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| – | Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrificeAre you white? If so, there’s that. If you’re not white, that’s less common. You ought to ask a Chinese man with your conditions and see how they fare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Being an Asian guy sucksDo you have the links to the cases or the forums about these incidents? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 02:10 AM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThat makes sense. This is likely the truth in real life as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADwhat did they say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Asian women are four times more likely than Asian men to have had an STDWhy do you think Asian men not have any mitigating factors? | /r/BlackPillScience | 01/09/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?That’s very interesting. So you’re saying the younger crop of white men aren’t like the older generation. You mention that white men “are insecure and cheap bastards”, what are they insecure about? I would assume white men are at the top of the male hierarchy, why do they act the way they do? Since you’re from California, isn’t Asian women with white men extremely prevalent? Why do you think certain women are obsessed with white guys? Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How will mass immigration affect dating and relationships?Can you elaborate on your last paragraph? What are your suspicions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"Damn that’s an interesting experience you have there with Asian women. You are white, but not white white lmao. I guess that shows that it’s more of a status thing instead of just purely white presenting? Was it just Asian women in the US who acted like this or elsewhere as well? How did you feel about this experience? Did that turn you off from Asian women or no? Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Lonely Asian men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynisticHas this been your personal experience? | /r/MensRights | 05/12/23 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Lonely Asian men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynisticRight. I agree with your last 2 sentences. The immigrant parents are playing by the "old world" playbook in the "new world", which doesn't work and handicaps their sons way more than their daughters. Also, if you're comfrotable with sharing, who's the Korean actor/twins if you don't mind me asking? Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/23 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Lonely Asian men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynisticI see. So, the white guys were popular because they played sports, were fit, and more socially adjusted/confident I’m assuming? Did all the white guys date Asian girls? Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/23 04:49 PM |
| 2 | K-POP is the best thing to happen to Asian men for dating.Just curious is all. Given that we’re talking about Asian men’s representation. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | K-POP is the best thing to happen to Asian men for dating.Are you Asian yourself or no? | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 07:42 PM |
| 3 | K-POP is the best thing to happen to Asian men for dating.Ok, so what I'm hearing is that Hollywood does a good job casting and representing a multitude of men for white and black men. They have everything from Chads to everyday Joes. While for Korean entertainment, they're only showing a specific type of look and don't glorify everyday Korean/Asian men enough, is that correct? | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 06:38 PM |
| 4 | K-POP is the best thing to happen to Asian men for dating.Would you not say the same for what Hollywood does for white and black men? Or do you think white and black men are closer to their Hollywood depictions? | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Discussion with my girlfriend convinced me the blackpill is 100% trueLmaoooo ok. Which European country are you from? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Discussion with my girlfriend convinced me the blackpill is 100% trueWhat European country has a lot of obese women? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Discussion with my girlfriend convinced me the blackpill is 100% trueOk, I see. I’m assuming you went to South Korea? So it seems that white guys are losing some of their edge in Asia? You said you’re European? Do you prefer Asian women or women from your own country? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Discussion with my girlfriend convinced me the blackpill is 100% trueHmmm, I see. Would you still say women in Asia (where you went) favor white men overwhelmingly? That it’s easy for a white dude or has it gotten harder? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Discussion with my girlfriend convinced me the blackpill is 100% trueReally? That’s interesting. Are you exaggerating when you said “most of the white dudes had nothing”? Surely Asian women are known for their affinity towards white men? | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/11/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed women adding laundry lists of preferences on dating apps?Fair enough. I would like to hear from women of color themselves regarding this, if it’s status they seek and what benefits come with it. Which environments are where whiteness is looked down upon? | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed women adding laundry lists of preferences on dating apps?When she did tell her parents, they said they'd prefer if I was white or asian. Keep in mind, I'm well-educated and make good money. None of it mattered. The status of my blackness, diminished my other qualities. Oof, that's harsh. So what I'm hearing is that it's the parents who often have a problem with it. Is it mostly an older generation thing? To be honest, I don't feel the people around me that I know put a premium or view WMAFs higher than other couples. They are more prevalent but viewed… | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed women adding laundry lists of preferences on dating apps?It's nkt something most people say out loud because it looks bad. So are you saying people do hold this thought: they don't date white guys in their head, but socially won't say it out loud as much compared to say, openly saying they won't date an Asian guy? Sure, I'll look at that screenshot if you're willing to share. the closer you are to being white/whiteness grants you a higher level of respect/status than if you're father away from it. IME, women of color prefer white men because it afford… | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Have you noticed women adding laundry lists of preferences on dating apps?I've never heard any women openly say they don't date white guys either. Actually, maybe once, but that's it. Can you give examples of minority women only looking for white guys? You have any experiences with this? What's their reasoning for it, just curious. Sorry for all the questions. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutOh wow, they're paying people to have kids. Yes, Asian men and women should be more united if they want to move forward and have a future together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutYes, it takes guts, but someone's got to do it LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutTrue, class is part of the equation. I think race and class become murky when a significant number of a certain race occupies a specific class moreso than others. Like, if whites occupy a majority of the upper class and Asians occupy a majority of the lower class then race & class would get conflated and associated with each other in this case. I think Asians should focus on their political power and making a presence in the media. Money is important yes, but Asians are some of the highest earne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutI'm not so much worried about Asians, because like you said, there are plenty. However, with changing demographics, comes political, social, and economic anxieties. And I'm looking at it from an anxious White point of view which I've found online. If I was a white person concerned about white demographics, this is what I would see: Ever heard of the 'Great Replacement Theory'? Theory that other races can out populate whites. It's what white supremacists use to argue for racial purity and this na… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutRight. I do agree that Western aesthetics are more entrenched in Asian countries than Asian aesthetics in Western society. If you notice in all our previous conversations and even this one, do you notice that it's Asian people who are the ones adopting white/western ways primarily? The other way around, is almost non-existent or the superficial aspects of Asian culture/philosophy/way of life. It's Asians doing all the accommodating. I said this in another comment but, it's up to Asians to collec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutMmmmm I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutAh that's interesting. True, human migration and mixing have been happening since the dawn of time. But due to previous transportation and geographical obstacles, people have evolved into separate races now. I know that some people are ok with interracial dating/marriage/kids and some are not and want to preserve their features/phenotype/culture etc. I can understand both. I personally won't advocate for interracial dating but if it happens naturally then it does, and I have no problems with it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutThat's good. Mental health is its own can of worms to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutI'm not sure if mixed-race people will ever become the majority, but we'll see. Calling people "incels" just for pointing out an observation/opinion that doesn't conform to your worldview is quite unreasonable. I'm sure they see and know deep down what you're saying, but it doesn't sound good to have it verbalized. Yes, we can see other as individuals, but online spaces can get a little radical LAMOO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutStay safe man! I don't think you did anything wrong. They're just triggered! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutSouthern California. I think you can almost see a WMAF couple either consecutive days in a row, or some days with a lot more like today. I've seen IMWF (few times), IMAF (oddly enough I see this quite a few times), AMWF (few times), WMBF (only a few times), AMBF (now this is rare but twice), etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutAh ok. LMAOOO. ;p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutWell, what can I say? Must have hit a nerve, right where it hurts. Although I don't think we said anything out of turn. It's backed by statistics, anecdotal stories, and real-world observations. If they want to be mad about it, so be it. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutYah, when they want to salvage their bad reputation by being defensive and saying things that don't make sense, they make their situation worse. It's good you've made peace with your situation. It's a process of healing and not beating yourself over it. But to acknowledge it, accept it happened, and do better in the future. Yes, these reprehensible Asian and white men go together like magnets. Just today I saw 7-8 WMAF couples. They don't make the majority of the couples but they definitely stic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutI clicked on the link and the user seems to have deleted their comments. Earlier today, I read part of your argument with them and...I'm not sure why this user (she's also an Asian woman right?) is so defensive? Saying that these internet terms are used to slander Asian women and all that? Well, some of it is extreme, but there is definitely validity to it. I can't believe she thought the links I sent were typed by an Asian man. Like, can you not fathom that women of your own group can be treach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Are you against race mixing?I think white men do have the widest options. Do white men know they benefit the most from this? I definitely don't think any type of interracial dating is progressive, just because why would a relationship denote some kind of radical social change/justice. Doesn't make sense to me. I think the SJW narrative has gone too far. Do you think white women view other races of women as competition, especially Asian women who flock to their men? | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Are you against race mixing?Do white men really marry out more than their women? I recall reading some statistics that whites of both genders marry out the same rate although that could be inaccurate or have changed. But I definitely see a lot of white men with Asian women. I don't think white men prefer Asian women per se, Asian women just make themselves extremely available to white men. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutTrue, sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutI'm a proponent of natural beauty. I won't encourage people for plastic surgery unless it's absolutely necessary, but that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutYah, Kpop is a catalyst for opening up Asian media to the world. I have mixed feelings about "cosmopolitan face." I wouldn't say Indians have assimilated, but they do have an English advantage and are able to preserve some of their culture in western society. Indians often keep their native names while Asians give themselves an English first name. Sure you can argue Asian names are hard to pronounce but so are some Indian names and they still kept it. Just a case study on how two groups go about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutSounds like a sad direction honestly, but...where there is a will, there is a way. If Asians collectively one day decide to drop their white worship and really empower themselves, they'll be a force to be reckoned with. Seeing so many beautiful men and women being pushed down by Eurocentric beauty standards while upholding and conforming to them is disheartening but since you're aware of it now, you can counteract it starting with yourself. If you yourself don't believe in this BS and can see ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutThanks haha. You know, this phenomenon you speak of about Asian men preferring Asian women with more white-looking features, I wonder if it's a recent/modern thing. As I was looking at ancient East Asian paintings, the women who were drawn and painted had exactly the "small, elongate eyes, pale moon/flat face types." In fact, these features were praised, I think! Asians wouldn't have these features as whole if not for people reproducing and prizing them whether for survival or fitting the beauty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutWell, then they're just gonna have to take the criticism levied onto them when others call out their hypocrisy. There's no what-aboutism. If they own up to it, well...that would open up another world of dialogue. If they keep denying it, then it will just be like boy cries wolf, and they'll lose the "Yellow Fever" card credibility, which is already running its course. I don't think anyone with eyes will be fooled to believe that it's only white dudes after them. White dudes on the whole are NOT … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutThanks lol. Well, I think others do know, but they can't formulate the depth of their observations. And it takes consistent research and observation of trends to see what's going on, which a lot of people don't do if they don't have a stake in it. But this WMAF rabbit hole has opened a whole world up of Asian-White relations and it is extremely messed up, no offense! I think white-looking Asians should stop being put on a pedestal full stop. I myself will not feed into it. Yes, it will take a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutOh god! I dunno if that's colorism but actually featurism, maybe a mix of both. You know it's so sad, how Asian people of both genders put white features and whiteness on such a ridiculously high pedestal. It's this overvaluation of white feature at the expense and undervaluation of Asian features and Asian-ness. If you look at r/hapas you'll find mixed race Asian people discussing their struggles and families. This one thread here: https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/comments/1791zdu/has_anyone_met_… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutHmmm yah, they're probably not wanting more competition for themselves or have some kind of deep-seated insecurities about themselves. But why though? If we were to believe the internet myth that Asian women are the most desirable (which is kinda debunked by 2021 report), given old dating app statistics and added to better Asian representation these days, why would they still wanna gatekeep white and Asian men? Where does this scarcity mindset come from? Also, you know how Asian women on the int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelHAHAHA ok. Nice talking to you bruh. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/23 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelYou're younger than I thought lol. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelMmmmmmm. Ok. I've got a lot questions, but no concrete answer...yet. Thanks for engaging LOL. Are you a millennial? | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutOne more thing, I've been seeing some posts of non-Asian women posting about how certain Asian women try to dissuade them from both white and Asian men and can be quite hostile about it. I'm talking about these: https://www.reddit.com/r/interracialdating/comments/175a4x9/asian_friends_dropped_me_because_of_my_preference/?sort=confidence https://www.reddit.com/r/interracialdating/comments/16lfmem/an_asian_woman_told_me_that_i_should_stop_seeking/?sort=confidence https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelWow, those are some interesting insights. Why do bartenders/DJs attract so many women to them? Backtracking to our initial topic of Asian women and white men, recently I've been noticing quite a few posts written by non-Asian women who have experienced Asian women trying to gatekeep white and Asian men or just downright bad mouthing Asian men in front of them. I'm speaking about these posts: https://www.reddit.com/r/interracialdating/comments/175a4x9/asian_friends_dropped_me_because_of_my_prefer… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutRight. I will not shy away from questioning and pointing out what I see. I myself am trying to improve my communication, investigative, and analytical skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelThat's an interesting example. Also, no being a DJ and bartender didn't strike me as a loser initially LMAO. I thought you said they get paid well? | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutIt's all good. I think this conversation we're having is one of the good parts of the internet's invention. But yes, I do not disagree with any of your points. Seems like the traditional colorism in Asian cultures was further exacerbated by white colonization, media, and influence. Added to the fact that immigrant families like to push their kids and old-world parenting methods/relationships can be harsh. Now that I know more about this, I will not indulge in any Asian person's colorism and I'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelTrue, you have a point about being the majority and can blend in seamlessly and not have to think about certain things. Must be comfortable. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelBut I thought you said these Chads were losers? Sounds like they have it together? Did something change/happen? That's so interesting you heard the opposite, I'm assuming you heard Asian women don't go for white men? LMAOOO First I've heard. Asian women are viewed as better? Really now? After all I've learned about them, I dunno how someone can surmise that...but to each their own I guess. I'm sure there are good Asian women, but some of their antics are downright brutal. If your population was … | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelOh wow, I see! You know, I have heard about white men dating/playing around with Asian women but never want to marry or commit to them. You heard anything about that? Are the 'Chads' good looking? What makes women want them? Do you think white guys as a whole are aware of Asian women's fascination with them? Are Asian women seen as the second choice or the backup plan for when things go south with the women they want? I've heard this sentiment before, but I just wanted your opinion on this. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelWell, I don't mean to disparage other women. I simply meant to ask if you've seen desirable high status white men with an Asian woman, is all. I think Asian women have built up a rather...."white man only" reputation over the years that this is a well known phenomenon. I personally think "Yellow Fever" is way overblown and "White Fever" is finally getting its time in the sun. You know, given the way some of these Asian women act towards their fellow Asian men and their community, I almost wish t… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelNow that is interesting. Huh, I'm still wrapping my head around you not having an overwhelming advantage. Can you comment more on the anti-white current? Aren't Asian women known to flock to white guys? I mean, WMAF is one of these most common interracial couplings. I fail to see how they're remarkable or even progressive. (In fact, you can argue it's not progressive at all. But why should relationships be viewed in a political sense LMAO). This is not an attack on you by the way. Just stating m… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 12:22 AM |
| 0 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelChads are rare. Are you sure your cousin is banging Chads? Can she even land one? I rarely see white chads with Asian women, in my experience. Maybe 1 or 2 here and there, but it's not extremely common. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelGiven the situation and the overwhelming advantage you have with Asian women, would you say Asian women are easy? How do white people view this white male-asian female coupling since it's so prevalent? Do white women feel threatened by them? Would you say it's easy for an Asian woman to land a white man? Thanks. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelHi there! When you say your sister is dating a Chad lite (6ft+), do you actually mean he's good looking and socially desirable or are you just calling him Chad lite because he's tall? Also, does your sister go exclusively for white guys? Don't give up my man. I believe in you. Have a good day. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/10/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutI see. I think Asian women are generally popular, but I think your boyfriend might be referencing the online dating app data such as from OkCupid that were done back in 2009 or 2014. I think there are new statistics out there from a 2021 study: https://cloudflare-ipfs.com/ipfs/bafykbzacebb3u2qgrfdj3qiyq76nsuaprl3nuewikpmqgryio7lgjnmhbgpfg?filename=Celeste%20Vaughan%20Curington%2C%20Jennifer%20Hickes%20Lundquist%2C%20Ken-Hou%20Lin%20-%20The%20Dating%20Divide_%20Race%20and%20Desire%20in%20the%20Er… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutGood points. "Humbled to submission". Yikes! It's sad but true. It went along with their masculinity. In terms of leadership, even so, gotta start somewhere. Make their businesses, become their own CEOs etc. But if you wanna climb the ladder, then you need to know how. I think the biggest issue Asians face in the US is not knowing how to play politics whether in school, work, or elsewhere. Obviously, some do, but a lot don't. I read somewhere that the Asian strategy is to appease others and go a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutSounds good, things are shaping up. I don't know if I would call it a pedestal moment for Asian American women? Can you elaborate on that? Ah yes, boba libs, I've heard this phrase too before. Like you said in your previous comment, they swallow the adopted liberal ideology and have cognitive dissonance when they get called out on their inconsistencies. I agree Asian men have to be role models themselves. Although it's easier said than done. It would be very nice if both Asian men and women had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutThat's true. Asian men can date whoever they want. I'd say to expand their female dating pool as well. It's good you grew up with a strong Asian community. Lessens the alienation and low self-esteem a bit. I guess the piece of the puzzle that I'm still trying to figure out is: other races/communities also face hardships within their own people, but I don't see their women marry/date out to white men at the rate I see Asian women do nor do they openly bash their men as often. All communities livi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutWell, I wouldn't label them all as a sub of incels. They do bring up legitimate concerns. It's precisely just labeling them as incels that fuels this type of resentment. I do think there is an element of exaggeration and dramatization, but the sub didn't get to over 50k followers just being a place for incels. I'm sure other people lurk there to see what's going on. There are Asian women in there too. I am more sympathetic to the plight of Asian men just cuz of the ratio of WMAFs I see in real l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutThat's interesting. I'm interested in these dynamics because this past year I've been noticing all the countless WMAF couples and I wonder why they're more prevalent than any other interracial coupling. I started to research this phenomenon and went down the rabbit hole of Asian American racial/gendered dynamics. To be honest, it's messed up. It seems like Asian men got the short end of the stick regarding romantic life and masculinity. This really messes with their psyche and I can understand w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutI see. By millennial, I'm assuming 30 years old and up? Does your generation have fewer kids, more, or the same (including WMAF couples/all couples). What about the Gen Z generation? Notice any patterns there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking about" I don’t think WMAF couples here are treated differently just because they’re so damn common. It’s almost expected in my circles. A lot of people were surprised that my boyfriend’s Asian, even my parents. It almost felt rebellious to date a non-white guy." Your sentence here, I find it intriguing, hilarious, and....kinda sad. What would you say if the ratio of WMAF couples versus other couples? Do they outnumber monoracial couples? The fact that WMAF is almost expected is.....I dunno. I have mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutTrue, it takes a lot of reflection to recognize our social conditioning. How did you come to see through the BS and see things as they are? Did you have a denial period? I think liberal ideologies are a double-edged sword. Someone mentioned that WMAF is far more prevalent in liberal places and white men are more sought after in these diverse/liberal spaces as well, creating a sort of caste system in these places. Do you have any opinions on that? I gotta ask, given the prevalence of this WMAF, h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutWhat you said is in line with what I learned and heard over the years. It's good that you as an Asian woman can acknowledge this without being defensive about it. Can I ask why certain Asian American women get defensive when their internalized racism/white worship gets brought up? And in your experience, do these Asian women who only date/marry white men, how did they turn out? Are they like this for life or do they mellow down with the identity crisis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 08:54 PM |
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