserve will find you. Maybe it's time to look at yourself and lower your own standards, never mind women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/21 12:12 AM |
| 0 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)I don't know what School of Economics you went to, but 1 (and a half) out of every 10 people is not the definition of "very, very common." Next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:57 PM |
| 0 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?"If you really loved me, you'd give me sex on demand." No one is arguing this. Women really do love strawmen fallacies. It's cute how you ignored the thing that I said right before that and jumped straight to AWALT. So, you even cherrypick what you argue with. My argument isn't a straw man if you actually read anything else in that paragraph instead of cutting it up to look better. Research doesn't agree with this view. These men indicated that they resisted the notion of desiring without feelin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:52 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?But I understand you're confused about all this. Probably confused about a lot of things in your life. Ad hominem is a sign of insecurity and weakness. Just because I disagree with you doesn't mean that something's wrong. It's pitiful to jump to that conclusion just because you're not getting your way, but I didn't expect anything less from your previous comments. You've already made it extremely clear that you try guilting and wheedling when you don't get your want immediately. I'm going to tel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 9 | Do men who are obsessed with dating much younger women seriously overstate the desire that younger women might have towards them? (Kinda NSFW)34% of relationships have a 1 year gap, 20% are 2-3 years. 13% are 5 years. This accounts for 67% of relationships, not counting relationships where the women is older (17%). That's 84% of all relationships. Where you are pulling 5-11 out of your ass, I do not know. It accounts for only 16% of relationships. Meaning that it is actually more likely that you'll date a woman who's older than you than a girl who's more than 5 years younger. That's not "incredibly common." I love how you phrased this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Cherry-picked rhetoric from some unsourced armchair couple's counselling blog isn't expert advice, but nice try Not to mention these are off-topic. "People can bond through sex." No shit. "People can communicate differently." No shit. Your last one is the most laughable. "Love and take care of me... by ignoring your own emotions and prioritising mine, so we can have sex doggy style!" What a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 10:06 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?On average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Men want sex more than women. If you want it, it's your job to get it. Stomping your feet and whining, "You're neglecting me!" doesn't change facts. She ain't your mom and you ain't "rewarding neglect" because she ain't your dog neither. If you want it, get it. Simple as | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?Yeah, definitely. But what I'm talking about are the guys in this thread like, "You MUST fuck me at LEAST twice per weak or I'm LEAVING!" Like, buddy, what have you done to make her WANT to have sex with you other than having a tantrum? Obviously, there are women who just hate their partners and don't want sex (or have medical problems), but having a tantrum is not gonna make her say, "Oh, you're right. I do want to have sex with you! That's so attractive." Y'know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipYou realise the majority of older married couples in their 60s-90s are not having sex once per week? If sex is such a big deal to you that you need it more than the average married couple, you can marry a hooker. It's fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Now that the dust has settled: What kind of man would you date or consider a relationship with?Simply: LTR, non-abusive, looksmatch, same religion/country, "get" each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:26 PM |
| 0 | How would you handle libido differences with your partner?I'm just going to give the controversial (correct) opinion and say that it's the man's job to get the woman into sex. If your girlfriend is going through a dry spell and you can't light some candles and kiss her all over, you quite frankly don't even deserve to be having sex. Getting her in the mood when she's not horny is the bare minimum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipI don't think you understand. This post was about another post ("the put out or get out post") where a guy was saying, "You HAVE to have sex with me or be homeless." So, he was threatening women with homelessness if they couldn't have sex. I'm not talking about guys not wanting to be with people who can't have sex. That's fine. And, even if it weren't fine, it's normal and usual behaviour. "You MUST fuck me or else get hurt and you would deserve it" is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipGod doesn't real. Edgy illiterate atheist. "God doesn't real." And its not creepy, dunno what your issues are but in a real life sexual relationship sex is part of it. Take away sex and its not a sexual relationship. This post was about marriage. No one said sexual relationship. Being sex is important to my mental and probably physical well being, if she no longer wants sex I will have to seek it elsewhere. Thats just how it is. Can you imagine being a grown adult and claiming that you'll get si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipNot what I did. I said that saying, "You MUST fuck me" is creepy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationship"Is it not creepy to say no to sex?" No, nice try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipIf the roles were reversed, women don't have the right to demand sex either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipNo, the guy can leave. I just don't like the creepy, "You MUST fuck me" stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipYeah, and women can not be compatible with guys who give creepy sexual ultimatums. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationship"Marriage = friendship with sex." Tell me you don't understand marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipYeah, that's fair. I've seen guys say, "If I don't get sex on the third date, I'm gone" and I was like, "How is this a punishment? This is the ideal scenario." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipIt's weird that you find just spending time together equal to sex. Your priorities are skewed. Spending time with someone doesn't mean they have to fuck you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipLesbian time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipshe can't always say no Creepy. I'm praying for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipI don't know. Headache, bad mood, has her period, sexual problems, trauma, vaginismus. There are a load of reasons why your partner might be struggling. FYI, I find this equally as gross as when women dump men for losing their jobs. Those types deserve each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipYeah, exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipIt's not. It's just the subtext. The ultimatum was sex or divorce/seperation/whatever. That's fundamentally creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipRight. If a guy says creepy stuff like, "You have to have sex with me," it isn't working. NEXT! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Men don't have the right to sex in a relationshipDid you read the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys think that young people are becoming unhappier in sex, dating and relationships in general?Do you guys think that young people are becoming unhappier in sex, dating and relationships in general? Yes. If so, what are the causes, and what are the solutions? Promiscuity and "25 going on 15." The solution is more religion and good parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts?I don't know. High N count for me is 1 if he tells me outright he's had sex with a girl. 3 if he says it vaguely or someone else tells me. I'd be fine with 2 women if he seems sheepish or shy about it. The less I know, the better. Like the song. "Fuckboy alert." Uh, no lol. Maybe SOME guys with N counts of 40 are a bit handsy, but promiscuous =/= rapist lol I have not went out with people because they bragged loudly about sex, yes. Red flag. Sort of like, "Oh, this is a nice boy" straight to, "N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do many women nowadays reject sexual abstinence until marriage?One who likes to orgasm during sex and one doesn’t think their partner should have any orgasms and stops the sex before they do What the literal fuck? Sociopath behaviour | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | What are your standards for dating someone in a serious relationship ?Oh, that's great! 26 is a great age to get married. Congrats to you both. Hopefully, things work out for me too then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | What are your standards for dating someone in a serious relationship ?25 is such a lovely age! Did everything work out for you, standards change somewhat, etc.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men?I'm a woman and I'm gonna give you actionable dating advice right now. Get a shower Go to a place with many people Identify a woman you like Say, 'Hey, I've seen you around here lately and you're really pretty. Would you like to get coffee sometime?' This has been proven to work 1 out of 2 times in a college campus study. 50% success rate. AKA, if you are asking 50 women, 25 will say, 'Yes.' All of this game and 8/10s 9/10s Chad Giga-Chad? Bullshit. Literally just ask her out. The best way to ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Humans are not naturally monogamous and the proof is absurdly simpleRight, so I'm just gonna adopt a baby because I find it cute too? 🙄 Idk how many times we have to tell you guys the SAME thing. Polygamy is natural for the top 10%, Genghis Khan, etc. It's not natural for the bottom 90%. You're not getting a harem because you simply cannot support a harem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather have casual sex with a guy out of your league who saw you as beneath him, or sleep with a guy slightly less attractive than you who saw you as the hottest woman he's been with?Definitely the second one, yeah Lmfao what do you even get out of sex with an asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How is someone supposed to have a low N-count and be happy, if they have a bad time at finding lasting relationships ?So what is one to do ? Just live miserably without sex while hoping someone will want to date you; or become promiscuous and be excluded from relationships forever ? Yes. It was your choice to sleep around. Now, you reap what you sow. You can't complain about people swiping left on you because you swiped right on dozens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 10 | What are your standards for dating someone in a serious relationship ?18F. I don't know what pill I am. I can't stand how underhanded TRPers/TBPers are. Both often use different tactics for one thing: casual sex. It's just different types of emotional abuse (e.g., screaming versus guilting). Not into casual stuff. Standards (No-Brainers That Are Apparently Not) LTR (this seems like a no-brainer, but you have no idea how many young singletons waste time with fluff "just because"—60%) Not abusive (e.g., degrading, trying to control SO's life, isolating), which sadly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 09:03 PM |
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